My Grandma is in a critical situation. Asking everyone for help.

[tjtonmoy]

Hello everyone. I am sorry for bringing up this topic here! Yesterday at 12pm my grandma had a brain stroke. She was suffering from diabetes for a long time. She was taking medicine and it was in control. But yesterday she fell ill all of a sudden. We immediately took her to the hospital. The doctor said that she had a stroke and brain hemorrhage was the cause of it. After that she lost all her senses. She can't even speak now.. not even opening her eyes... I'm full of tears right now. I don't know what to do... They asked for $2000+ for her treatment. I have already sold all my holdings and everything and yet I am unable to collect all the money. I have something around $1500+ right now in hand. But I will still need more. I have asked all my family friends and many have come forward to help me in this situation. But it's getting hard to collect the rest of the money. I have come here seeking for you guy's help as a last resort.
I am shameful to bring this here. But I am left with no other choice. I'm asking everyone for a small favor. If I ever get the chances I will try to repay you all. But right now I need all the help I can get. So please guys.... Help me. I will always be in debt to you guys. Whatever amount you can help with will be appreciated... Even if you can't help, at least pray for her please. She's in a very critical condition.

Edit: I have removed the address as suggested! Thank you for the advice.

I will update this thread every now and then when I get free time..

[Vod]

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother; strokes suck.

[tjtonmoy]

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother; strokes suck.

I don't know what should I say. As I said, I will try my best to collect money from other sources. Even if anyone can't help just pray for her. Expectation is a bad thing and often you get disappointed from it. So I am not expecting much. Whatever help I get, it will be appreciated. Even if someone wants to give it as a loan, I will take it. I will repay them back for sure.

[Vod]

Even if someone wants to give it as a loan, I will take it. I will repay them back for sure.

Make a loan request in the lending section, and list your collateral.   You probably won't be able to remain anonymous if you don't have crypto for collateral.

[cryptoWODL]

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon. My heart screams whenever I get news like this. It was because I loved my grandmother so much that I was always with her. I used to stay with my grandmother more than my mother. But suddenly one day my grandmother died, I still can't forget that day. I regret that day because I couldn't do anything for him and didn't get a chance to do anything.
In fact, grandmothers understand what is missing in life.
I am helping you with little money maybe it is not much but I helped you with what I had bro. Actually my income is very less I gave you all that I earned brother.


Finally, it is a wish to God that your grandmother recovers soon and comes back to you and that your family can live happily together again

[The Sceptical Chymist]

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is.  Vod is right.  You really should be trying to get a loan instead of asking the community for crypto.

[tjtonmoy]

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is.  Vod is right.  You really should be trying to get a loan instead of asking the community for crypto.

I am at the hospital right now. I'm really busy and I won't be able to update much about the situation more frequently but I will update for sure. I haven't used the lending before and I have no collateral at this moment as I have sold everything. And he is from my local section and I have also made a post there too.
I know I have been in this forum for a long and yet don't know how the lending process work. If you could give me a little bit of hint how to apply and what is required to get a loan it will be very helpful. I know this is begging and I am very shameful for that but as I said I'm trying to get help from everywhere I can. Please don't get this wrong.

Also if I learned the process how to apply for a loan I will lock this topic. So please help me.

[jasonjm]

Also if I learned the process how to apply for a loan I will lock this topic. So please help me.

Sorry to hear about your Grandmother.

You can get a loan from @Shasan. Read the format and apply for the loan.  

https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5030169.0

[examplens]

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is. 

That's exactly how it was in Yahoo's case, in the end, the thread was locked and archived.

@ALL, they are right in their decision to ask me to take down the addresses. Let's not all get butthurt by them trying to protect the forum. The responses in this thread are less than desirable but That's not on any of you, just the people who made them. It shows that certain people have a low opinion of me and that is their right. Everyone does not have to like me. Locking the thread is a bit much IMO as it is all factual info.

There is also no need for theymos to comment. He hired the staff and stands by their opinion. That's how it should be. Rules are rules, LET IT BE.

@tjtonmoy I'm sorry for everything you're going through, I know exactly what it's about, I went through it with my father, but unfortunately, this is not the way and it's probably better to lock this thread by yourself than to wait for something more drastic from the moderator.

[yahoo62278]

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is.  Vod is right.  You really should be trying to get a loan instead of asking the community for crypto.

From my understanding, you are allowed to post your story or whatnot, but no posting of addresses. Mods will lock the topic if addresses are involved.


@OP sorry to hear about your grandmother man. Very sad to hear and I wonder if there is much they can do besides make her comfortable. o_e_l_e_o was a helpful person when it came to my medical situation, maybe they would be willing to have a chat with you and give you guidance.

I would remove the addresses from your post as it will not end good for you. Vod is likely correct

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother; strokes suck.

[lovesmayfamilis]

OP, I can understand your situation, but you, as an adult (I hope you are an adult), must understand that this is a forum, just a forum, and not a charity center. Those who recently shared five dollars with you will not provide your grandmother with any help. Be courageous. There comes a time for every person when unpleasant things happen to their grandmothers. But this is not a way to describe, much less photograph, people and post them on a forum.
Take heart and pray. You are not the first, and you will not be the last to experience this. That's life.

