Ever Hated someone because he/she win too much, when you are constantly losing?

[lienfaye]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

I will tell the truth that I don't want to come with him because it only attracts me to gamble even I don't really intend to. Seeing this friend winning motivates me, and then I will just end up a loser. So to prevent this from happening, I will decline his request to be his companion and will not accept any bribe from him.

Because their set up is not good anymore when the guy started to hate this friend for constantly winning. Therefore, why stress myself if I can do something to stay away from this friend as well as from spending my money in gambling?

[adaseb]

You need to realise that on the internet, when someone brags about their winnings, there is a chance they are doing it purely to get attention. You go on twitter and you see people posting their stats of their winnings and it makes you wonder, what are those losses like? When you come to realise you will find out that most barely had any winnings because their losers were just as common as their winners.

I dont know why people do this. Many do this even in real life. They pretend to be a winner when they are clearly not. Eventually their friends and family start to hate them because they are jealous of their success when in fact the truth is it was all a lie to begin with. I am sure not every case is like this but many are, the OP situation that was posted is slightly different.

[joniboini]

I wonder why the OP from the story is not imitating his friend's bets though. Is it simply because he lacks the capital to do so or is there another reason? I wonder to what extent he told his friend about his issue with his behavior too. At the end of the day telling strangers on the internet won't help much if he never said anything to his friend. If he's a really good friend he should be able to understand OP's problem instead of guilt-tripping him whenever he wants to play some games.

I have more or less the same issue over gacha luck. Sometimes I feel really lucky, then I see another person who always gets everything he wants early without spending a lot of money. Definitely makes me feel sour, not to the point of hating them though.

[Su-asa]

You are a kind of bad person if the person you called your best friend is winning and you are not happy for his success. However if y>your friend is winning more than you do, the best thing to do is to ask him to teach you have he predict his games or if possible also stake on the same games with the same predictions with him. Success is not a thing one should be angry about, mostly if it happens to someone closer to you.
Success from gamble has time and season, when it always reaching you, you just grab it because no body knows if the next predictions will not work well. As you are angry for your friends winning, it means you won't be happy when you too are winning. Moreover it's only a greedy person that doesn't feel happy when someone closer to them is winning and they are losing. The important thing someone who's losing is supposed to do is pray for his own winnings to come.

[KTChampions]

A made-up topic to attract likes/attention. I doubt that such a situation can arise in reality and continue for a long time. If his friend is so lucky, then why haven't they become high rollers and made a lot of money? If you believe the post, then in a couple (where the loser works as a lucky amulet) they can win all the time. I think this is either a completely made up story or greatly exaggerated.

It could be made up, but it also could be real. I've seen strange things in my life and this wouldn't be the strangest.
What the guy who loses feels is just good old envy. The same envy you feel when you and your friend like the same girl and you feel like you're better than him, more attractive, with a better job and stuff and she chooses him. Of course you'll feel bad about it. There's a simple fix to this. Stop going to the casino with him if you know how it ends every time. I don't get why the author punishes himself by continuing to do the activity that leads him to loss and regret.

Yes, envy is a natural feeling (which is actually useful on a population scale and leads to progress), but you need to be able to cope with it. Being able to overcome envy is useful, first of all, for the one who experiences it - if you fail to do this, then there will be a lot of losers around him (they have nothing to envy) and such an environment is clearly not the best social network that you can build around yourself.

[bangjoe]

Envy is present when not being able to get what others get, I think that person feels jealous of his friend and that is not a good thing to continue in his friendship, the OP should realize that maybe he doesn't have luck in the gacha game, he should look for other games that he himself is capable of and understand how to play so that it gives him a greater chance of winning.

And why not ask his friend himself, how he can get that luck so well, maybe there are tips and tricks, but what is also quite realized is that he needs to calm down not to feel competitive that he has to get the same victory as his friend, because it will trigger impulsive gambling behavior and will interfere with his finances.

[sompitonov]

Envy is present when not being able to get what others get, I think that person feels jealous of his friend and that is not a good thing to continue in his friendship, the OP should realize that maybe he doesn't have luck in the gacha game, he should look for other games that he himself is capable of and understand how to play so that it gives him a greater chance of winning.

