Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes.

[Chikito]

Take note and be aware that your way of gambling could affect your relationships and the circle of your relatives.

I often encounter things like this in my environment, I am not surprised by this, I am just sad to see his family be broken because his addicted. Nowadays, many people see things without calculation, they just think bet the money, they can be rich and the money has doubled multiple times. In fact not easy like that, all things in the world must have calculation and good management even what he did is just bet the money in gambling. It is same as trading, we can't take the advantage just like that without calculating if in the future want to do the same thing. Because we have set the profits for next capital. If all is spent, I really sure the will lost in all.

[Rufsilf]

I have come across Local gamblers who are addicted to gambling and had ruined their selves by themselves til they ran bankrupt yet they borrows money to gamble at all means even While being indebted.
Theses sets of gamblers doesn't have remorse nor conscience about their gambling lifestyles instead their friends and relatives are the ones who bears the shameful consequences the addicted gambler brought to their circle of relationships.
At the virtue of getting the unbearable situations to an end, the relatives broadcasts the chronic addicted gambler at all costs of gambling boards never to give him privileges to gamble in any of the Gambling arenas anymore else they (the relatives) would sue the gambling boards owner.
This is just how recklessness could mess your life of you can't take control to gamble responsibly.

Take note and be aware that your way of gambling could affect your relationships and the circle of your relatives.

Generally speaking, our loved ones would be upset, angry, or concerned, especially if we developed a gambling addiction and our actions and behavior radically changed. Because of the wrongdoings of the gambling addict—you mentioned that he was indebted to someone—they would feel deceived, and their family and relatives would be the ones who suffer and worry about the financial load. In simple terms, they seem to be in emotional turmoil.
Additionally, there's a chance that he or she will borrow money from family members to feed their gambling addiction. We are seriously endangering ourselves if we cannot maintain self-control and discipline.
 
It's reassuring to know that the family alerted the gaming board to deny him access to any gaming establishments going forward. This will allow him to be held accountable for his actions and develop self-control. They are like the stray cats in the world, and the way to tame them is that you must catch them, train them, and discipline them.

[angrybirdy]

This your thread reminds me of a guy who gamble a lot and have sold out most of his properties just to fulfill his gambling desire which he always ends up losing in almost all of his games and still he don’t want to learn from that and stop the gambling habit instead he go as far as borrowing money which he can’t even be able to pay back, at the end of the day most of the people he owes debt end up coming to there house to disgrace the family and make some threat to there properties, such kind of behavior are no longer to be regarded as normal gambling as those people have gone above limit from using there own money to borrowing and if time is not taken they might also go as far as stealing just to keep the game going.

for me, if you're going to do something stupid with gambling, make sure you can stand with it and that you don't harm other people, especially your family. Yes, we know they are our family and they are ready to forgive or help you with the things you have done, but it is a different matter if you are putting them in a bad situation and giving a huge problems. It is a great shame for them to be told that they have a relative who is a irrespinsible gambler and an addict.

[Out of mind]

There are many gamblers who cannot control themselves, from gambling addiction due to which they suffer a lot. For such users a family is instantly ruined and in debt. The user then borrows money from their relatives to gamble, and when the money is lost in gambling, the user becomes even more broke. Abstaining from gambling is the most important thing because people who become addicted end up ruining themselves and ruining their families. So one should never gamble by borrowing or borrowing, but if gambling is to be done it is better to gamble with a certain amount of money only then a user will not become too much addicted.

[danherbias07]

I am always aware of this, especially with the emotional fluctuations. When you lose, you get easily angry and I have kids so controlling it is necessary or else my family will hate me if I take out all my hatred in gambling with them. That's not fair for those people who are near you.
Gambling responsibly doesn't just mean controlling the money that we have, we also have to be careful with what we will say to the people near us. Even if we are in deep losses, we must stay calm like nothing really happened. This is where the "gamble what you can afford to lose" will come in very helpful.
If we are only gambling the amount that we are not able to regret after we rekt it then I think we are okay. Money can definitely control our emotions too and if we keep on thinking about the amount that we lose then we are in big trouble.
The key to surviving this jungle is just putting in a budget and we have to stay with it. Follow the plan, stick with it, and don't let emotions get the better of you by chasing losses. After all that, I think we are going to be fine with our family as long as we are responsible.

[Samlucky O]

Take note and be aware that your way of gambling could affect your relationships and the circle of your relatives.

You have indeed made alot of point but I disagree about Gambliing addict affecting your relatives. I believe that what ever a man does will surely affect him and him alone. No doubt, the family will receive humiliation about how addicted one can be but I really think the gambler has alot to face. The consequences of excessive gamble will not only affect his current situation but his future, social life, religious life, educational reputation and loose family respect. And sometimes finds it difficult to find a partner for marriage. All this circles around him and not his relatives.

