Gambling is a fatal mistake

[Jody.Drummer]

Your brother is just an irresponsible gambler based on your story as he literally use all his hard earned money given that he has a family to feed. I don't do that kind of thing because I already learned from my past mistakes in gambling. He mismanaged his gambling funds and what happened to him right now serves not only him but all of us a lesson to spend only few percentages if we really cannot resist avoiding gambling. We should always prioritize our family over gambling and any other vices.

You are absolutely right because on anything we are doing today family comes first before any other thing, I think he really made a big mistake that is why is not really good for us to be too addicted into gambling because this is what too much addicted to gambling causes, although you would not be able to control your self again.

I think that this incident can really be used as an example and proof that when someone enters the addiction phase then they will not think of anything other than gambling, where there will be absolutely no hesitation in terms of making every decision especially when they have money, because the main thing that is on their mind is gambling and gambling, they will not back down before getting something they want like a win, but in the end yes of course like in the case told by the OP that the person went home empty-handed and spent all his salary and abandoned his family.

This is the reason why we always advise to be very careful and maintain a firm awareness when you or anyone tries to get involved in gambling, because if you let your guard down then you will most likely experience a change in mindset that ultimately puts faith and hope in winning in gambling and all that happens because of the many temptations that look tempting that will actually only lead you to addiction.

[teamsherry]

Well I would say gambling is not bad but when you let it control you then you just lost it, cause it can propel you to spend even money that shoudl be used for eating on gambling and you would always be low on cash and sad and on the edge, gambling addiction must be dealt with in its early stage and that's the best way to overcome it .

[Ultegra134]

Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels. 

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.

It's a vicious cycle; I can't imagine how addicted the OP's brother is that he didn't even take his family into account; that's unnacceptable. How does he not get a reality check after wasting away his whole salary? Gambling isn't at fault; this would also happen if alcohol were in place or anything else that wasn't done in moderation. Gambling every once in a while rarely causes issues; getting addicted to it is usually the result of a broader issue, such as depression or other mental health illnesses. I cannot find another reason for being so reckless, especially when you have a family to take care of.

[LUCKMCFLY]

The truth is that what is happening to him is alarming. If I were you, I would look for him everywhere, without money and on the street. It doesn't seem like a very good combination to me. However, whenever we are in a casino and by chance we have had too much to drink, it is not good to gamble. In your brother's case, first it was a huge irresponsibility, because that is not done. If he has a wife and children, spending money is not the right thing to do. I think that what he should do is find money however he can, even if it is borrowed, do the shopping and cover everything, and then let him see how he can pay, but that is not justified, it is totally irresponsible.

[Dewi Aries]

Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels. 

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.

It's a vicious cycle; I can't imagine how addicted the OP's brother is that he didn't even take his family into account; that's unnacceptable. How does he not get a reality check after wasting away his whole salary? Gambling isn't at fault; this would also happen if alcohol were in place or anything else that wasn't done in moderation. Gambling every once in a while rarely causes issues; getting addicted to it is usually the result of a broader issue, such as depression or other mental health illnesses. I cannot find another reason for being so reckless, especially when you have a family to take care of.

That's right, and I'm sure that person has entered a phase of chronic addiction so he doesn't hesitate to take actions that will really have a bad impact on himself and his family, and I'm also sure that his partner or wife will definitely be very angry with his actions and it's possible that his wife will throw him out. or sue for divorce because of this ridiculous act. Yes, there is nothing wrong with gambling, but the problem is when gambling is done in the wrong way or tends to be excessive, because in the end it can lead to various possible disasters.

And we can see that there are still some gamblers who remain safe and do not experience bad impacts due to their gambling activities and that is because they treat gambling in the right way, which is usually gamblers who understand the bad risks or bad impacts that gambling can cause. if done in the wrong way, such as making excessive decisions or gambling without setting a time limit. And I would also add that one of the causes of addiction is because a gambler does not understand what gambling really is like, and usually they are gamblers who focus too much on the chance of winning so they ignore other things that can never be completely avoided in gambling, such as risk.

[HelliumZ]

Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels. 

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.

In fact, those gamblers who gamble only for money will not be able to participate two or three days a week because their main target is only money. In this case they do not think about society and family but they always want how to earn money from gambling. There is no shortage of such gamblers around me who always ignore the issue of family wealth and are always preoccupied with how to make money from gambling themselves. The families of those gamblers lead such a miserable life that it cannot be believed without seeing it with their own eyes, but that gambler never considers his family and children. So it would not be wrong to compare gambling as a social crime as well as a national problem.

