Are you a generous gamblers

[topbitcoin]

Some time ago, some of my friends and I had a meeting in a coffee shop, and I felt quite annoyed when some of my friends told me that recently he had gotten quite a big win from the bets he made, but in the end it was me who had to pay for their coffee, because they don't have any money, and regarding the gambling results they win, the money is used again for gambling. So I think that they are just empty talk, because the results of the winnings that he gets cannot be enjoyed at all, apart from playing gambling at higher stakes.

Starting from this incident, it is very important for us to be able to manage our winnings well. because when we are not able to manage it well, no matter how big the victory we have achieved, it will all be in vain. At least when you get the winnings, you can't share it with other people, at least the winnings can be used for your own needs, for something more useful than having to spend it back in gambling with higher stakes in the hope that you can win a larger number of wins. bigger than before. In the end, a bigger win was not achieved, while the results of the previous win were gone.

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[MainIbem]

Naturally I am generous giver and I must not gamble and win to give people around me but with the little money i gain over here and outside here i do have a charity plan that whenever money comes into me i give out from charity plan, whenever such amount is exhausted then i don't give anymore till that account is being refilled for distribution. Then talks about gambling well, like i said whether i win or not i do give people around me money from my charity account so people most not ask for money around me whenever i noticed that you are lacking and finding it very hard to approach me i will reciprocate by giving to them that needs even without me winning bets.

[Kavelj22]

I have met people like this before on several occasions, and I don't just think gambling made them that way. Those people are generous in nature, with or without gambling money. If they have money, they always like to extend their hand to help others out.

The assertion that all gamblers who are generous in their bets are naturally generous people is a mistaken belief.
Gambling is an activity that involves taking risks and relying on luck rather than morality. Even generous and kind people can become addicted to gambling and have negative behavioral changes toward it. Addiction to gambling can lead to the deterioration of social and financial relationships, and affect mental and physical health. Therefore, we cannot be certain that gamblers who are generous in their bets are generally generous personalities, but rather they can be severely affected by the effects of gambling addiction without exception. I know some of them well. There are people addicted to gambling in my locality. They are very generous with their bets, but they are very stingy even with themselves sometimes.

[LUCKMCFLY]

How about you? Are you generous and if so, why are you generous?

In my case, I am a little generous because winning is a blessing that should be shared. However, I will not make people feel guilty when I give an amount from my blessing.

I know this gambling guy that share 20 personal computer to students to aid their studies after winning $400k, it was a core i7 generation and ssd storage and I was jealous of such gifting he gave to people. He said, he didn't have the opportunity to further his education upto master because of funds but now he does have but don't have the time and he decided to bless undergraduates students to help them make learning to be easy and efficient for them, he has been bless with more wins after that but that is the one I cherish the most.

I want to do these too one day and help people because I believe when you help people, the kindness comes back in many fold. However, please let's the generosity start from your own family, some people have he habits of been generous to outsiders but wouldn't extend that hands to their own family. I will give and dash money to my family and friends and then do for outsiders but I will be careful of how generous you can be to avoid having nothing left for yourself.

In this case everything depends on the players, those who are generous and those who are not generous, and that depends a lot on the type of person it is, in this case I am a person who if I have a lot, I would give away, I really appreciate when One gives and it is much better than receiving, but of course my economic situation does not allow me to do something like that, but it is always good that if one can help someone because they are blessings that one will later receive, be it in the best interest of us, for our families, for everything, then it is not bad, the fact that the people who play and earn and want to share that blessing I do not see it as bad is something that if I see that they will always do well, a person who does that will always do well, I do not It will go wrong, for a person who always denies everything and starts doing things in egotistical ways, isn't things going to go well for him, and I come out because you can see it, you can tell, there are people who have too much money and are egotistical and naughty with themselves, that's something that doesn't make sense to me.

I met a WSr who had a lot of money and he was a pichirre with the same, and nothing good was ever shared for him, everything was quite good but when it came to spending a lot because things did not go well for him, then the day he died they arrived The children Shared Everything that Mr. had and it stayed like that, and the business that the children had was going well, so the man never bought anything good for him, he always dressed badly and they did things for him but few, so This only made the others go off to do something that he never Wanted , the inn he had was destroyed and stripped away, and apart from everything they are in the USA , when here they had a life of loojs and everything, there things are different because now They are taking care of children, and have done any job, but that happened to them because they do not know how to Manage themselves when they have money, or rather when they had money.