[Blitzboy]

I agree. Recognizing how irresponsible gambling can affect others is crucial. I know from experience that addiction isnt isolated. A stone dropped into a pond causes waves which affect everyone nearby. Your relative's intervention illustrates this well. Due to desperation, they must intervene publicly and distressingly.

Responsible gaming may be fun and exciting. Balance and self-awareness matter. When restrictions are respected, gambling can be entertaining and fascinating. Just like any activity, it gives flavor to life in moderation but can be harmful in excess. Knowing and following one's limitations is crucial.

Your warning reminds us that gambling should be voluntary. Making informed decisions and considering how they affect ourselves and our loved ones is key. While we enjoy gambling, lets promote responsible gambling even more. The greatest bet is one that doesnt harm our relationships.

[davis196]

I have come across Local gamblers who are addicted to gambling and had ruined their selves by themselves til they ran bankrupt yet they borrows money to gamble at all means even While being indebted.
Theses sets of gamblers doesn't have remorse nor conscience about their gambling lifestyles instead their friends and relatives are the ones who bears the shameful consequences the addicted gambler brought to their circle of relationships.
At the virtue of getting the unbearable situations to an end, the relatives broadcasts the chronic addicted gambler at all costs of gambling boards never to give him privileges to gamble in any of the Gambling arenas anymore else they (the relatives) would sue the gambling boards owner.
This is just how recklessness could mess your life of you can't take control to gamble responsibly.

Take note and be aware that your way of gambling could affect your relationships and the circle of your relatives.

What if the gambling addict is an playing online? I guess that the family and relatives could try to block his internet connection and take away his computer and smartphone. Suing offline casinos for letting gambling addicts to gamble seems pointless to me. No court is going to decide such case in favor of the gambler's family.
The thing you are writing about can be applied to any form of addiction. At some point, you drown so deep in the addiction that it affects your family. This is the worst part. Damaging the lives of your parents, brothers, sisters, significant other and kids due to your addiction is the most embarrassing thing that could ever happen to an addict. That's why I will never let myself get addicted to anything(not just gambling).

[_act_]

The user then borrows money from their relatives to gamble, and when the money is lost in gambling, the user becomes even more broke. Abstaining from gambling is the most important thing because people who become addicted end up ruining themselves and ruining their families. So one should never gamble by borrowing or borrowing, but if gambling is to be done it is better to gamble with a certain amount of money only then a user will not become too much addicted.

To gamble with certain amount of money that the person can afford to lose is what you are talking about, not just to gamble with certain amount of money because certain amount can be any amount. For addicts, the right words is that they should gamble with little amount of money, like 1 to 5% and not more than 5% of their weekly or monthly income. This is because they can be wrongly proving that they can afford to lose high amount of money, but until they are in losses would be when they will see how gambling can depress them.

[Awaklara]

You have indeed made alot of point but I disagree about Gambliing addict affecting your relatives. I believe that what ever a man does will surely affect him and him alone.

The impact may be wider than you think than just the environment of gambling addicts. The sentimental impact that relatives get will also definitely be felt especially if it has to do with other people's finances.
Gamblers who are addicted and don't have a steady income can harm other people whether it's relatives, colleagues, or people around them.
what he did was irresponsible to himself. but the impact will spread to involve other people. we have seen many cases of gambling addicts like that.

[TheUltraElite]

Taking loans to gamble is a big no no but for the gambler it seems like the only way out when the money they have has already been lost and they have not gambled for long enough to give them withdrawal symptoms. Indeed it is a pathological condition and the same family members can actually help cope up with the situation.

If the gambler is willing enough, they can try keeping their mind of gambling through fruitful activites outside their devices and make use of the time. Its tough but possible.

Then there are people who are drowning in debts but have no remorse, for them its a tough life without any option.

[gabbie2010]

I have come across Local gamblers who are addicted to gambling and had ruined their selves by themselves til they ran bankrupt yet they borrows money to gamble at all means even While being indebted.
Theses sets of gamblers doesn't have remorse nor conscience about their gambling lifestyles instead their friends and relatives are the ones who bears the shameful consequences the addicted gambler brought to their circle of relationships.
At the virtue of getting the unbearable situations to an end, the relatives broadcasts the chronic addicted gambler at all costs of gambling boards never to give him privileges to gamble in any of the Gambling arenas anymore else they (the relatives) would sue the gambling boards owner.
This is just how recklessness could mess your life of you can't take control to gamble responsibly.

Take note and be aware that your way of gambling could affect your relationships and the circle of your relatives.

Unfortunately those category of gamblers are so addicted such that they think that borrowing money to gamble again would enable them to win big to cover their indebtedness unfortunately as they as they continue to chase losses they even lose more until they got bankrupted it's very hard to control these set of gamblers because their is a spirit of never say die in them which continue to propel and push them to continue with their act, sadly the consequences of their addiction to gambling had affected the well being of their families and relationship with other colleagues imagine if the person is the bread winner in the family.

