Can you be bold enough To introduce your gambling Mate To your spouse

[JMBitcointernational]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

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[famososMuertos]

1.- What does your story have to do with betting?
 2.- because we should hide our friendships from whatever it may be to our wife, why?
 3.- Let's say that we have a variety of answers, yes and no.  What would be your conclusion in each case.

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[Nrcewker]

Until and unless you are rich, then it’s fine. But if you are poor and still you are gambling and losing money, and also on the top of that, If you are gambling with your friend, then at that time, your wife might get mad at you. Otherwise in other cases, the wife can take it positively as a normal friend only. So you need to yourself understand that is gambling profitable for you, or not and are you rich enough to gamble or not? Then only take this bold decision.

[Davidvictorson]

Another not so gambling story but since it has the word gambling it seems fit to write it in the gambling discussion board for other users to respond yes or not to or write an epistle that can all be summarized with either a yes or a no.

OP could have just written this in the Off-topic board but didn't.

Other similar topic ideas the OP will try to create in the future

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• Can you be bold enough To introduce your gambling Mate To your priest
• Can you be bold enough To introduce your gambling Mate To your boss
• Can you be bold enough To introduce your gambling Mate To your barber

Do not take it personal but is definitely an off-topic discussion. Mods should move this.

[AnonBitCoiner]

It is all about success if you become successful in some field then you will share that with your family and will feeling bold but if you are not getting enough money and are lossing every day as a result of which your family is facing great troubles then you will not feeling bold for your activities.

In our society gambling is not consider as a good thing that's why no one can speak about it boldly and if someone gamble with his friends then I think he will not introduce him with such a shouted voice. Even though a wife also don't want his husband to be a gambler in this society or if she knows about his gambling habit before marriage then she will not accept such relationship.

[michellee]

If I were him, I wouldn't introduce my gambling friends to my wife. I would prefer to keep it hidden from my wife. Even though my wife can accept my gambling activities, that doesn't mean I have to introduce my gambling friends.

I do not tell other people about my gambling activities, including my gambling friends. I don't have many gambling friends because I hide my gambling activities. Telling our gambling friends to our wife or husband means we have to choose friends who we can introduce to our wife or husband.

And we should not introduce them to the public. That can trigger other people to think badly of us.

[Oshosondy]

Do you know that as some people will hide from their wife their gambling activities, some people will not hide such a thing from their wife.  Some people will even gamble with their wives.

Women do not have problem in seeing their husband gambling if the husband is doing it responsibly and if the husband is taking care of the family in the way the wife really appreciates.

[Stable090]

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Why will I meet you, and you will introduce me to your family member as a gambler, it doesn’t make any sense to me, and it’s even at a public place, not everyone that want people to know that they are gambler, or maybe am hiding my gambling activities from my wife. When you meet someone you have met for a long time, you should always mind your speech, you shouldn’t talk anyhow most especially when you are with people, their are some things that happened in the past which are suppose to be in the past. If you are joking with things like that, then it should be when you are alone with the person, and not when you are in public, or when the person is with his family members.

[Assface16678]

Well, this situation can be avoided, the man could easily introduce the friend he sees in the bus as a normal friend, no need to openlynor announce that, it is your friend from gambling, but this is applicable if you are not open to your wife or relationship about your gambling activities or gambling hobby, but if yes then I don't thimk there's a problem with that, as long as the husband know its limit and is not affecting their financial state or their family because of its gambling then I don't see a problem with introducing its gambling mate, in fact it is a good thing so the other partner know who is with his husband and he can have someone to contact if they are in their gambling session, so in short it will depends if both partner are open about gambling activities then I don't see a reason to hide it.

[Samlucky O]

the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

I don't think so. I can only introduce my gambling mate to my wife if only I have stopped gambling or reduced the rate of gambling addiction or probably may have won big in gambling, Because women naturally hate Gamblers and the sight of anybody who does gambling disgust them. And when they see such person close to their man, they feel unsecured. And also suspect such person of misleeding their man.

[Porfirii]

Introducing your gambling mate to your spouse? This is how it should be.

I mean, if he hid and acted like he didn't know him, it would mean that he felt embarrassed because there was something inconfesable in the act of gambling that united them. But, in the case the OP witnessed, if the man acted naturally probably means he has nothing to hide.

There are other probabilities also. Maybe the man was extrovert, arrogant and dominant, and didn't care about what others could think and say, including his wife. Or maybe his wife is very understanding. We lack information about the case to know the reasons for sure, but chances are that the case cited has little to do with boldness.

