You have to do more than just solicit advice here. You have to be extra careful because this involves a huge amount of money. With this money, even those platforms who label themselves non-KYC simply because they don't require one upon sign up might actually require you to undergo KYC.
I can't recommend you a specific platform, but I strongly advise you to carefully read terms and conditions. And I guess what's more important is that Dutch players are accepted rather than you won't undergo KYC. Large amounts of withdrawals are usually KYCed.
And you forgot that some casinos even change/update their terms and conditions at will just to suit them in every and any situation the find themself, easily a gambler specially if the gambler wasn't so sure of what information was said in the other version of the teams and condition, or didn't take any thing as a proof.
The last part of your comment is one that I completely agree with, most casino, and I mean legitimate casinos won't allow withdrawal of large fund without the customer first undergoing a kyc verification, and in this case, what is most important just as you have mentioned, is for op to make sure that what ever casino he chooses, players from Dutch are fully accepted, this is to ensure that op will be able to pass verification and get his money out just incase he encounters a casino that claim to be non-kyc but later turn around to ask for one.