Who should quit, and why?

[CryptSafe]

As a matter of fact, it is ideal that both couples quit when they start parenting. They both could draft out a quit plan for themselves which they could gradually hid to. Since they are two, the plan could be effective because they both would need each other as a reminder and that consciousness would be there that the are quitting gambling as a result of their family.

It's better for them, husband and wife because if they were parents, they would definitely be busier with their children. By stopping gambling, they will have more time to take care of their children, and that is not only a job for the wife but also a job for the husband. Even though her husband works, it is not a problem because the children are their children to whom their parents must give attention. By stopping gambling, this will give them the awareness that taking care of children is much more valuable than just gambling. It's not a matter of who should stop but rather responsibility, and that lies with the husband and wife and not just one of them.

It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.

[maydna]

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in this scenario it makes more sense than what the OP said, the husband and wife are gambling, but looking at the OP story, it seems like the husband and wife dont have children yet, so they spend their time as they please just gambling and this will have a bad impact in the long term and is completely me supports your argument about it being better to immediately become a parent for your children, which means it is better to stop gambling and start planning to build a harmonious household with small children in the house so that fun or happiness will come from your children, not from gambling anymore.

I realize that maybe the husband and wife who gamble spend a lot of money on gambling, they only keep themselves busy looking for fun so they just need something else that can give them other happiness to stop gambling activities and the presence of children in the family will be able to change everything but all that It depends on a husband mindset whether he has a goal of living with his partner happily together without gambling and if the husband realizes this he will start to stop gambling and force his wife to stop immediately and plan future goals to build a more dynamic household and thinking about her child's future.

whatever happens if a couple gambles, it seems like it will be very difficult if the wife has to start early because the husband is the head of the household so whatever happens it is the husband who must be able to set the best example for his family.

By learning to be parents, they can learn to be more responsible in taking care of their household, especially if they soon have children. With the presence of their children, they will make long-term plans to prepare their children to become good people. If they don't stop gambling immediately, there will definitely be problems between them because we know that someone who has been gambling for a long time tends to become a gambling addict. This is very dangerous for them because they may already be gambling addicts that they may not realize.

Married couples who gamble must be able to stop their gambling activities as quickly as possible before things get bad and they cannot stop. They also don't need to gamble to get pleasure because when they have children, there will be other pleasures that cannot be described. That's what they have to realize so that they can both stop their gambling activities. No matter how difficult it is, they have to keep trying, and if they don't have children, they can change their mindset to get pleasure from gambling because if they can get pleasure from their family, it will be more useful. At least family relationships will be more harmonious, and there will be emotional closeness between husband, wife, and children.

That's why both of them should decide to stop their gambling activities immediately, and it's not just the husband or wife who stops gambling but both of them. That could give them the opportunity to change things for the better. And if they are going to have children, they can focus more on educating their children.

~snip~

Every parent will certainly set themselves as an example for their children, so it would be better for them to set a good example for their children about good things, if they as parents carry out bad habits it will certainly make their children imitate those things of course. We as parents will not want this, so it would be more important to eliminate these habits so that their children do not copy the bad habits of their parents.
Raising our own children will certainly make us know more about our development so it would be better to stop gambling and take care of the family we have because this is a responsibility for both husband and wife.

If a husband and wife can set a good example for their children, their children will also follow and imitate them because their children will definitely remember the guidance from their parents until they grow up. This requires awareness from parents to be able to pay attention to this problem because, after all, gambling will not always provide opportunities for them. Children may become aware of their parents' gambling habits, so they may try to follow them. If their children indulge in gambling even without any restrictions, it will cause problems for their children. Raising children today is more difficult than it was a few years ago, so parents must now be willing to learn more about guiding their children.

~snip~

It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.

If a husband and wife lose their responsibility in taking care of their children and household, they can also lose their responsibility in gambling, especially since gambling can also cause them to lose large amounts of money. If husband and wife can stop gambling and commit to taking care of their children and household together, it will be more useful because at least they will make plans that they will carry out together. And the allocation of money for gambling can also be reduced for the welfare of their family so that they can make their family happier without anyone gambling.

[bettercrypto]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

If that is the case, then both of them should quit.

Parents have the natural obligation of supporting their family financially. If they cannot fulfill this natural obligation to the point that it impairs their livelihood and financials, then both of them should not have married in the first place. They have now the responsibility of having all the necessary financials as security in the event of an emergency. If their gambling addiction/habits affect their relationship with their family, then this will pose a potential problem for them in the future.

