money buy happines only if you are a female

[kaya11]

I once saw an interview of a Doctor in Medicine that he has everything he needed but still regretted in the end. He is nearing to his 70's now and he talked about not spending more time about his family. He mostly stayed at the hospital taking care of his patients most of the time whilst sacrificing his own time with family. This teaches us that time is a valuable thing, and it cannot be replaced once passed. Now he spends most of his time giving it to his loved ones to cover things up.

Jobs will sometimes make you secured in your financial struggles but do not forget that the family you have is most likely the reason you have to go to work, so spend more time with them, especially your kids.

[Zanab247]

Your words are very strange. It is never possible to think of happiness in life without money.And if you think like that, women mentality or women. Every person is running after money.Because without money it is not possible to survive in this world for two days.If one acquires talent or learns something creative it is also for earning money.  Of course, that person will not sit around acquiring knowledge.

You can only experience such words from newbies, if you need or want happiness, make sure you have money or you have investments that will be generating you money, and happiness will be there for you as long as you live.

When you have money these days, people in the society will surely respect and willing to be on your side for good because they know that what will make them happy is in your hands which is money, and it will make you happy when you see people respecting you in the society.

That is what some people don't understand, that their qualifications and influence is what will be bring  them money in the future for the happiness to occur.

[tsaroz]

This is an absurd generalization. There are some natural instincts among men and women that may make their financial decisions and priorities a bit different but it's not a good idea to generalize money, happiness and female. There might be societies that considers women inferior or forces them into household chores but at modern time, women are as capable as men in doing non-physical jobs and are an important part of the local and global economy. Women are earning for themselves and investing their own money, they can also spend the money they earn the way they want and buy anything that may make them happy. Same goes with men. The more you are expert in spending your money effectively, the more happiness you get.

[Yucky]

This is not true. It's not just about female and male if you look at it from a broader perspective rather using selected few you've come across to make a general statement. There are females that are not just living thier lives based on how much money they have or or that are trying to just get themselves cloths and other things. Some actually want to impact lives and make there surrounding better and cares little regarding how much is in Thier account.if you look at it from some angle, money isn't bad to start with and you don't tell a man that's after money that he's behaving like a woman. Understand that first of all, you need to have money to take care of yourself and when you've now reached a statement of having personal comfort, you can now think about reaching out to others that aren't financially strong compared to yourself. You don't go about helping others or creating a system that works well for others when you've not sorted yourself out we. It's always self love before extending an helping hands to others.

[SmartCharpa]

After God, money is the second thing you must have because when you have money you will be a happy woman or man and it will be difficult for people to intimidate you anyhow with their money which you have more than them.

You want to marry the most beautiful girl in the society, ensure you are among the billionaires in the society and it will be easy for you to have it, even though there are some guys approaching the girl for relationship or marriage before, but once she discovered that you have money than those guys she will change her attitude to follow you.

When you have money, you will be recognized well by your family members and other members because they know you have what can find solution to their life, because people no longer seek for knowledge or true love these days because they know that when you have the money, knowledge will come and true love will follow.

I agree with you, after God, we need to find money to avoid being underrated by anyone. Money does not buy happiness, but it will make you look responsible to everyone, you cannot be underestimated in the eyes of others. Most girls nowadays want money because some believe that they cannot come from a poor background and still marry someone from a poor family. This happens all the time, a guy may be in a relationship with a girl for 5 years, but when another billionaire sets his eyes on her and wishes to marry her, the girl will change her mind because of money.

It is true, as Op said, that money only makes females happy because they like material things, if any female says that she does not like money or does not marry her wealthy husband because of money, that is a big lie because they are scarce in this generation. Money cannot buy happiness, but it is important in human life.

On the other hand, I've seen people say that knowledge and true love are for those who have no idea what life is about, because how can they feed their families with love and knowledge? And no, they are right, they cannot feed themselves with true love and knowledge, they need money to survive since money helps them to buy everything that they need and stops them from suffering as they did before which is why I don't blame most girls who choose money over love nowadays.

[jrrsparkles]

Everyone have their desires and when they meet it will make them happy, in general we say female love towards materialistic life but men love to buy cars if they have the opportunity it's no different than buying clothes or cosmetics.

Money can buy you happiness that's the end of story.

And whoever says that doesn't have money so they use this as an excuse to convince themselves.

