Are you a generous gamblers

[umbara ardian]

While your friend's generosity with his gambling wins is cool, let's be real: gambling addiction ain't all sunshine and rainbows. Sure, winning feels good, but those wins often come after a bunch of losses, like a rollercoaster ride to nowhere. It's like building a sandcastle of happiness on the beach of debt – one wave and it's all gone.

Saying "most addicts have bad traits" is, well, not cool. Addiction is complex, and judging folks based on one struggle hurts more than helps. Imagine someone trapped in a dark room, and instead of offering a flashlight, we just yell, "Hey, why are you so gloomy?" Not helpful, right?

True generosity ain't just about throwing some cash around when things are good. It's about building something real and lasting, like helping your friend break free from the gambling cycle. Think about it: wouldn't him using those wins to get help be a bigger win for everyone? Imagine the peace of mind, the stability, the ability to truly enjoy life without the constant worry. That's real generosity, my friend.

[Fortify]

I just met a friend while playing in a lottery called Keno. He is a good gambler and sometimes hits jackpots. As a pensioner with grown children, he is a heavy bettor. I noticed that he is a generous gambler. He uses half of his winnings to treat friends, neighbors, and relatives every time he wins. He does this to invite good karma and since he acknowledges his gambling addiction, people who know him don't question him.

One of his friends asked him why he kept betting instead of saving so he would have something when he needed it.

His answer was straightforward,

'I am betting so when I win I can share half of my winnings with my friends and relatives who need money like you.

' I was surprised by his answer. His friends felt guilty for asking him. Some gamblers are that generous to avoid questions about their gambling activities and to continue gambling.

How about you? Are you generous and if so, why are you generous?

In my case, I am a little generous because winning is a blessing that should be shared. However, I will not make people feel guilty when I give an amount from my blessing.

In these sort of situations, especially when someone is a pensioner - they will use these games as a way to socialize in person and be around other people, as life can get lonely for some people. Being generous, especially when you've got a sizable retirement safety net to fall back on, or no other family to spend it on, can be an outlet for entertainment. At the end of the day, if someone has worked hard their whole life and made it into retirement with enough money to get by and still splash out on such pursuits, then who are we to question them. Let them enjoy their time and it is much better to be a happy, generous gambler than a moody a selfish one - the world has enough of those already.

[irhact]

But in the case of this gambler in question,  he believes by gifting out to help his friends, he attract good karma to make him win more and helping his friends more, well my question to him is how much does he win on a regular bases and in proportion to how much he have lost in the past, and what his debt rate is or investment and assets, rhis are what an adult need to check and put in place before setting out to become a philanthropist gambler.

Before any individual should decide to become philanthropist gambler or a generous gambler he has to be making profits in a large amount. You can't be making just small profits and decide to start giving out money when you don't have enough reserve to use in playing more games so you can increase your chances of winning more money. You shouldn't become a generous giver when you're still struggling or you'll also put yourself into the position of those you were helping.

Our generosity shouldn't exceed our expenses limit, don't get pressure to being generous when you haven't achieved your aim for gambling. If you're gambling for entertainment you don't have any problem but for an individual that wants to make profits from gambling, we shouldn't start giving away money when we can keep them and use them usefully when we'll be in need of balancing our accounts.

[dansus021]

Sharing some of your winnings with others is a good thing even though it is basically the money you get from gambling, but what we see here is your determination and good intentions that want to share with others.

I know right basically if you have a gambling budget you lose that is totally fine because it's gaming but if you win big you share little of it, which is also totally fine. because when you do gambling you know that lose is inevitable and you know that your money could go away and gambling is not a source of income right. Winning from gambling in my opinion is just a bonus

Only positive into those people whom you had given and to those who dont? for sure those negative impressions wont changed. Im that kind of person on who doesnt really want nor like on giving out
some bonus or free money into those people around not unless if you are a close person

Yeah I also share some of my little money with a close person or a family. Unless there is a person who is really in need like donating to people in fundraising platform but in monthly basis.

