What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage

[Obulis]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able to handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

[bakasabo]

There are no qualities that husband must have or must have not to keep a healthy marriage. Marriage is a union of two. Two persons must have qualities that will suit each other. There are no qualities that will fit for every person, family or couple. There is no one right answer. If you dont understand that in family two must work and expect only husband or wife have that special quality (for example honest, rich, loyal, strong), then any advice you get will fail for you.

[Spaceman1000$]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

The truth is that, the modern day woman finds almost anything as an excuse to divorce the men, so it's not entirely a husband thing, a man can actually be good husband to a woman who wont reciprocate that same energy, take a look at Pep Guardiola for instance, one of the reasons why the just recent divorced wife of Guardiola filed for divorce was because she alleged that the husband is always having time for his club football management job and not creating enough time for his family, but yet she wants a share of the properties the man has aquired through that same job she is criticizing him of and unfortunately the court granted her request. So for me, in this modern day, nobody can actually give perfect definition of what a husband should do to have a healthy marriage, because I've observed that, even when men do those things that are required of them, issues still come up that will end up disengaging the union.

[Ucy]

You should be intelligent enough to control your wife. And by intelligence I mean Light. If you have alot of it your wife will be under your power, and will see you as her master and fully submit to you.
Ofcourse this light only comes from the CREATOR.

[coolcoinz]

Women want to know they have someone they can rely on. IMO one of the most important qualities of a man is strength and the ability to keep cool in the face of danger. Women want someone who will know what to do in any situation and be able to protect the family and support it, whatever happens.
When my wife was in labor, or when our child was sick, I felt that my wife was beginning to panic and I the way I methodically acted step by step calmed her down. I'm sure this is one of the things all women want to see. That moment when they're about to fall or give up and you're there to hold them and know how to fix things.

One last thing. You have to be there.
Sometimes men think the family will be fine as long as they make money, bu that always turns to shit if they're out at work most of the day. The more time you spend with your family, the better. If you work abroad, or spend nights at work, eventually you'll come home and find out you're alone.

[Zlantann]

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

Humans have different needs they prioritize. Some women will tell you that the most important quality is wealth. They want a man that is able to afford all their needs without any challenge. Others will inform you that they want a man who pays attention to their emotional needs. They want a man who is always around to spend quality time with them. For me, I think a man used be patient, hardworking, truthful, selfless and loving. He should always put his family first before anything including business or work. A man who considers his family first will do everything he can to provide for their all-round needs.

[Gentle_Soul]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

Basically when looking at the qualities that can make a happy home one should look at the things a woman  want  because it all bowls down to  making your woman happy to be able to keep a happy home
I think one should look at the things that keeps a woman going and keep doing it to continuously keep a happy home
A man should also learn to respect and value his wife and also love her beyond all circumstances

[GideonGono]

There are no qualities that husband must have or must have not to keep a healthy marriage. Marriage is a union of two. Two persons must have qualities that will suit each other. There are no qualities that will fit for every person, family or couple. There is no one right answer. If you dont understand that in family two must work and expect only husband or wife have that special quality (for example honest, rich, loyal, strong), then any advice you get will fail for you.

I agree with this it takes two to tango, both needs to work in order to have a healthy marriage.
It is give and take, they need to fullfil each others shortcomings in order to make things work.
It wouldn't work just because the other one have a good qualities, if the other one is lacking and doesn't want to keep up with his/her partner then it would just ruin them both.

[100steeze]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

it's really not an only husband thing but you see these qualities, tolerance and understanding is a must. Being able to provide for each other is vital a quality too.

[100steeze]

You should be intelligent enough to control your wife. And by intelligence I mean Light. If you have alot of it your wife will be under your power, and will see you as her master and fully submit to you.
Ofcourse this light only comes from the CREATOR.

did you say control? Who wants to be controlled? Even an animal gets tired of being controlled and most times retaliate. Why would you want to control a human? She sure would get tired one day and try to gain freedom. The moment she sees your control as caging and not care anymore, you become out of bounds. I don't think that marriage to be healthy.

[passwordnow]

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

It's given that a husband must be a provider so, that's out of the list. Most of the married couples that I've heard giving advice to the new ones is about this one big factor that every married couples need to have and that is;

• communication

Yeah, that's communication. In every issue that both of you needs to tackle needs some discussion before discussing. Without communication, both will always argue and will have quarrels over small or big issues of your lives. But if we drive back to the main issue of why most of the couples are having hard time in agreement, then the most common issue is about money.

