Ever Hated someone because he/she win too much, when you are constantly losing?

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.



- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

[Oshosondy]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?

Why will I be jealous. I can not be jealous of something like that. I have a friend like that many years ago and I did not jealous of him. I can not even be jealous of my friends progress. But I wish for progress also.

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Why not just follow my friend and gamble what he gambles 

[Orpichukwu]

That dude needs to take a break and work on himself. He is indirectly not happy for the progress of his friend; in fact, he doesn't see that other person as a friend; rather, he now sees him as a competitor, which is really what I see in the whole situation, and if he doesn't control himself, he might end up doing something silly to his friend, which he might not even believe he was the one that did that.

[passwordnow]

That's jealousy, I may not be a winner at times and I am a loser with my bets. But when others are winning, it's like a consolation to me and that's what I like happening. So, if I don't win but I see others are happy and winning, I'd be more than happy to see them win more. I don't know about people that hates or envy other people for their own reasons. But as you grow older, you'll come to realize that it's not a good attitude. It will only make your mind think badly everyday and it won't help you grow as a person. So, if there are others that are winning, I'd even cheer them up to win some more if they continue but if they are losing and I think that they're in a losing streak and they've been out of control then I'd give them some tap in their backs to at least stop and take some rest. Jealousy will bring nothing to ourselves but being happy for others might even give us some better connections with them.

[AliMan]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

I think this behavior was due to frustrations of a person but, we need to understand that gambling winnings was because of luck and nothing personal with our friend who take the best opportunity to take that huge advantage. However if you lose such money because of being greed and wrong mindset affected you a lot, then nobody should be blame on that but ourselves. When I'm ask about it if Im happy for my friend who got good winnings, then still I'll remain nice and happy for him because that's the best attitude to have. Though we can't control other person's emotions, and mine should be learn by others too in order to prevent certain conflict as well.

[SmartGold01]

I don't think there is something to hate here or becoming jealous of him. if I were the person the only thing I will tell him is that since I don't regularly win while we go out any amount I could have used to gamble I would give him to gamble with together maybe if my money win then I take my winning if he lost then is not my fault. So, on the other hands he can be playing for two and win simultaneously by then we both feels happy and go home together and if he refuse I will promise to give him money to gamble but on a 50/50 game meaning if he wins I have 50 percent of his winning if I am the one funding his account. It is just that all humans aren't the same and the spirit of jealousy is always there to over rule humans otherwise I don't see any reason to be jealous here.

[Rruchi man]

we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

There is a good type of jealousy that motivates someone to want to do better and keep trying, but this is an example of the bad kind of jealousy because it is promoting and propagating hate.

You should never begin to hate a friend because they are succeeding in gambling or any other thing and you are not, everyone has their time and it is possible that your time will soon come. So until that time when your time comes, stay clapping and cheering others who are winning.

[mirakal]

Be honest with him and tell him that gambling is not making you good anymore. So you need to take a break or even leave gambling for good. I think he won't have a hold for that since we have every right to stop gambling when we think it's not becoming our thing anymore.

If he can continue gambling on his own, much better without dragging you anymore. If the respect is there, then it will be good for both of you. While you manage to leave gambling for your own good, and he will become independent on his own personal interest with gambling.

[wheelz1200]

Nah that's negative energy nobody needs in their life.  For me gambling is a hobby so I actually root for people to win around me.  At least in person it's much more fun when people are winning.  When people are losing around me I don't want to gamble all that much.  Who doesn't like when everyone is jumping up and down.

[alani123]

I think new gamblers have fewer delusions and are much more likely to stop before going bust.

Many people that okay gambling for years however are likely to have delusions that someday they will hit it big. Completely negsting to account for the fact that the have made money which is so far less than the totals they put in even if they hit a 100x.

It's such a crazy analogy to put down how much people chasing big wins lose and also how fast they lose sometimes. They just go in careless with an all or nothing attitude. So OP is also likely this type of person as well.

[AmoreJaz]

Nah that's negative energy nobody needs in their life.  For me gambling is a hobby so I actually root for people to win around me.  At least in person it's much more fun when people are winning.  When people are losing around me I don't want to gamble all that much.  Who doesn't like when everyone is jumping up and down.

That person should approach it in a different way. As he said, his friend is always having his luck, why not make a deal with him to fund him and arrange the purse split? But if they will lose, they should accept it. Not being happy with your friend winning is indeed a negative energy that we should not entertain in our lives. If you feel you are not lucky in gambling despite of trying your hands on it in various ways, then, stop. Maybe, you have other things to do other than force yourself into this activity. So in my case, I don't hate someone if he wins on his games, just happy with his achievements.

Though being envious is a normal reaction but not to the point that you should hate that person. You may have other aspects of life that you are lucky about. Just think about it.

[sunsilk]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?

I'm not gonna feel envy when my best friend is winning, I'm not that type of person. And even with some strangers sharing their wins, there's a reason to celebrate it and not hate it.

