Gambling is a fatal mistake

[nara1892]

A gambler cannot become addicted to gambling all of a sudden, he becomes addicted by participating in gambling for a long time. Because you notice he suddenly lost all the money and he participated again and again to win, thus he became addicted and he was busy creating money crisis. The fear of losing money has worked within him causing him to repeatedly participate to bring his money back, his strategy has failed him which ultimately led to dire consequences. 
And after losing all the money at the last minute, he returned home empty-handed and forced to go into hiding as he could not find a place in the last house. Think then that the addict is a threat to everyone, especially to the family and society at large.

That's true, for those who continue to gamble, of course they will experience an addiction to gambling, of course this will be very difficult for us if we don't limit our gambling activities and there will also be many bad impacts that we will experience if we continue to carry out gambling activities without control, so It is important for us to be able to limit ourselves from gambling continuously so that we do not experience bad impacts on us and the environment around us.

Yes, of course, and that is why we all always advise anyone, especially beginners, to always apply a lot of caution along with applying a lot of restrictions in their gambling activities, none other than because only by doing so will they be able to avoid various bad possibilities such as addiction and the impact after they have entered the addiction phase.

And maybe I will say the following by suggesting some things that gamblers must have and do if they really don't want to end up with addiction, the first step is to justify your understanding of how gambling really is, such as understanding that gambling is an activity that provides a chance of winning opportunities to all gamblers but also by realizing that this activity has a high risk. and the second step is to apply many restrictions such as gambling, and the second step is to impose a lot of restrictions such as limiting the amount of budget at stake and also limiting the time of gambling, and the last is to limit your expectations of winning, because even if you are very confident there is still no guarantee that you will win at the end of the session.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

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In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

It was greed over gambling that caused your friend to be ruined. If he manages his gambling well then it is impossible for him to run out of money. After all, your friend is a husband. It is really unnatural for him to forget his responsibilities at home, especially since he has children to care for. give him food, in this case he should be punished for forgetting his responsibilities. Whether that is true or not, it is reported that countries that legalize gambling have fewer gambling addicts than countries that prohibit gambling!!

          -   That's why, I think, the addiction that the husband has is that he has lost control of himself, he is blinded, and he has lost his responsibility as a husband to his wife and a father to his child. No normal person would do such a thing.

Well, I hope that her husband is okay, and I really hope that he realizes that what he did was wrong for his own family, so that such an incident will not happen again. And I hope he will be guided correctly and properly.

[LDL]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Feeling very sad for your elder brother's family and children and at the same time angry at your brother for gambling with his family's maintenance money. If he is a conscious parent, he never gambles with his entire monthly salary. If he was really smart, he would never have bet his entire salary on gambling. I am clear that your elder brother is most likely mentally ill and his mental illness may not have made him hesitate to do this senseless act. However, you will try to convince him as a family member and if he needs treatment, you will take him to a good boarding center. If your brother is very addicted to gambling then he will be able to control himself later if he gets your family support and good behavior.

[Zigabel]

Apart from being a mind game, gambling is one game that requires absolute discipline from anyone who really wants to engage in it in order to be successful. The reason why many people today believes that gambling is a fatal mistake that no well meaning individual should engage in it is because many of the people who gamble does end up as gambling addicts.

Gambling can also be seen as a game that requires you having a whole lot of patience also if you must be able to win because if you always want an instant winning and gratification, you may end up not been able to wait enough to follow up with the game to find only the best picks from which you can make money off except you are playin just for fun in most cases. Theresa whole lot you will need to be able to gamble in the best way you should but most gamblers fail to do all that and just skip to wanting to make money off gambling and turn out addicts and get to blame it on gambling rather than their habit which have really been really been improper approach to gambling.

Discipline, money management, Risk management and even Budgeting are all factors to put into consideration if you want to make a successful career gambling. before gambling especially if you intend to make money off of it and not just to have fun, then its important you put all of this into consideration but most newbie gamblers are always in a hurry to want to gamble and win money but then they actually end up not been able to do such because they lacked the discipline to so they just rush in to it and probably loose all of their funds.

