When I'm emotional, I LOSS!

[zuzie]

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

Yes, holding back emotions when we are playing is certainly needed in carrying out gambling activities because a gambler who is easily carried away by their emotions cannot control their common sense about what to do and what not to do and all that happens is frequent defeats and of course there will be a lot of financial losses there.

[sompitonov]

but in my opinion the reality is the opposite, in fact many people are more depressed because of the defeat that occurred because they themselves could not accept the defeat, so that what is on their mind is wanting to recover the loss and of course with such thoughts will make them continue to gamble even though they have experienced defeat or lost a large amount of money. this is one of the impacts that can occur when gambling with uncontrolled emotions. as much as possible we must be able to control the emotions in ourselves so that there are no emotions that lead to greater losses. when gambling has been done with the emotions in us, gambling is no longer about money, but about the continuation of life where if they cannot stop then there will be destruction of life caused by actions that are actually not recommended such as continuing to force themselves to gamble. therefore it is very important to be able to stop and rest because the mindset will be chaotic if they continue to force themselves when they have experienced defeat.

      -     There are still other gamblers who accept losing in gambling, although there are still others who find it hard to accept their loss because of the amount of money they lost due to gambling.

And the others are also chasing their amount of money that was lost in the casino, something that the majority should not do but many do.

if discussed further or compared, there are indeed more people who cannot or find it difficult to accept the defeat that occurs. also when like that of course they will feel overflowing emotions maybe just with one defeat it is a natural thing and can be said not because of emotions because defeat will happen to anyone even if they gamble wisely. but when defeat has happened many times it is caused by their emotions because if they are not emotional with one defeat I think they will stop. with this overflowing emotion makes them want to continue chasing the defeat that has occurred, but instead of wanting to turn things around but instead it makes them experience even greater losses. what you said is right, this should not be done because it will most likely make them more miserable. with many people doing this I think it indicates that many people who gamble are accompanied by emotions or wrong thinking and that must be fixed.

Usually it happens according to similar scenarios. The player wants to place a bet because he wants to test his luck or show how well he understands the game. And as soon as he loses, he starts making excuses to place a bet again, to rehabilitate himself in his own eyes and possibly in the eyes of random observers. A psychologically healthy player can simply leave after a loss and even perceive the loss as something that he will forget about in 5 minutes. Even I learned to do this over the years, although at first I perceived each loss very sensitively and could not sleep at night because of it. In any case, each player has his own personal emotional world, which even he is not able to fully understand.

[I_Anime]

At first gambling and trading, ain't something one need to do with emotions we should always learn how to suppress our emotions by disciplining ourselves, Because as  Human we are emotional beings . So you can say you can just remove it but you can actually control it so that it won't always get the best of you whenever you in yah gambling sections. Because that one of the thing that normally lead to losses when luck ain't on your side, because we all aware of the system of gambling either you win or lose . And is all about luck one can't be unlucky always, so as can't be lucky always. So we should always have this in our mind that whenever money is at stake is either we win extra or we lose it all , so that we won't go all out with our emotions and endup multiplying the losses that you are trying to recover

[panjul07]

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.

In fact, our emotion has nothing to do with luck because luck may come even when we are angry or emotionally bad.
Our emotion is needed to control what we are going to spend, to decide what is the best thing to do in different situation while gambling.
Without a doubt, when we are emotionally bad then we may lose control which make we do something beyond our own limit.
In average yes we will have bigger chance to lose when we are emotionally bad but it does not mean that our luck will also bad because luck is kind of mystery.

[Dewi Aries]

Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

Of course, the approach to gambling in moderation must really be owned and maintained by gamblers, only setting aside some money from the total income you get for gambling is a good idea rather than not putting any planning that leads to financial limitations that you have which in the end of course most likely you will only lose all your money just for something that should not be too prioritized. I would say that to be able to stay safe in gambling by implementing various actions that lead to prevention, namely from the start you must focus on the dangers and risks in gambling, what I mean is you really have to have and maintain awareness of the dangers of the risks in gambling when done in the wrong way or which tends to be excessive and aggressive, with that I am sure you will be able to restrain yourself.

[summonerrk]

Of course, the approach to gambling in moderation must really be owned and maintained by gamblers, only setting aside some money from the total income you get for gambling is a good idea rather than not putting any planning that leads to financial limitations that you have which in the end of course most likely you will only lose all your money just for something that should not be too prioritized. I would say that to be able to stay safe in gambling by implementing various actions that lead to prevention, namely from the start you must focus on the dangers and risks in gambling, what I mean is you really have to have and maintain awareness of the dangers of the risks in gambling when done in the wrong way or which tends to be excessive and aggressive, with that I am sure you will be able to restrain yourself.

In fact, a great way to start controlling yourself is to communicate with other gamblers or with your family. You need to tell them everything as it really is.
It is their advice that can help a gambler stay one step away from falling. Simply in any problem, if you know that you are not alone, then you avoid depression and can learn dozens of important and useful tips.