[Crypt0Gore]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Well it depends on the man story with gambling so far, what if he is a responsible gambler in from of his wife and she knew that he is not an addict because the husband always gamble with very little amount of money?

There is also a possibility that the wife knew about his husband gambling activities before they get married, maybe its even a possibility that they end up together because of gambling? I bet this man has a very good reason why he is introducing this friend to his wife, believe me, it's a very good reason.

Most men will avoid such introduction, they will only say that the friend is just a friend without going deep into details about gambling, so I believe that there is more we don't know about them, let's not assets anything.

As hard as gambling seem to be, some people are gaining a lot from gambling.

[Alphakilo]

My spouse is my friend and not my commanding officer that I need to summon the courage to introduce my gambling buddy to. It's not like gambling is a crime or something illegal that I must hide from my partner. My partner should know my friends just as I should know hers too. That is a healthy relationship that is built on trust and openness. Anyone who cannot introduce their gambling mate to their spouse is the type of person who hides their gambling activities from their spouse too.

[redsun114]

It depends, for someone who gambles openly and their family knows they do it, they wouldn't hesitate to do such a thing because the spouse or any other family member would know they gamble and they have nothing to hide about it. On the other hand, a person who gambles secretly and hides their gambling activities from his wife and family, he wouldn't do such a thing and they would rather want their gambling mate to not see them with their family because if they approach them and say something, their secret will no longer be a secret.

I believe a person who is a responsible gambler and he manages everything else very well like the expenses of the family and household, he wouldn't need to hide anything and they can gamble without any hesitation if they know they have enough money left to do that and the spouse wouldn't have a problem with that.

[swogerino]

My spouse is my friend and not my commanding officer that I need to summon the courage to introduce my gambling buddy to. It's not like gambling is a crime or something illegal that I must hide from my partner. My partner should know my friends just as I should know hers too. That is a healthy relationship that is built on trust and openness. Anyone who cannot introduce their gambling mate to their spouse is the type of person who hides their gambling activities from their spouse too.

I am in the same situation,my spouse know that I gamble the hell out of it but I told her the budget I use in total for a month and she agrees with that.I don't have a gambling mate,gambling mates go well with each other until they keep losing almost every time,once wins start to come the friendship ends shattered because no one of them is fair enough to share the winnings with each other,just like normal partners or mates in business would do,I don't see how this kind of friendship can last if there is money involved there and as we know money ruins everything,absolutely everything when you don't know how to handle it.

[indah rezqi]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Gambling mate? That is a sad phrase if that is how you see someone. Presumably you have some other kinds of interests and your sole connection was not through gambling. It might have been the first time you met, but I would never think to categorize someone like that and if you do, maybe you actually have a problem. You must have bonded on plenty of other topics, so why even bother mention gambling as a big part of why you have an ongoing friendship. I would introduce a true friend to my partner at any point, but you might create a negative connection in your partners mind as many people have bad thoughts about gambling and this may cause future problems in your friendship if you did.

He has been my friend since childhood and we spent a lot of time together, I think that phrase sounds better for maintaining a friendly relationship. Indirectly, our partner will definitely know that our friend is a gambler too, we don't need to say it directly. I agree with what you say, many people have negative thoughts towards gambling, categorizing someone as a gambling friend seems wrong. It's even better if not many people know about our gambling habits, including our own partners.

Everyone has social habits, and we can be sure that they have a lot in common, including gambling. The social environment will very easily detect the habits of a group of friends just by knowing about one person, without needing to explain further. It could be that by using the wrong way when introducing friends, your partner will one day ask to limit their meetings or invitations. It would be better if we looked for other expressions besides gambling friends.

[Natsuu]

Until and unless you are rich, then it’s fine. But if you are poor and still you are gambling and losing money, and also on the top of that, If you are gambling with your friend, then at that time, your wife might get mad at you. Otherwise in other cases, the wife can take it positively as a normal friend only. So you need to yourself understand that is gambling profitable for you, or not and are you rich enough to gamble or not? Then only take this bold decision.

I agree with this. It's a shame that you alone is not succeeding in your pursuit in gambling, yet you want to introduce another person in your family/ spouse just like you are enjoying losing. Because if you are in need for money and extra income, you won't mind things like this. But how to make money solely. Let alone your friend you wanted to introduce. That would make your wife feel less important because you are spending more of your time with your friend gambling, instead of doing real job or spending your quality time with your family.