And why not ask his friend himself, how he can get that luck so well, maybe there are tips and tricks, but what is also quite realized is that he needs to calm down not to feel competitive that he has to get the same victory as his friend, because it will trigger impulsive gambling behavior and will interfere with his finances.

The fact is that the number of winners and the winnings themselves are limited, and only a few players will get them, and the rest of the majority seems to be added up to this prize, and also part of the money goes to the casino’s profit. You need to understand that only a small part will win, so this friend ended up among these lucky ones, and the OP was simply unlucky.

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

[TopTort777]

I wonder why the OP from the story is not imitating his friend's bets though. Is it simply because he lacks the capital to do so or is there another reason? I wonder to what extent he told his friend about his issue with his behavior too. At the end of the day telling strangers on the internet won't help much if he never said anything to his friend. If he's a really good friend he should be able to understand OP's problem instead of guilt-tripping him whenever he wants to play some games.

I have more or less the same issue over gacha luck. Sometimes I feel really lucky, then I see another person who always gets everything he wants early without spending a lot of money. Definitely makes me feel sour, not to the point of hating them though.

What if they are playing games when you cant imitate your friends bet. Blackjack for example. Something inside of me tells that his friend might be in cahoots with the casino. He brings him to casino, gets % of the amount his friend lost. Offline referral system in its beauty What this guy should do is 1) try to resist going with his friend and stop being lucky charm 2) try to gamble without that friend 3) I wonder if the tried changing the casino.

[swogerino]

I am always happy when someone hits it big yet I know most people are envious of each other and this is a worldwide illness as because of this starts every evil in the world,from cheating couples to starting of wars.We need to address this worldwide illness first and then quite a lot of problems will be solved,enough of being an idealist and let's come down to our harsh reality which is the one said above,most people does not want you to be happy,to be climbing carrier ladders,to make more money than them and have a better life than them.The same for someone hitting it big,most people won't be happy for that person.

[hedgeh0g]

I am always happy when someone hits it big yet I know most people are envious of each other and this is a worldwide illness as because of this starts every evil in the world,from cheating couples to starting of wars.We need to address this worldwide illness first and then quite a lot of problems will be solved,enough of being an idealist and let's come down to our harsh reality which is the one said above,most people does not want you to be happy,to be climbing carrier ladders,to make more money than them and have a better life than them.The same for someone hitting it big,most people won't be happy for that person.

I also agree with you that we need to think more positively, even when it comes to gambling and especially our friends. Luck itself chooses whom to come to, and we cannot influence it, so why be jealous and angry. If we react this way to the successes of people around us, friends and relatives, then in the end we will remain embittered and lonely, this is the path for weak and cowardly people. Therefore, I will also be happy if my friend wins at least a little, and I lose, I advise many other players to learn to enjoy these things, even if they are now having the opposite reaction to it.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

The fact that he keep losing while his best friend keep winning everytime they both go gamble at the casino is a catalyst to ignite envy and jealousy between both parties, but let him not forget that his best friend is not the reason why he is constantly losing, as it could simply be because he lacks knowledge about that very particular game or something else, and in such situation, the best advice/solution will be to learn the very casino game if it is a game that requires skill rather than envying. But if it is a general luck base game, then he should rather be happy that they are not both losing, as it's likely his best friend will definitely appreciate him after he had won big. But if it's obvious he has been eating his winning alone, without showing appreciation, that's when you should reject his next request to follow him to go gamble at the casino in a friendly manner.

[piebeyb]

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Don't neglect friendship, especially just because our friends keep winning at gambling and we lose, in fact we can give full support to our friends to be able to get more profits and always remind our friends to stop when playing. Sometimes every gambler who keeps winning often forgets. yourself and continue playing until in the end you lose again and all your winnings are just lost, as friends we should not be jealous because luck comes to anyone, even ourselves and our friends will definitely not be jealous of us, so vice versa, so the point is not need to be jealous of our friends who are lucky.

[EarnOnVictor]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Trust me, this is human and no one should say they can't envy anyone in this situation, it may happen to you before you know you are capable. But the good part is that when you feel like that, just try to control it and be happy with your friend, but to say you will not feel bad whatsoever about it is a lie. However, this should not stop your friendship or change anything about your outing, just find a good plan around it, that's me.