[Blitzboy]

Gambling addicts is way out of the picture, not planning or wishing for anyone to be an addict because it become worse. Running at heavy losses is caused by the gambler because he becomes greedy with accumulate sum of profits earned and pushes further to make massive gains. I know it's not easy but there's more gamblers out there that aims to stack up enormous profits but doesn't follow the appropriate techniques and strategies, rather they easily succumb to paths that's not reliable and obtaining losses becomes necessary for them.

More gamblers are becoming an addict because they are only after the gains that they can get from gambling. They do not think before they gamble because they are only move by the desire to make profits therefore they are always the target of gambling disorder. Gambling can only be a fatal mistake when you do not gamble in a responsible manner, if you gamble like you can never get affected by gambling addiction, you are going to be the next gambler that is going to become an addict. I have seen people that were winning in gambling and did not have any challenges but after some losses that they had because they were not careful, their whole story changed as they started losing anytime that they gamble. They had only few win and this affected them to the extent of becoming an addict.

Easy to blame "addicts" for chasing the thrill of the win. However, its not that easy. While some are tempted to the casino's glamor and splendor, others see a deeper issue. Stress, worry, sadness, or a lack of fulfillment may plague these people. Gambling becomes a technique to escape, numb, or feel anything. Big wins can motivate, but they're rarely the cause of addiction.

Try to understand these people instead of judging them. Support, resources, and treatment are needed. Create a culture where asking for help is appropriate and people dont feel ashamed or alone in their challenges. Remember, addiction is a disease, not a moral fault. It takes compassion, empathy, and lots of support, like any condition.

[Dewi Aries]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Feeling very sad for your elder brother's family and children and at the same time angry at your brother for gambling with his family's maintenance money. If he is a conscious parent, he never gambles with his entire monthly salary. If he was really smart, he would never have bet his entire salary on gambling. I am clear that your elder brother is most likely mentally ill and his mental illness may not have made him hesitate to do this senseless act. However, you will try to convince him as a family member and if he needs treatment, you will take him to a good boarding center. If your brother is very addicted to gambling then he will be able to control himself later if he gets your family support and good behavior.

One thing I believe that makes the person really dare to take such a stupid action, that is because it seems like he has entered the addiction phase which as we know that when gamblers have entered the addiction phase then usually they will not hesitate to share decisions and actions that make no sense, And I would say that all of that happens because those who are obsessed with gambling in the record already have such a high interest and curiosity in winning that they always assume or think that no matter what the situation is it is an opportunity that they should not miss, even though the truth is that gambling always runs randomly without any certainty and guarantee to be able to produce victory at the end of the session, meaning that no matter how confident you are with the decisions you will make, in the end when you are unlucky you will lose. Seeing from his actions that are quite severe, then yes, of course there must be some people who try to help him in various ways that are estimated to be reasonable and quite effective, because if left unchecked, it is likely that he could do even crazier actions.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

So I think it's completely normal for people to have such a bad stigma towards gambling because indeed the majority of gamblers always take various actions that are not in accordance with what is recommended and instead they take various high-risk actions which in the end it is clear that the decision is very dangerous for themselves.

In my opinion, it's an abnormal stigma and it's not necessarily needed but the challenges here is that it is a common incident among many gamblers and they are the bad eggs in the gambling scene.
You are right that every gambler love to do their own thing their way, they don't care the implications of their gambling habits but later end up regretting.

[Wakate]

So I think it's completely normal for people to have such a bad stigma towards gambling because indeed the majority of gamblers always take various actions that are not in accordance with what is recommended and instead they take various high-risk actions which in the end it is clear that the decision is very dangerous for themselves.

In my opinion, it's an abnormal stigma and it's not necessarily needed but the challenges here is that it is a common incident among many gamblers and they are the bad eggs in the gambling scene.
You are right that every gambler love to do their own thing their way, they don't care the implications of their gambling habits but later end up regretting.

We just have to focus and think of a better way to make money as gamblers. It is not that easy to be getting consistent profits in gambling especially when one doesn't have a better source of income apart from gambling. Those that are not getting enough profits in gambling can go get a work to balance everything since we don't have to fully relent on gambling. Understanding is very important as gamblers and we need to known that gambling is not always profitable because the money we are making is someone's loses which is a reason why we don't have to be too desperate.