[zuzie]

But in the case of this gambler in question,  he believes by gifting out to help his friends, he attract good karma to make him win more and helping his friends more, well my question to him is how much does he win on a regular bases and in proportion to how much he have lost in the past, and what his debt rate is or investment and assets, rhis are what an adult need to check and put in place before setting out to become a philanthropist gambler.

Before any individual should decide to become philanthropist gambler or a generous gambler he has to be making profits in a large amount. You can't be making just small profits and decide to start giving out money when you don't have enough reserve to use in playing more games so you can increase your chances of winning more money. You shouldn't become a generous giver when you're still struggling or you'll also put yourself into the position of those you were helping.

Our generosity shouldn't exceed our expenses limit, don't get pressure to being generous when you haven't achieved your aim for gambling. If you're gambling for entertainment you don't have any problem but for an individual that wants to make profits from gambling, we shouldn't start giving away money when we can keep them and use them usefully when we'll be in need of balancing our accounts.

 I really agree with your opinion, if we want to be generous people or generous gamblers we have to think about our own interests first, if the winnings and profits are sufficient, our needs are met then it doesn't matter if we also share the winnings with other people. .
Very good advice, we should not force desires that are not necessarily beneficial for us, meaning if we force ourselves to do good but our lives are still not considered worthy, then this will greatly affect the conditions in our daily lives. Instead of wanting to be generous to others, we ourselves still need help from others, just as we lie to ourselves.

[len01]

I really agree with your opinion, if we want to be generous people or generous gamblers we have to think about our own interests first, if the winnings and profits are sufficient, our needs are met then it doesn't matter if we also share the winnings with other people. .
Very good advice, we should not force desires that are not necessarily beneficial for us, meaning if we force ourselves to do good but our lives are still not considered worthy, then this will greatly affect the conditions in our daily lives. Instead of wanting to be generous to others, we ourselves still need help from others, just as we lie to ourselves.

If you want to treat a friend after winning from gambling, it's true that you have to see whether we need money or not, but at least 5% or 10% of our winnings to give to other people will not reduce the value you get because this is about positive karma after you give money to people in need.
I mean, for example, if you win $50 from gambling and you give it to someone else with a value of $10, you will definitely get good karma from that person, as you are prayed for good luck again and things like this we should not be selfish or only think about ourselves.

but it all comes back to each person's mindset because everyone has different thoughts and for me personally, every time I win from gambling, it will at least give to other people in need, even if the amount is small, but for me it is a prayer of good luck that I will get in later on, it seems like a little help to other people, even though the money is obtained from gambling, but there is no harm in helping other people.
remember, every $1 you give to others will give you the best wishes.

[ethereumhunter]

It's quite okay and fair, very understandable if if you can gift out your winnings probably a fraction of it or the whole of it depending on what your preference is and how you want to generous with your gambling profit but every form or sense of entitlement from those around you who want to benefit from your win shouldn't be tolerated.

If a gambler isn't willing to share a portion of he's winning, he shouldn't be seen as been greedy or not compassionate on his fellow gamblers because if it had been a loss they would have born it all without having to share the losses with any one so it's a very Fair idea if the gambler is willing to share then it's good otherwise he shouldn't be seen as not been considerate because he's got the choice to do that which he wishes to do with he's gambling proceeds

With giving some of the win money to people who need can helps them buying foods or other things they want. They will appreciated that because that can gives them a chance to survive. We can also celebrate it with our family or friends but we don't have to tells them that the money is the win money that we got from gambling.

It's okay if a gambler who win doesn't wants to give his win money to other people because that will personal decision. But it's better if he doesn't tells about his winning because that can make other people curious and will ask many things. Other people can say that he doesn't want to share his winning to them and maybe they will stay away from him because he only talk about his winning which is not necessary to tell.

[harapan]

I am not a generous gambler and I can never become one. If I lose the money that I am using to gamble, no one will help me. So why should I win and think of my neighbors or friends? I can not do that. In fact, I bet with little amount of money and if I win I win little amount of money that is not even enough for me not to talk of it to be enough for my friends and people around me. Not that I am stingy but I am not a generous gambler.