Also, at times, some people could say they hated the friend, but in practice are only feeling that way due to envy, but deeply inside them couldn't hate the friend, they may not know how to express themselves in that situation and mistaken it for hate. Notwithstanding, I advise the guy to rejoice with his friend or even partner with him since one is a winner and the other is a loser. Why then continue to lose when you can still win through your friend? This is better than the necessary feeling and ranting.

[topbitcoin]

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Don't neglect friendship, especially just because our friends keep winning at gambling and we lose, in fact we can give full support to our friends to be able to get more profits and always remind our friends to stop when playing. Sometimes every gambler who keeps winning often forgets. yourself and continue playing until in the end you lose again and all your winnings are just lost, as friends we should not be jealous because luck comes to anyone, even ourselves and our friends will definitely not be jealous of us, so vice versa, so the point is not need to be jealous of our friends who are lucky.

Yes it is a wiser action than having to instill jealousy because it cannot be a person like him who is always lucky in his gambling.
Friendship is more important than any, especially friends who have been communicating since childhood, it would be very bad if there was a sense of jealousy because it would destroy the pendiman that had been built for a very long time.

Yes, we better support him and remember him when he was playing gambling, fear because he often gets a fanatical mindset of gambling and impulse gambling will be very dangerous to our friends, because he can lose more in gambling, even though before have a very good luck.

Envy is very bad, because it will also be bad against us, as if we will trigger that we need to gamble more to get good luck and just want to show ourselves that we can also win big to friends, it will be a bad mindset, so stop Envy, even to anyone, it will give a sense of insufficient for what we have gotten in life.

[bangjoe]

Envy is present when not being able to get what others get, I think that person feels jealous of his friend and that is not a good thing to continue in his friendship, the OP should realize that maybe he doesn't have luck in the gacha game, he should look for other games that he himself is capable of and understand how to play so that it gives him a greater chance of winning.

And why not ask his friend himself, how he can get that luck so well, maybe there are tips and tricks, but what is also quite realized is that he needs to calm down not to feel competitive that he has to get the same victory as his friend, because it will trigger impulsive gambling behavior and will interfere with his finances.

The fact is that the number of winners and the winnings themselves are limited, and only a few players will get them, and the rest of the majority seems to be added up to this prize, and also part of the money goes to the casino’s profit. You need to understand that only a small part will win, so this friend ended up among these lucky ones, and the OP was simply unlucky.

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Yes he must be aware of himself, how gambling runs the system and how the world will not side with different people in the same place, always lucky and always losing it is quite sad but what can make, luck is the fate of everyone.

And what might happen, his friend hid his defeat and only showed his victory, I often found people like this, they lost a lot of money but did not show it but when winning showed it, as if he was always lucky in his gambling.

[junder]

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Don't neglect friendship, especially just because our friends keep winning at gambling and we lose, in fact we can give full support to our friends to be able to get more profits and always remind our friends to stop when playing. Sometimes every gambler who keeps winning often forgets. yourself and continue playing until in the end you lose again and all your winnings are just lost, as friends we should not be jealous because luck comes to anyone, even ourselves and our friends will definitely not be jealous of us, so vice versa, so the point is not need to be jealous of our friends who are lucky.

That's right, good relationships must be maintained as best as possible, lest good relationships break down because of jealousy or resentment. by always experiencing defeat in gambling, it is a normal thing to happen, on the other hand, our friends who win will not always win in every gambling they do, only occasionally will they win. there is no way he will always win in every gambling. even if we lose and our friend wins, it is better to support our friend as you said, support by reminding him to have self-control so as not to lose the winnings that he has obtained because it is true what you said, when he has won, gamblers usually forget about it. the limits and risk of loss are greater, so reminding friends who have won, especially consecutive wins, will be very helpful.
I agree with what you said, as friends who have a good relationship, of course we should not have jealousy because it can destroy a relationship that was previously good. Apart from that, when our friend manages to win because we have helped remind him to immediately cash in, he can become our friend. share the winnings that he has obtained, apart from that, there is a big possibility that the winnings that have been obtained will be enjoyed not only by himself, those of us who have helped him can also be invited to enjoy the victory that has been obtained.

