What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation like this?

[aioc]

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

You should understand the reaction and what your parent felt, they felt betrayed, you failed them, and they thought they could trust you because you are their son, there's nothing you can do but accept their punishment and harsh words.

The best thing you can do is to repay the amount you lose and regain their trust by not playing again until the time that you can sustain yourself and gamble with your own money.

Parents can easily forgive their children that tries to mend their ways.

[klidex]

If I were in a situation like this man, I would definitely feel depressed because I have used all the savings of my parents who have trusted me all this time and will do anything to make my parents forgive me again and promise not to do it again and not gamble carelessly or use their money again if they entrust it to me, but I know for sure they are very disappointed and don't want to trust me anymore but slowly I will convince my parents by replacing all the money they have deposited into my account by doing any work, let's just say I'm taking out a loan and I have to return it somehow.

And it may be difficult to regain their trust, especially if we are blinded by the desire to gamble but don't have the money so we are forced to use other people's money and when we lose and the money runs out we realize that what we did was wrong. If we are trusted by someone, don't disappoint them by doing something wrong. This is detrimental to them, especially when it comes to trust and money because when our situation is difficult and we need help, they will no longer trust us.

[jcojci]

The man had to admit his big mistake to his parents. After all, it was his mistake that had made his parents very angry and perhaps unable to accept his mistake. He must be able to return all the money in whatever way he can to regain his parents' trust again even though his parents may find it difficult to give him their trust. But the man should have done better so that his parents could trust him and this was a difficult thing because he had to be able to prove it to his parents so they could trust him again. It will be a matter of time and in the meantime, he could do a lot to restore his parents' trust.

[Gaza13]

Parents will not trust him again because there is not a matter of just losing money but their son is involved in gambling and one cannot easily trust a gambler in future. Gambler will show you that he has changed his whole lifestyle and now he will not gamble but again he will break your trust by doing something worse just to get money for gambling.

Keeping a check on today's generation has become so difficult because they are experts in doing bad activities without letting it know to their parents. So we should not allow our children to be in contact with bad friends and don't allow them such a huge amount of money because money makes the teenager a part of gambling and other bad activities.

Yes, trust is like a piece of paper that you hold in your hand, the paper doesn't return to the way it was before. It seems that it must be difficult to forgive the child. The reason is that the money his parents worked hard for all this time was used uselessly and in vain. It's true what you say, it's the development of the times that makes it very easy for today's young generation to access anything on their cellphones, the method you mentioned above, by not interacting with bad friends or not giving pocket money to the child, this could be effective in preventing children from gambling again and has a deterrent effect on children.

[piebeyb]

The man had to admit his big mistake to his parents. After all, it was his mistake that had made his parents very angry and perhaps unable to accept his mistake. He must be able to return all the money in whatever way he can to regain his parents' trust again even though his parents may find it difficult to give him their trust. But the man should have done better so that his parents could trust him and this was a difficult thing because he had to be able to prove it to his parents so they could trust him again. It will be a matter of time and in the meantime, he could do a lot to restore his parents' trust.

I think this happens almost everywhere, for example my friend, he sold all his parents' assets without his parents knowing, until in the end his parents found out that they were very disappointed to see their child's behavior so far, they thought they were good children, but In fact, it actually hurt his parents, even though my friend was a good person before, maybe because he was in the wrong company, his close friends taught him to gamble, which made his life chaotic and had to lie to his parents.

But luckily he realized that after getting advice from his friends including me, he was finally honest and admitted it to his parents so that finally his parents were willing to understand him, because every human being must have made mistakes and his parents wanted to understand that, finally slowly all the assets he had sold previously bought again just to prove that he really changed completely and doesn't gamble anymore, this is where we can learn the lesson that never gamble using other people's money, especially our parents' money, even if you feel like gambling, it's better to work and look for side money to gamble. because it's better than using parents' money.

[Dewi Aries]

Parents will not trust him again because there is not a matter of just losing money but their son is involved in gambling and one cannot easily trust a gambler in future. Gambler will show you that he has changed his whole lifestyle and now he will not gamble but again he will break your trust by doing something worse just to get money for gambling.

Keeping a check on today's generation has become so difficult because they are experts in doing bad activities without letting it know to their parents. So we should not allow our children to be in contact with bad friends and don't allow them such a huge amount of money because money makes the teenager a part of gambling and other bad activities.