I pinned this,and it's true why will one be a generous gambler when he finally hits losses and problems who will come to my aid .
I was once a generous gambler but certain things changed me, because they said once bitten twice shy.whenever I gamble and win I share my earnings with family and friends a lot times but I came to understand that when I needed help they don't come through for me

Sometimes it's just my immediate family that look out for me but nevertheless I still be that generous but one-day I had a rethink about everything and made a new decisions not to share my earnings anymore to people that don't worth it,so this was how I learnt not to be too generous as regarding earnings from gambling.

[Natalim]

I am not a generous gambler and I can never become one. If I lose the money that I am using to gamble, no one will help me. So why should I win and think of my neighbors or friends? I can not do that. In fact, I bet with little amount of money and if I win I win little amount of money that is not even enough for me not to talk of it to be enough for my friends and people around me. Not that I am stingy but I am not a generous gambler.

I pinned this,and it's true why will one be a generous gambler when he finally hits losses and problems who will come to my aid .
I was once a generous gambler but certain things changed me, because they said once bitten twice shy.whenever I gamble and win I share my earnings with family and friends a lot times but I came to understand that when I needed help they don't come through for me

Sometimes it's just my immediate family that look out for me but nevertheless I still be that generous but one-day I had a rethink about everything and made a new decisions not to share my earnings anymore to people that don't worth it,so this was how I learnt not to be too generous as regarding earnings from gambling.

Every person has their own way of sharing. For me, I am generous when I win in gambling, and I don't mind if those people I share my wins with will change in the future. What's important is now, the present. Whenever we are happy, we like to share it with our friends, especially our family. So personally, I do it without seeking a return. Besides, it's not every day; it's only on an occasional basis when I win in gambling.

[Gheka]

But in the case of this gambler in question,  he believes by gifting out to help his friends, he attract good karma to make him win more and helping his friends more, well my question to him is how much does he win on a regular bases and in proportion to how much he have lost in the past, and what his debt rate is or investment and assets, rhis are what an adult need to check and put in place before setting out to become a philanthropist gambler.

Before any individual should decide to become philanthropist gambler or a generous gambler he has to be making profits in a large amount. You can't be making just small profits and decide to start giving out money when you don't have enough reserve to use in playing more games so you can increase your chances of winning more money. You shouldn't become a generous giver when you're still struggling or you'll also put yourself into the position of those you were helping.

Our generosity shouldn't exceed our expenses limit, don't get pressure to being generous when you haven't achieved your aim for gambling. If you're gambling for entertainment you don't have any problem but for an individual that wants to make profits from gambling, we shouldn't start giving away money when we can keep them and use them usefully when we'll be in need of balancing our accounts.

 I really agree with your opinion, if we want to be generous people or generous gamblers we have to think about our own interests first, if the winnings and profits are sufficient, our needs are met then it doesn't matter if we also share the winnings with other people. .
Very good advice, we should not force desires that are not necessarily beneficial for us, meaning if we force ourselves to do good but our lives are still not considered worthy, then this will greatly affect the conditions in our daily lives. Instead of wanting to be generous to others, we ourselves still need help from others, just as we lie to ourselves.

Thinking about personal benefits very little but thinking about their own reputation perhaps more, it is clear that gamblers show generosity only to defend their dignity and their unbowedness to the results, as generous as a heavy stone worn on each person, not accepting the fact that we are inferior to others and lacking conditions is just being more cruel to ourselves. The wise wolves are only stingy and meticulous, they are not generous or gamble freely, boasting seems to attract too much attention and attention from others forces us to live a personality that others want

[teamsherry]

In my opinion you have to first be a generous person before you can the be a generous gambler
It is imperative that you notice that generosity goes beyond gambling
It is a reflection of the kind of person that you are
Having the people close to you,friends and family, in mind when you gamble and hit a jackpot is something that should be commended
I can say I'm a generous gambler because I know how ready I am to do whatever for my family and friends
But it takes an extent of wisdom to achieve this
Gamblers are often associated with greed because most gamblers usually do questionable things to satisfy the gambling urge and this turns around to hurt the very people who you intend to fend for with your winnings
It takes a wise person to be a generous gambler because regardless of how much you want to win and help people you love, the wise ones know when to sit back and cool off and not do any extra

[leonair]

I am not a generous gambler and I can never become one. If I lose the money that I am using to gamble, no one will help me. So why should I win and think of my neighbors or friends? I can not do that. In fact, I bet with little amount of money and if I win I win little amount of money that is not even enough for me not to talk of it to be enough for my friends and people around me. Not that I am stingy but I am not a generous gambler.