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Yes, I can confidently introduce my gambling buddy to my spouse because we share the same views on gambling. We are open and transparent about our hobbies and activities, so I feel comfortable doing so. I believe she would understand and accept this aspect of my life, and of course, I would do the same for her. She probably wouldn't think anything else since we're both men, but I'm not sure if it would be the same if it were the opposite sex. Even I, as a man, might have different thoughts and doubts if she introduced a man to me.

[alani123]

Honestly some people aren't for everything but if I become good enough friends with someone and I can tolerate them I should have no problem introducing them to my spouse.
I think this is more of a philosophical and social issue rather than a gambling one.

For instance, I believe that If a have a weird friend, maybe I'd keep them away from my parents but if I have to keep them away from my spouse then something is wrong. Our spouse is someone we chose and trust and we should trust them with anything really. If not our friends, even the ones we made gambling, then what can we trust him/her with? Just think about it. Just because you met someone gambling doesn't mean they're a bad person.

[AmoreJaz]

Yes, I can confidently introduce my gambling buddy to my spouse because we share the same views on gambling. We are open and transparent about our hobbies and activities, so I feel comfortable doing so. I believe she would understand and accept this aspect of my life, and of course, I would do the same for her. She probably wouldn't think anything else since we're both men, but I'm not sure if it would be the same if it were the opposite sex. Even I, as a man, might have different thoughts and doubts if she introduced a man to me.

I believe, if your spouse knows you are gambling from time to time, she won't be surprised if one day, you will introduce her to your gambling buddies. But if you are hiding your gambling activities, then, I think that's when you will be hesitant to introduce her to your gambling friends.

Until and unless you are rich, then it’s fine. But if you are poor and still you are gambling and losing money, and also on the top of that, If you are gambling with your friend, then at that time, your wife might get mad at you. Otherwise in other cases, the wife can take it positively as a normal friend only. So you need to yourself understand that is gambling profitable for you, or not and are you rich enough to gamble or not? Then only take this bold decision.

I agree with this. It's a shame that you alone is not succeeding in your pursuit in gambling, yet you want to introduce another person in your family/ spouse just like you are enjoying losing. Because if you are in need for money and extra income, you won't mind things like this. But how to make money solely. Let alone your friend you wanted to introduce. That would make your wife feel less important because you are spending more of your time with your friend gambling, instead of doing real job or spending your quality time with your family.

This goes to show that every gambler can have different approach on this matter depending on his financial capabilities and how his spouse is oriented about his gambling activities. The story of the OP seemed to be just like introducing a casual friend because he felt he didn't need to pretend on that situation. He knew for sure how his spouse will react even if he said he is like only a gambling friend. 

[Ambatman]

Personally won't, I'm not sure is something I can be proud of since am well aware that am not skilled or the lover of lady luck.
It still depends on the partner though
If they find nothing wrong with it or you showing evidence that you a successful gambler
Then you can showcase your friends and be proud
Because your money speak for itself.

[ultrloa]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Nothing wrong to be a gambler actually and it depends on how a person deal with it. If he portrays something abusive and other harmful thing then that's how you should start not to be proud of yourself. But if you came clean and can able to provide your obligation then show to other person that gambling didn't give much bad effect but rather it give you some happiness since it exercise your brain then all is fine. Maybe that guy is really open with all activity he participated that's why he's so confident that nothing will be change and the wife can give a good approach to deal with such situation on nice way. Also I can introduce my gambling buddy to my wife as long as I know the person I introduce to her is harmful and deserve to be known so that no secrets will happen and she knows who are those persons I am dealing with when the time I decide to gamble with my friends around.

[TopT3ns]

Personally won't, I'm not sure is something I can be proud of since am well aware that am not skilled or the lover of lady luck.
It still depends on the partner though
If they find nothing wrong with it or you showing evidence that you a successful gambler
Then you can showcase your friends and be proud
Because your money speak for itself.

When we introduce gambling to the partner we have, it will only make us potentially damage the relationship with the partner we have. Gambling sometimes has extraordinary addictive properties and usually this will cause losses for the couple, one of whom is addicted to gambling places. There is no guarantee of the profits we get from the gambling we do, so when today I show off to many people with the wins I get, it could be that next time I have to lose because of and reflect on the losses I received. So your choice not to introduce gambling to your loved ones is correct because this is very scary and it is not good to introduce gambling to people we love.