[FinePoine0]

Well I would say gambling is not bad but when you let it control you then you just lost it, cause it can propel you to spend even money that shoudl be used for eating on gambling and you would always be low on cash and sad and on the edge, gambling addiction must be dealt with in its early stage and that's the best way to overcome it .

Gambling is not bad I agree, but those who have poor poor families like the one I mentioned are completely destitute. A family has only one male breadwinner, (since his children are very young children now) so this family is like stumbling block. If this man is too late to come back then how will this family eat and choose the source of income, after all the family now has the mother of the children as the elderly. Of course he is forced to go out in search of food, to find work to earn income. 
But what I mean here is how much a family is threatened by a gambling addict. Maybe if you come to the real world and see it with your own eyes, you will understand how helpless it is, so how do you protect it if every family is addicted to gambling like this.

[dansus021]

Gambling is a fatal mistake and totally fatal in this case because he doesn't have a gambling budget and go all in this is common mistake but there are a lot of people can control of it and one of the reason is might he also cant control his emotion and chasing the losses

[promise444c5]

Gambling is a fatal mistake and totally fatal in this case because he doesn't have a gambling budget and go all in this is common mistake but there are a lot of people can control of it and one of the reason is might he also cant control his emotion and chasing the losses

He was in another phase of addiction  which isn't even total addiction, his case might even be that he didn't spend it all and kept the remaining  to gamble again or he just ruined the whole money that night because he had the false hope of winning back his money some how...
Sometimes gambling comes with  luck, even with a budget once the luck is against you, the best advice it to pause and give it a try next time when the luck us fair

[lienfaye]

Gambling is a fatal mistake and totally fatal in this case because he doesn't have a gambling budget and go all in this is common mistake but there are a lot of people can control of it and one of the reason is might he also cant control his emotion and chasing the losses

He was in another phase of addiction  which isn't even total addiction, it's incase might even be that he didn't spend it all and kept the remaining  to gamble again or he just ruined the whole money that night because he had the first hope of winning back his money some how...
Sometimes gambling comes with  luck, even with a budget once the luck is against you, the best advice it to pause and give it a try next time when the luck us fair

Probably he gamble believing he can double his money in snap. Then keep on betting to recover the losses until he lost all his funds. But as a guy with a family to feed, this action is really a negligence on his side for spending all of his salary in gambling. Regardless of the reason (and if he's addicted or not) he should know what to prioritize first, just shows how irresponsible he is.

[Popkon6]

Gambling is a fatal mistake and totally fatal in this case because he doesn't have a gambling budget and go all in this is common mistake but there are a lot of people can control of it and one of the reason is might he also cant control his emotion and chasing the losses

He was in another phase of addiction  which isn't even total addiction, it's incase might even be that he didn't spend it all and kept the remaining  to gamble again or he just ruined the whole money that night because he had the first hope of winning back his money some how...
Sometimes gambling comes with  luck, even with a budget once the luck is against you, the best advice it to pause and give it a try next time when the luck us fair

Probably he gamble believing he can double his money in snap. Then keep on betting to recover the losses until he lost all his funds. But as a guy with a family to feed, this action is really a negligence on his side for spending all of his salary in gambling. Regardless of the reason (and if he's addicted or not) he should know what to prioritize first, just shows how irresponsible he is.

I think he got addicted to massive gambling because he got into gambling as soon as he got money.  And gambling he just started gambling till the balance was gone. This attitude of his has upset people because only more addiction to Zoya is likely to lead to losses, he neglects his family due to which he gives full money location without thinking about the family.

Well I would say gambling is not bad but when you let it control you then you just lost it, cause it can propel you to spend even money that shoudl be used for eating on gambling and you would always be low on cash and sad and on the edge, gambling addiction must be dealt with in its early stage and that's the best way to overcome it .

Gambling is not bad I agree, but those who have poor poor families like the one I mentioned are completely destitute. A family has only one male breadwinner, (since his children are very young children now) so this family is like stumbling block. If this man is too late to come back then how will this family eat and choose the source of income, after all the family now has the mother of the children as the elderly. Of course he is forced to go out in search of food, to find work to earn income. 
But what I mean here is how much a family is threatened by a gambling addict. Maybe if you come to the real world and see it with your own eyes, you will understand how helpless it is, so how do you protect it if every family is addicted to gambling like this.