[Quidat]

I don't think I am that kind of generous gambler who gambles without insure any security for the future. I appreciate that what he is doing. Not that can be also done from the others ways even those amount can be small but I am following that. So I am not a generous gambler and I have done donations from my own earnings. I always keep savings and then gamble from the fixed amount for gambling and sometimes give it to those who need money.

You would really be somewhat generous considering into his situation or status that he had some pension or already retired plus he dont have any obligations like having kids that goes to school
on which means that he is really that free from responsibilities on which it is really that normal that they would really be that confident for them to spend something in gambling.
Unlike into those people who are really that having tons of responsibilities then you would really be having those thoughts that you shouldnt really be spending that much
in gambling on which it is really just that a waste if you arent that mindful about on things that you are dealing with.

[SmartGold01]

Does giving has anything to do with gambling?
A giver is always a giver they must not win before they will give someone money people give out money to the needy at their own discretion without waiting for someone to beg them for anything, what I noticed from your friend is that he does that to sound as a defensive measures from people to stop asking what he does with his money and to as why he is gambling.
When gambles finds out a particular reason to use and defend themselves you would noticed that he has created a free platform or a kind of free ticket for him to gambling without people questioning him for their gambling addictions since he is a generous giver he felt with that attitudes people won't asked him that much, even though he is giving money to people believe me they would still talks about it when they notice he has gone wrong.

[Accardo]

Naturally I am generous giver and I must not gamble and win to give people around me but with the little money i gain over here and outside here i do have a charity plan that whenever money comes into me i give out from charity plan, whenever such amount is exhausted then i don't give anymore till that account is being refilled for distribution. Then talks about gambling well, like i said whether i win or not i do give people around me money from my charity account so people most not ask for money around me whenever i noticed that you are lacking and finding it very hard to approach me i will reciprocate by giving to them that needs even without me winning bets.

Yeah, a giver doesn't care about whether he wins or not before handing out arms to other people around him. Giving is great to the society and helps to uplift the emotional intelligence of young people, to learn how to give, growing up. Humans tend to reciprocate love ushered to them, back to the society when they're in the position to help. As a gambler when there is a big, win it only increasing the amount of money eligible for giving to people. That's what it does in me, but my giving habit is not influenced by my gambling results. Glad to have read of Tonnes of gamblers who care about the society and offer help to the needy, by sharing their gambling wins. It also helps the gambler to take his gambling habit seriously and endeavor he doesn't lose carelessly, because many people would be expecting much from him, after he's handed out lots of assistance to them. That's another aspect of giving, it's not a one-time something, I noticed, after helping a person, those who saw it happen, could seek for our help next time. A generous gambler has to be consistent and manage his bank roll not to run out of funds, to an extent of not being capable of handing out some bills to the needy.

[Casdinyard]

I think I am a generous gambler (kind of). And what I mean by that is whenever I win I always treat people into something nice, but the thing is I don't just treat anyone, I have a specific set of people I am in great terms with that gets all the best things I have to offer besides treats and I gauged them from the experiences that we've been through, how they have helped me get out of a tight spot in the past, etc. So I guess I'm a generous person, but not so much that I'd give favors and treats to just anybody.

I reckon a good lot of us in the crypto world especially in the gambling sector are also like this. I could say so because we've been secluded to ourselves for the greater part of our gambling journey and unless we have made internet friends or people who we can confide our problems and stresses with, we don't really have anyone to rely upon. So when we do get people like these we kind of oblige ourselves to really give them what we have (I don't know if this is just me but I assume a lot of us in here are like that as well judging the messages) but whatever. We give when we can to those who deserve it.

In any case, it doesn't really matter whether we're a generous gambler or not, what I think counts is that we make sure at the end of the day we don't subject ourselves to bigger problems either by gambling too much or giving too much.