Yes, trust is like a piece of paper that you hold in your hand, the paper doesn't return to the way it was before. It seems that it must be difficult to forgive the child. The reason is that the money his parents worked hard for all this time was used uselessly and in vain. It's true what you say, it's the development of the times that makes it very easy for today's young generation to access anything on their cellphones, the method you mentioned above, by not interacting with bad friends or not giving pocket money to the child, this could be effective in preventing children from gambling again and has a deterrent effect on children.

On the other hand yes maybe it is an act that is difficult for his parents to forgive when his son uses the money from his father's hard work to gamble and in the end loses the money because of defeat, but on the other hand I think in the end his parents will certainly forgive his son's actions because however and no matter how bad a child's behavior is he is their child, and also another thing is enough to be a question for me that there is a possibility that when it turns out that his son wins then maybe his parents will smile

But forget about that, let's go back to the original context that after all this is a disgraceful behavior committed by his son and I hope his parents can tell and teach him that his actions are very wrong. On the other hand yes it is true and I agree with you that nowadays the times are very modern especially the digital world where we can find everything just by opening the internet, there are many positive and negative things in it and it is not uncommon for some people to fall into the wrong path such as getting involved in online gambling thinking that they will be able to get a lot of money there which is clear that it is the wrong mindset if it is brought to gambling, honestly I don't know about the effective way to get children to stop gambling, but certainly reducing their pocket money and also limiting them in terms of using smart phones might work.

[Doan9269]

I don't know if i should even blame the father along the way because he would have known his son attitude before handling over the money to him in his possession, there are things in which before we took action for, we would have known the kind of person we are dealing with, and in this condition, this was his son we are talking about, though the son have also disappointed himself and i don't think he will ever get that kind of trust again to handle anything that has to do with money.

[retreat]

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Parents can easily forgive their children that tries to mend their ways.

But in this case it seems that his parents will be very disappointed in him, because all this time his parents entrusted all their money to him, but he abused that trust by gambling all the money away. Even when I imagine being his parents, I really feel sorry for them and can't imagine how emotional and disappointed his parents would be towards him. Hopefully his parents won't have a heart attack when they find out about this.

[South Park]

So, ladies and gents,

Here is a dude who parents trusted well enough to save their money in his bank account, that is, father of this dude (according to the dude) saved all his money on his son's (the dude) bank account, the dude went ahead to start doing sports betting with the money, and like this like this normally turns out most of the time, he eventually lost all the money the father saved with him without the parents knowing.

Later on, the parents found out and became very angry with him, he is thinking of how to handle the situation but doesn't know exactly what to do,
And let's say he somehow manages to replace the money, either by means of borrowing or working menial jobs to raise the money, will his parents ever trust him again to save large sum of money with him?

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

I am sure that a great deal of the forum members here will never find themselves in that situation, after all we believe on the proverb “not your keys, not your coins”, so I would never allow a son that is likely young and inexperienced to have so much money at their disposal, but assuming that it happened, the condition for my forgiveness will be very straightforward, the son has to recover all the money lost by working and the money has to be deposited to my own bank account, this way he will understand the true value of money and how difficult it is to earn it.

[jcojci]

The man had to admit his big mistake to his parents. After all, it was his mistake that had made his parents very angry and perhaps unable to accept his mistake. He must be able to return all the money in whatever way he can to regain his parents' trust again even though his parents may find it difficult to give him their trust. But the man should have done better so that his parents could trust him and this was a difficult thing because he had to be able to prove it to his parents so they could trust him again. It will be a matter of time and in the meantime, he could do a lot to restore his parents' trust.

I think this happens almost everywhere, for example my friend, he sold all his parents' assets without his parents knowing, until in the end his parents found out that they were very disappointed to see their child's behavior so far, they thought they were good children, but In fact, it actually hurt his parents, even though my friend was a good person before, maybe because he was in the wrong company, his close friends taught him to gamble, which made his life chaotic and had to lie to his parents.

But luckily he realized that after getting advice from his friends including me, he was finally honest and admitted it to his parents so that finally his parents were willing to understand him, because every human being must have made mistakes and his parents wanted to understand that, finally slowly all the assets he had sold previously bought again just to prove that he really changed completely and doesn't gamble anymore, this is where we can learn the lesson that never gamble using other people's money, especially our parents' money, even if you feel like gambling, it's better to work and look for side money to gamble. because it's better than using parents' money.

We have seen this happen to some of our friends and even experienced it ourselves. But we can't do anything because it has happened and we can only admit that it was a mistake we made. We must be able to prove that we have really changed and don't want to do that anymore and we must not stop until we gain the trust of our parents. Trust is difficult to maintain, so we must guard it well and not violate it.

