Gambling is a fatal mistake

[tomos81]

Often the reason for a family breaking apart is when the man in the family ain't able to provide support. Some other fathers react modestly but some are harsher. It is his fault though he has to man up for that and come home as it's the kids who will suffer for his mistake.

He is your brother, you must idea where to find him. Bring him back.

The children of this family are facing exactly the same problem, as the father commits a crime of gambling and suffers losses and addictions, but his sons and daughters and wives suffer. Why is there such a rule, a gambler will commit a crime and his family will suffer the consequences. Because when a man is unable to lead a family, gambling becomes a factor in the family becoming completely destitute. A person who has gambled has faced most of the people and his family is suffering day after day.

Gambling makes people addicted in such a way that once people get into it, it becomes very difficult to get out. And there are many gamblers who have always been addicted, but can't get away from gambling, even if they are estranged from their families. Especially the gambler is guilty of creating the attitude that in the eyes of society he is the most criminal and the family is under great threat.

[samuraijin]

Often the reason for a family breaking apart is when the man in the family ain't able to provide support. Some other fathers react modestly but some are harsher. It is his fault though he has to man up for that and come home as it's the kids who will suffer for his mistake.

He is your brother, you must idea where to find him. Bring him back.

The children of this family are facing exactly the same problem, as the father commits a crime of gambling and suffers losses and addictions, but his sons and daughters and wives suffer. Why is there such a rule, a gambler will commit a crime and his family will suffer the consequences. Because when a man is unable to lead a family, gambling becomes a factor in the family becoming completely destitute. A person who has gambled has faced most of the people and his family is suffering day after day.

Gambling makes people addicted in such a way that once people get into it, it becomes very difficult to get out. And there are many gamblers who have always been addicted, but can't get away from gambling, even if they are estranged from their families. Especially the gambler is guilty of creating the attitude that in the eyes of society he is the most criminal and the family is under great threat.

It's not a matter of gambling addiction, but if you gamble using money from a loan it will certainly have fatal consequences, we are no longer surprised by people who are addicts, but what is surprising is that using money from loans has become a big risk among today's society, it's not surprising that everyone  Gamblers do this continuously without thinking about the future.

[Litzki1990]

Your brother's big mistake was gambling unplanned. Your brothers have family should have thought about his family before gambling. If your brother used to gamble and lost money by gambling and kept aside that amount of money that his brother would need every month for running the family, then maybe there would not have been such turmoil in your brother's family. It is natural for your brother's wife to fight with your brother as you have lost all the salary money because if there is no market at home your brother's family will not eat it is never a responsible person's act. You can convince your brother that since he made a mistake once, everything will be fine if he doesn't make the same mistake again.

[Gheka]

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Even though I personally believe the adjective "fatal" or "lethal" can be a kind of out of context here (because gambling by itself does not kill anyone). I kind of agree that those stories like the told by OP are more common than we all assume. We do not know about all the cases because in most of cases the gamblers hide their addiction from their family members.
Because of the extreme situations people can go through because of money, I do not cast any doubt of the horrible thingsand experiences people share here in the forum. It has been proven already: people can steal, scam and even kidnapp for the sake of gambling addiction. Thus we all need to be careful and never reach those low points in life... 

You have a point about the context and the wording.

I think that everyone understands it that it's more causing bad effects than of killing anybody. And that's true with all of those descriptions that you have mentioned.

A gambler who becomes addicted and don't have money to gamble can do anything that he can even if it takes him doing illegal things just as what you have said.

Gambling is generally wrongful and a threat to the family, regardless of how much income a person starts to make gambling losses, the entire family suffers. Because a gambling addict does not imagine how he will ever lose gambling because he willingly participates in gambling. And the more the gambler loses, the more he tries to win again until he loses all his money and is shocked.

Well, in the first place, gamblers cannot imagine a scenario where they will fail and enter these deadly swamps, they certainly just play on whims like a gentle player with happy thoughts but gambling plays a clearly manipulative role and by some miraculous transformation, both body and soul were subjected to the gambling demon and began to filter out the best and bring out the worst. Gambling is undeniably a criminal with an innocent face, just when we are most unwary, it will reveal its scariest and most dangerous face to us.