[AmoreJaz]

Does giving has anything to do with gambling?
A giver is always a giver they must not win before they will give someone money people give out money to the needy at their own discretion without waiting for someone to beg them for anything, what I noticed from your friend is that he does that to sound as a defensive measures from people to stop asking what he does with his money and to as why he is gambling.
When gambles finds out a particular reason to use and defend themselves you would noticed that he has created a free platform or a kind of free ticket for him to gambling without people questioning him for their gambling addictions since he is a generous giver he felt with that attitudes people won't asked him that much, even though he is giving money to people believe me they would still talks about it when they notice he has gone wrong.

people are naturally judgmental ones, so even if you are good to them, they will still say something to you no matter what. so even if you are generous to them, don't expect that they will always say something good to you because once you turn your back at them, they may say something not favourable. in OP's story, it seems that the pensioner-gambler just share his winnings to his friends in the community without expecting anything in return. it is like his satisfaction to share whatever winnings he got from his games.

in my case, i can't say that i am generous or on that level of giving everyone something because it is very rare that i can get good winnings. but of course, i can buy a drink or two for my regular friends if in case i got some  luck. but not to the point that i will share that to just random strangers within your vicinity. i am more on sharing it with my regular friends.

[SmartGold01]

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people are naturally judgmental ones, so even if you are good to them, they will still say something to you no matter what. so even if you are generous to them, don't expect that they will always say something good to you because once you turn your back at them, they may say something not favourable.

Human being are always of this nature and we can't change that factor in them being good doesn't mean everyone must acknowledge to everything you are doing even though what you are giving to them sounds as a token of honor but, after which you would see someone counting your errors or holding hands on your deficiencies since you won't just pleased them at all times. So to give one must not be gambler naturally we often see most of the African president doesn't favor everyone when they are in power and yet people talks about despite they are gradually benefits from the regime but still talks against them. We should just try to be responsible gambler instead of becoming an addicts because it brings shame to us and to our entire family at large.

[maydna]

Perhaps I am generous by sharing a little of my winnings with people in need around me. I admit that sharing with others is something anyone can do, especially if we have something that can be shared with those who need it. We don't need to say why we do it because if we can feel it, there will be an urge from within to share it with others. Inviting good karma or whatever you call it, but one kindness can invite other goodness to come to us. If you don't want to feel guilty when you share some of your blessings, you can directly give them to those who need them without saying anything and leaving them immediately. That's enough for them because you want to share with them.

[serjent05]

How about you? Are you generous and if so, why are you generous?

I always like to share my blessings, may it be from gambling or work bonus.  I just remembered when I won the dice jackpot on Fortunejack way back Dec. of 2017, a friend of mine was borrowing some money to add to his capital for a business venture, and since I won a good amount of money, I gave him some money and told him not to pay it back.  Aside from that, I told those who have debt from me that they don't have to pay me and considered the debt as fully settled.

Helping people feels good, so whether I won in gambling or not as long as I have the funds, I never hesitate to help people.

people are naturally judgmental ones, so even if you are good to them, they will still say something to you no matter what. so even if you are generous to them, don't expect that they will always say something good to you because once you turn your back at them, they may say something not favourable.

True that, there are people who love exploiting the kindness of other people.  They will always take advantage of other people's generosity and pretend to be close to the person, but when they got disappointed since their request is not granted, this person will start talking bad about you.

[blockman]

I guess that guy found his purpose for sharing his winnings for treating his friends or anyone he likes to treat. As you've said, he's already a pensioner and his children are old as well and probably they're all professionals and that's why he has just found that purpose and that's nice to see he's not selfish and sharing the winnings he get.

How about you? Are you generous and if so, why are you generous?

In my case, I am a little generous because winning is a blessing that should be shared. However, I will not make people feel guilty when I give an amount from my blessing.

As long as I have something to share and spare, I'll not think about it but will do. But when the times of need to tighten my pocket and belt then it's understandable that I won't do so. It depends on our status and as well as our moods.

[DaNNy001]

I don't if everyone feels this effect but I think it's like a general thing though and that feeling am talking about would be the feeling of giving your gambling winning with a lot more ease than other funds. For me it's way easier to give from my gambling winning especially the ones that I tend to win so easily. It's like the funds is actually not planned for so many people like myself get a little bit confused when it comes to it proper use.

[borovichok]

Giving is a natural thing and it is so easy for a giver to become a generous gambler. People who share their winnings with friends and relatives are givers by nature and that is why they find it obligatory giving whenever they win regardless of how much they have lost. I have seen friends quarrel and avoid friends because they got a win from gambling. I have seen friends only spending on those friends who also engage in betting and neglecting those friends who are not in the gambling line. Of a true, winning in gambling can unravel the nature of a gambler.

