Ok so I did Reset Blockchain and Transactions 10 times and didn't work. My bitcoins were still gone and no trace of the transaction.
So I finally had to export all my private keys to a file and put it in Excel. But guess what...The Private key export doesn't link the Public Key to the Private Key so I had 200 Private keys and no way to figure out which matched up to my missing
BTC...nice, job Multibit !
So I just had to try them one by one in Blockchain and eventually I found the right one and was able to sweep my bitcoin into Blockchain.info.
It is absurd and inexcusable that my 7.17 BTC was sitting in that address, CLEARLY on the blockchain, yet Multibit would not let me access it or even let me know they were there or what address they were under.
Anyway bottom line is..
Goodbye Multibit ! I will find some other software that actually works and doesn't try to destroy $3500 of my funds.
So you can make new wallet in MultiBit and import all private key from old wallet and let them to synchronize with blockchain so in new wallet don't have history of transaction and coins maybe back - don't forget to close old wallet before synchronization.....and bay me a few beers with bitcoins if this work.