Who should quit, and why?

[Kavelj22]

I don't see any problem there. Its true that we shouldn't gambling in front of children as it may effect them badly. But when its comes to mature people like you and your wife, there's nothing wrong until both of you guys can control yourselves, follow the discipline as well as able to manage economical status and become so responsible as gambler. Nobody need to quit, just mainly focus on primary income source and do gambling less or stay within limit. Don't spoil family moments , only gambling when get free time or children aren't around you.if you guys can't handle and worry about Ensure the healthy environment for children, then both can quit gambling together, otherwise there'll be a quarrel between you about this matter. So that is my suggestion

I do not think that there is any couple who would succeed in hiding their favorite hobby of gambling, especially if they practice it inside the home. I can't imagine any hypothesis that would actually work.
Perhaps theoretically, it is possible with zero probability that coincidences will not occur and the children will not notice anything. I find this to be a very difficult hypothesis to actually be true.

I also do not believe that it is a healthy environment for raising children to have anyone gamble, whether it is one or both parents. At least only one of them should love gambling so that the other party can find a balance, because there is generally no problem with one or both of them practicing their hobby only during the period when the children are away from home and at long intervals, that is, not every day.

[Wakate]

I don't see any problem there. Its true that we shouldn't gambling in front of children as it may effect them badly. But when its comes to mature people like you and your wife, there's nothing wrong until both of you guys can control yourselves, follow the discipline as well as able to manage economical status and become so responsible as gambler. Nobody need to quit, just mainly focus on primary income source and do gambling less or stay within limit. Don't spoil family moments , only gambling when get free time or children aren't around you.if you guys can't handle and worry about Ensure the healthy environment for children, then both can quit gambling together, otherwise there'll be a quarrel between you about this matter. So that is my suggestion

One of the parents just needs to limit the gambling habit because there is no way both parents can be gambling and be careful enough that the children won't come across them one day, which will draw their attention, and they might want to try it out someday when there is no one around them.
 
Another thing again here is that if a husband and wife are gambling, who is going to advise who on how or her gambling habit is? When I know you are also doing the same thing that I'm doing.

Another thing again is that when two people who are into the same thing are in the same house, you can easily start a conversation regarding that, which might last a long time, and gambling most times can lead to little disagreement when both parties are trying to prove that they have a better opinion or their fan club is the best, which the children can also notice such behaviour in them.

Some persons still do not know that gambling can be hereditary and we can inherit gambling interest from parent. If one of the parents are gambling addicted, that is quite understandable but when the both parents are gamblers, it could have serious effects on the children and there is no way the children will not be exposed to it. Children are always taking there parent lifestyle especially when they are small. They would want to mimic there parent especially if what there parent interest them. There are some certain things we don't have to allow to happen in any relationship we are so that the worse will not happen to us.

[Insanity]

The main issue here is the children. The children will definitely see gambling as a responsible thing. It won't be easy to correct such act from the children since it something they have started at the early stage of their life. The parent may be able to control there gambling act and make a responsible gambling because they no the consequences of being a gambling addict. But the children will never consider this. It better the parent quit gambling or do it in a secret way which won't be exposed to the children.

If a minor ever gets addicted to gambling then his family can be completely responsible for it. Gambling should never be done in front of young children. A family should always try to keep their children away from bad activities.  Children raised by education will grow up that way. But I think if a child's family can keep away from gambling, I don't think that child can ever become addicted to gambling.

[LUCKMCFLY]

The main issue here is the children. The children will definitely see gambling as a responsible thing. It won't be easy to correct such act from the children since it something they have started at the early stage of their life. The parent may be able to control there gambling act and make a responsible gambling because they no the consequences of being a gambling addict. But the children will never consider this. It better the parent quit gambling or do it in a secret way which won't be exposed to the children.

If a minor ever gets addicted to gambling then his family can be completely responsible for it. Gambling should never be done in front of young children. A family should always try to keep their children away from bad activities.  Children raised by education will grow up that way. But I think if a child's family can keep away from gambling, I don't think that child can ever become addicted to gambling.

