When I'm emotional, I LOSS!

[giorgione]

If you stick to risk management...can make gambling safe for you, unless of course most of your bets are losing.

Look mate, I can tell you one thing for sure, always keep your head straight and don't go crazy with your bets. Losses are part of the game, you just have to accept it. And hey, if you're careful with your money, you shouldn't worry too much about losing. Just enjoy the game, but remember to play it safe. Ciao belli.

[Zigabel]

By being prepared to any possible outcome will allow you to avoid such kind of emotions,  especially when you are dealing with gambling, knowing that the venue where you are involving yourself is a high risk place,  it's very important that you already have that acceptance so win or lose you need to move forward,  just like what you said most of the time those gamblers who followed their emotions lose more than what they can afford, to prevent yourself committing that same mistake better to set your limits and follow whatever happens you need to make that hard stop.  The only way to prevent getting that fear and be manipulated by your emotions.

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

[Fredomago]

By being prepared to any possible outcome will allow you to avoid such kind of emotions,  especially when you are dealing with gambling, knowing that the venue where you are involving yourself is a high risk place,  it's very important that you already have that acceptance so win or lose you need to move forward,  just like what you said most of the time those gamblers who followed their emotions lose more than what they can afford, to prevent yourself committing that same mistake better to set your limits and follow whatever happens you need to make that hard stop.  The only way to prevent getting that fear and be manipulated by your emotions.

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

I agree to that, a practice that you needed to keep repeating over and over to make sure that it will established inside you, most of the time a gambler learned the hard way, meaning that instead of preventing something which is already been shared by someone, you still going to push your way and eventually experienced things your way will let you realized by your mistake.

It is your own will that will help you to limit yourself, from that stand point you'll be able to lessen your emotions and not to let yourself dwell into something that you will repeatedly lose your money.

[Dewi Aries]

By being prepared to any possible outcome will allow you to avoid such kind of emotions,  especially when you are dealing with gambling, knowing that the venue where you are involving yourself is a high risk place,  it's very important that you already have that acceptance so win or lose you need to move forward,  just like what you said most of the time those gamblers who followed their emotions lose more than what they can afford, to prevent yourself committing that same mistake better to set your limits and follow whatever happens you need to make that hard stop.  The only way to prevent getting that fear and be manipulated by your emotions.

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

Yes, I think it is a fact that theory is always much easier to say than to practice, imagining, hallucinating is always much easier. But anyway, whether you like it or not, a gambler must be able to have that ability when they are involved in gambling, because the ability to accept risk is something that I think is much more important than you preparing everything to pursue victory.
Remember that victory is nothing more than a chance, meaning it is still uncertain, or simply still a "possibility", while of course defeat is a definite part of the game.

This means that as you said, the idea is not only planned but also trained, because it requires a real process with practice over a period of time that may be quite long to ensure that we really have good self-acceptance abilities related to risk, and maybe I will add that the process may not take too long if we do it while re-understanding what and how gambling really is to help make ourselves aware that defeat is a natural part of the game.

[betswift]

By being prepared to any possible outcome will allow you to avoid such kind of emotions,  especially when you are dealing with gambling, knowing that the venue where you are involving yourself is a high risk place,  it's very important that you already have that acceptance so win or lose you need to move forward,  just like what you said most of the time those gamblers who followed their emotions lose more than what they can afford, to prevent yourself committing that same mistake better to set your limits and follow whatever happens you need to make that hard stop.  The only way to prevent getting that fear and be manipulated by your emotions.

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

I agree to that, a practice that you needed to keep repeating over and over to make sure that it will established inside you, most of the time a gambler learned the hard way, meaning that instead of preventing something which is already been shared by someone, you still going to push your way and eventually experienced things your way will let you realized by your mistake.

It is your own will that will help you to limit yourself, from that stand point you'll be able to lessen your emotions and not to let yourself dwell into something that you will repeatedly lose your money.

You yourself is the best teacher, so to speak.

[Blitzboy]

Yes, I can also assure you that it is really hard to accept the risk and let go of all the losses that have occurred, but it may not be impossible but it takes quite a long time to be able to make peace with yourself. So of course this is why the approach to gambling must be accompanied by limits, in the sense that whatever you want to do must be ensured that it does not exceed your capabilities.