And losing is part of gambling.

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

I'll put my shoes on this kind of reasoning.

If I am envying him because he's a winner and I'm a loser, I might just say that and will step away temporarily. But with these feelings, they're not going to last forever.

People may feel envy now but it will gradually be gone.

[Yatsan]

Not only a normal hate, but this isore of envy. However, we cant do anything about this. It is either you'd beg for him to help you with your bets or just watch in a far and wait for your luck to kick in. It is either he's lucky or just good at gambling. Being envious of someone who is achieving things we cannot is a normal thing however, if it causes hatred then it's not. It should more motivate you to do better in the first place. Luck won't come on a daily basis, and same goes with winning on your bets. But think of this, what would you achieve from hating someone who is good at something? Nothing. You just wasted your time and energy but it won't help you in any aspect if your motive is just to compare yourself. If you can't bare with losing then gambling is not for you. You can't just want something and it will just happen in accordance to your will. You gamble to test your luck and enjoy.

[freedomgo]

Nah, our friend is our friend. We should be happy if they are successful in gambling, unless we have that jealousy within us, which is not good. Why not just ask for some tips on how to win? If you still can't win, consider investing money in your friend. This problem can be easily fixed, but it requires greater understanding and love. Jealousy inside us will only harm us in the future. Thinking we're better and should be the ones winning can make us unhappy when others are happy.

Life is short. Let's cut this kind of negativity and not believe in words like "constantly losing." That's not gambling anymore. In gambling, we win and lose, but we often have more losses than wins. If we constantly lose, we're just wasting money, and we should stop gambling before it bankrupts us.

[ralle14]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

As long as I can keep on spending money that I can afford to lose then i'll continue to go with my friend. You don't know when they'll get busy in the future, so better to spend time with them while you can.

I also get jealous whenever I see others win while i'm having the worst luck at betting, but there's no need to go that far and hate them. I wouldn't blame my friend if I kept on losing there are only a few games where you can have an impact on other gamblers and even then there's no need to create a big deal out of it.

[Moreno233]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

People hate for several reasons and it is even worse when someone is making progress so I will not be surprised when people start to express hatred for someone winning gambling often. Thankfully online casino have come to make it possible for gambling to remain completely private and confidential. So unless I tell my friends what I do, no one will know and I like it that way.

I do not see any need hating my friends because they win because I believe that if my friends are making progress, it somehow affect me positively because I will share in their joy and sometimes I partake in enjoying the proceed because we are friends. They never cheated me to win neither is their winning hindering me from winning so why should I hate  my friend for winning often?

[danherbias07]

Hate is a strong word, it's just envy that I feel when I hear someone wins a lot.

There's a solution for that dude but I think his pride is stopping him. Give him the money and let him do the playing since he always wins. If he is really a friend then I bet he will do that for him.
He could come and just support him and maybe be the manager if he doesn't have the money but let him pay with some interest so that he can make more. It's better that way than starting to hate him for his success. Also, that dude should start looking for a new hobby since he cannot find his luck in gambling. 

[klidex]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Feelings of envy towards friends are a bad feeling, this also sometimes causes friendships to break down just because we don't like it if our friends are happier than us. This kind of behavior is difficult to avoid even though there is a feeling of annoyance within ourselves because we always experience misfortune but it comes back again, we must assume that gambling is a game of chance and we must not be jealous of the success of our friends who may be lucky at that time, but I am sure that as time goes by, someone will lose their lucky period and will experience continuous defeat.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

If that happened to me, I would look for various reasons to avoid it. I mean that doesn't mean I hate it, it's just that I want to calm myself down and accept my defeat without having to irritate my friend because what made me lose was not my friend but the gambling game itself who has made us like this.

[Churchillvv]

We are always going to see things happening for real. This is not different from every other hate cases that we all know, people do help others succeed while they remain in their old positions but sometimes all this thibgs are just temptations but if you can overcome them you might find your own success along the line.

Personally I can't judge the person in this case because I don't know what will be my reaction of this happens to me but I will definitely be somehow jealous for real, people might say otherwise but this is real but we must accept somethings to be so and once we accept it then becomes a step to our own success.

For me I will hit him up straight. yo man I'm not okay with losing all the time and as a result I will withdraw from gambling since I'm losing too much. or maybe if people think like me I can even just join money with him since he wins more and whatevr be the profit I only get my share based on the funds I have raised. if he agrees then it becomes a win-win situation for us and then I can keep going to the casino with him, very simple but common sense may not be common.

[GreatArkansas]

we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

There is a good type of jealousy that motivates someone to want to do better and keep trying, but this is an example of the bad kind of jealousy because it is promoting and propagating hate.
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I see this issue. The issue here seems so personal because as we can see the guy is just basically jealous of his friend which for me some people really exist, it is just sad because it's your friend you feel and think about.
Because if I am in his situation, I will be more happy. Especially gambling is more on luck and that's normal.