[Weawant]

In my opinion, it's an abnormal stigma and it's not necessarily needed but the challenges here is that it is a common incident among many gamblers and they are the bad eggs in the gambling scene.
You are right that every gambler love to do their own thing their way, they don't care the implications of their gambling habits but later end up regretting.

In most cases, it eventually turns out to be that the stigma and the resentment a gambler gets at times turns out to be the reason some of them turn to some u health life they venture into because of Gambling, some of these persons could be of a very sound character and will definitely not want to get into anything unhealthy of which gambling cannot be seen as one just like that because until addiction sets in, gambling isn't a problem just yet.

If these gamblers aren't stigmatized by the society as been irresponsible for trying to engage in gambling or getting their own Kind of fun and entertainment from gambling, then whenever it's becoming a problem, they will communicate it to people around a d probably get help at the early stage but then the fact that most people are always ready to criticize them into thinking they were doing the worse thing on earth for been a gambler, they keep it to their selves till they become addicts and it comes out bad and such that will then be seen as a problem

Some gambler understands the criticism and the unequal treatment the society may throw at them because so they accept their fate and decide to live their lives in the ways that please them not Minding any out come there after but then it turns out they they become a problem to the society when they become addicted and engrossed in the act that they go the extra mile to satisfy their gambling crave.

[FinePoine0]

So I think it's completely normal for people to have such a bad stigma towards gambling because indeed the majority of gamblers always take various actions that are not in accordance with what is recommended and instead they take various high-risk actions which in the end it is clear that the decision is very dangerous for themselves.

In my opinion, it's an abnormal stigma and it's not necessarily needed but the challenges here is that it is a common incident among many gamblers and they are the bad eggs in the gambling scene.
You are right that every gambler love to do their own thing their way, they don't care the implications of their gambling habits but later end up regretting.

This is the biggest attraction because from here every gambler will continue to correct their mistakes. Especially if this person had a gambling addiction then surely all the money would not have been lost and it would not have been a heartbreaking incident. Such addicts do not hesitate to commit crimes at any time, because their thinking is always in gambling addicts.

[hyudien]

We just have to focus and think of a better way to make money as gamblers. It is not that easy to be getting consistent profits in gambling especially when one doesn't have a better source of income apart from gambling. Those that are not getting enough profits in gambling can go get a work to balance everything since we don't have to fully relent on gambling. Understanding is very important as gamblers and we need to known that gambling is not always profitable because the money we are making is someone's loses which is a reason why we don't have to be too desperate.

This can be done because of course the obvious reason for gambling is to make money, but you also need to pay attention to this, don't let this be done excessively by forcing yourself to continue gambling because you want to make money quickly, of course that's not right, because Having thoughts like that actually makes us act without considering it first, which can be a big risk for ourselves. Moreover, getting a profit in gambling is not easy because the probability and greater chance of winning owned by the house cannot be changed. What you say is correct, with casinos that have been running for quite a long time, of course the winnings you get are someone else's loss and someone is lucky enough to win at gambling, especially with big wins.
because of course winning at gambling cannot be obtained easily. Apart from that, don't force yourself to continue gambling because you want to win, because if we force ourselves to gamble it can actually make us experience bigger losses. Of course I think you already know the many cases that have happened. What happens to those who force themselves to gamble has experienced many bad impacts, even destroying their lives. Apart from that, each individual's understanding determines the actions they will take, if their understanding of gambling is wrong then losses could occur.

[FinePoine0]

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In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

It was greed over gambling that caused your friend to be ruined. If he manages his gambling well then it is impossible for him to run out of money. After all, your friend is a husband. It is really unnatural for him to forget his responsibilities at home, especially since he has children to care for. give him food, in this case he should be punished for forgetting his responsibilities. Whether that is true or not, it is reported that countries that legalize gambling have fewer gambling addicts than countries that prohibit gambling!!