In conclusion, both of them should avoid gambling for the betterment of their financials. But, if they can allocate a certain budget for this habit to the point that it is the money that they can lose and they have the extra money for emergency purposes, then they can continue such habit provided that it should not be destructive to the family's expenses.

Yes, I agree with what you said; they should be role models for their children or other people. They know that it will not bring anything good to their marital relationship. They may get along because they are both gamblers, but for sure, if that is true, that couple probably always fights when they are at home together.

So, it's only right that it's better that they both change together and stop gambling little by little, or make them do it so that if they still gamble, they don't play gambling every week. They will reduce their gambling habit.

[arjunmujay]

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It's better for them, husband and wife because if they were parents, they would definitely be busier with their children. By stopping gambling, they will have more time to take care of their children, and that is not only a job for the wife but also a job for the husband. Even though her husband works, it is not a problem because the children are their children to whom their parents must give attention. By stopping gambling, this will give them the awareness that taking care of children is much more valuable than just gambling. It's not a matter of who should stop but rather responsibility, and that lies with the husband and wife and not just one of them.

It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.

Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

[Nwada001]

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Oh, this is a situation of attention that parents will give to their children; it's a total different case, nah. If the father is a gambler and the money is also a gambler, aside from gambling, they might also have other works that they do to provide food for the family.
 
Both can gamble, but they will minimise the time they both spend on board. This is because the children will both need the attention of both parents, even if it's for a while, so it's not something that one person will give all attention to gambling and allow the next person to be in charge of the house.
 
Unless it's a family where they have a newborn baby, then I can say the child might need more attention from the mother than the father of the house, and for the time being, the mother will have to leave gambling completely if possible, as it might distract her from performing her motherly duties in the house on time.

[CryptSafe]

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It's better for them, husband and wife because if they were parents, they would definitely be busier with their children. By stopping gambling, they will have more time to take care of their children, and that is not only a job for the wife but also a job for the husband. Even though her husband works, it is not a problem because the children are their children to whom their parents must give attention. By stopping gambling, this will give them the awareness that taking care of children is much more valuable than just gambling. It's not a matter of who should stop but rather responsibility, and that lies with the husband and wife and not just one of them.

It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.

Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

Advising the both couples to stop gambling is not bad because they have a family to cater for and as such should devote their time in doing that as their family and marriage is still very young.
I believe they would have lots of expenses to incur and possibly their income level might warrant them to stop gambling so that they can be able to cater for their family and meet up with the needs of their child(ren). This measures could help the save up more funds since their gambling budget is no longer in existence as per their agreement.

[dexsport.io]

We think that you should not get into gambling or betting if you are addicted impulsive personality who can place a bet with a big sum of money, without thinking it through, and then stress out a lot about loss.

[Z_MBFM]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

If both husband and wife are gamblers in a family, it takes a very bad shape.  If they are lucky then they can win a lot of money otherwise their family will be completely destroyed. Because gambling is a very bad thing here no one gets any guarantee of winning and it depends a lot on luck so in this case both husband and wife should give up gambling. Because both are addicted to gambling, if one quits gambling and the other continues to gamble, seeing that he will fall back into gambling.  So in this case just giving up one's gambling will not be a solution. The solution requires both to give up gambling

The wife plays a major role in keeping a family together and saving the husband from bad addictions. But when there is a wife in a family who is addicted to gambling, it has a very serious draw, it is true and I agree with this statement. So now if they have to get out of gambling then first of all the wife has to give up gambling then the husband can gradually leave it under the control of the wife. So in this case both have to try and promise with confidence that they will give up gambling otherwise they will not be able to get out of this gambling addiction. So here the role of the wife should be more about quit gambling

[Rockstarguy]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Everything depends how they take gambling, if they are very discipline with the way they play gambling by not allowing gambling to control them I don't think their gambling lifestyle will be a problem to their financial life, but in the case whereby the both partners are gambling freaks and addicted I think it is very important for both of the quit.

I have just seen men who are addicted to gamble which they spend all they have with money that is supposed to be used for an important thing.  If this can affect a family just from one person,  think about when two partners are addicted to gambling, that means they can sell out their properties to satisfy their gambling urge  or to play always just to raise money from gambling.  

But I don't  see it good if both partners plays gambling. One person needs to be free from gambling to help the other partners when help is needed to stay way from gambling.

