Should there be a limit to investing in your children?

[Rabata]

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Every parent strives for the best for their child. If they can bring up their children with all the facilities then they can get better service from them. Moreover, the children will always do well or do a good job or business, this is the same expectation of all parents. If you ask any parent directly why they are spending so much money on their children? the answer will be that they want their children to have a bright future. To ensure this bright future, they are spending money in various ways in the country and abroad for their children. They also think that if the child would be establish then the parents will have an assured life. It is natural for every parent to spend according to their ability but those who overspend are doing nothing but wasting money.

[Salmanbrembo11]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

In my opinion, there must also be limits because if we force children too much to invest, the fear is that they will become bored and feel regretful, it's better to limit it first and so that the child can read and relate knowledge from more experienced people and can start little by little so that when they grow up later It will be easier for children to understand investing and not be careless

[red4slash]

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Every parent strives for the best for their child. If they can bring up their children with all the facilities then they can get better service from them. Moreover, the children will always do well or do a good job or business, this is the same expectation of all parents. If you ask any parent directly why they are spending so much money on their children? the answer will be that they want their children to have a bright future. To ensure this bright future, they are spending money in various ways in the country and abroad for their children. They also think that if the child would be establish then the parents will have an assured life. It is natural for every parent to spend according to their ability but those who overspend are doing nothing but wasting money.

But on the other hand, we must be aware that things like this are a form of responsibility and role of parents for their children so that providing adequate facilities and other supports such as education and a decent life is our responsibility as parents and as long as we are able to give the best like this so it must be done. It's just that what's bothering me here is the OP's statement that where he currently lives, children are like a gamble where they will be given a good education and proper facilities so that when they grow up they can support their large family and I think it's like exploitation in the end. . Even though children definitely want to be filial, that doesn't mean they have to bear the entire burden of their parents' needs in the future and I don't think good parents would be comfortable treating their children like that.

[Fortify]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Not really, most parents would give anything to help support their children - not for any reward back but just because it is the normal thing to do in life. It can help give a greater meaning to your own life if you're raising children and you can pass on the very definition of right and wrong, guiding them to become upstanding citizens as best you can. Getting them a decent education, keeping them healthy and fit are all important but also nourish your own soul. Financially, the number has probably gone up by now but until the age of 18 you're probably going to spend at a minimum $250k or equivalent on raising them. Not that they owe you anything necessarily but it can often come back to your benefit in old age if they support you in return.

[Maslate]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Not really, most parents would give anything to help support their children - not for any reward back but just because it is the normal thing to do in life. It can help give a greater meaning to your own life if you're raising children and you can pass on the very definition of right and wrong, guiding them to become upstanding citizens as best you can. Getting them a decent education, keeping them healthy and fit are all important but also nourish your own soul. Financially, the number has probably gone up by now but until the age of 18 you're probably going to spend at a minimum $250k or equivalent on raising them. Not that they owe you anything necessarily but it can often come back to your benefit in old age if they support you in return.

When it comes to our children, parents should always give out their best in order to raise their children the best way possible. Children create reflection of their parents, if they are not raised well and haven’t experienced good upbringing, these children will become irresponsible and become brutal and arrogant, all those negative traits will possibly reflect to the parents and people will ask them how’s their upbringing on their children.  So its parents obligation to invest in their children without limits, all for the sake of their bright future ahead, not actually to return the favor to their parents.

[Hamphser]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Not really, most parents would give anything to help support their children - not for any reward back but just because it is the normal thing to do in life. It can help give a greater meaning to your own life if you're raising children and you can pass on the very definition of right and wrong, guiding them to become upstanding citizens as best you can. Getting them a decent education, keeping them healthy and fit are all important but also nourish your own soul. Financially, the number has probably gone up by now but until the age of 18 you're probably going to spend at a minimum $250k or equivalent on raising them. Not that they owe you anything necessarily but it can often come back to your benefit in old age if they support you in return.