Like in terms of putting money for example, because it is certain that losing a large amount of money is a painful situation where not everyone can accept the situation without giving any response or reaction of disappointment.
And also this is the reason why many of us suggest only gambling with a minimal amount, because in addition to being able to prevent you from losing a significant amount, this approach can also prevent us from significant emotions and regrets.

If you stick to risk management, it can protect you from rash actions in gambling, losses will happen in any case, it doesn’t happen any other way, you just need to perceive it as an integral part of gambling, but try to have as few of them as possible. Emotionality can be in case of a big loss, but if you can exclude it, then you can prevent it. If the bet size does not hang over 1% of your deposit, then you have nothing to worry about a losing bet, right? Therefore, competent planning of the game process can make gambling safe for you, unless of course most of your bets are losing.

Yes of course, none other than because after all a person is useless even if for example you try or find various ways to ensure victory or to increase the chances of winning in the end it will only be a waste of time, because after all victory can only be confirmed if luck comes at that time. The conclusion is because this is why it is better for us to focus more on risk management, I understand that by treating everything minimally then maybe the amount of your victory will not be too big.

But remember that a big win is also always a result that can never be ascertained, or simply there is no certainty and guarantee for you to be able to get a big win, and in some cases in the end the idea actually makes gamblers lose money in large amounts. Casinos are not stupid my friend, your carelessness is a big advantage for them.

So of course it is better to put limits on the approach we have such as in terms of putting the amount to be bet, because if the bet is small then it is clearly less likely for emotions to occur, and of course this is an approach that can keep us from the possibility of large losses.

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.

Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

[betswift]

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.
Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

Golden words! I will take your points from your last paragraph with me for other discussions, thanks

[Odusko]

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.
Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

Golden words! I will take your points from your last paragraph with me for other discussions, thanks

If you want to be free in gambling you must deattach the possibility of any emotions and any form of lack of decipline, because anything that connects us as gambler to anything that controls our emotions, but then we must have put in place what will help us to limit our gambling inability, emotions have lead many to loses alot of time and this is why we need to kill all form of emotional imbalance that could make you take unrealistic betting decisions.

Putting limits to whatever you do in gambling from the amount to to your games selection and even the numbers of time you gamble help a whole lot,, so limits and decipline are very important characteristics of a responsible gambling.

[betswift]

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.
Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

Golden words! I will take your points from your last paragraph with me for other discussions, thanks

If you want to be free in gambling you must deattach the possibility of any emotions and any form of lack of decipline, because anything that connects us as gambler to anything that controls our emotions, but then we must have put in place what will help us to limit our gambling inability, emotions have lead many to loses alot of time and this is why we need to kill all form of emotional imbalance that could make you take unrealistic betting decisions.

Putting limits to whatever you do in gambling from the amount to to your games selection and even the numbers of time you gamble help a whole lot,, so limits and decipline are very important characteristics of a responsible gambling.

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing It out) is a recipe for having the best experience possible for a gambler. And, what is more important, it will not be the last one

[Dewi Aries]

If you want to be free in gambling you must deattach the possibility of any emotions and any form of lack of decipline, because anything that connects us as gambler to anything that controls our emotions, but then we must have put in place what will help us to limit our gambling inability, emotions have lead many to loses alot of time and this is why we need to kill all form of emotional imbalance that could make you take unrealistic betting decisions.

Putting limits to whatever you do in gambling from the amount to to your games selection and even the numbers of time you gamble help a whole lot,, so limits and decipline are very important characteristics of a responsible gambling.

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing It out) is a recipe for having the best experience possible for a gambler. And, what is more important, it will not be the last one

Yes of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without experiencing any problems or obstacles.
Gambling is always about probability games, there is no certainty and guarantee to always be able to produce victory, as said by some friends above that casinos are companies and not charities, meaning that casinos have certain intentions and goals related to the reasons they create various games, and certainly not to give money for free to gamblers.

Apply limits on the amount of bets and time of involvement, be firm in implementing them, maintain awareness to make it easier for you to avoid various impulsive actions and thoughts, practice self-acceptance regarding risk and understand the following also by realizing that defeat is a definite part of the game. All of these are understandings, plans and abilities that a gambler must have before they get involved, because only this can make a gambler stay okay in the long run.