Well, I am a father and I have two children, an 8-year-old and a 2-year-old girl, and as a father, it is not a lie that you have to be on top of them, in every thing they do, how they do it and why, because every time you see that they enter into something that has to do with the internet one must be very attentive to them, so in this other order of days both we as fathers and mothers must do things very well, not be very knowledgeable in these things that can and They must do it, when I see my son using the phone to play, I'm always aware, but that was because of his mother. What happened is that I had that son of mine with a woman who is not my wife, so He has a different type of training and well, when I see those things that the mother teaches him, some of them don't fit me, because they take him on a very different path than how they believed me or how I see things, where priority is be the best in the class, be the best in the sport, and have good Discipline, where sport keeps you away from bad things.

So the mother is not like that, or she has that Training and that is partly the way things are now, because the mother is the one who is Always defended in every way, both by the laws and by anyone, because a person who says that the mother is the He always has to be with his son for everything, which I don't agree with, but who am I to go against the tide ? I get worn out, so it's difficult because if it were up to me, never in my life until he was 16 would I have given him a phone , now the child is almost an influencer on YouTube, which doesn't seem like it to me , he's a child, but As I said before, his mother is more Responsible for these things than me , I rarely see him and the little I see him is to teach him and he talks things so that he can Defend himself well in life , in fact he Loves Football, but as I am in a Country where it is not Europe that supports these children who have talent, because it is difficult.

[kotajikikox]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

They should stop both for the sake of fairness and also for their family because gambling will never bring them better but problem.

Why not focus in life?bringing their children in best understanding than learning gambling with them in the future.

They will never be a good example and good influence for the kids so either they both stop gambling or they will gamble forever.

And also why on earth that they are the same gamblers? This is a rare situation.

[Accardo]

The main issue here is the children. The children will definitely see gambling as a responsible thing. It won't be easy to correct such act from the children since it something they have started at the early stage of their life. The parent may be able to control there gambling act and make a responsible gambling because they no the consequences of being a gambling addict. But the children will never consider this. It better the parent quit gambling or do it in a secret way which won't be exposed to the children.

If a minor ever gets addicted to gambling then his family can be completely responsible for it. Gambling should never be done in front of young children. A family should always try to keep their children away from bad activities.  Children raised by education will grow up that way. But I think if a child's family can keep away from gambling, I don't think that child can ever become addicted to gambling.

The numerous factors in the society which can lead a minor to gambling addiction cannot get traced by the parents. Not every gambling parent groom a child to gambling. Non gambling parents also end up having addicted gamblers. It's not mainly about the gamblers not being careful about their kids, while gambling. But the trouble is on the society, where the child goes, and the type of friends he keeps. Such things change the behavior of a child faster than the internet or the mobile devices. When playing gambling at home as a father, a child may not be able to detect immediately, and they can be asking questions on what their father is doing on screen but won't just conclude it's gambling. A father can't begin telling his kids about gambling, for no reason. Unless the child is now participating in gambling activities, then it's crucial that the both parents of the child overinvest in grooming the child in the right manner. 

[Docnaster]

The main issue here is the children. The children will definitely see gambling as a responsible thing. It won't be easy to correct such act from the children since it something they have started at the early stage of their life. The parent may be able to control there gambling act and make a responsible gambling because they no the consequences of being a gambling addict. But the children will never consider this. It better the parent quit gambling or do it in a secret way which won't be exposed to the children.

If a minor ever gets addicted to gambling then his family can be completely responsible for it. Gambling should never be done in front of young children. A family should always try to keep their children away from bad activities.  Children raised by education will grow up that way. But I think if a child's family can keep away from gambling, I don't think that child can ever become addicted to gambling.

The question of who to quit from gambling between a couple I think can only be an issue in a particular family if the couples never had a good relationship before getting married. I said so because such issues are supposed to be talked about by the two intending couples even before their union is finally joined forever.
But in a place where they failed to have such discussion before marriage, I think the best thing for the both parties to do is to quit gambling entirely in other for their offsprings not to get exposed to gambling at their enfants stages.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

An irresponsible gambler should quit and why is because he's being irresponsible for himself and the people around him, some people can be gambling and through the way they did it and how they do so could make us feel very encouraged to also join in gambling because you like seing them from how they were and how they are gambling, unlike when you see some other people and you try to avoid doing anything that has to do with gambling only because of the mentality they have set on your head through how they gamble irresponsible.

[maydna]

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It is the best option they can do in this kind of situation. However, the bigger question is how they are going to do that. Husband and wife engage in gambling activities, assuming they are playing even before they become married, it is already part of their life. They can't easily give up their gambling activities unless they experience something that will make them realize the bad effects of gambling.