I have a very close friend who won $1500 from sports betting and then gave me $10. When I inquired about why he gave me money, he lied that he got little winning of $50 and so decided to share with me. I was happy with such a mindset but then, when I went to the betting shop where he usually gambles, I was told he got a winning of $1500. When I asked him, he accepted but I got angry not because he gave me $10 but because he lied. He owes me nothing so there was no need for him lying. I have got also another friend who will always disclose his winnings to me and then give me 10% of the winning. So, people behave differently when they win.

In my case, I am a generous gambler. I don`t play offline where people can easily know when I win but even though I gamble online I have always told my friends about my winnings and we celebrate together. I give cash from the win and also sponsor hangouts. I believe that the essence of making money is to have fun but then I cannot have fun alone except with friends and family. So, the joy of winning is making everyone winning by sharing with them. I can also recount the days I gamble offline and win. I share fun randomly with the people present in the betting shop from the bet manager, staff and to my fellow gamblers.

[Saint-loup]

It only applies if you don't except to win money when you gamble but you only gamble for fun IMO. Because the house edge of most games is very hard to overcome, so if you spend half of your winnings for tipping your friends, you have no chance to earn any money in the long run. So IMO it shouldn't be a hard rule, you should only do it in some occasions, and to people who need it or who are generous themselves.

[PX-Z]

I guess that guy found his purpose for sharing his winnings for treating his friends or anyone he likes to treat. As you've said, he's already a pensioner and his children are old as well and probably they're all professionals and that's why he has just found that purpose and that's nice to see he's not selfish and sharing the winnings he get.

I think about it too for an old (assuming because he is a pensioner already) and a person that has nothing to worry about financially related is quite generous not all but there are some when it comes to sharing what they had. While on the other hand, giving should not be always, people are greedy and prone to abuse, i hope the guy won't tolerate people if someone wants to abuse his generosity.

[Y3shot]

Their is nothing like generosity in gambling,  when one is giving so much money on gambling it is either the person is addicted or plays so much as a result of greed. Nobody can just decide to give out so much in gambling without any reason.  Most people that plays gambling so much are addicted and the have so much expectations from gambling that they can quickly get a win by the number of games which they have played.

[angrybirdy]

I just met a friend while playing in a lottery called Keno. He is a good gambler and sometimes hits jackpots. As a pensioner with grown children, he is a heavy bettor. I noticed that he is a generous gambler. He uses half of his winnings to treat friends, neighbors, and relatives every time he wins. He does this to invite good karma and since he acknowledges his gambling addiction, people who know him don't question him.

One of his friends asked him why he kept betting instead of saving so he would have something when he needed it.

His answer was straightforward,

'I am betting so when I win I can share half of my winnings with my friends and relatives who need money like you.

' I was surprised by his answer. His friends felt guilty for asking him. Some gamblers are that generous to avoid questions about their gambling activities and to continue gambling.

How about you? Are you generous and if so, why are you generous?

In my case, I am a little generous because winning is a blessing that should be shared. However, I will not make people feel guilty when I give an amount from my blessing.

I can say that I am a generous gambler too, because whenever I win, I prefer to be able to share my winnings especially with my family. I'm not picky when it comes to family, but when it comes to friends or acquaintances, I'm pretty strict about spending money when they're with me. My family's needs are more of a priority because I know they also need help from me, but I don't let them always rely on me, somehow I teach them how to properly manage their spending habits and manage finances so that when the time comes when I can no longer gamble and rarely win, they know how to earn money that is not from me.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Yah, it is good to be generous or become a philanthropist, but then, every gambler can not have the same attitude. Also, it depends on the amount of money that you are able to win, that's what can determine the level of help you can render to people with your winning. 

I remember, you said, that the man sometimes wins the jackpot, which is good, most gamblers doesn't have those kinds of luck at all time. The man you are talking about here is a pensioner and also has grown up children, who probably are taking care of their responsibilities themselves. The man doesn't have much of a big deal job, than to do what gives him happiness, so I don't doubt that he is absolutely satisfied with what he is doing. 

I am a generous person, but I don't need a win from gambling before I can help people for some of their minor needs.