[tjtonmoy]

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is.  Vod is right.  You really should be trying to get a loan instead of asking the community for crypto.

From my understanding, you are allowed to post your story or whatnot, but no posting of addresses. Mods will lock the topic if addresses are involved.


@OP sorry to hear about your grandmother man. Very sad to hear and I wonder if there is much they can do besides make her comfortable. o_e_l_e_o was a helpful person when it came to my medical situation, maybe they would be willing to have a chat with you and give you guidance.

I would remove the addresses from your post as it will not end good for you. Vod is likely correct

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother; strokes suck.

Thank you for the advice. I will be busy with the MRI for some time. Also some other tests. When I get the chance I will apply for a loan. @Shasan if you can see this mention, I will dm you shortly when I get the chance. Thank you everyone!

OP, I can understand your situation, but you, as an adult (I hope you are an adult), must understand that this is a forum, just a forum, and not a charity center. Those who recently shared five dollars with you will not provide your grandmother with any help. Be courageous. There comes a time for every person when unpleasant things happen to their grandmothers. But this is not a way to describe, much less photograph, people and post them on a forum.
Take heart and pray. You are not the first, and you will not be the last to experience this. That's life.

I am sending that back to him.. cryptoWODL thank you for the kind gesture brother...

[FatFork]

Thank you for the advice. I will be busy with the MRI for some time. Also some other tests.

Don't be ridiculous! It's unlikely you'll be "busy with the MRI".  Generally only medical staff are allowed in the MRI room with patients during scans.  At most, you might hang out in the waiting area, fiddling with your phone.  So, either you're exaggerating or you're simply unaware of the protocols.

When I get the chance I will apply for a loan. @Shasan if you can see this mention, I will dm you shortly when I get the chance. Thank you everyone!

But, you did apply for a loan with @shasan just two days ago. (The day before your grandma supposedly had a stroke.) However, you later deleted that post and created this thread where you claim you do not know how to apply for a loan.  Is this just a coincidence?

[Rikafip]

Is this just a coincidence?

I learned anything in my time here, that's that coincidences are very rare in these type of cases. Nice find btw!

@tjtonmoy  I am really curious to hear what you have to say about some of the things that FatFork mentioned. Why did you say that you don't know how to apply for a loan while you made one few days ago, coincidentally only a day before your grandma's stroke?

[notblox1]

I remember few times when people asked for financial help in forum it never ended good for anyone.
And first people you ask should ask for help and support is friends and family from your country, not some stranger on forum who dont know anything about you.
Whatever the true is I wish good health to all grandmas and everyone else around the world.

[electronicash]

i don't wanna see it differently but Fatfork just discovered the telltale sign.

people will always want to help believe it or not. strangers will help as long as it's true but this forum is not a good platform for it. someone did it before OP and it needs solid proof to make people send but if your story has some holes and doesn't add up. it will just make users suspect you of SOMETHING.
but i wish your nana well that she'd be okay.

[Sandra_hakeem]

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Okay, I actually like the first approach you gave him on this.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

Old man, you don't need any evidence to ascertain - based on your own prejudice - what corny sense he's tryna play on everyone... He's tryna make the whole scenerio look real by using another account to donate? Or maybe liaising with his close pal to pull off the stunt... It's damn weird!
Okay... y'all take a look at this ... Is it also a coincidence? And also the fact that you applied for a loan too?.. look, your intensions aren't clear at all and every sane person knows that.. Lemme keep it real with you..
I am not doubting the fact that your mum's sick; but for the fact that you used one of your supposed alt to run a kinda attestation on your behalf, then that's enough to say this whole thing is damn suspicious!!

[ineedhelpplease]

It's $4 in USDT I wouldn't have given a single shit about a random person donating a tiny amount to another random person. I'm surprised something as small as this is even being investigated.

Rather than go all over this dude having a possible alt over 4 bucks why not just make him show more proof of his IRL situation, because a screenshot especially in an online forum where people fraud and scam all the time is not enough especially when screenshots can be faked or forged too. Not to be disrespectful of OP but that's unfortunately the world we're in. At least showing something like a video with the proof presented even with the grandmothers face (which he already posted her face here in a screenshot) would at least show he's not trying to fraud people here or made up a story.

[AB de Royse777]

Earlier I contacted him on Telegram

Also please provide some substantial documents and things so that I can verify the papers.
I may be able to give you a loan without any interest if I see it's indeed clean.

Cheers

His response

tjtonmoy, [15-Dec-23 7:09 PM]
Sorry mate... She's gone now... She died

tjtonmoy, [15-Dec-23 7:09 PM]
I am not pretending anything

With some screenshots some of them dated today. I do not understand a lot of it but it seems MRI test report, prescriptions, image of the MRI film. Although I can not confirm the authenticity but the images seems taken by a phone. Some parts of the images -





Looking at some of the responses in this thread I thought to share it.

I believe the woman indeed died, tjtonmoy and his family lost the Grand mother.

Rest In Peace to the departed soul. My condolence to the family.

[ineedhelpplease]

Royse777, Thank you for at least having sense here and asking for further IRL proof of the situation rather than being one of the people investigating him over a $4 donation, although reading this information makes me feel sad to hear actually.