By always maintaining that trust, we can correct the mistakes we make, and slowly, our parents will give us trust again, and we have to really look after it. And we also have to remember that trust is hard to earn.

[Assface16678]

The man had to admit his big mistake to his parents. After all, it was his mistake that had made his parents very angry and perhaps unable to accept his mistake. He must be able to return all the money in whatever way he can to regain his parents' trust again even though his parents may find it difficult to give him their trust. But the man should have done better so that his parents could trust him and this was a difficult thing because he had to be able to prove it to his parents so they could trust him again. It will be a matter of time and in the meantime, he could do a lot to restore his parents' trust.

I think this happens almost everywhere, for example my friend, he sold all his parents' assets without his parents knowing, until in the end his parents found out that they were very disappointed to see their child's behavior so far, they thought they were good children, but In fact, it actually hurt his parents, even though my friend was a good person before, maybe because he was in the wrong company, his close friends taught him to gamble, which made his life chaotic and had to lie to his parents.

But luckily he realized that after getting advice from his friends including me, he was finally honest and admitted it to his parents so that finally his parents were willing to understand him, because every human being must have made mistakes and his parents wanted to understand that, finally slowly all the assets he had sold previously bought again just to prove that he really changed completely and doesn't gamble anymore, this is where we can learn the lesson that never gamble using other people's money, especially our parents' money, even if you feel like gambling, it's better to work and look for side money to gamble. because it's better than using parents' money.

We have seen this happen to some of our friends and even experienced it ourselves. But we can't do anything because it has happened and we can only admit that it was a mistake we made. We must be able to prove that we have really changed and don't want to do that anymore and we must not stop until we gain the trust of our parents. Trust is difficult to maintain, so we must guard it well and not violate it.

By always maintaining that trust, we can correct the mistakes we make, and slowly, our parents will give us trust again, and we have to really look after it. And we also have to remember that trust is hard to earn.

I think the only will remain or be fixed it the mistake and the anger of the parents but trusting their son again just like that, I don't think they will ever do that again, maybe in terms of saving the money to the son's bank account, they will still trust him but not in terms of money, the thing is the parents know that once a person become addicted to gambling and use the money of others or even thought they know the importance of the money and still use it then it will be difficult to trust the money on that person again, imagine the son know how important that money to his parents and still manage to lose it all, I know the son is regretting but for the sake of the parents money and if I were the parents I will never ever trust that son again in terms of money or savings because if he does it once for sure there will be a point that he will lose control and spend it all again.

[jcojci]

The man had to admit his big mistake to his parents. After all, it was his mistake that had made his parents very angry and perhaps unable to accept his mistake. He must be able to return all the money in whatever way he can to regain his parents' trust again even though his parents may find it difficult to give him their trust. But the man should have done better so that his parents could trust him and this was a difficult thing because he had to be able to prove it to his parents so they could trust him again. It will be a matter of time and in the meantime, he could do a lot to restore his parents' trust.

I think this happens almost everywhere, for example my friend, he sold all his parents' assets without his parents knowing, until in the end his parents found out that they were very disappointed to see their child's behavior so far, they thought they were good children, but In fact, it actually hurt his parents, even though my friend was a good person before, maybe because he was in the wrong company, his close friends taught him to gamble, which made his life chaotic and had to lie to his parents.

But luckily he realized that after getting advice from his friends including me, he was finally honest and admitted it to his parents so that finally his parents were willing to understand him, because every human being must have made mistakes and his parents wanted to understand that, finally slowly all the assets he had sold previously bought again just to prove that he really changed completely and doesn't gamble anymore, this is where we can learn the lesson that never gamble using other people's money, especially our parents' money, even if you feel like gambling, it's better to work and look for side money to gamble. because it's better than using parents' money.

We have seen this happen to some of our friends and even experienced it ourselves. But we can't do anything because it has happened and we can only admit that it was a mistake we made. We must be able to prove that we have really changed and don't want to do that anymore and we must not stop until we gain the trust of our parents. Trust is difficult to maintain, so we must guard it well and not violate it.

By always maintaining that trust, we can correct the mistakes we make, and slowly, our parents will give us trust again, and we have to really look after it. And we also have to remember that trust is hard to earn.

I think the only will remain or be fixed it the mistake and the anger of the parents but trusting their son again just like that, I don't think they will ever do that again, maybe in terms of saving the money to the son's bank account, they will still trust him but not in terms of money, the thing is the parents know that once a person become addicted to gambling and use the money of others or even thought they know the importance of the money and still use it then it will be difficult to trust the money on that person again, imagine the son know how important that money to his parents and still manage to lose it all, I know the son is regretting but for the sake of the parents money and if I were the parents I will never ever trust that son again in terms of money or savings because if he does it once for sure there will be a point that he will lose control and spend it all again.

