Gambling is a fatal mistake

[coin-investor]

The guy is so hooked up on gambling that he prefers to abandon his family over gambling, the guy is living a miserable life now he doesn't have anyone after he left his family, and the only way he can be saved from going miserable is people who are with him right now understand his situation and try to help by going through a psychiatrist and get counsel.

But if the people who are with him right now are also gamblers then it's only a matter of time before the guy loses his mind and worse he will be confined in a mental institution, some people also go crazy or lose their mind from gambling.

[Frankolala]

I feel for his family bro, addiction has eaten up your elder brother to the bone. If you ask him, he will tell you that he thought that he can double his salary, which is the silly excuse addicted people will always give your their actions.

He needs help and should go to an expert to counsel him. This is the problem that we are facing in the society, a lot of gamblers are gambling for profit and not for fun which is why they are prone to addiction. Gambling should not ne what will separate us from our family, instead of leaving your family for gamble, it is better you leave gambling for your family and gamble when you can control yourself.

[Hirose UK]

Gambling is indeed dangerous and provides risks and consequences that are always present at all times, but when someone has decided to gamble then he must be able to accept everything even though it is loss and also the bad effects of gambling.
But on the other hand, saying that gambling is fatal mistake is actually not correct considering that the real mistake is not the decision to gamble but the attitude and mindset of the gambler himself who cannot protect himself from the various impacts and risks that exist.
I find that some people really blame gambling for the destruction that occurs, but actually when gambler can be responsible and can have the right attitude or approach he can also avoid various bad things.

In cases like this I think he is person who is unable to control himself and does not have good responsibility, if he could be controlled and have responsible attitude then it would not be possible to spend all his money on gambling, he must always remember family at home who need food.
Many similar problems occur and it is truly unfortunate, this should be lesson for everyone that they must really maintain stability and control themselves to minimize the occurrence of bad things.

[acroman08]

What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

it's obviously a gambling addiction, no sane person would gamble all their salary especially if they have a family.

I feel bad for his wife and kids but overall they are probably better off without him since judging from what he did his priority is clearly not his family. also, gambling addiction can lead to domestic violence which could be a lot worse for the wife and kids.

[aioc]

This is bad if a gambler loses money that should have been for the table of the family and for paying bills then the gambler loses control and can be considered addicted to gambling since he is your brother you should help your brother with the sake of your sister in laws you can do this by leading your brother to a counsel so he can be enlightened on the situation that will change his mind and go back to his family.

It's bad for the family if the head of the family is the one indulging in gambling since he is the provider and the situation of the family depends on the head of the family.

[jcojci]

That person wants to double his money from gambling without thinks about the risks that he and his family can gets. With his salary, he can fills his family needs and doesn't have to use that money to playing gambling. But he wants to have more money so he trying to playing gambling and hopes he can increase his money from the wins that he can gets. But gambling will not always gives what we wants and the truth is gambling can takes all of our money without left and your elder brother is a good examples. That is why we don't have to playing gambling because we wants to increase our money. That will not happens as we wants because gambling itself is not a place to make money so we must realizes and not trying to use all of our salary or much money.

[YOSHIE]

So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Gambling is not dangerous, in fact what is dangerous is your child, you already know that he has a wife and children and he doesn't have any other income either, that's the problem, if he doesn't have extra money he should just expect a salary. Don't gamble, your brother doesn't have a brain, does he think he's still alone, doesn't he think he has children and a wife at home that he needs to feed?

Gambling is not dangerous, if we can control gambling, gambling should never control us, so gamble when you have more money, never mix your salary with gambling, If you have money on the side, gamble as much as you like, if the salary you get is not yours, it belongs to your children and wife, think about it, so that your household is safe from arguments and divorce.

[Coin_trader]

In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Gambling is not real culprit here but rather the greediness and lack of financial management of the subject here. Gambling was meant for entertainment purposes which means he shouldn’t spend all his salary if just want to be entertained. Probably he went over budget due to chasing loss that cause this disaster.

He will not experience this problem if he exercised being responsible gambler. People shouldn’t blame gambling alone for their losses since no one forced them to gamble aside from themselves.

This is why people with poor financial management skills should never hold their money instead let their wife handle it.

[Chilwell]

Your brother is just an irresponsible gambler based on your story as he literally use all his hard earned money given that he has a family to feed. I don't do that kind of thing because I already learned from my past mistakes in gambling. He mismanaged his gambling funds and what happened to him right now serves not only him but all of us a lesson to spend only few percentages if we really cannot resist avoiding gambling. We should always prioritize our family over gambling and any other vices.

indeed this is a very sad story but I only feel sorry for the family members for suffering the situation, to my own understanding what happened is actually greediness because when you bet three times and you lose the best thing is to stop and control yourself to avoid lose of funds, normally most gamblers don't put lost in their prediction that why many of the end up in losing everything, truly your brother really have to put himself together, he shouldn't allow gambling to take over is life. I advice op to go and look for their brothers so that things won't get worse, look for him and let him face his responsibility.

[synchronym]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?  
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

I am really sorry to hear this true story of yours that I realized through your story the cost to the family if a family member is addicted to gambling. How shameful it is for our society that your elder brother comes from work and gambles away his entire salary and returns home empty-handed and quarrels with his wife. It is constantly happening in our society. A gambling addict never thinks about his family. If he had thought about his family, he would not have gambled away his entire salary in a gambling club and returned home penniless. He only thinks about his wife and children. No, I don't have a market in my house, he wasted the entire money by gambling when there is no market, then how harmful is this type of gambling addict to our society. Youngsters who are around will surely learn how gambling addiction can tear apart a family. Of course, gambling addiction is very dangerous for people, so everyone should refrain from such gambling addiction so that his family and society can live a good life.

