Got a PM about asking for Money!

[Marykeller]

However, I don't understand @nakamura12's current situation. If he is in financial trouble, hopefully, it will be resolved soon.

Shasan already lend me and I did request a loan for $15 just in case I need more. Thanks for your concern.

If that's the case, hope you pay back the loan as you both agreed. It doesn't tell well; someone lends you money but you can't pay it back when due.

However, I just pray this challenging time of yours will be over soon because nothing pains as when a young and vibrant being doesn't have money in their hands to boost off to solve personal problems

[nakamura12]

If that's the case, hope you pay back the loan as you both agreed. It doesn't tell well; someone lends you money but you can't pay it back when due.

However, I just pray this challenging time of yours will be over soon because nothing pains as when a young and vibrant being doesn't have money in their hands to boost off to solve personal problems

Thank you. It is a big mistake on my part and I really regret sending PM. It's not like I love sending PM it's just that I don't have someone to ask for help. It's not the first time I take a loan from shasan and I did pay the previous loan.

[BenCodie]

If that's the case, hope you pay back the loan as you both agreed. It doesn't tell well; someone lends you money but you can't pay it back when due.

However, I just pray this challenging time of yours will be over soon because nothing pains as when a young and vibrant being doesn't have money in their hands to boost off to solve personal problems

Thank you. It is a big mistake on my part and I really regret sending PM. It's not like I love sending PM it's just that I don't have someone to ask for help. It's not the first time I take a loan from shasan and I did pay the previous loan.

A few people have come about now to say that you requested something by PM. I think you should be transparent with how many people that you PM'd, as sentiment might change if another 5+ people come to say they also received a PM. It would be better coming from you first than seeing them come up one after another.

[DiMarxist]

Well I don't want to add to what have been said and cause more harm to him. The amount he asked would been asked from a friend of his and someone he knows. I don't know him in person and I don't know which locale he comes from. And it is not good to ask people on pm randomly. If he was good and have good  rapport with close friends and relatives, he can take $10 loan without stress.
This is a warning to many and not only to him.

[AB de Royse777]

Reporting it will be a harsh move, why would I do that to get someone punished for a very little unsensual activity

Because, if we let users get away with this, there will be no limit to the amount of begging PMs we'll receive. You call it harsh, I call it necessary.

If it become an outbreak of disease then we may call it necessary but it looks like only one or two unusual activity. If a random user PM me for money or even for anything else that does not interest me, I will first ignore the PM until he starts annoying me with more PMs after waring him once or twice. Members need space to interact with each others, it's okay for me if they want the interaction in PM as long as I have the same interest.

[Lucius]

~snip~
Shasan already lend me and I did request a loan for $15 just in case I need more. Thanks for your concern.

If you already had the choice to ask for a loan publicly, why send so many PMs? Maybe you needed the money urgently, but you'll still have to agree that it wasn't the right way and that it only brought you problems in the end. I hope you've learned your lesson and don't think people are evil or anything, but that they are rightly suspicious considering how many forum members have sold their reputations for relatively little money.

[nakamura12]

If you already had the choice to ask for a loan publicly, why send so many PMs? Maybe you needed the money urgently, but you'll still have to agree that it wasn't the right way and that it only brought you problems in the end. I hope you've learned your lesson and don't think people are evil or anything, but that they are rightly suspicious considering how many forum members have sold their reputations for relatively little money.

No, I don't think it's evil or anything and I did learn a lesson thanks to you for opening this thread for pointing it in this thread. I am happy that you pointed it out for me when I didn't think it is wrong for doing it and face the consequence. I am glad you did this, once again thanks for doing this where I learned from it and grow myself because of it.

[Rikafip]

It is a big mistake on my part and I really regret sending PM. It's not like I love sending PM it's just that I don't have someone to ask for help. It's not the first time I take a loan from shasan and I did pay the previous loan.

I guess thast you avoided publically asking for a loan due your previous loan history where you were taking loans to repy loans etc, but I guess you didn't learn much from what since you wetn even step further by senging unsolictied PMs and asking bascially random members for a loan.

Let's see if you learned your lesson now.