When it comes to our children, parents should always give out their best in order to raise their children the best way possible. Children create reflection of their parents, if they are not raised well and haven’t experienced good upbringing, these children will become irresponsible and become brutal and arrogant, all those negative traits will possibly reflect to the parents and people will ask them how’s their upbringing on their children.  So its parents obligation to invest in their children without limits, all for the sake of their bright future ahead, not actually to return the favor to their parents.

As a parent then it is really that our responsibility but there are ones who do make their children as some sort of investment on which on the moment or time that they would be finishing up their studies then they would really be that making them as some sort of their life line on which it is really that mandated for them to help them on and buy on the thing or mainly supporting their needs on which we know that this thing isnt right because as a parent then it is really that something a part of our responsibility on raising them up. If ever they would really be tending to look back on the moment that they do finish up their studies
and give out their support back into you as parents then its good but it would really be better that you shouldnt really be expecting something that need to be given back because on the moment that they would really be turning their back then it would really be that a huge disappointment on your part as a parent. So better that plan on having that savings fund on the moment that you do get old.

[uchegod-21]

This is not all about parents and children, it is an economic ideology that has been raining from the industrial ages to this very time this time. Before now it is believed that the best way to success is to train a child in higher institution, allow the child to get a job and then get married and take care of his family. This process is still working in the Western world where their is job opportunity and the the pay is encouraging. But in the country like mine, that's very formula is no longer working and that is why parents are beginning to regret training their children in higher institution against every odds.

According to op you will see poor parents go a long way indepting themselves in order to train their children in higher institution. Even in the deteriorated educational sector, they also send in some money to the lecturers in order to buy good grades for their children. But in the end you will understand that it is also difficult for such children to be gainfully employed. The system has actually backfired but then our parents doesn't seem to realize. They are still giving their bests and expecting the best.

[Smack That Ace]

This is not all about parents and children, it is an economic ideology that has been raining from the industrial ages to this very time this time. Before now it is believed that the best way to success is to train a child in higher institution, allow the child to get a job and then get married and take care of his family. This process is still working in the Western world where their is job opportunity and the the pay is encouraging. But in the country like mine, that's very formula is no longer working and that is why parents are beginning to regret training their children in higher institution against every odds.

Why do you think that formula is no longer effective in your country while developed countries still use that formula and are still highly effective?
If that is not the way to create talented people and good leaders, then what is the formula to help our children become talented and successful people in the future?

According to op you will see poor parents go a long way indepting themselves in order to train their children in higher institution. Even in the deteriorated educational sector, they also send in some money to the lecturers in order to buy good grades for their children. But in the end you will understand that it is also difficult for such children to be gainfully employed. The system has actually backfired but then our parents doesn't seem to realize. They are still giving their bests and expecting the best.

Spending money to buy good grades for their child is completely different from investing in sending your child to study at reputable schools and ensuring the quality of education. It is clear that parents in your country are contributing to making the educational situation there worse by using money to buy good grades for their children. But then blame education when their children do not have good knowledge, and cannot get a job after graduating.

[slapper]

This is not all about parents and children, it is an economic ideology that has been raining from the industrial ages to this very time this time. Before now it is believed that the best way to success is to train a child in higher institution, allow the child to get a job and then get married and take care of his family. This process is still working in the Western world where their is job opportunity and the the pay is encouraging. But in the country like mine, that's very formula is no longer working and that is why parents are beginning to regret training their children in higher institution against every odds.

According to op you will see poor parents go a long way indepting themselves in order to train their children in higher institution. Even in the deteriorated educational sector, they also send in some money to the lecturers in order to buy good grades for their children. But in the end you will understand that it is also difficult for such children to be gainfully employed. The system has actually backfired but then our parents doesn't seem to realize. They are still giving their bests and expecting the best.

This ain't just about buying overpriced degree. The economy is flooding, threatening your child's future. You save hard for Johnny's college, expecting he'll be a lawyer or doctor. What if a million Johnnys want the same white-collar job?