[UTON Blockchain]

Simply offering to share household chores isn’t enough; it’s not the quality that will free your partner from the burden of repetitive tasks, but real, consistent action.

[Lida93]

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

Op I disagree with that as being said. There's no quality a man will have that he could be able to maintain a healthy long lasting marriage if he gets to be that man that is married to a cantankerous woman (a badly behaved woman). For God's sake the man is a human being too not a  perfect machine and as such would need a good input from the woman's side to make the marriage go smoothly.

That's why it's called marriage because it's two people that's involved and needs not to be one person exerting efforts to making it work. There's no level of emotional intelligence you want to possess that you can't reach your limit of giving up if you're married to a uncaring woman that makes life rather difficult for you.

In a nutshell, a good healthy family is built with the effort of both partners not one sided.

[BADecker]

The US is not the husband of the world. 'Divorce' the world from America. Leave the husbandship to Jesus and His Church.

[Dunamisx]

Being a husband is not by title, but by being a responsible man and through this, you will not only see yourself as a husband, but instead a father, this happens the moment you have taken full responsibility of your home and other people around you by making a positive influence in them, but it's just a pity today that you see people forcing others to earn respect on them, even when they know themselves that they deserve nothing of such, personal ethics and good morals are important for someone in the position of a husband should possess.

[Y3shot]

There are no qualities that husband must have or must have not to keep a healthy marriage. Marriage is a union of two. Two persons must have qualities that will suit each other. There are no qualities that will fit for every person, family or couple. There is no one right answer. If you dont understand that in family two must work and expect only husband or wife have that special quality (for example honest, rich, loyal, strong), then any advice you get will fail for you.

There are qualities a husband must have to make a marriage work, first both the husband and wife must be compatible to each other, compatibility makes marriage very easy and what I think every husband needs to have is a quality of being a provider,  love , tolerance.  Tolerance is one of the things that makes marriage last. When their is lack of tolerance every attitude from the other partner can be a turn off, which can lead to the end of the marriage.  Husbands have their own role to play in marriage and even a wife also has a role to play. Marriage breaks because couples falls to maintain their qualities and play their own roles.

[bittraffic]

One quality a woman should look for is a man who is used to having no freedom. A man that when they say jump, this man will ask how high?

I think women should also ask themselves whether which quality do they have that makes a man stick to them in good times and bad times because this is just just about men's issue why families got broken. Its not even just about maturity, women can have an immature husband but still they can laugh at every mistake they make.

[Tipstar]

Most things are already have been said but an important issue on a healthy marriage relation is a happy sexual relation.
I find it stupid that even in 21st century the husband and wife don't care about each others sexual needs even though they are emotionally close.
Making sure your partner achieves an orgasm every time you have sex should be the priority of everyone. If you don't know, talk, find ways to pleasure each other, try new things, ask what makes them comfortable and what not. Plan and allocate some time for it.
I work in legal field and though most people deny it, more than half of divorce are due to not being able to satisfy each other sexual needs. Either in form of cheating or a conflict.

[Yucky]

It takes two to tangle, so I will be like, what quality should a man and a woman have to keep a healthy marriage? I will say the very foundation of a union is LOVE. Whether it's friendship or family, for you to actually say you are for somebody means you love them. And when you have love, love conquers all. If you love someone, you won't want to hurt them, you won't want to steal from them, you won't want them to cry.

 You will make conscious efforts to be a better person to keep them happy. Anything that makes them sad, you will work against it. By the time two people are not in love, marriage looks like it was forced. You see problems in everything; where the person talks, you see problems. That is why I pray against couples being forced into marriage. Let people be allowed to choose who they want to be with, so you know you chose this person after seeing that this person genuinely loves you.

Other qualities like commitment, trust, honesty, kindness; they are all there, but you can't find them without that love. If I love you, I'm going to be honest with you, I'm going to be kind to you, I'm going to be a natural giver towards you. So, I'm just going to say love. If you don't love somebody, don't start a union with them at all, because along the line, you will fall out of love. If you really love somebody, there is no falling out; you can only get better for the person.

[JoyMarsha]

Things that build up marriage to be a healthy one for both the man and the lady are honesty, tolerance, compassion, hard work, and being godly.

The responsibility of having a healthy home is not placed on the man alone. It is placed on both couples to have good qualities.

Leaving the healthiness of a marriage to a man to have good qualities. What happens if the woman doesn't have the qualities of a good wife. Won't the marriage be over?