[Don Pedro Dinero]

So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society.

From what you tell, the title you have given to the thread is incorrect, and sort of clickbait I would say. That your brother has engaged in such behavior means that for him it is a fatal mistake but not for the rest of us who bet without getting into such trouble.

[Julien_Olynpic]

Of course, we are talking about gambling addiction here. I think that the initial personality structure of this person is such that he is a very frivolous person, deprived of responsibility for his family and his children. Now his wife will have to provide for four children alone. But do you know what could be causing this behavior? More precisely, not the cause, but one of the predisposing factors, along with irresponsibility? Perhaps these are disagreements and inharmonious relationships in the family hidden from our eyes. When men do not find understanding in the family, when their wives often scold them or even make scandals with them, then men try to leave for another, brighter world, where it is always fun and pleasant. Unfortunately, this situation does not have a clear solution. This is always a dramatic situation.

[Reredmi896]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

With what the OP wrote, I am sorry and wish the best for your family. But with what you said, I think this is a common thing that happens from the risk of gambling addiction, the family will fall apart and it is difficult to control yourself, but with this incident, usually the gambler will gradually open his mind and understand what has happened and will avoid it for the second time. Even if it's too late

In my country, families often fall apart because of gambling.
We should not blame gambling, but it is the people who gamble excessively that we need to watch out for. Those who cannot control themselves.

[famososMuertos]

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Take off that signature you're wearing, seriously, let's do the right thing, and if you don't have a problem with gambling, even better.

I've had the best semester of my last 4 years for sports betting, so much so that I allow myself to bet $20 a game sometimes, but it took me a year or two to get to that level, and still my 80% of sports bets don't go over $1.

Gambling doesn't have to be a problem that affects your life, these stories you tell are not solved with betting advice or life advice, they require immediate medical and family intervention.

Sorry x You friend.

#tbt Topic

[BigBos]

In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

It must be remembered that gambling is absolutely not wrong and not bad if it is done within reasonable limits. with the emergence of many problems such as fights between the two of them because the man was too excessive in gambling where he spent his entire salary on gambling that was not certain of his winnings. he may be carried away by the atmosphere of gambling where they are already lulled by the winnings that can be obtained in gambling even though he loses and loses again but he still has hope and still has money so he spends all the money to satisfy his desire to win.

If only he could do it naturally, by just doing one gamble or bet, maybe he wouldn't lose all his money. instead of wanting to get pleasure but instead get misery.

[BABY SHOES]

The fatal mistake in gambling when they can't control themselves and they win more for their addiction than the family at home, it's sad to hear this story.

Some of these cases often occur among gamblers, it is still better when the person does not have a family in the sense that he does not have a wife and children and he may spend all his salary will bear the consequences himself, whereas if he is married, his wife and children will be the victims, they can not eat if the entire salary is used up for gambling.

That is the importance of self-control, discipline, responsibility and having limits, if you only pursue lust then it will never end n

[AirtelBuzz]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?  
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

The biggest reason behind the complete financial loss of the person you mentioned was that he was heavily addicted to gambling. Reading your post it is clear that your elder brother is not a new gambler he has been involved in gambling for a long time. As a result, he gambled with his entire salary like a fool.
Your elder brother's son-daughter and family may depend on the salary he gets at the end of the month. That person gambles with his entire salary without thinking about his family which shows that gambling makes people blind even greedy for money. The person may have thought he would make double the money by gambling with his salary. If he had used that salary money for the family instead of gambling then his family would have been happy and there would have been no quarrels between them.

[danherbias07]

But what he did is not the solution for what he did. Be a man, take the beating if it will happen, or the loud mouth of your wife if she will say something. Somehow that anger will calm down and they can talk in a better setting where both will listen. He is not a true father because he is irresponsible at wasting all the money on gambling to being more irresponsible by walking out for just a month of salary.
Still, that's just money. Imagine how the wife is feeling right after he walks out from them without even telling everything to her. I am afraid she is thinking a lot of things because she didn't really know what happened. She will think he might have a mistress or she is using drugs and not just gambling.

Consequences. If we gamble all the money we have, let's make sure we can also accept the consequences.

[Toro iskandar]

What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Gambling is not something that is very bad for someone's life, gambling can have useful benefits for someone, namely as entertainment to please themselves when they feel sad and bored.
In fact, people who consider gambling as a form of fatal error because those who do it are not careful and not relaxed to enjoy it, meaning people who judge badly about gambling activities themselves because they are driven by evidence of a gambler whose life is miserable and has many problems repeatedly because the gambler runs gambling brutally and cannot control himself well every time he gambles.
They gamblers will play excessively and only aim for victory, not realizing that they will often receive losses. And therefore, we often hear bad perceptions about gambling in society.

[Zanab247]

Maybe, your brother is among the people that want to use their salary to win billions a day, which is the result you can find in such gamblers in the gambling center which is what your brother is displaying in the society, and if your brother is not careful, he can lose his job for such habit.

Gambling is not a mistake to gamblers, but if you don't ask questions or learn many things about gambling, you can only find yourself in such habit and it will make your family to disrespect you, because they know you are gambling in a wrong way.

I know your brother will come back home, when he come back to his senses to realize his mistakes, but it will be a good thing for him to be educated about gambling so that he will not be using big money to gamble again.