He must be able to gain his parents' trust no matter how difficult it is because they are his parents. He caused the problem, so he must be responsible for gaining his parents' trust, and everything must be done even though it takes a long time. He should regret disappointing his parents and try hard to regain their parents' trust. He could have worked to earn money so he could return the money to his parents and gain their parents' trust and it was worth a try. He will never know which path can help him gain his parents' trust. If he can gain his parents' trust later, he must look after himself well and not disappoint his parents again because he can return to his parents well.

[Outhue]

The confidence that this guy has to use someone's money in gambling is evil, I called it evil because they are greedy and selfish, they dont care about what could happen to the money and also they felt nothing when the parent give him thr money to keep, I would have feel trust right away if my parent gave me money to keep, that shows they trust me, I wouldn't want to break that trust.

Now his parents will never trust him again, I have siblings that can't be trusted when it comes to money, in short we are not in good terms because of it, they take loan here and there and they most times get arrested by the people they are owing.

I hope he find a way to keep this trust in checked, and normally I won't trust a human like me when money is involved, even those who you respect so much are still lacking, even if they dont look like it, they will gladly use your money and may find it difficult to pay it back.

[irhact]

The confidence that this guy has to use someone's money in gambling is evil, I called it evil because they are greedy and selfish, they dont care about what could happen to the money and also they felt nothing when the parent give him thr money to keep, I would have feel trust right away if my parent gave me money to keep, that shows they trust me, I wouldn't want to break that trust.

Atleast he's learnt a huge lesson, it's never good to take risks with someone else's funds, gambling is risky and it's also a game of luck and it's been advised that individuals should risk what they can afford to lose, therefore i wonder why anyone would want to risk someone else's money on it without having a second thought on the consequences it they lose. I wonder if the parents of that bettor would ever forgive him for such.

 If he had invested the money on some more profitable like buying Bitcoin and holding for long term, atleast he could pay them back during a bull run or if he had invested in other profitable business he would've been able to pay back and earn their trust again. Some parents, won't disown their child if they invested that money on something better they might only feel bad for a while for not informing them.

[South Park]

The confidence that this guy has to use someone's money in gambling is evil, I called it evil because they are greedy and selfish, they dont care about what could happen to the money and also they felt nothing when the parent give him thr money to keep, I would have feel trust right away if my parent gave me money to keep, that shows they trust me, I wouldn't want to break that trust.

Atleast he's learnt a huge lesson, it's never good to take risks with someone else's funds, gambling is risky and it's also a game of luck and it's been advised that individuals should risk what they can afford to lose, therefore i wonder why anyone would want to risk someone else's money on it without having a second thought on the consequences it they lose. I wonder if the parents of that bettor would ever forgive him for such.

 If he had invested the money on some more profitable like buying Bitcoin and holding for long term, atleast he could pay them back during a bull run or if he had invested in other profitable business he would've been able to pay back and earn their trust again. Some parents, won't disown their child if they invested that money on something better they might only feel bad for a while for not informing them.

While he may feel regret, this does not mean he has learn his lesson, what he needs to do to earn back the trust of his parents is to recover that money, and the way to do this is by getting a job and save what he can until he gets back the amount lost, if he could do that I am sure he could get forgiveness, as making mistakes is part of being young and inexperienced, but right now he is just feeling sorry for himself, when he is not even the victim here.

[Woodie]

Honestly this is a tough one, but we all agree that  mistakes are part of life and a parents love will supersed whatever anger might come as a natural  reaction but once they calm down am pretty sure something can be worked out to find resources for whatever they were saving for...but then again not all parents can react this way, some will disown you and cut ties with the child as the damage could be unbearable to them...

Re: What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation like this?

Honestly if you are going to gamble, gamble with your own money..there is just something about gambling with other people's money that doesn't give you a peace of mind and probably a reason why most lose money as their mind isn't in one place.

[adpinbr]

Looking at things, and the situation of things is very simple. It is just for the person to open up for the parents and tell the parents exactly what happened. It’s not just lying because of the situation trying to defend himself I guess telling the truth is Simple thing to do Telling exactly what happened but you have to use your wisdom because if you lie and you did not plan the very well it’s my turn back to you your parents will never trust it but if you open your phone with you and then if you did or how you did it and it was not, but if you know other better things that you can do how money got lost on the evidence.