Old rules don't function anymore because the world is changing quickly. Man, we must change. Not all teenagers should go through college meat grinder. Instead, give them options. Starting a business, acquiring vocational training, or working in the trades might make you happy. Stop thinking college is the only way to succeed and start valuing job-related abilities

[MissNonFall9]

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Every parent strives for the best for their child. If they can bring up their children with all the facilities then they can get better service from them. Moreover, the children will always do well or do a good job or business, this is the same expectation of all parents. If you ask any parent directly why they are spending so much money on their children? the answer will be that they want their children to have a bright future. To ensure this bright future, they are spending money in various ways in the country and abroad for their children. They also think that if the child would be establish then the parents will have an assured life. It is natural for every parent to spend according to their ability but those who overspend are doing nothing but wasting money.

It is true that every parent nurtures their children as best as they can to see the children in a bigger and better condition in the future because the parents feel proud when the children do well. Besides, it is also a big reason for the child to take good care of his parents. Everything is fine but one should not go beyond one's means to nurture them or take a big degree. But if moral education can be given to the children then that education will become a resource for the future or old age of the parents.

[Kriptogram14]

It is true that every parent nurtures their children as best as they can to see the children in a bigger and better condition in the future because the parents feel proud when the children do well. Besides, it is also a big reason for the child to take good care of his parents. Everything is fine but one should not go beyond one's means to nurture them or take a big degree. But if moral education can be given to the children then that education will become a resource for the future or old age of the parents.

Parental upbringing of children greatly influences the child's future, whether it is good or bad, it depends on the child's parents, because from childhood to adulthood the role of parents is very important for the child, both from education to the love of parents towards their child.

Likewise with investments that are passed on to children by their parents which can later be used as well as possible by the child when they grow up, from childhood they have been taught useful knowledge, good morals and manners, as well as responsibility for what is late. obligations to him and his family when he grows up.

[Lanatsa]

It is true that every parent nurtures their children as best as they can to see the children in a bigger and better condition in the future because the parents feel proud when the children do well. Besides, it is also a big reason for the child to take good care of his parents. Everything is fine but one should not go beyond one's means to nurture them or take a big degree. But if moral education can be given to the children then that education will become a resource for the future or old age of the parents.

Parental upbringing of children greatly influences the child's future, whether it is good or bad, it depends on the child's parents, because from childhood to adulthood the role of parents is very important for the child, both from education to the love of parents towards their child.

Likewise with investments that are passed on to children by their parents which can later be used as well as possible by the child when they grow up, from childhood they have been taught useful knowledge, good morals and manners, as well as responsibility for what is late. obligations to him and his family when he grows up.

Not at all but majority on whats been told or simply on how you had nurtured your kids would really be that something that they would be having or would really be bringing until the very end or on the moment that they would really be that become independent but just like on what i have said that this isnt always the case on where there are children whose really that too stubborn and ending up on the different path despite on being told on what are those good things on which telling them about the proper manner and other various things on which isnt really that bad for them but still ending up on engaging on things which arent supposed to be done due to some external influences. This is why we cant really be giving out that 100% reflection on how parents would be raising up their kids.

As for investing into your children or kids then it would normal that you would really be giving out your very best on providing them about the best thing that they could have.
We dont want for them to have that hassle and hard living and this is why we do our very best on supporting to them but i do agree that we should also be mindful
about on the things that we would be having left in terms of future because we know that soon they would really be still making their own family and still leave us on the end.

[uswa56]

When it comes to our children, parents should always give out their best in order to raise their children the best way possible. Children create reflection of their parents, if they are not raised well and haven’t experienced good upbringing, these children will become irresponsible and become brutal and arrogant, all those negative traits will possibly reflect to the parents and people will ask them how’s their upbringing on their children.  So its parents obligation to invest in their children without limits, all for the sake of their bright future ahead, not actually to return the favor to their parents.