[Fredomago]

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

If you set it up the right way and the intention is to kill some time to have that entertainment after those busy days at work, though it' not easy to keep that same intensity when you already experienced the excitement and fun, most of the time you might exceed but that's the challenge as emotion will mostly leads you to lose when things seems not turning accordingly.

But, if you are in the side where you set things up for completely for fun then it saves your butt  from losing a lot, amount that you can't really afford to lose.

[Awaklara]

In fact, our emotion has nothing to do with luck because luck may come even when we are angry or emotionally bad.
Our emotion is needed to control what we are going to spend, to decide what is the best thing to do in different situation while gambling.
Without a doubt, when we are emotionally bad then we may lose control which make we do something beyond our own limit.
In average yes we will have bigger chance to lose when we are emotionally bad but it does not mean that our luck will also bad because luck is kind of mystery.

luck does not affect our situation. but when we get lucky we can change our state of mind. from what may have been initially not enthusiastic, because victory usually the state of mind can change very quickly.
luck never knows when it will come, what is certain is that when we play according to the limits, we can avoid addiction. and that is what really needs to be maintained, not just being enthusiastic about gambling. because the more often people gamble without knowing their limits, maybe gamblers are one step closer to addiction.

[Accardo]

I agree with what you say , in fact a salary of 10 thousand dollars would be great, as to spend in a game session only 100usd, well, if so that is what is most logical, although to be Honest it would hurt me a lot to spend 100usd just like that , but the secret is to put everything under control and the best control that can be given is that the money goes further and that we do not go crazy spending everything, in this aspect I am a Person who will always say that things can happen in the best way, since controlling the money for the gaming Sensation would give free rein to Emotions.

It's ideal to bet with 10% of our monthly salary. But it's also unrealistic to go over the plan and wager what would hurt us or our business. Although players are liable to want more wins, they should go for safety when possible. Gambling isn't leaving anybody behind anytime soon, so we must play accordingly to enjoy the game. Watching news of gamblers who, in a session, spent all their salary gets me worried. It makes me ponder why players end up this way. They battle with their emotions on what is right or wrong.

Nobody is above mistakes, but hearing such a lousy incident sounds meaningless. Players shouldn't go gambling first after getting paid. It's risky; only some have control over their emotions. The best control for everyone is to gamble with what's left of the wages after buying our needs. And whatever the outcome, players must wager a small portion of their salary. Failure to abide by this instruction will get a gambler into depression.

[Republikcoin.com]

Yes, holding back emotions when we are playing is certainly needed in carrying out gambling activities because a gambler who is easily carried away by their emotions cannot control their common sense about what to do and what not to do and all that happens is frequent defeats and of course there will be a lot of financial losses there.

In terms of being able to control emotions when gambling, it is not just about losing or winning, but more about knowing when to stop for a moment and continue the next day by being allowed to continue on the same day after winning at a certain level that does not make us dizzy with it. Because when someone who does not want to know about defeat and really wants to take back the money that has been lost through gambling, that's where sometimes his emotions are too passionate and forget himself until he continues to lose more.

[lovesmayfamilis]

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

That's right, I also support this. If we have funds that we put aside for free-spending, it's easier for us to lose them than to tear money out of the budget calculated for necessary things. Many will ask or say that there is practically no free money, but it will be more useful for a smoker to gamble than to spend money on something that spoils his health. In the same way, we can find a lot of unnecessary but regularly bought things, while this money can be risked by playing in a casino without regretting it for a second and being completely calm.

[betswift]

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

That's right, I also support this. If we have funds that we put aside for free-spending, it's easier for us to lose them than to tear money out of the budget calculated for necessary things. Many will ask or say that there is practically no free money, but it will be more useful for a smoker to gamble than to spend money on something that spoils his health. In the same way, we can find a lot of unnecessary but regularly bought things, while this money can be risked by playing in a casino without regretting it for a second and being completely calm.

That's a good point, however, you should always spend only the money you are willing to spend. You shouldn't think about it as the money that you - could - spend on something that would bring you joy as well. It's your choice to put them to use this way, and that's totally okay. It's not okay when your hobby makes it harder for you to live how you want and have joy while doing it.

[traderethereum]

you should always spend only the money you are willing to spend. You shouldn't think about it as the money that you - could - spend on something that would bring you joy as well. It's your choice to put them to use this way, and that's totally okay. It's not okay when your hobby makes it harder for you to live how you want and have joy while doing it.

That is what we must know in many thing and not just in gambling because if we don't know about that, we will only forget to limits our gambling habit. When we use bigger money than usual and we lose, that can impacts to our emotion and that is why many people becomes too emotional when gambling.
They don't have control for themselves in gambling and cause them desperate with their losses. Their emotion becomes high, makes them lose control and in the end, they just lose bigger money than they can afford to lose.
That will not good for them as that will makes them suffer with their lose because they can recover their losses easily especially if that is in gambling. They will just add more and more losses if they want to try that.

[betswift]

you should always spend only the money you are willing to spend. You shouldn't think about it as the money that you - could - spend on something that would bring you joy as well. It's your choice to put them to use this way, and that's totally okay. It's not okay when your hobby makes it harder for you to live how you want and have joy while doing it.