[Rufsilf]

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It's better for them, husband and wife because if they were parents, they would definitely be busier with their children. By stopping gambling, they will have more time to take care of their children, and that is not only a job for the wife but also a job for the husband. Even though her husband works, it is not a problem because the children are their children to whom their parents must give attention. By stopping gambling, this will give them the awareness that taking care of children is much more valuable than just gambling. It's not a matter of who should stop but rather responsibility, and that lies with the husband and wife and not just one of them.

It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.

Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

They can hire a babysitter, but the problem is that they can't pay attention to their children because their attention has been consumed by gambling.  They're not doing well anymore. Knowing people these days are hard to trust cause I’ve seen a lot on the news that babysitters abuse the children that they babysit.  I mean you’re lucky if you can find a nice and responsible babysitter to look over your children.


Anyways, back to the topic, I think that one of them should stop in order to balance their hobbies in gambling and make time for their family. I just think that the husband can continue to gamble but he should report how much he earns from playing and how much he spends in gambling since these involve some money, and since his wife is also fond of gambling then they will make a greater teamwork. You know the one that couple did, brainstorming or showing each other’s tactics on how to win the game in the next play.


On the other hand the wife can take care of their children and if they have free time, they can gamble as their bonding as a couple, but they should set a limit so that they don't get too addicted to gambling and they can spend more time with their family.

[rojan]

If both husband and wife are gamblers in a family, it takes a very bad shape.  If they are lucky then they can win a lot of money otherwise their family will be completely destroyed. Because gambling is a very bad thing here no one gets any guarantee of winning and it depends a lot on luck so in this case both husband and wife should give up gambling. Because both are addicted to gambling, if one quits gambling and the other continues to gamble, seeing that he will fall back into gambling.  So in this case just giving up one's gambling will not be a solution. The solution requires both to give up gambling

If both husband and wife are addicted to gambling in a family then that family does not seem to prosper. The happiness and peace of a family is lost due to gambling. Those once involved in gambling can never quit gambling. Gambling is very dangerous.  Due to which family happiness is lost to those who are addicted to winning. When husband and wife gamble they will go very badly.  When the two gamble together, they have no one to rule them, for which they become very reckless.

[AicecreaME]

I have a friend who had a similar experience where everyone in his family was addicted to gambling, they were playing all day and didn't really care about the consequences of their actions and surely some of them got in trouble for the same reasons and now are in jails without getting any chance of parole. Because of gambling, they became greedy thieves and they are taking it a little bit too far by entering the houses of their victims and getting everything inside as much as possible just to fund their addictions, but drugs also have some contributions to their actions because they pair it with their addictions to gambling that eventually lead them to get in jail.

This is so unfortunate. But they just reap what they sow. Being addicted in gambling really forces a lot of people to do bad things just to sustain their habits. That's why it's important to know your boundaries in gambling otherwise, you might fall into the trap of doing anything you don't think you could just to continuously fund your gambling addiction.

Gamblers and other people who have hobbies and some sort of occasional vices can still enjoy the present without compromising and sacrificing the future that is waiting ahead of them. We are always free to choose what we want to do, but the consequences can't be picked by us. So gamble responsibly.

[iv4n]

If both husband and wife are addicted to gambling in a family then that family does not seem to prosper. The happiness and peace of a family is lost due to gambling. Those once involved in gambling can never quit gambling. Gambling is very dangerous.  Due to which family happiness is lost to those who are addicted to winning. When husband and wife gamble they will go very badly.  When the two gamble together, they have no one to rule them, for which they become very reckless.

Well, if they are good at what they do (if they are sports bettors or poker players) maybe they will prosper... who knows? It's hard to make any conclusions without all the factors. Anyway, people have passions and hobbies, and if they are careful with money, like if they know how much they can spend on things they like, I don't think they will get into any problems. In the end, it's all about being responsible... some people are responsible, they know how much they have and how much they can spend on something. And if people are reckless they will get into huge problems sooner or later, whatever they do.

[Dewi Aries]

If both husband and wife are addicted to gambling in a family then that family does not seem to prosper. The happiness and peace of a family is lost due to gambling. Those once involved in gambling can never quit gambling. Gambling is very dangerous.  Due to which family happiness is lost to those who are addicted to winning. When husband and wife gamble they will go very badly.  When the two gamble together, they have no one to rule them, for which they become very reckless.

Well, if they are good at what they do (if they are sports bettors or poker players) maybe they will prosper... who knows? It's hard to make any conclusions without all the factors. Anyway, people have passions and hobbies, and if they are careful with money, like if they know how much they can spend on things they like, I don't think they will get into any problems. In the end, it's all about being responsible... some people are responsible, they know how much they have and how much they can spend on something. And if people are reckless they will get into huge problems sooner or later, whatever they do.