[leonair]

Everyone thinks that the only happiness in the world is money, but it's not like that. If money were everything, there would be no end to rich people like Bill Gates. Many good relationships have been destroyed; they were of many types and lacked any money, yet their relationships survive because money does not do everything, and without money, seeking happiness in the world is nothing but foolishness.
It is better to be content with what you have without regretting anything; it gives you peace of mind.

[AlphaBoy]

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I agree with you, after God, we need to find money to avoid being underrated by anyone. Money does not buy happiness, but it will make you look responsible to everyone, you cannot be underestimated in the eyes of others. Most girls nowadays want money because some believe that they cannot come from a poor background and still marry someone from a poor family. This happens all the time, a guy may be in a relationship with a girl for 5 years, but when another billionaire sets his eyes on her and wishes to marry her, the girl will change her mind because of money.

It is true, as Op said, that money only makes females happy because they like material things, if any female says that she does not like money or does not marry her wealthy husband because of money, that is a big lie because they are scarce in this generation. Money cannot buy happiness, but it is important in human life.

On the other hand, I've seen people say that knowledge and true love are for those who have no idea what life is about, because how can they feed their families with love and knowledge? And no, they are right, they cannot feed themselves with true love and knowledge, they need money to survive since money helps them to buy everything that they need and stops them from suffering as they did before which is why I don't blame most girls who choose money over love nowadays.
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THANK YOU!
finally someone who didn't fall for the lies of the romance novels.

Everyone have their desires and when they meet it will make them happy, in general we say female love towards materialistic life but men love to buy cars if they have the opportunity it's no different than buying clothes or cosmetics.

Money can buy you happiness that's the end of story.

And whoever says that doesn't have money so they use this as an excuse to convince themselves.

money can't buy you happens if you think beyond the material level (which is the level of females)

now I agree 100% that money will never make you go depressed but it can't buy happiness unless your happiness in the materials, I said so many examples about people who were rich and could've been even richer but didn't since there happiness wasn't in money, Mikhail Kalashnikov, Henry Ford, Alfred Nobel, Tesla and many others didn't find happiness just in money but rather of seeing there invention everywhere or making the world better place.

If you think that money can buy you happiness then I'm sorry for you my friend, you have a female mentality.

[jrrsparkles]

Everyone have their desires and when they meet it will make them happy, in general we say female love towards materialistic life but men love to buy cars if they have the opportunity it's no different than buying clothes or cosmetics.

Money can buy you happiness that's the end of story.

And whoever says that doesn't have money so they use this as an excuse to convince themselves.

money can't buy you happens if you think beyond the material level (which is the level of females)

now I agree 100% that money will never make you go depressed but it can't buy happiness unless your happiness in the materials, I said so many examples about people who were rich and could've been even richer but didn't since there happiness wasn't in money, Mikhail Kalashnikov, Henry Ford, Alfred Nobel, Tesla and many others didn't find happiness just in money but rather of seeing there invention everywhere or making the world better place.

If you think that money can buy you happiness then I'm sorry for you my friend, you have a female mentality.

Just as I said everybody have their preferences which maybe a thing or a noble cause but I am just against normalisation of females are materialistic even though most of them are. If rich people think they can make everyone in this world rich overnight because that much money they are hoarding but they won't so it says that fact no matter how much money a man have still he isn't satisfied.

[MissNonFall9]

This is an absurd generalization. There are some natural instincts among men and women that may make their financial decisions and priorities a bit different but it's not a good idea to generalize money, happiness and female. There might be societies that considers women inferior or forces them into household chores but at modern time, women are as capable as men in doing non-physical jobs and are an important part of the local and global economy. Women are earning for themselves and investing their own money, they can also spend the money they earn the way they want and buy anything that may make them happy. Same goes with men. The more you are expert in spending your money effectively, the more happiness you get.

It is true that there is some inherent difference between men and women about money and that it is only a girl's job to achieve happiness with money, the statement is not correct.
The characteristic of money related men is that they feel their happiness by keeping their family members well with money. And women tend to be more conservative when it comes to money. However it is not at all the case that it is always applicable to all people. But the need for money is equally applicable to all men and women. If we want to see ourselves in the category of happy people through money, it is possible to be happy through the practical science and application of money management as well as that person must have the attitude of achieving satisfaction.

[Fiasem20]

First I must say happiness is free, anyone can have the desire of being happy if only the person acquire what makes him or her happy.I disagree on your opinion that money buy happiness only if you are a female,I want to ask you a question although I can't tell your gender, are you pained whenever you receive a credit alert?I guess the answer is no..... so there's always this excitement when you have money, happiness in the sense that with money you can provide shelter, clothing and food.Money can buy both male and female happiness, generalizing it to all male isn't true,just like you said in your thread that money can buy the happiness of materialistic people so it also mean that the males aren't excluded from being materialistic.