[EarnOnVictor]

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Before I answer your question, let me try to respond to your curiosity about the whole episode. You should know that gambling is not as bad as some people take it, and at times, you may think it is a regular gambling mate but could be a gaming partner. Regardless, the wife knows his husband, and for the guy to have boldly introduced his gambling mate means that they are not irresponsible. If they were irresponsible towards gambling, it would rather be a different thing entirely and the guy would not be so bold to introduce such a person. Even if he saw him, they might have greeted casually, and nothing more, to have warranted further introducing the relationship they have together.

For the record, I know spouses who are gambling and nothing bad is happening in the marriage, and in some cases, it is the woman and not the man to surprise you. It only depends on how we engage in gambling, and if it's positive, I do not see any reason why it should be a stereotypical affair that the spouse would be ashamed of.

however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Yes, but on one condition. I must be responsible in doing it and the gambling mate must be presentable. However, I do not see this coming because I am a private person which my wife knows of and appreciates so much. Such as a gambling mate would have been priorly discussed with her if there was any. For this, it would be a rude shock to her in that circumstance.

[dezoel]

Until and unless you are rich, then it’s fine. But if you are poor and still you are gambling and losing money, and also on the top of that, If you are gambling with your friend, then at that time, your wife might get mad at you. Otherwise in other cases, the wife can take it positively as a normal friend only. So you need to yourself understand that is gambling profitable for you, or not and are you rich enough to gamble or not? Then only take this bold decision.

I agree with this. It's a shame that you alone is not succeeding in your pursuit in gambling, yet you want to introduce another person in your family/ spouse just like you are enjoying losing. Because if you are in need for money and extra income, you won't mind things like this. But how to make money solely. Let alone your friend you wanted to introduce. That would make your wife feel less important because you are spending more of your time with your friend gambling, instead of doing real job or spending your quality time with your family.

All of us wants or need a money to live but a lot of us don't see gambling as main provider of it because we know that it's almost impossible. I'm only referring to the normal gamblers because there are still gambling streamers, pro gamblers, and the likes who can make a living with it successfully.

If only we are like this, I don't think there is anything wrong introducing our gambling mates to our spouse. It's only the same as introducing our workmates to them. As a wife or husband, we know our obligations and we are not like those irresponsible gamblers who can't think properly anymore to do what's right or know what is wrong.

[dansus021]

I mean based on your story there is nothing wrong with it I mean gambling in some countries is legal and when gambling is legal I believe people occasionally greet and chat about gambling or something like that tho it would be very different if you doing this in front of a lot of people and talk in country that prohibited gamble sure it gonna led to police hahaha.

[Julien_Olynpic]

If you control your spending on the game and your wife knows about your hobby, then you have no reason to worry. Such reasons can only appear if your wife has a bad character. Either you are losing a lot of money on the game, and your family needs money. And by the way, it rarely happens that both husband and wife gamble together. However, sometimes this happens, but usually it doesn’t look much like marriage. Usually this is the cohabitation of two gambling addicts. But sooner or later they begin to compete over money and such cohabitation breaks up.

[qwertyup23]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

I think it depends on the setup with your spouse if you are confident enough to let her know about your gambling habits.

If your gambling habits does not interfere in fullfilling your responsibility as a husband to your family, then I do not see any reason on why NOT to tell your wife about the friends you met along the way. Additionally, having to introduce a friend to your wife should be a no brainer considering that you should keep no secrets or anything whatsoever with your partner.

At the end of the day, you must be fully transparent with your spouse about everything. If you want to have a happy marriage that consist of no secrets, then be ready to tell everything even if it may prejudice you.

[Jawhead999]

Nope, I won't introduce my gambling mate to my spouse, actually I have never tell my spouse if I'm a gambler.

There's nothing important if someone know if I'm a gambler, if she know I'm a gambler, she might ask me to stop gamble, so why I need to risk anything if silent is better?

As long as someone can control themselves during gamble, they won't become an addict, so gambling shouldn't be blamed.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

Yesterday something happened I Was shocked And speechless, because I know quite Alright that I cannot even try it with My Wife . I Was standing patiently AT the Bus Station waiting for Bus with so many other Persons there Too with same reason , a man walked To bus Station with his Wife And he saw one of his friends sitting down with us and he shouted his name ‘charles’ you are here ,And immediately he Turned To his Wife ‘darling ‘ meet My Friend Charles we both play gamble AT same place And the Wife responded positively.