It is not only a threat to the family but also a heinous crime to the society. A gambler can never contribute to society, because most of what he earns is lost by participating in gambling. But you have one thing to do, you have to wait for him to come back, because when he comes back, discipline him as a family.
So that later he enters gambling even with a small amount of money because he will continue to gamble with whatever amount of money he has until his balance is exhausted. However, you can't completely stop gambling suddenly, so you have to take action slowly, and gradually bring him back from gambling.

[promise444c5]

Probably he gamble believing he can double his money in snap. Then keep on betting to recover the losses until he lost all his funds. But as a guy with a family to feed, this action is really a negligence on his side for spending all of his salary in gambling. Regardless of the reason (and if he's addicted or not) he should know what to prioritize first, just shows how irresponsible he is.

Surely, he's  irresponsible  gambling  doesn't  work that way only few percentage hit the jackpot in their first three attempt...
The moment he stepped into that casino to gamble immediately after getting a paycheck  shows he's completely irresponsible  because  he never made any budget his only hope depends on the wins from the casino as he only thought of doubling his paycheck within a night(totally  irresponsible)... for every gamble there's  always a need to think about negative outcomes along with the positive outcomes, things does not necessarily have to go exactly out it's being planned

[retreat]

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Blaming is supposed not to happen for whatever we do because we choose to gamble and we choose to become irresponsible gamblers. What to OP's brother is not really the thing we expect upon gambling but because of addiction, it all changes and badly affects his thinking. Sadly, he is not the one who suffers the consequences of his addiction but the entire family. We can't say this is not the normal and usual thing to see but it is shown already how devastating it is when a person can't manage their gambling addiction that a peaceful family and a loving father would turn into an irresponsible husband and family leader.

It is too late to realize the wrong thing he did and I hope this will serve as a lesson for everyone who plans to try gambling. We gamble just for fun and entertainment, not for addiction.

That's what I said. He chose to gamble and he should be responsible for what he did. But instead he ran away from his responsibilities, not only from what he did, but he also ran away from his little family. It was a very bad thing to do that to his family, imagine what his wife would think and how she would have to deal with it, this is not a small matter and it is troublesome. My hope is that this problem can be resolved and hopefully he can wake up from his addiction and take responsibility for the mess he has made.

[Mia Chloe]

Let me start by spotting out the fact that everyone including gamblers are responsible for their mistakes or situation. Gambling addiction as well as many other addictions are nasty and the fact is , it is touching to have a loved one affected by it. A lot of family members and loved ones try as much as they can to assist their family members in gambling addiction so they can do away with it. However most of the time it is easier to assist an addict when they actually wish to ditch that addiction otherwise all efforts may be in vain.

The most common reason why a lot of addicts drift into gambling addiction is because of their inability to manage losses and the time they put into gambling activities.

[Helena Yu]

She should looking for a new guy since her husband isn't a good dad, if she's too late, she and her kids would end up become beggars and live in the street.

That's what I said. He chose to gamble and he should be responsible for what he did. But instead he ran away from his responsibilities, not only from what he did, but he also ran away from his little family. It was a very bad thing to do that to his family, imagine what his wife would think and how she would have to deal with it, this is not a small matter and it is troublesome. My hope is that this problem can be resolved and hopefully he can wake up from his addiction and take responsibility for the mess he has made.

He's not qualified to become dad, if he want to gamble and do what he want in this life, he shouldn't marry someone and build a family. This kind people should live alone, whether he will be rich or he will end up miserable, but at least he's accepting every consequence from his action. While this case, his wife and kids need to take the consequences even they didn't gamble at all.

[Sg4j1n3ll0]

Let me start by spotting out the fact that everyone including gamblers are responsible for their mistakes or situation. Gambling addiction as well as many other addictions are nasty and the fact is , it is touching to have a loved one affected by it. A lot of family members and loved ones try as much as they can to assist their family members in gambling addiction so they can do away with it. However most of the time it is easier to assist an addict when they actually wish to ditch that addiction otherwise all efforts may be in vain.