It is foolish to think that betting yourself motivated by seeing other people's gambling win or other people's gambling strategy will bring us victory. Gambling is very risky and gambling does not guarantee win for any strategy.  So gambling should always be used with caution. I only gamble when I think I have enough money so wasting a little bit of money on gambling won't hurt my financial situation.  Just then I gamble and only get pleasure and lose that money. i am not also a generous gambler

[pawanjain]

For me, it depends because until today I haven't won anything so big that I can really share with others.
If I win something really really big then I wouldn't hesitate to share with others who are in need of it.
At the same time, it doesn't mean I would share away everything because I have my own goals that I need to fulfill as well.
So I would be sharing a portion of my winning if at all I win big. I hope I do.

[Dewi Aries]

I am not a generous gambler and I can never become one. If I lose the money that I am using to gamble, no one will help me. So why should I win and think of my neighbors or friends? I can not do that. In fact, I bet with little amount of money and if I win I win little amount of money that is not even enough for me not to talk of it to be enough for my friends and people around me. Not that I am stingy but I am not a generous gambler.

It is foolish to think that betting yourself motivated by seeing other people's gambling win or other people's gambling strategy will bring us victory. Gambling is very risky and gambling does not guarantee win for any strategy.  So gambling should always be used with caution. I only gamble when I think I have enough money so wasting a little bit of money on gambling won't hurt my financial situation.  Just then I gamble and only get pleasure and lose that money. i am not also a generous gambler

Yes, it is a belief and belief that is too stupid to apply to gambling, we must understand that gambling moves randomly, or that means victory is always distributed randomly to the gamblers who play, meaning that we can really conclude that it is a fact that gambling is a probability activity that only provides "possibilities" and only luck can lead you to victory at the end of the session. I think there's a lot of evidence to suggest that gambling using someone else's method or strategy that led them to victory is not necessarily going to result in the same victory if you do it.

I'm not saying that you absolutely won't win by using or imitating other people's ways of winning, because you will also be able to get a win if indeed at that time luck comes but maybe with a different amount to the amount that was won by the person you imitated. On the other hand, it is clear that gambling is a risky activity which means that not only the chances of winning but the possibility of losing will also not always be completely avoided and there is absolutely no guarantee that can give you victory, meaning that if it is time for you to lose, you will lose money, and also do not be encouraged by the so-called strategy because this will only make you more serious in terms of treating gambling which is actually just an entertainment activity to fill spare time with a small budget.

[Negotiation]

I am not a generous gambler and I can never become one. If I lose the money that I am using to gamble, no one will help me. So why should I win and think of my neighbors or friends? I can not do that. In fact, I bet with little amount of money and if I win I win little amount of money that is not even enough for me not to talk of it to be enough for my friends and people around me. Not that I am stingy but I am not a generous gambler.

I pinned this,and it's true why will one be a generous gambler when he finally hits losses and problems who will come to my aid .
I was once a generous gambler but certain things changed me, because they said once bitten twice shy.whenever I gamble and win I share my earnings with family and friends a lot times but I came to understand that when I needed help they don't come through for me

Sometimes it's just my immediate family that look out for me but nevertheless I still be that generous but one-day I had a rethink about everything and made a new decisions not to share my earnings anymore to people that don't worth it,so this was how I learnt not to be too generous as regarding earnings from gambling.

I also shared with my friends but I didn't get anyone at the time of need. When I am generous everyone treats me well and everyone is there for me in good times. But when faced with danger there is no need to be generous when there is no one to be found on the side and  all are turned away. I will share my earnings with my family in times of danger no one is there for me except my wife and children. I work hard to earn money but I don't show kindness to anyone else I have been cheated many times.