[Hispo]

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Well, in the first place, gamblers cannot imagine a scenario where they will fail and enter these deadly swamps, they certainly just play on whims like a gentle player with happy thoughts but gambling plays a clearly manipulative role and by some miraculous transformation, both body and soul were subjected to the gambling demon and began to filter out the best and bring out the worst. Gambling is undeniably a criminal with an innocent face, just when we are most unwary, it will reveal its scariest and most dangerous face to us.

I think we are starting to talk about gambling rather in a philosophical even theological term or context. I don't like to associate the earnings coming from gambling with the will of someone more powerful than us, in the same manner I don't like to blame spirits and demons on the losses someone could have suffered. It is not necessary to go beyond the pragmatism and phenomena which we already know pretty well to explain what a person addicted to gambling does and why she/he does it.
Also, I would not to go as far as saying gambling is "criminal with an innocent face", many casinos explicitly state any deposit make to their wallet is supposed to be taken as lost and gamblers are not supposed to see gambling as a source of income. Stake even has a dedicated section on its website about responsible gambling. In the end, we are the ones who decided what to do or not to do with our money.  

No casino will hold you at gun point until your deposit.

[livingfree]

You have a point about the context and the wording.

I think that everyone understands it that it's more causing bad effects than of killing anybody. And that's true with all of those descriptions that you have mentioned.

A gambler who becomes addicted and don't have money to gamble can do anything that he can even if it takes him doing illegal things just as what you have said.

Gambling is generally wrongful and a threat to the family, regardless of how much income a person starts to make gambling losses, the entire family suffers. Because a gambling addict does not imagine how he will ever lose gambling because he willingly participates in gambling. And the more the gambler loses, the more he tries to win again until he loses all his money and is shocked.

That's actually what is happening for most gamblers.

They're very happy to gamble while the money is still there on their bankrolls. But you we all know what happens next, when they don't have it anymore, what happens is they're able to notice it too soon that they're losing more money.

And when the time comes that they have finally noticed that it's all gone, that's the state of shock comes and regret but it's not longer valid and hard to recover at that phase.

[Onyeeze]

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Even though I personally believe the adjective "fatal" or "lethal" can be a kind of out of context here (because gambling by itself does not kill anyone). I kind of agree that those stories like the told by OP are more common than we all assume. We do not know about all the cases because in most of cases the gamblers hide their addiction from their family members.
Because of the extreme situations people can go through because of money, I do not cast any doubt of the horrible thingsand experiences people share here in the forum. It has been proven already: people can steal, scam and even kidnapp for the sake of gambling addiction. Thus we all need to be careful and never reach those low points in life... 

You have a point about the context and the wording.

I think that everyone understands it that it's more causing bad effects than of killing anybody. And that's true with all of those descriptions that you have mentioned.

A gambler who becomes addicted and don't have money to gamble can do anything that he can even if it takes him doing illegal things just as what you have said.

Gambling is generally wrongful and a threat to the family, regardless of how much income a person starts to make gambling losses, the entire family suffers. Because a gambling addict does not imagine how he will ever lose gambling because he willingly participates in gambling. And the more the gambler loses, the more he tries to win again until he loses all his money and is shocked.

Well, in the first place, gamblers cannot imagine a scenario where they will fail and enter these deadly swamps, they certainly just play on whims like a gentle player with happy thoughts but gambling plays a clearly manipulative role and by some miraculous transformation, both body and soul were subjected to the gambling demon and began to filter out the best and bring out the worst. Gambling is undeniably a criminal with an innocent face, just when we are most unwary, it will reveal its scariest and most dangerous face to us.

there's one particular concept that I want us to understand them gambling actually gambling is totally imagination when you are a consistent gambler but when you are not a consistent to them I don't think that you can assume that gambling is imagination, do you know that it is obvious that not every person that participate in gambling make her something good but sometimes the benefited in gambling through opportunity not really sure that this opportunity will manifest so in summary gambling is like a trial when you make your own trial and the happen to come to reality that is your only luck opportunity in gambling