Well, I only say this because I know someone with the same scenario. My friend and his wife decided to quit gambling. While one of them has stayed true to their word, the other continues to gamble in secret without their spouse's knowledge or consent.
The same thing might happen with this scenario unless they both realize what they should do and put their family first rather than their gambling activities.

It would be good if your friend and his wife could stop gambling, and that would be the best decision for both of them. Unfortunately, one of them continues to gamble in secret so that this is known to his partner; they can get into serious discussions, especially if the partner who gambles experiences many losses, which disrupts their finances. That could trigger even bigger problems for your friend and his wife and they decide something bad for their marriage where divorce is the last resort for both of them so that they both will start going their separate ways without any more marriage ties. They cannot be brought back together because there is an assumption that one partner no longer wants to commit to what they have discussed.

[Fortify]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Maybe a better question is who is safe to gamble, because there are too many scenarios where people should not be playing and should quit it altogether. Having a fair amount of disposable income is a good start, far too many people who are barely scraping by money-wise still think it is a good idea to spend what little they have on extremely speculative and zero sum games like this. Which is highly dependent on a second criteria - you need to understand the basic math involved with betting, and that you are more likely to be killed by a shark, than you are to make it big in a place like a casino - all the games you're pouring money in have been statistically rigged against, but occasionally you'll get little cookies back that trick your brain into believing you're a winner. Do your research and understand how the numbers really work before giving up your hard earned cash.

[Quidat]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Maybe a better question is who is safe to gamble, because there are too many scenarios where people should not be playing and should quit it altogether. Having a fair amount of disposable income is a good start, far too many people who are barely scraping by money-wise still think it is a good idea to spend what little they have on extremely speculative and zero sum games like this. Which is highly dependent on a second criteria - you need to understand the basic math involved with betting, and that you are more likely to be killed by a shark, than you are to make it big in a place like a casino - all the games you're pouring money in have been statistically rigged against, but occasionally you'll get little cookies back that trick your brain into believing you're a winner. Do your research and understand how the numbers really work before giving up your hard earned cash.

When both husband and wife does generate out that huge income or source of money that they do have and spending up some dime amounts in gambling then doesnt matter if both of them is really that involved on gambling on which we know that it wont really be that much of an issue if they would really be just that tending to have that kind of control on which this isnt something that simple.
There would really be needing on quitting in between two if you do both are really that responsible when it comes to those priorities. Gambling is really just that for fun but on the time
that you are overexerting already when it comes to spending and the time that had been spent then this is where it would be considered to be bad already.

[kojektea]

If the allocation of gambling has been arranged properly, even if the husband and wife gamble is certainly not a very bad thing, I have not experienced anything like this, maybe my answer is not right, but if it were in my position, we would both decide to gamble in turns and manage finances. very maturely, so as not to disrupt household and financial relationships

[Twentyonepaylots]

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

That kind of setup is really hard because both of them are gamblers. What if both of them lost on the same day? Then the mood in the house will not be good, and it will be really hard for both of them to take care of or mend each other because both of them are down and sad. Also, they have children. I think at that point in life, you need to stop gambling already because you are raising a child. It would be okay if they didn't have kids, but they do. So I think at least one of them should stop gambling so they can minimize the risk that they have when gambling. But it would be better if both of them would stop; it will cause harm to the family if they continue gambling and continue to lose every time.

[junder]

I think what should stop is those who gamble excessively or even addicted, because of course it is detrimental to themselves and with the fact that those who are addicted must have family and friends, therefore if they continue to gamble that cannot be abandoned, maybe they will get a bad impact that could have spread to their family and of course this should not happen because I think the family does not know about what someone who is addicted to gambling is doing, so if they experience the bad effects of gambling maybe they will blame someone who is addicted to gambling.

Although quitting addiction is difficult, but it should be able to stop gambling, because there is no way that during their lives they will continue to be in a cycle of gambling addiction, which if they are in a cycle of gambling addiction I think they will not experience good things, most likely everyday they will be haunted by resentment and disappointment because the gambling they do is unlikely to produce wins consistently.