[Outhue]

It's shameful when gambling takes everything from you, but it's not shameful when you make $1 million dollars as a gambler, I know someone who was hated for been a gambler, family members cut themselves off this person and after few years later this person became so successful with gambling, now the relatives can't even go back to claim him as their own.

I am not saying that gamblers should be an addict because they can become a millionaire some day, I am only saying that anything is possible, I choose to be responsible with gambling because I never expected much from gambling and I have seen a lot of people that are ruined because of their gambling habit, my advice is we gamblers need to be careful with gambling, avoid getting too attached with gambling.

Families should come first over everything, make sure that the decisions you make won't affect them, true be told, if your own child tell you that they believe in gambling you will never feel right about it, you will always be in worries, the only thing that can make me leave behind a relative is if they don't support my vision, not like gambling, but something that I believe will work well for me in future, and the reason why I will choose to stay away is for my own good, to stay focus and not get distracted by them.

[Natsuu]

It shows how gambling can really mess things up. Not just for the person hooked, but for everyone around them. Gotta gamble smart to avoid the chaos. Addiction wrecks relationships and money. If you're into gambling, think about how it hits your loved ones. Get help and play responsibly to break the bad cycle.

[Solosanz]

That's them, not me.

I never gamble beyond my limit or higher than my monthly income, so gambling will not affect my life and my relatives life.

We have so many threads discuss about gambling addiction, self control, story of gambling ruin someone life, gambling is for fun, how to not become an addict etc, so that's enough to make users in this forum not become an addict.

[Kemarit]

I have come across Local gamblers who are addicted to gambling and had ruined their selves by themselves til they ran bankrupt yet they borrows money to gamble at all means even While being indebted.

I think it's no secret that if you are out of control of your gambling habits and you don't have the means to pay the people that you loan for, obviously as some point in time when the people that you borrowed money from are your relatives, your relationships will be affected if you don't pay them on time.

So it may haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't pay them. Or at least decide when to quit and stop gambling for good. Maybe some of us have been in this kind of situation before, and maybe we did get out of our addiction and mend our relationships with our family members. But there could still be knee deep with debts and loans from their gambling addiction and can't get out.

[slapper]

Understanding gambling requires acknowledging that uncontrolled gambling can lead to addiction. Gambling addiction affects others as well as the gambler. Financial and emotional stress often fall on relatives. They struggle to assist their loved one while tackling the problem

Instead, evaluate the gambler's viewpoint. The complexity of addiction goes beyond guilt and conscience. Gamblers often get stuck in a pattern they know has negative repercussions. Responsible gambling applies here. It's a strategy to keep gambling fun, not harmful. For individuals battling, professional help is essential. Family members may help gamblers recover, but it takes patience, epathy, and harsh love

[CODE200]

It shows how gambling can really mess things up. Not just for the person hooked, but for everyone around them. Gotta gamble smart to avoid the chaos. Addiction wrecks relationships and money. If you're into gambling, think about how it hits your loved ones. Get help and play responsibly to break the bad cycle.

Gambling smartly seems to me kind of odd because it's kind of ironic when the smartest thing that you could've done is probably to not gamble that money away but you still did it anyway. I think that's already a given effect when it comes to addiction, you will always hurt the people around along with yourself and the idea of empathy towards your loved ones is a good thing but the problem is that an addict have a hard time prioritizing that kind of thing because they want to satisfy what they're craving as much as possible because they're addicted, only way that someone can get saved from addiction is if they choose to do the saving themselves, if they don't want to get addicted anymore then they should have the will to do it themselves first and then the external help can do their job more efficiently.

[Accardo]

I've read something like this in the forum, and the Op said he heard it on a radio program. Maybe people are beginning to adapt to this type of idea. It doesn't sound like a better way of dealing with addiction. Because these people actually need to adapt the fact their ward won't be happy hearing about the action they've decided to take on him. What matters is helping him out of gambling not disseminating a report on every gambling location in his neighborhood. That doesn't make any difference, he could be gambling else where in a far distant neighborhood, where nobody knows about his bad gambling habit. Hence, family who have been affected in gambling should learn how to focus on making their child a better citizen to the society. Tackling the problem in a way that'll be embarrassing to him would only worsen the problem of the person and he would look for a means of getting out of the neighborhood, since people will begin to talk him down based on choice his parents took on him.

[Julien_Olynpic]

The most important way your gambling can affect your family and relatives is the loss of control over your debts. It is known that a gambler wants to win back, but he does not have any worthwhile strategy or game system. So he will lose again and again. And again there will be a desire to win back. And so on in a vicious circle. This will happen until his relatives abandon him.
The most interesting thing happens when a person undergoes a course of rehabilitation treatment. The whole treatment there is to discourage a person from wanting to play. But it does not explain why he loses. And what you need to do to win, and if this is impossible, then stop playing or direct your energy in a completely different direction.