But on the other hand, we must understand that one of the causes that can finally make them both enter the addiction phase is because of excessive actions in responding to gambling, mindset and beliefs become the main problem why they can enter such a phase. This means that I think it is quite difficult to be able to achieve the word "good" in terms of gambling management although it can always be a possibility, but most of them have difficulty in doing or implementing some actions for prevention.

The difficulty of applying responsibility to gambling activities makes a person get more involved, unable to accept the final result that can make them disappointed or even cry also makes them try more with the intention of revenge or reaching a break-even point, this cycle of addiction will never be completed if it is not overcome with enough awareness. So in conclusion I think in this case the correct understanding that can make them apply good responsibility in order to manage all their gambling activities whether in terms of budget or time.

[fullhdpixel]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Maybe they should try the traditional way where the man of the house takes care of the finances and the woman takes care of the family affairs and household chores and stuff? There shouldn't be any problems unless they are addicted gamblers who are always gambling instead of working or doing other stuff and gambling just in their free time. A family where everyone likes doing similar things can easily manage things if they properly do things.

It's a blessing if a husband and a wife like doing the same thing because there won't be personal interest conflicts this way, however, they should take care of their responsibilities like the husband should be working and providing for the family while the wife should be taking care of the house and they should be doing what they like in their free time.

[Marykeller]

If I am to choose between the supposed spouse who needs to quit gambling, will be on the condition of who loses the most in gambling whether it is the husband or the wife. Anyone who is found guilty of losing the most financially will find him or herself quitting gambling not minding his or her status in the family while the one who loses less will continue to gamble if chooses to.

[topbitcoin]

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Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

Is gambling so important that he has to hire a babysitter so that his gambling activities are not disturbed?
And if the couple has to hire a nanny, what will she pay for? because considering that the husband and wife are gambling addicts, it is certain that the money they earn will be used for gambling, while to hire a nanny, the couple must have a promising and convincing income. So that they can ensure that every month the nanny they hire gets their rights, namely work wages.
Does the couple rely on gambling to be able to pay for a babysitter? Stupid... isn't it, gambling is a detrimental activity.

And starting from that, this is a lesson for us, that when we are not ready to settle down. So it's better for us to postpone this wish for a while. Because talking about marriage is not for a while but forever, for a lifetime. And when we want to get married, we have to be really ready and able for everything. Because when we get married, we will not only be responsible for ourselves personally, but we will also have to be responsible for our partner and our future children.

[goxcraft]

Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

True. Family always comes first in term of importance and priority. If the childrens are neglected from the early days it could take on bad effect on the childrens mind and behavior. Growing up is a once in a life experience. So a parent shouldn't ruin is because of some gambling funs. They needs the prioritize their child first. I have seen many people where both the parents are job holders. They don't give their childrens enough time but only loads of money. Because of this they lack moral values and gets involved with bad things.

[bocyaj]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

It was happened in only few stories,because most of the time the gamblers will marry the non gambler partner in the real life.Because the gamblers need some dollars for the rotation apart from the domestic expenses for their family.If the both partners need of dollars for the rotation,this will affect the domestic expenses of the family and leads to less care of their parents,kids.The children of both gambling parents will become the gambler in future by their parent’s involvement in gambling.

The woman must quit the gambling,if both the couple was in gambling.It’s not my words by the male dominance,only woman can easy take care of the children and the old age people in the family.Caring was the essential part of the family to live the peaceful life.

[junder]

Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.

True. Family always comes first in term of importance and priority. If the childrens are neglected from the early days it could take on bad effect on the childrens mind and behavior. Growing up is a once in a life experience. So a parent shouldn't ruin is because of some gambling funs. They needs the prioritize their child first. I have seen many people where both the parents are job holders. They don't give their childrens enough time but only loads of money. Because of this they lack moral values and gets involved with bad things.

family is indeed the most precious treasure in life, even if someone is in the hardest or worst situation but his own family will definitely accept their situation even though they are in a doomed state. also on the contrary, if parents are addicted to gambling, they should not let the impact of gambling affect their own family because it is likely that gambling addiction can damage a family relationship and can also have an impact on the future of their children later and of course this must be avoided.

Because if they are married but still like to gamble or are still addicted to gambling then this will not be good for themselves and for their families. because it is not only himself who will be affected by harmful effects, but his family can also be affected and this is not what his family wants.