[Hypnosis00]

I don't see any problem there. Its true that we shouldn't gambling in front of children as it may effect them badly. But when its comes to mature people like you and your wife, there's nothing wrong until both of you guys can control yourselves, follow the discipline as well as able to manage economical status and become so responsible as gambler. Nobody need to quit, just mainly focus on primary income source and do gambling less or stay within limit. Don't spoil family moments , only gambling when get free time or children aren't around you.if you guys can't handle and worry about Ensure the healthy environment for children, then both can quit gambling together, otherwise there'll be a quarrel between you about this matter. So that is my suggestion

Even to say they can control their gambling habits but I don't think it was good to see both of them gambling. One of them must stop and I say that it was the wife. Besides, we are not talking about finances but we are talking about time spent with the family and bonding which is needed when you have a family or if you are building a family. Good relationships and communication between parents and kids are very important which they don't have to ignore for this will have negative results in the future. They should value their time with their kids as this will guide them on how to handle their family soon, or I'm worried they will get involved in gambling at a young age.

[Blitzboy]

I think what should stop is those who gamble excessively or even addicted, because of course it is detrimental to themselves and with the fact that those who are addicted must have family and friends, therefore if they continue to gamble that cannot be abandoned, maybe they will get a bad impact that could have spread to their family and of course this should not happen because I think the family does not know about what someone who is addicted to gambling is doing, so if they experience the bad effects of gambling maybe they will blame someone who is addicted to gambling.

Although quitting addiction is difficult, but it should be able to stop gambling, because there is no way that during their lives they will continue to be in a cycle of gambling addiction, which if they are in a cycle of gambling addiction I think they will not experience good things, most likely everyday they will be haunted by resentment and disappointment because the gambling they do is unlikely to produce wins consistently.

You must realize that stopping isnt only about willpower. Addiction is complicated by brain chemistry, emotional discomfort, and social influences.

Acknowledgement from the struggling person and their support network is typically the first step to freedom. Beyond stopping gaming, you must understand the void it fills. Is there escape? A thrill? Finding these triggers is crucial.

Seeking expert aid empowers, not weakens. There are methods and support networks to break the cycle. Instead of gambling, adopt better habits and coping techniques. Relapses are part of recovery, not the end.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

I don't see any problem there. Its true that we shouldn't gambling in front of children as it may effect them badly. But when its comes to mature people like you and your wife, there's nothing wrong until both of you guys can control yourselves, follow the discipline as well as able to manage economical status and become so responsible as gambler. Nobody need to quit, just mainly focus on primary income source and do gambling less or stay within limit. Don't spoil family moments , only gambling when get free time or children aren't around you.if you guys can't handle and worry about Ensure the healthy environment for children, then both can quit gambling together, otherwise there'll be a quarrel between you about this matter. So that is my suggestion

Even to say they can control their gambling habits but I don't think it was good to see both of them gambling. One of them must stop and I say that it was the wife. Besides, we are not talking about finances but we are talking about time spent with the family and bonding which is needed when you have a family or if you are building a family. Good relationships and communication between parents and kids are very important which they don't have to ignore for this will have negative results in the future. They should value their time with their kids as this will guide them on how to handle their family soon, or I'm worried they will get involved in gambling at a young age.

Yeah, never a good idea for both parents to engage in gambling, as no doubt, this could have a very bad negative impact on the children going while they are growing up to become teenagers, and teenagers into adults, the children could pick that up from their parents and that could turn the entire family into a den of chaos and confusion.

In a family, it's always better it be the man of the house who engages in gambling, knowing fully well that he is the bread winner of the family, and that the responsibility of his family rests on his shoulders, so, he will always know how to go about his gambling in a manner it does affect his family's well being, both in finance and other aspects..
A woman gambling in a family is not good, as it makes the woman appear irresponsible, and even in the society we live today, married women gambling always appears immoral.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I think what should stop is those who gamble excessively or even addicted, because of course it is detrimental to themselves and with the fact that those who are addicted must have family and friends, therefore if they continue to gamble that cannot be abandoned, maybe they will get a bad impact that could have spread to their family and of course this should not happen because I think the family does not know about what someone who is addicted to gambling is doing, so if they experience the bad effects of gambling maybe they will blame someone who is addicted to gambling.

Although quitting addiction is difficult, but it should be able to stop gambling, because there is no way that during their lives they will continue to be in a cycle of gambling addiction, which if they are in a cycle of gambling addiction I think they will not experience good things, most likely everyday they will be haunted by resentment and disappointment because the gambling they do is unlikely to produce wins consistently.

