Am actually new, and it is said that an elder can not be in the house and watch a she goat give birth while being tied.
Couldn't fully understand what you wrote up there, but I guess from your tilte, you are asking for guidance from old members of the forum. The first thing you should be aware of as a new member of this community is that there are some certain rules which you are not to break. I find most newbies breaking more of these rules than obeying them due to ignorance or inability to read simple instructions. So I will kindly suggest you take your time to read the rules on this link
Unofficial list of (official) Bitcointalk.org rules, guidelines, FAQ to stay on the safer side. Lastly welcome to Bitcointalk mate.