          -   That's why, I think, the addiction that the husband has is that he has lost control of himself, he is blinded, and he has lost his responsibility as a husband to his wife and a father to his child. No normal person would do such a thing.

Well, I hope that her husband is okay, and I really hope that he realizes that what he did was wrong for his own family, so that such an incident will not happen again. And I hope he will be guided correctly and properly.

Had he realized his guilt, the gambler would never have paid his full salary. As a complete addict he is addicted to a level that can never be imagined, you can realize how much an addict is a threat to the family and a huge threat to the society.

[Ever-young]

You will have no problem if you can gamble with the amount of money that you can afford to lose. That is the problem some people do not know. Anything excessive in life is not good. If you eat food too much, it will affect you. If you drink too much it will affect you. If you abuse drug it will affect you. There should be moderation to everything that we are doing and so is gambling. If you know you can not control your addiction, seek help and do not gamble again.

You are absolutely correct and if any gambler will have this idea, I don't think there will be anything called addiction and might even affect them because everything will be done in moderation.

And also if they adhere to this principal, they won't be losing a lot of money because they will only gamble on what any amount of money they can afford to lose and will be affected negatively if they lose and for those who are already an addict should be offer help by providing a counselor or support them although it's not actually easy but with gradually process they will stop and always remember that anything excess will do us more of harm than good as you said.

[entertheabyss]

Had he realized his guilt, the gambler would never have paid his full salary. As a complete addict he is addicted to a level that can never be imagined, you can realize how much an addict is a threat to the family and a huge threat to the society.

Guilt is probably our conscience that fights us and this is no new thing for anyone of us. The system comes with full control and we're either ready to make it to the top in gambling or be left behind. Gambling is fatal mistake and its left for us to either decide to abandon the gambling sector or embrace it because it helps I'm generating quite significant changes.

[wiss19]

From the story narration, it's clear that even if he is given someone else's money, there is a higher possibility of him using them all to gamble, which is a clear sign and behaviour of a gambling addict.

The scenario typically happens to the familied men but the only difference is that many of them are addicted to alcohol and not gambling. This is why, wives always handle the ATM cards of their husbands. They are only trying to be safe there than sorry. Counselling might be needed for issues like this, since it deals mostly in psychology. We shall not worry because like I said earlier, scenarios like this are only common for men and they won't do anything worse like hurting their selves. They are only lay-lowing for a while, to cool down things and for them to be able to think properly again.

Another thing is that the man should also have a defined goal for why he is gambling and know when to stop

Their goals are only to have fun because they are stressed out with their full-time jobs.

[shivansps]

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

This problem is as old as time. AS long as gambling has existed, there have been people who experience similar problems with gambling. Personally, I believe that there is a type of people who should not gamble at all. That is, never at all. Your brother belongs to this group of people. That night he was just chasing a loss and trying to win it back, but as often happens, nothing came of it. If a person starts spending money that is intended for the family, then this is already a bad sign. He needs to get treatment and not play anymore. Otherwise, his life could change greatly for the worse.
The main reason is the loss of control over the situation and the false belief that he will be able to win back his losses.

[boty]

Had he realized his guilt, the gambler would never have paid his full salary. As a complete addict he is addicted to a level that can never be imagined, you can realize how much an addict is a threat to the family and a huge threat to the society.

Guilt is probably our conscience that fights us and this is no new thing for anyone of us. The system comes with full control and we're either ready to make it to the top in gambling or be left behind. Gambling is fatal mistake and its left for us to either decide to abandon the gambling sector or embrace it because it helps I'm generating quite significant changes.

If you are aware of the mistakes you have made in the gambling you are playing, of course it will be easy to leave gambling, but this is not easy for some people to do even though they are aware of this and they have to really try as hard as possible. so that they can get rid of their gambling habit and if they can do it consistently, of course they will be able to get rid of their habit and this will of course be very profitable for themselves, because they will not spend a lot of money on gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

If you are aware of the mistakes you have made in the gambling you are playing, of course it will be easy to leave gambling, but this is not easy for some people to do even though they are aware of this and they have to really try as hard as possible. so that they can get rid of their gambling habit and if they can do it consistently, of course they will be able to get rid of their habit and this will of course be very profitable for themselves, because they will not spend a lot of money on gambling.