At that point I Was a bit confused If the man is actually proud To announce To us that he is a gambler or If he does not have any other way of introducing his Friend to his Wife , though I kept every of My thought in My mind because speaking it out will not make any difference.however, the question here is ‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

If you're a responsible gambler, and those around you have no issue to complain about from how you gambles, then it should not be a difficult task to introduce your fellow gambling friend to your spouse, but why many can indulge in avoiding this is when they have hidden agenda or bad reputation in the past, they may try to avoid such, this calls for us to always think twice before taking some actions in life, we have to be very considerate as well in everything we are doing, we should not ride on others peoples right, because we don't know what the future may say.

[_act_]

There's nothing important if someone know if I'm a gambler, if she know I'm a gambler, she might ask me to stop gamble, so why I need to risk anything if silent is better?

As long as someone can control themselves during gamble, they won't become an addict, so gambling shouldn't be blamed.

You are right that if someone can control himself that gambling should not be blamed. But people that are bread winners of their family can not be questioned by his wife or told by his wife not to gamble again except the person is addicted to gambling and losing money to gambling. Nobody will like that.

[Adbitco]

There is nothing wrong introducing a friend as someone whom you have gambled with before but what you should look out is the state of your wife, I mean the kind of person your wife is before introducing someone as a fellow gambler. Let say does your wife hate and dislike anything relate to gambling or has she in any day speak against gambling if 'Yes' then you should know that the man did a very wrong thing and if 'No' then there is not wrong with it. People are different so could their wife be different in their reactions and for me there is no big deal for me to do that provided that my wife is not anti-gambler then I am free to tell her about any person whom has been gambling with me for the past.

[SmartGold01]

3.- Let's say that we have a variety of answers, yes and no.  What would be your conclusion in each case.

Did op forgot that there are women who gambles irrespective that I don't gamble regularly doesn't mean I can't talk about gambling or introduce a fellow woman to my husband as gambler. In as much as my partners that I gamble then it's fine to tell someone Mrs. B was my mate then in school or back then at St. Patrick Lodge. Does this change anything from me or my Girlfriend to my Husband, Okay as woman why would you hide yourself from your husband that you gamble while you gamble. This shows insincerity between you both but some how trying to pretends life with your spouse, so he deserved to know whether you are gambler or not.

[moneystery]

i think that it is not necessary for me to introduce that my friend is my gambling friend, because there is no point either or maybe my friend is not comfortable that i exposed his gambling habit. so to avoid problems, maybe i'll say that he's just a friend and there's no need to discuss our gambling too much.

[boyptc]

You just heard it and that's their business.

If you happen to be at the same situation, keep your opinion to yourself because not everyone needs to provide answers if that guy is proud or not or just someone who's happy to introduce the friend he met in the gambling house.

Well, if we overhear things and we're interested to meddle with their affairs and things run into our mind on what they're thinking, it's best to keep it to ourselves.

[peter0425]

It seems to me that the couple you saw has a healthy and honest relationship lol

Maybe the husband gambles responsibly and is not really that serious about it. Come on mate I know so many people who play cards or other games and gamble but it does not mean that they are doing it excessively and/or trying to make profit out of it. If they are honest and happy with each other then why would one be scared of introducing his friends to his wife?

[kotajikikox]

‘can you be bold enough to introduce your gambling mate to your wife’.

Why are you so scared of letting your wife know that you gamble? 

In my opinion I think it is better to have everything out in the open and let each other be the judge of whether that is good or not. I believe once you start avoiding conflict, your relationship is done. Instead of avoiding fights, learn how to manage them and deal with it.

If there’s nothing to hide then why don’t you just say it to your wife? I think she’ll be more relieved to know someone you spend a lot of time with (assuming he spends a lot of time in gambling).

[Cryptoprincess101]

Introducing a gambling friend to your spouse depends on your understanding with your wife because before someone introduced a gambling friend to the wife means that the wife is aware that his spouse is a gambler and possibly succeeds in his gambling because it is always difficult for a woman to see you with people who doesn't add value to your life more so to the extent of gambling being the subject here.

 Making your gambling activities known to your wife is not bad because she will also guide you on how not to become an addict or emotionally attached such that sometimes when you lose she will be the one to comfort you and remind you of the previous times you also won and did something meaningful with the money.

[Loveday422]

Gambling is not a good harbit over the years ,so with this one is supposed to know that what ever you are doing should be done secretly,not to open it to the whole world for me no matter how I win or lose know body knows how it is
So introducing it to your spouse I think is wrong except,your wife also play game before you people meet