You must realize that stopping isnt only about willpower. Addiction is complicated by brain chemistry, emotional discomfort, and social influences.

Acknowledgement from the struggling person and their support network is typically the first step to freedom. Beyond stopping gaming, you must understand the void it fills. Is there escape? A thrill? Finding these triggers is crucial.

Seeking expert aid empowers, not weakens. There are methods and support networks to break the cycle. Instead of gambling, adopt better habits and coping techniques. Relapses are part of recovery, not the end.

Sometimes the mere fact of betting in front of Children is something that can be done, as long as things are explained to them in absolute detail , in that order of ideas, since some prefer not to bet in front of them because it is something that can dissuade them. their training and can lead them to a moment of curiosity that when they are Prohibited ,  they will look for the game to play alone, children are like that, that's why if they play in front of them, then they should know how to explain what their game is for adults, that it is a game that involves money and that implies a lot of responsibility, that for children there are other games, that must be Explained to them in that way , and only in this way is it possible that it can be done, but based on the fact that each person has their own way of raising or how to handle things is quite complicated, but based on things as they are, when they are with Children that is something very Delicate,  in fact things with them must be done with great measure.

For those who are addicts and have their children , I don't Know , I think they should make a tremendous effort to not let themselves Collapse because Obviously things can be taken to do wrong, in the first instance they would be Directly failing their Children , After that they would be define that things are very difficult because Children's rights are very high and this at a global level , I consider that things between play + Children should not be Mixed , then these types of things are what we always have to take care of, Maybe there are People who are very given to being somewhat liberal, or do not give importance to children in certain Aspects , but for me that is totally irresponsible.

The Culture in many countries is Always towards defending children from Acts like these , where they have parents who are like this, since it is preferable to take them to foster care or Homes Where they will Receive Better Treatment.

[Westinhome]

Yeah, never a good idea for both parents to engage in gambling, as no doubt, this could have a very bad negative impact on the children going while they are growing up to become teenagers, and teenagers into adults, the children could pick that up from their parents and that could turn the entire family into a den of chaos and confusion.

The gambler who play the gambling in the couple means,who will take care of the children and old people.Both of them will need to pay attention and take care by the woman.The old people should take care of the medicine,because to some old people medicine will be the life saving source.The better option will be the male or femal can do gambling one at a time based on their own understanding.

In a family, it's always better it be the man of the house who engages in gambling, knowing fully well that he is the bread winner of the family, and that the responsibility of his family rests on his shoulders, so, he will always know how to go about his gambling in a manner it does affect his family's well being, both in finance and other aspects..
A woman gambling in a family is not good, as it makes the woman appear irresponsible, and even in the society we live today, married women gambling always appears immoral.

It’s true most of the family leads by the male who engage in the gambling.The reason is the male who earning in the family will have the money to play the gambling.If the woman also work in the family means,it’s the matured family.The two income will help the gamblers family and the money which is essential to be used as the recovering of loss money in the gambling site.In some family the woman will be the source of the money and she will play the gambling and the male care for their children health.

[borovichok]

Yeah, never a good idea for both parents to engage in gambling, as no doubt, this could have a very bad negative impact on the children going while they are growing up to become teenagers, and teenagers into adults, the children could pick that up from their parents and that could turn the entire family into a den of chaos and confusion.

In a family, it's always better it be the man of the house who engages in gambling, knowing fully well that he is the bread winner of the family, and that the responsibility of his family rests on his shoulders, so, he will always know how to go about his gambling in a manner it does affect his family's well being, both in finance and other aspects..
A woman gambling in a family is not good, as it makes the woman appear irresponsible, and even in the society we live today, married women gambling always appears immoral.

Whether both parents gamble shouldn`t be a problem rather the question that should preoccupy our minds is if they are addictive gamblers or reckless gamblers. The response to this question will form the basis of our judgment. I gamble and also my wife enjoys playing Bingo but that hasn`t affected our relationship nor have we been unable to pay our bills. We need to understand that gambling is not bad but it is the gambler which makes it a problem or not.

There are stories of a parent gambling and yet still causing problems in the family. What is bad is reckless gambling and when one of the spouses is addicted it is a problem. So, it is possible to have only one partner gambling and yet make the family uncomfortable and yet you can have both partners gambling and yet the family is at peace.