[laijsica]

Yes, I can also assure you that it is really hard to accept the risk and let go of all the losses that have occurred, but it may not be impossible but it takes quite a long time to be able to make peace with yourself. So of course this is why the approach to gambling must be accompanied by limits, in the sense that whatever you want to do must be ensured that it does not exceed your capabilities.

Like in terms of putting money for example, because it is certain that losing a large amount of money is a painful situation where not everyone can accept the situation without giving any response or reaction of disappointment.
And also this is the reason why many of us suggest only gambling with a minimal amount, because in addition to being able to prevent you from losing a significant amount, this approach can also prevent us from significant emotions and regrets.

If you stick to risk management, it can protect you from rash actions in gambling, losses will happen in any case, it doesn’t happen any other way, you just need to perceive it as an integral part of gambling, but try to have as few of them as possible. Emotionality can be in case of a big loss, but if you can exclude it, then you can prevent it. If the bet size does not hang over 1% of your deposit, then you have nothing to worry about a losing bet, right? Therefore, competent planning of the game process can make gambling safe for you, unless of course most of your bets are losing.

Yes of course, none other than because after all a person is useless even if for example you try or find various ways to ensure victory or to increase the chances of winning in the end it will only be a waste of time, because after all victory can only be confirmed if luck comes at that time. The conclusion is because this is why it is better for us to focus more on risk management, I understand that by treating everything minimally then maybe the amount of your victory will not be too big.

But remember that a big win is also always a result that can never be ascertained, or simply there is no certainty and guarantee for you to be able to get a big win, and in some cases in the end the idea actually makes gamblers lose money in large amounts. Casinos are not stupid my friend, your carelessness is a big advantage for them.

So of course it is better to put limits on the approach we have such as in terms of putting the amount to be bet, because if the bet is small then it is clearly less likely for emotions to occur, and of course this is an approach that can keep us from the possibility of large losses.

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.

Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

I totally agree with you.Gambling should be considered a part of entertainment that can help a gambler maintain a balance with his money. If one thinks of the machine to make more money from gambling, his mind will be directed towards another gambling which helps him to sink deeper. A gambler has to be fully aware of the limitations of his money and make proper use of time by betting himself accordingly. While gambling, one should stick to money limits to keep oneself grounded in the light of reality and prevent oneself from making impulsive decisions.

[betswift]

If you want to be free in gambling you must deattach the possibility of any emotions and any form of lack of decipline, because anything that connects us as gambler to anything that controls our emotions, but then we must have put in place what will help us to limit our gambling inability, emotions have lead many to loses alot of time and this is why we need to kill all form of emotional imbalance that could make you take unrealistic betting decisions.

Putting limits to whatever you do in gambling from the amount to to your games selection and even the numbers of time you gamble help a whole lot,, so limits and decipline are very important characteristics of a responsible gambling.

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing It out) is a recipe for having the best experience possible for a gambler. And, what is more important, it will not be the last one

Yes of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without experiencing any problems or obstacles.
Gambling is always about probability games, there is no certainty and guarantee to always be able to produce victory, as said by some friends above that casinos are companies and not charities, meaning that casinos have certain intentions and goals related to the reasons they create various games, and certainly not to give money for free to gamblers.

Apply limits on the amount of bets and time of involvement, be firm in implementing them, maintain awareness to make it easier for you to avoid various impulsive actions and thoughts, practice self-acceptance regarding risk and understand the following also by realizing that defeat is a definite part of the game. All of these are understandings, plans and abilities that a gambler must have before they get involved, because only this can make a gambler stay okay in the long run.

Tips of gold! The last paragraph is a good one, and only by testing all the things you described yourself, you can become better at gambling and have a blast at it. From theory to practice

[giorgione]

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline ...

Thank you too! I think that setting limits, not forgetting them, and sticking to a plan with the necessary discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing it) is a recipe for having the best possible experience for a gambler. And most importantly, it won't be the last

Yes, of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without encountering any problems or obstacles. Gambling is always about games of chance, there is no certainty and guarantee of always being able to produce wins, as said by some friends above

[betswift]

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline ...