The most common reason why a lot of addicts drift into gambling addiction is because of their inability to manage losses and the time they put into gambling activities.

it's an addiction you can't certainly control everyone decides to do what they want but an addiction is really difficult to control as they say everyone is the architect of their own destiny but choosing to play despite having commitments and a family to look after chooses to play he is irresponsible, no one says that playing is wrong, we all do it a little but when certain limits are crossed it is irresponsible and these are choices that can be made

[tomos81]

Let me start by spotting out the fact that everyone including gamblers are responsible for their mistakes or situation. Gambling addiction as well as many other addictions are nasty and the fact is , it is touching to have a loved one affected by it. A lot of family members and loved ones try as much as they can to assist their family members in gambling addiction so they can do away with it. However most of the time it is easier to assist an addict when they actually wish to ditch that addiction otherwise all efforts may be in vain.

The most common reason why a lot of addicts drift into gambling addiction is because of their inability to manage losses and the time they put into gambling activities.

it's an addiction you can't certainly control everyone decides to do what they want but an addiction is really difficult to control as they say everyone is the architect of their own destiny but choosing to play despite having commitments and a family to look after chooses to play he is irresponsible, no one says that playing is wrong, we all do it a little but when certain limits are crossed it is irresponsible and these are choices that can be made

Of course the addicted person does not do as anyone says, he is willing to act unilaterally. As he is addicted to gambling from the beginning, due to which he eventually runs away after losing all the money. These are absolutely the biggest symptoms of addiction and are a threat to the addict and any human being.

[synchronym]

Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels.  

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.

In fact, those gamblers who gamble only for money will not be able to participate two or three days a week because their main target is only money. In this case they do not think about society and family but they always want how to earn money from gambling. There is no shortage of such gamblers around me who always ignore the issue of family wealth and are always preoccupied with how to make money from gambling themselves. The families of those gamblers lead such a miserable life that it cannot be believed without seeing it with their own eyes, but that gambler never considers his family and children. So it would not be wrong to compare gambling as a social crime as well as a national problem.

A gambler is always addicted to making money so much that he doesn't have time to look after his family or how his family is living. A gambler never thinks about his family. If a gambling addict does not think about his family, he is always addicted to gambling and the money he wants to earn through gambling, if he is lucky, he can earn, otherwise he loses the entire money in gambling. But day by day many youths are getting addicted to gambling, our youth society must get rid of gambling addiction.  A gambling addict has a family who cannot live comfortably. But that family member is constantly in debt and gambling.  So everyone should refrain from such gambling addiction.

[hyudien]

It's a vicious cycle; I can't imagine how addicted the OP's brother is that he didn't even take his family into account; that's unnacceptable. How does he not get a reality check after wasting away his whole salary? Gambling isn't at fault; this would also happen if alcohol were in place or anything else that wasn't done in moderation. Gambling every once in a while rarely causes issues; getting addicted to it is usually the result of a broader issue, such as depression or other mental health illnesses. I cannot find another reason for being so reckless, especially when you have a family to take care of.

I think what happened to OP's brother was that he was hypnotized by gambling where he dared to take big risky actions such as risking all the money he had and it was normal for arguments to occur between him and his partner because he should have paid attention and thought about the fate of his family first compared to what they had. want, like gambling, which can indeed make you happy, but only for a short time, because the joy of gambling is winning and winning doesn't happen often. with OP's brother who dared to take a big risky action, of course they are already in a vicious circle where it will be difficult for them to come to their senses and stop gambling to secure their money, but because he was trapped, he did such a big risky act which is detrimental to himself. and harm other people around him.
It's true, everything that is done appropriately will not cause serious problems, with him possibly getting into an argument, that is one of the bad effects of gambling because he has done it excessively. Someone who is addicted to gambling can certainly experience mental health destruction, because a loss that they cannot accept will put too much pressure on them so that they themselves cannot fix it and this is an opportunity for them to become stressed.

[Zackz5000]

It will be very nice when gambling to gamble responsively, most person do abuse gambling and also been addicted to it is very bad because you will see your self doing what you are not meant to do because Money wont stay long in your hand most addicted gamblers end up been forstrated in life, most persons try to gamble with the money they can't afford to lose instead of gambling with the money they can afford to loss.
Not that gambling is bad for some persons has achieve better things through gambling but the worst part of it all is not knowing when to stop when you have lost a lot most persons still try to fight back if they can regain back the amount they have lost still end up losing more by trying to recover or regain back.