[noormcs5]

I'm proud to say that I am. If I win big, I usually spend it either on things or experience. Since I don't really focus on gambling a lot like treating it as a job, then a win is already like a bonus for me. There was this one time that I won from a huge parlay, I cashed out a decent amount and spend it directly to buy my daughter her favorite phone, she was happy and I'm happy as well. Not only for my family, I also treat my friends going outside for a drink, at the end of the day, I'll just think that it's instant money and it's worth to spend it since winning does not come often.

That's really nice of you to spend your winnings on your family and enjoy with the money. Most people will just keep on playing with their winning amount and lose it in gambling. What's the use of such wins if we do not be able to spend it other than gambliing 

However by "Being generous" means that you are generous to give some amount of winning to someone needy or who is poor and help someone from the winning amount. Those who do this, are really generous people however most people will just say that they are in overall loss, so how they can help the poor ones? Anyways, it's one wish if he wants to help the people or just focus on his development and make oneself life a better place to live.

[Asuspawer09]

I mean for sure sometimes, If I win a huge amount in a bet I mostly treat my friends as well, it just feels good to do it most of the time, especially with your friends knowing that you win a huge amount.

But it wasn't for sure the case most of the time, because there was some part of it that you needed to save at least because it is just profit for sure, I mean personally if I win a huge amount of gambling I usually just buy something that I really wanted to buy for a long time, basically, I become an impulsive buyer every time I win huge just to feel better, In my mind I did win that money really easily so it's gonna be easy as well to spend it at least on something that is going to make me happy. Compared to something like Bitcoin or cryptocurrency investment that I've been holding for a long time it's going to be difficult for me to spend it on something, I'll probably go to spend it on something like an asset probably real estate not just on some wants.

There are also some chances that you become a generous gambler because you just feel alone, for most people that don't really have some kind of real friends they just want all the love and end up treating a lot of their friends. I remember a Bitcoin hacker who is already a Billionaire his just living alone mostly treated his friends go to a bar and everything he just felt so lonely and wanted someone to love him so he ended up treating and giving money to his friends most of the time, in the end his friend stole his Bitcoin and cash on his house, ends up getting discovered by FBI as a Bitcoin hacker related to silk road.

[chaser15]

I wouldn't call it being generous or something. Don't get me wrong here. I called it "human nature".

The reason I say that is because, that is already common here in our society that when someone has extra money, not just thru winning in gambling but for other reasons as well. It's a common trait and behavior here to share extra money with friends and families.

In gambling-related winnings, you can expect most people here to share their blessings even if the winning amount they have got is not that decent.

It's not mandatory to share but become a common practice here since early generations.

[Mahanton]

I wouldn't call it being generous or something. Don't get me wrong here. I called it "human nature".

The reason I say that is because, that is already common here in our society that when someone has extra money, not just thru winning in gambling but for other reasons as well. It's a common trait and behavior here to share extra money with friends and families.

In gambling-related winnings, you can expect most people here to share their blessings even if the winning amount they have got is not that decent.

It's not mandatory to share but become a common practice here since early generations.

I do somewhat agree into this thing on which it do really ends up or looks like some sort of typical gesture on the time that you are really that having those winnings on which you would really be
having that kind of behavior on where you would really be giving something neither into the dealer or with your co fellow gamblers around. Its not that talking about being generous but it is
really something that i can consider to be a gesture to be done by someone.This is why it would really be just that fine since you arent that forced to do so.
Its a self will kind of decision whenever you are really that decided to give or not.

It would really be your choice and since you arent that forced on doing so then it would really be just that fine on having that kind of approach on things. There are really
just those people who are really that putting emphasis whether you should really be giving back something or not.

[Mate2237]

 Generosity is from the mind and when the mind is free then you give to people and when people are free with you, you give them without them asking for it. Though it is not all gamblers that have that free mindset to give. Greediness and stinginess are some of the factors that making people not to give others. Those who are not selfish give others and they generous. I am a very good example of generosity. But there are some people in the gambling arena that if you give them even big amount they are not satisfied. And that make some generous gamblers to be stingy with their money.