[uneng]

real men always seek something beyond the material level, the smart ones are seeking knowledge, the strong one are seeking stronger body, the psychos are seeking to do what ever please them.

We live in a material world, and material goods are needed so we can achieve our goals, despite the kind of man we are.

The smart ones need money to have access to superior sources of knowledge such as technologies, high level educational institutions, content and even to have access to other smart people they can interact. Without money, their potential will be limited.

The strong ones need money to have access to high quality food and suplements (which are quite expensive), besides needing a long spare time, so they can dedicate themselves to bodybuilding. Someone without a penny on his pockets will have difficult balancing his time between work and training.

About the psychos, I don't really know, because I don't see any meaningful purpose of life on those people. They seem confused and lost, so even money might not be enough to boost their desire and will for completing deeds, improving themselves and seeking happiness.

Money exclusively doesn't buy happiness in any cases, even for female. I think you have the wrong perception about those females being happy due to having money. Genuine and sensible happiness can't be misunderstood by euphoria.

And maybe you are aiming on the wrong kind of woman as well...

[MissNonFall9]

First I must say happiness is free, anyone can have the desire of being happy if only the person acquire what makes him or her happy.I disagree on your opinion that money buy happiness only if you are a female,I want to ask you a question although I can't tell your gender, are you pained whenever you receive a credit alert?I guess the answer is no..... so there's always this excitement when you have money, happiness in the sense that with money you can provide shelter, clothing and food.Money can buy both male and female happiness, generalizing it to all male isn't true,just like you said in your thread that money can buy the happiness of materialistic people so it also mean that the males aren't excluded from being materialistic.

Happiness is free when you have enough money to live but no happiness in mind. But when the context is such that a person does not have enough money to live on happiness will seem different to that person. Where the first person does not need any money for happiness only if you change his mindset and be happy, then for the second person it is almost impossible to be happy without some money. In this case there is no need to be materialistic and there is no need to be male or female.

[Wakate]

Everyone have their desires and when they meet it will make them happy, in general we say female love towards materialistic life but men love to buy cars if they have the opportunity it's no different than buying clothes or cosmetics.

Money can buy you happiness that's the end of story.

And whoever says that doesn't have money so they use this as an excuse to convince themselves.

I think op is a novice because I don't know why we should have to shift everything to women of seeing happiness to be a thing of money to women. It is ignorance that would make him to think that women are just after the money and that's what keep them happiness.

Happiness comes from rest of mind. When we are happy with our environment and people around us, then it is not necessarily to be because of money that we have. There are so many people that are happy these days not because of the money they are getting but because of the success they are seeing from the jobs they are doing. Love gives happiness because we all needs love and when we don't get it even though we have the money, we are not going to be happy at all.

[Bananington]

There are so many people that are happy these days not because of the money they are getting but because of the success they are seeing from the jobs they are doing. Love gives happiness because we all needs love and when we don't get it even though we have the money, we are not going to be happy at all.

Money can buy happiness for everyone and not only female because money can help in in many ways that we don't know. It is when you have money that you'll see all the things that money can do. Something that we think aren't possible can be made possible because we now have money.

Male or female needs money for happiness, For the females, money can buy them anything that they need and we know female love having different things that they see other females having. As a male money can make you get your dream car. House and give your family the best life. Money will make you as a male to be respected and respect can give you happiness.
When you can buy everything that you want to own, that is a part of happiness because you won't have any things to worry about. Legal money gives happiness, when you see the work you did in the past paying you, you'll be happy because you worked for the money and didn't steal it.

[Barikui1]

I always thought that money buy happiness but now I think that this only work on females or a beta male (have a female mentality)

I am not rich I am poor and yes I know that money will buy you a good home, car, good health care and good teeth, beautiful wife and such.

but all of these are materials.
real men always seek something beyond the material level, the smart ones are seeking knowledge, the strong one are seeking stronger body, the psychos are seeking to do what ever please them.