When someone has a child then as a parent of course they have responsibility for their child's education and must be able to give the best to their child, as a child of course they will be able to easily imitate the habits of their parents and as a parent of course they must be able to set a good example for their children and don't let our children do things that are inappropriate for them to imitate, which makes them imitate the bad behavior that we do.

If a child does not receive a good upbringing from their parents, of course as parents they are not responsible and this will make their child do whatever they please and as a child who does not receive a good upbringing from their parents, it is certainly very difficult for them. to be managed and most of them often get into trouble due to lack of education from their parents. Yes, it is our obligation as parents to invest in their children so that their children have a bright life and as parents they will never expect anything in return from their children when they are old.

[m2017]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

Education is a very profitable business. Education (of children) is somewhat like investing: first you give money to unknown people, in the hope that they will teach your children to earn money in the future, some of which will return to you in the form of help from them (children). But as with investing, there's no guarantee you'll get back more than you give. In this scheme, only the seller of educational services probably makes money.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Spending money and time on education doesn't mean that your children will learn to earn money, but it may turn out that they will pointlessly spend these years in an educational institution, paid for by their parents, without any desire to progress. Maybe then you can just buy bitcoin and not complicate your life by dubiously spending money on your children’s education.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

It is necessary to proceed from the child’s abilities. If a child is born just to work as a cashier in a supermarket, then you should not spend money on his education at Harvard. This will turn out to be an unsustainable investment. I believe that we should spend only as much on children’s education as they have intellectual abilities and a desire to learn and develop. Ultimately, if a child (already at a conscious, adult age) at a certain moment realizes that he is capable of more and wants to learn, then he can independently take care of paying for his education (loans, money from current work).

[~speedx~]

Of course one should not go beyond one's means. In any case. Because life is very uncertain. Parents always want to do well with their children and sometimes they go beyond their means. But I will say that since we don't know what our future holds.  Therefore, it is better to do something beyond the capacity and not regret later. But if the son and daughter are honest people, then the sacrifice made by the parents will be useful.

[Mame89]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

I wouldn't call it an investment, because it is your obligation as a parent to provide the best for your child in the future. Funding children to achieve higher education by selling some assets is a parent's obligation, and this obligation does not mean treating children like investments.

Because actually this is just about how each parent treats their child, how parents pay attention to their child so that the child gets love from their parents, and how parents care for their child so that the child also feels the same way about their parents if they have been successful. Because very few children hate their parents.

So there is no need to consider children as investments, children also know how to be filial to their parents. Because I believe that without considering children as investments, children also know how they should treat their parents. The nature of children towards their parents depends on how the parents treat their children.

[Viscore]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

I wouldn't call it an investment, because it is your obligation as a parent to provide the best for your child in the future. Funding children to achieve higher education by selling some assets is a parent's obligation, and this obligation does not mean treating children like investments.

Because actually this is just about how each parent treats their child, how parents pay attention to their child so that the child gets love from their parents, and how parents care for their child so that the child also feels the same way about their parents if they have been successful. Because very few children hate their parents.

So there is no need to consider children as investments, children also know how to be filial to their parents. Because I believe that without considering children as investments, children also know how they should treat their parents. The nature of children towards their parents depends on how the parents treat their children.

Whether these children may considered investments or not, still parents are obliged to provide for the needs of their children even putting them in debt for the sake of their children. That’s should be the mindset of parents, so that their children will also learn how to value their hardwork and sacrifices in return and take good care of them when they’re already incapable to provide for theirselves. Parents should always seek the best for their children, as well as children in return when they already have a good source of income should prioritize their parents first above anything else.

[Assface16678]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

I wouldn't call it an investment, because it is your obligation as a parent to provide the best for your child in the future. Funding children to achieve higher education by selling some assets is a parent's obligation, and this obligation does not mean treating children like investments.

Because actually this is just about how each parent treats their child, how parents pay attention to their child so that the child gets love from their parents, and how parents care for their child so that the child also feels the same way about their parents if they have been successful. Because very few children hate their parents.