Thank you too! I think that setting limits, not forgetting them, and sticking to a plan with the necessary discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing it) is a recipe for having the best possible experience for a gambler. And most importantly, it won't be the last

Yes, of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without encountering any problems or obstacles. Gambling is always about games of chance, there is no certainty and guarantee of always being able to produce wins, as said by some friends above

You did a bit of a whoopsie with the quoting, but it's alright, I got you

Fingers crossed, we all will be able to implement what we want in the future. And have a blast while doing it.

[EarnOnVictor]

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's normal to feel emotional when you are losing but continuing to gamble in that state isn't good because you might lose more, we tend to make careless decisions whenever we are losing or chasing our profits.Aways remember that the best time to stop is when you are feeling emotional, take a break from your phone or computer and try to do other activities that would distract you from going back to playing more games because if you do there's a very high chance that you might lose everything you have

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion

To buttress your point, taking a break immediately after you feel emotional towards gambling whether you are greedy when you are winning more or have just lost and feel down is the right approach in a situation like this, there is always another day to try. Trying to continue playing at that time will certainly put the gambler into more trouble. I learned this secret in trading and when I started gambling, it was a work over for me. Our minds of gambling matter so much more than the money we intend to gain, it may not be easy at first but with a strong mind of believing that it's best we continue the next day will always help us to overcome the pressing temptation of gambling more that could result in more losses. For this to be helped further, having good gambling plans matters, after all, plans would have guided us to know the right time to call it quit as we would have known the maximum amount we can lose per session and how many times we are entitled to gamble the whole sum budgeted for the session.

[Accardo]

To buttress your point, taking a break immediately after you feel emotional towards gambling whether you are greedy when you are winning more or have just lost and feel down is the right approach in a situation like this, there is always another day to try. Trying to continue playing at that time will certainly put the gambler into more trouble. I learned this secret in trading and when I started gambling, it was a work over for me. Our minds of gambling matter so much more than the money we intend to gain, it may not be easy at first but with a strong mind of believing that it's best we continue the next day will always help us to overcome the pressing temptation of gambling more that could result in more losses. For this to be helped further, having good gambling plans matters, after all, plans would have guided us to know the right time to call it quit as we would have known the maximum amount we can lose per session and how many times we are entitled to gamble the whole sum budgeted for the session.

Overcoming the temptation to gamble further requires strong willpower. Which skill, most gamblers don't care about possessing. Making money has eaten deeply into the minds of gamblers such that nothing else matters. Emotional moments come with pressure to take action.

The gambler now must follow the right decision. Unfortunately, the pressure pushes some players toward the wrong side of their thoughts. They'll consider how sad it'll be to forgo all their lost money. So, the player tries harder to replenish what he's lost.

[zuzie]

That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.

By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.

[Jody.Drummer]

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

all depends on the mindset that is owned, when someone has a good mindset then everything can be done easily such as not extending a gambling session that has ended in defeat, this tends to be difficult to do but in my opinion this only applies to gamblers who have the wrong mindset such as those who have a mindset where gambling is considered a means of making money for sure. while for those who have a good mindset such as only considering gambling as entertainment then everything will be fine because there are no careless actions taken.

besides that gambling is not only about winning and losing, but thinking and self-control also determine, if we can apply a mindset, discipline, limits of course everything will be fine and we should have all of that and apply it well in the gambling that is done, even though it seems difficult but it will protect us from big risks. because when it is not applied to the gambling that is done then the impact or excessive gambling will occur because the self is driven by the wrong mindset.

[ethereumhunter]

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.

That is how limitation will helps gamblers to prevent his losses in gambling so they can enjoy for playing gambling while they don't have to lose much money. If many gamblers realizes about that and will not use too big money to playing gambling, they can use gambling for having fun and will not trying to chase the win. They know that can makes them becomes emotional and when that is happen, they will lose control over themselves.

The emotional feeling can besides them while playing gambling and can change anytime based on what they gets from gambling. But if they have a strong self control, they will not have to worry if that will hurt them because they can playing gambling moderately. They can manage themselves not to becomes emotional and the important thing are they can stops from playing gambling anytime they want.

[betswift]

That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.

By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.

We should all strive to gain this skill and use it accordingly. I am talking about being disciplined in front of the odds that we may see, of course.