This acutely been showing through out the History, I mean the person who Tetris game could've been a filthy rich but he didn't, the game being global and draw a smile on the children's face is more important that being filthy rich.

and if you read the history of Rome you will see that merchants where considered a low class, lower than a soldier and a farmer even tho they are richer than them but because merchants doesn't create anything they simply buy and sell and that's it.
not just Rome also ancient Greek and Japan, China, Egypt, Syria, Armenia, Assyria, Babylon and many other ancient nations considered merchants lower than farmer or craftsman.

as for female you know that female has 4x less brain cells than male, and actually money buy them happiness I mean females can be happy with beautiful stuff and that's it.
the funny thing that growing in a poor family and neighborhood I always found that boys my age can be happy with a simple stuff such as finding some animal or even a stick while girls where harder to be happy since there parents can't buy them beautiful dress and shoes.

so if you think that money will buy you happiness then you are a female or a male with female mentality or a delusional.


of course I am not saying that anyone searching for money and trying to be rich is a female or a beta male or that money doesn't matter.
money matter of course and it will insure your safety, you never heard about a rich guy who died in a war or out of hunger in a famine.
so money  is a tool to insure you don't get depressed, it isn't a the tool to buy happiness

This your write up is f**king crazy, what makes you think that you will only be happy as a rich fellow, if you are a woman? Haven't you heard of this statement that happiness is a choice?

Regardless of your financial status, when it comes to happiness, it's a choice, and you saying that having money as a man wouldn't make you happy is actually crazy, because to me,  money makes life easier, and it can enhance the environment that will definitely makes you happy.

Though it can not give you peace, but it's more comfortable to cry in your Roll Royce than on a bicycle.

Lastly, if you were talking of not having money as a man, it would have been more reasonable, because it's not a nice feeling to be cashless as a man when you have bills to pay and your family is looking up to you for survival, so in essence is that, anyone can choose to be happy, regardless of his gender or his financial status.

[~speedx~]

Very funny. The ultimate goal of every human being is to earn money.  Without money, human life cannot be thought of even a single day. If someone is sitting there just acquiring knowledge or making a fit body, what will fulfill his basic needs? And will he eat and live?  If earning money is termed as women's advantage, then everyone in the world is a woman.

[Despairo]

It's really weird you can think like that.

Men that can be happy with small thing because they're being grateful with what they have, same to women, if women can being grateful with small thing, they would be happy like men.

Don't romanticize being poor, instead do anything you can and work harder, but being grateful with what you have now.

[MissNonFall9]

It's really weird you can think like that.

Men that can be happy with small thing because they're being grateful with what they have, same to women, if women can being grateful with small thing, they would be happy like men.

Don't romanticize being poor, instead do anything you can and work harder, but being grateful with what you have now.

So beautifully said that men can be very happy about the little things and many women can do the same and be grateful. It is a reflection of you as you are. But there are many people in the world who can not be happy or satisfied in the least but are very unhappy in their personal life. So working as hard as possible and being content with what one has is the only way to be happy.

[coolcoinz]

the name "AlphaBoy" is in honor of my friend who I never met in real life but in a small MMO game, he helped me go over my depression and talk me out of killing myself, later on he killed himself and since then I took his name in the game and in my online life to honor him, AlphaBoy never die and this has no meaning to my "Alphaness" as he himself took the name of some Fictional Character in his favorite anime.
Nobody got me here, I figured that out by myself, by a whole lot of different experiences begin with my cousins and ending up with my neighborhood
I do not hate women, I never been in a relationship at least with a physical human female to be rejected, But I knew a lot of people who had been rejected simply because there is a richer guy in the area who can bring them what they want

I don't hate women, I hate the way they think and the way I see it it all begin with my father who I hated because he has a female mentality that ruined my life to the point of no recovery, he only cared about things that lead to no where and he never took any responsibility for it which is something you you'll see in all females.
and that why I believe that females has 4x less brain cells, because the damage my father done to my life can't be created unless you have 4 females.

let me ask you something, why poor people have way more divorce rate per capita than the middle class? and why rich people have the lowest rate of divorce per capita?

females care only about materials and look (but materials is even more important than look)
if you are a rich man you can go and promise and middle, poor class girl that you'll marry her if she break up with her boyfrined and I'll bet you my life savings that she will do it or at least consider it.

Oh man... I see many similarities with Elliot Rodger. Hope you won't end up like that.

On topic, the way I see it, money can buy happiness, but you have to know what you want. If you're a lost soul without any real goals, hobbies, things that entertain you, you'll keep looking, unsatiated, until you do find that thing. To give you an example, you may have two similar guys. One has a dream to get his dream car and travel the country with it. The other has no goals. The first one, although poor, will try to save up. Every bit of money will bring him joy because it will get him closer to that goal. The other guy will have money, but despite spending it on various expensive things, including cars, houses, gadgets, will never feel that joy the first guy feels when he gets his loan approved.