So there is no need to consider children as investments, children also know how to be filial to their parents. Because I believe that without considering children as investments, children also know how they should treat their parents. The nature of children towards their parents depends on how the parents treat their children.

Whether these children may considered investments or not, still parents are obliged to provide for the needs of their children even putting them in debt for the sake of their children. That’s should be the mindset of parents, so that their children will also learn how to value their hardwork and sacrifices in return and take good care of them when they’re already incapable to provide for theirselves. Parents should always seek the best for their children, as well as children in return when they already have a good source of income should prioritize their parents first above anything else.

Exactly! That is the reason why many people are not excelling in life because their parents think of them as investments and want them to work so that they can handle the burden of the family, which is not a good idea because how can an individual grow or be successful if all the burden is passed down to them? I get it. Children should also give something to their parents to show their appreciation, but of course, it depends on their will. That's why the most important thing here is you as a parent. It's also your responsibility to grow yourself and not let yourself rely on your child. You as a parent should provide the best life they could have because it is your responsibility. It's up to them if they will return the favour or not; if not, then it only shows that you are either not good parents or he doesn't have the sense of self to at least his or her parents, even a little. 

[N.O]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

Retirement plan? Not all parents thinks in such way and also not all children are dependent with their parents upon finishing their studies. It depends on how a parent would raise their child whether they'd be spoiled or become independent afterwards.

Personally, there should be no limit because as a parent, that is your responsibility to give them a bright future while they're still young and once they meet adulthood, you should be guiding them to be a better individual. Children shouldn't be required to give things back to you and that's how strong parents should be. Being a parent is a big responsibility and that's why it should be planned. If you're a parent who is afraid to invest for your child because you're worried that they might not be returning things to you, then you're still not ready for such responsibility.

I agree with you because parents should be responsible for everything . They should train their child to show good character. Because in life character matters a lot and people judge a man by his character because our life is very short and we should meet with people with calmly and we should importance to the people. Our children are our great assets because they will take care of us when will be old . We should take responsibility of their career and we should register them is best school and college and that is  place where they will grow and they will provide service in professional life. Otherwise,they will work work like a labor and they will get the money of their work . They will get no protocol of rich people and they will be poorer and poorer. That is your responsibility to give them financial knowledge because financial knowledge is very important in life to excel.

[Promocodeudo]

There is a current trend in my country where parents are doing everything financially possible to give their children the best education. Some parents have gone to the extent of selling properties or taking loans to send their children to some of the best schools in and outside the country. I have spoken with some of them, and the reason they give is that this child will get good jobs and take care of them in the future.

I had to bring up this issue because most of them are becoming disappointed and depressed. In my location, children are seen as an investment because they have the responsibility to take care of their parents when they are retired, old, or unemployed. So parents will want to invest high in education because they think it will bring high returns. Many of these students who attended prestigious schools end up becoming unemployed and are still depending on their parents to survive. I also assume that many of them regret going the extra mile to give their children the best. They have lost money and are also in debt but their children are still dependants.

Do you think parents should have a limit on the amount they can invest in their children?

First of all as parents it an obligation to Carter for your children and the family at large, giving your children good education is not bad because it may be fruitful in the future but if you don't have what it takes to send them to schools outside your country or best schools in your country, I believe you can send them to average schools too within your means, investing in children is perfect but borrowing without having means to pay back and hoping on your children to payback in the future is not a good idea, we should understand that no matter how we see it, the future is unpredictable, beside going to a good school does not guarantee employment in some countries, for me I will say that parents should invest what the can but if parents are buoyant enough to invest in their children to any level they should, after all it is a commitment that parents must make to brighten the future of their children, education is a good foundation to success although it is not certain that every successuf person must be educated but it is very fundamental to human mental growth.
There shouldn't be limitation on parents investing in their children unless there is know efficient means to that effect, if all is in good shape in terms of finances then such parents should do the needful because it is worth it.