Usually, people will not see their mistake in gambling and will not leave gambling easily and they tend to comes back to casino in the next days. That happens to many people who already lose their money and they wants to recovers their lose in other days so that's why many people doesn't realizes that they lose much money from gambling. They don't think that playing gambling and lose money is a fatal mistake because they only see the entertainment and have fun from gambling.

That makes them gets deeper in gambling and if they can't control themselves, they will gets addicted to gambling and they will lose more and money. They will not realizes that they becomes addicted to gambling and will thinks that they still okay and will still playing gambling.

[Blitzboy]

We just have to focus and think of a better way to make money as gamblers. It is not that easy to be getting consistent profits in gambling especially when one doesn't have a better source of income apart from gambling. Those that are not getting enough profits in gambling can go get a work to balance everything since we don't have to fully relent on gambling. Understanding is very important as gamblers and we need to known that gambling is not always profitable because the money we are making is someone's loses which is a reason why we don't have to be too desperate.

This can be done because of course the obvious reason for gambling is to make money, but you also need to pay attention to this, don't let this be done excessively by forcing yourself to continue gambling because you want to make money quickly, of course that's not right, because Having thoughts like that actually makes us act without considering it first, which can be a big risk for ourselves. Moreover, getting a profit in gambling is not easy because the probability and greater chance of winning owned by the house cannot be changed. What you say is correct, with casinos that have been running for quite a long time, of course the winnings you get are someone else's loss and someone is lucky enough to win at gambling, especially with big wins.
because of course winning at gambling cannot be obtained easily. Apart from that, don't force yourself to continue gambling because you want to win, because if we force ourselves to gamble it can actually make us experience bigger losses. Of course I think you already know the many cases that have happened. What happens to those who force themselves to gamble has experienced many bad impacts, even destroying their lives. Apart from that, each individual's understanding determines the actions they will take, if their understanding of gambling is wrong then losses could occur.

A small amount of thrill and risk is something that everyone like. Still, gambling? That is a trap, not a get-rich-quick plan. The house always wins. Look, I have nothing against establishing businesses and making money. Still, gambling is not the best approach to go about it. It is suckling you in and stealing your money. And you pursue it more in the hopes of that huge win the more you lose. Its a vicious cycle, and its not worth it.

I dont bet foolishly; I take measured risks. So follow my advise, make a limit, stick to it, and approach it more like fun than a job. Be not ashamed if you're already too far in. Seek assistance, get back on track. You are stronger than you believe, and you are deserving of better.

[mirakal]

If you are aware of the mistakes you have made in the gambling you are playing, of course it will be easy to leave gambling, but this is not easy for some people to do even though they are aware of this and they have to really try as hard as possible. so that they can get rid of their gambling habit and if they can do it consistently, of course they will be able to get rid of their habit and this will of course be very profitable for themselves, because they will not spend a lot of money on gambling.

Usually, people will not see their mistake in gambling and will not leave gambling easily and they tend to comes back to casino in the next days. That happens to many people who already lose their money and they wants to recovers their lose in other days so that's why many people doesn't realizes that they lose much money from gambling. They don't think that playing gambling and lose money is a fatal mistake because they only see the entertainment and have fun from gambling.

They won't see it because they don't want to accept their mistakes either. A reason why they keep committing mistakes and continue gambling like nothing bad happened with their life. When you are in addiction, you care nothing but just to gamble.

That makes them gets deeper in gambling and if they can't control themselves, they will gets addicted to gambling and they will lose more and money. They will not realizes that they becomes addicted to gambling and will thinks that they still okay and will still playing gambling.

Gambling addiction is the worst thing that ever happens in our gambling life. It is easy for some people to say to stop gambling in order to stop addiction but honestly, it works the hard way. Temptation is just around us and much more when online gambling is rampant already. Although I'm not addicted to gambling but I could still feel the impact of gambling in my life. Good thing that I was able to control myself in the chase of winning and accept the fact that gambling ruins our lives if we lose our minds.