[Samlucky O]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?

there is no need to be jealous of a friend that wins more often, what he should have done is to duplicate any ticket his friend gamble with, and stake his bankroll instead of becoming envious and jealous of his friend. there are ways to handle things that it will not affect a person. there is this saying that "if you can't beat them, you join them".  the best way to handle such situation is just to watch and learn from his friend. to know how he does it.  and also know where he does it wrong sothat he will not make such mistakes again. there are sometimes in life we go the wrong part, not knowing that we are going the wrong way, but we don't want to acknowledge that we are going the wrong way. but if we leave pride and learn from our mistakes we will do better.

[maydna]

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Don't neglect friendship, especially just because our friends keep winning at gambling and we lose, in fact we can give full support to our friends to be able to get more profits and always remind our friends to stop when playing. Sometimes every gambler who keeps winning often forgets. yourself and continue playing until in the end you lose again and all your winnings are just lost, as friends we should not be jealous because luck comes to anyone, even ourselves and our friends will definitely not be jealous of us, so vice versa, so the point is not need to be jealous of our friends who are lucky.

But we should thinks about some friends that can feels jealous with the wins that other friend gets. They can not accept the wins easily if they lose all of their money. If we playing gambling with our best friend, that will not be happens because we will not lets us feels bad with our friends winning. We will remember that winning can comes to any people, including our best friends so we don't hate them because of their winning. We will always reminds them not to be greedy to chase more winnings because that will be difficult to gets winning many times. When we can always reminds our friends, especially those who often wins, they will not trying to chase more winning and will feels enough with that wins.

[Dailyscript]

This is foolishness. Why should someone hate his friend because he is winning in gambling and he is not? This is the extreme anyone could go because of gambling. Anyway, am not surprised because the heart of man is desperately wicked. And many people have gone too far in doing bad stuff for them to retrace back to their good ways. No matter how difficult it is for me to win and my friend is winning a lot with ease I'll just think about gambling as something that I find hard luck in and quit without having envy for my friend. The other option can be the fact that I can give my friend my money to gamble for me with the same game he added to his bet slip then we split in percentage if there is a win. No need for jealousy instead a smart one will use the opportunity to get good games from his friend.

[sompitonov]

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Don't neglect friendship, especially just because our friends keep winning at gambling and we lose, in fact we can give full support to our friends to be able to get more profits and always remind our friends to stop when playing. Sometimes every gambler who keeps winning often forgets. yourself and continue playing until in the end you lose again and all your winnings are just lost, as friends we should not be jealous because luck comes to anyone, even ourselves and our friends will definitely not be jealous of us, so vice versa, so the point is not need to be jealous of our friends who are lucky.

Yes, envy is not something that anyone needs in any situation, this feeling is never good, but only makes everyone angrier. It's better to focus on the positive. You can also imagine a situation if we each won, but our best friend, on the contrary, lost all the time, how would we want him to behave in such a situation. Surely we would like to see him as before, and not angry and envious. Moreover, I would definitely start spending money on our joint vacation and pay in full for it.

The fact is that the number of winners and the winnings themselves are limited, and only a few players will get them, and the rest of the majority seems to be added up to this prize, and also part of the money goes to the casino’s profit. You need to understand that only a small part will win, so this friend ended up among these lucky ones, and the OP was simply unlucky.

In addition, we must understand that if our friend were unlucky, then luck would come to someone else whom we do not know. And because of this we envy him? This is nonsense, we shouldn't do this because it's just a game, and even if it's for real money, friendship should be stronger than envy from these games.

Yes he must be aware of himself, how gambling runs the system and how the world will not side with different people in the same place, always lucky and always losing it is quite sad but what can make, luck is the fate of everyone.

And what might happen, his friend hid his defeat and only showed his victory, I often found people like this, they lost a lot of money but did not show it but when winning showed it, as if he was always lucky in his gambling.

So do I, have often met such people, they try to present themselves in the best light, but this is not right, because we must show ourselves as we really are and are not afraid of this. I won't do that because I always show my real self in front of my friends, they appreciate me for that. I consider honesty above all else; without this, friendship will not be real and will be fake.