That is what we must know in many thing and not just in gambling because if we don't know about that, we will only forget to limits our gambling habit. When we use bigger money than usual and we lose, that can impacts to our emotion and that is why many people becomes too emotional when gambling.
They don't have control for themselves in gambling and cause them desperate with their losses. Their emotion becomes high, makes them lose control and in the end, they just lose bigger money than they can afford to lose.
That will not good for them as that will makes them suffer with their lose because they can recover their losses easily especially if that is in gambling. They will just add more and more losses if they want to try that.

Discipline is king, and it always will be.

[Dewi Aries]

Of course, the approach to gambling in moderation must really be owned and maintained by gamblers, only setting aside some money from the total income you get for gambling is a good idea rather than not putting any planning that leads to financial limitations that you have which in the end of course most likely you will only lose all your money just for something that should not be too prioritized. I would say that to be able to stay safe in gambling by implementing various actions that lead to prevention, namely from the start you must focus on the dangers and risks in gambling, what I mean is you really have to have and maintain awareness of the dangers of the risks in gambling when done in the wrong way or which tends to be excessive and aggressive, with that I am sure you will be able to restrain yourself.

In fact, a great way to start controlling yourself is to communicate with other gamblers or with your family. You need to tell them everything as it really is.
It is their advice that can help a gambler stay one step away from falling. Simply in any problem, if you know that you are not alone, then you avoid depression and can learn dozens of important and useful tips.

Yes, what you said might also be a good alternative to avoid various bad possibilities, basically whatever you want to do if your goal is basically towards prevention, then do it as long as it seems reasonable and can help.

Establishing good communication with fellow gamblers, maybe it's good for exchanging opinions and experiences, because basically you don't need to make mistakes when other people's experiences can be used as learning materials, but on the other hand you also need to pay attention to other possibilities, because there are also quite a few gamblers you know who try to get you to fall deeper or who direct and encourage you to do various actions that should not be done, I experienced that.

On the other hand, regarding family, I'm sure that's a much better idea, all parents or family members always want the best for their children or for their fellow family members, so I'm sure they will be able to provide the best solutions related to the various situations you experience.

[danherbias07]

You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

That's right, I also support this. If we have funds that we put aside for free-spending, it's easier for us to lose them than to tear money out of the budget calculated for necessary things. Many will ask or say that there is practically no free money, but it will be more useful for a smoker to gamble than to spend money on something that spoils his health. In the same way, we can find a lot of unnecessary but regularly bought things, while this money can be risked by playing in a casino without regretting it for a second and being completely calm.

Budgeting.
Many gamblers don't do this and most of the time they jump the gun into even using their funds for paying the bills and mortgage thinking they could all get it back in one lucky bet. I could tell because I had seen my friend do it and I was frustrated with him when we talked about it.
One simple rule, and that to only use the money we can afford to lose. It's difficult especially when a losing streak happens but that's the right thing to do to avoid more losses.
We cannot just squander the money that is supposed to be for something important. It's just gambling so we might as well treat it like one. Entertainment.

[OgNasty]

The obvious advice if you are losing when you get emotional is to stop getting emotional. If your emotions are overwhelming your decision making, that means you have too much money at stake. Take a step back and ask yourself why you got into gambling. If the answer is anything other than to entertain yourself, you are making a mistake.

[crwth]

Hey OP! how have you been with all this posts by different members here? Are you still emotional and cannot control what you feel? There are a lot of meaningful posts here and I hope that you have read them.

I think it is somehow natural To be somewhat emotional but At least now you know, and you are aware of this so you can do something about it. Have you done anything?

[hahay]

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

To be honest, at that moment I was also losing and my emotions were so out of control that I made another deposit at least so I could keep betting. But the point is, I didn't have a plan to double my bet and I didn't have a plan to chase my losses. In essence, I just wanted to keep betting because the losses I experienced made my balance run out but yes, in the end I still lost even though I had made deposits again and again.

After a long time passed, I chose to take a break which means I chose to quit. That way at least I didn't continue the losing streak I was on at the time. But,  if you ask how to win when emotions are like that, I think to win is with luck. Because if you don't have that luck factor, then you're either just going to lose, or it's better to quit at that moment.

[DaNNy001]

When I am over confident I make a stupid move and the result will be losing my capital fully. This always happens to me when I am playing crash. I have now stopped playing it because of my stupidity. I would always start with low bets and after a point when I am getting decent multipliers, I would suddenly place a big bet and the next thing that happens to me is that it gets crashed. It has happened to me in so many times and later on I realized that after a certain point I tend to become overconfident. This risky approach has costed me a good amount of money and for the time being I am planning to take a break from gambling.

I think taking a break is probably the best decision to make,  and I wouldn't really call it over confidence it's actually greed , my reason for saying this is because even when you were constantly making profit you weren't satisfied, I also have this experience with crash games that's why I can relate to this, I've lost a lot in crash games due to greed and trying to chase my losses... when you are trapped in that cycle of playing constantly you can never win, people always say that the only way to win gambling is to win and run away.. I'm also with you on this I've decided to take a long break