[Lucius]

No, I don't think it's evil or anything and I did learn a lesson thanks to you for opening this thread.
~snip~

I didn't open this topic, I just wrote something in it. The OP is actually one of the people you sent the PM to. You need to start paying more attention to details.

[nakamura12]

I didn't open this topic, I just wrote something in it. The OP is actually one of the people you sent the PM to. You need to start paying more attention to details.

Sorry. I am seem a bit confused.

[Lafu]

Okay got it. Won't do it again. I did it since I lack the said amount but it's all good now after I got a loan from shasan.

Ok nice to hear that you got the point , hopefully you learned about that all , as you can read its not the best thing for doing this.

Just a few Reports is enough for a temporary ban

If it would be a bigger Amount of Money and there was more PMs to me i would have reported it.
Next time i will for sure hit the report to moderator button.

@Lafu, it seems to me that you and @nakamura12  are not friends, collaborators on any project, or that you may belong to the same local board
I wonder where this user got the idea to contact you and ask for $5? To me, such a move is strange to say the least - I mean in the sense that you're asking $5 from a complete stranger, right?

I think it's good that you opened this topic, because if nothing else, maybe some people will realize that they shouldn't ask for such things via PM.

We are not friends or anything else and never got an interaction with that User.
I also wonder why i got this message.
The Topic was opend as some few are have already written in here , but it looks like that hopefully it was the right way.
If this will be happen again i report that PM and User.

[shasan]

Okay got it. Won't do it again. I did it since I lack the said amount but it's all good now after I got a loan from shasan.

Also, you have sent a message to me via bitcointalk as well as on telegram. But I think you should not do that. If you need any loan then you must have to post on the thread (my thread) or any other open lending thread or open a new topic on the lending board. Other then this the private message that you send should be considered as unsolicited pm.

[uchegod-21]

It is a big mistake on my part and I really regret sending PM. It's not like I love sending PM it's just that I don't have someone to ask for help. It's not the first time I take a loan from shasan and I did pay the previous loan.

I guess thast you avoided publically asking for a loan due your previous loan history where you were taking loans to repy loans etc, but I guess you didn't learn much from what since you wetn even step further by senging unsolictied PMs and asking bascially random members for a loan.

Let's see if you learned your lesson now.

Nakamura12 trust history is filled with loans. About 5 neutral feedbacks is about taking loans, delay in repayment, taking a loan to offset the other. This is not a good one for you. I hope you have learnt your lessons. If you are truly in a bad stage of your life that you need money so badly, you can consider to create a thread in reputation, you can get a donation. Alternatively a campaign manager could hire you and just one week payment could relief you of the burden of asking for $5, $10 randomly.

[Odohu]

Okay got it. Won't do it again. I did it since I lack the said amount but it's all good now after I got a loan from shasan.

I suggest that you should reach someone through their telegram/discord etc instead, I would say sending PM in this forum is like the last resort to contact someone especially it has no correlation to the person you contacted.

After you sent PM to Lafu and then you got the money from shasan, have you send PM to Lafu again for confirming you no longer interested with the money? because if you didn't confirm, people think you're still looking for.

He might be in some sort of financial needs, the reason for that action, although I'm not justifying that sending people random PMs for money is a good habit. By the way, Telegram is the worst place to send people PM of that nature because it will be regarded as outright scam attempt and reported since anyone can easily disguise in Telegram. I will take PM here more serious than that in Telegram, I don't know about others though but that is me.

[DiMarxist]

Also, you have sent a message to me via bitcointalk as well as on telegram. But I think you should not do that. If you need any loan then you must have to post on the thread (my thread) or any other open lending thread or open a new topic on the lending board. Other then this the private message that you send should be considered as unsolicited pm.

You received and Op received that the people that received the message would be more than 10 persons.  This is not really nice. And according to some persons it is $5 and if you asked $5 foe more that 10 persons, it would be a good number of money and that is the exact amount he needed was not the $5 but more than that. And if everyone he asked gave him the $5 loan, how did he pay them back to the difference users.
I am not suspecting anything but it was not normal. It would have been better to ask one person the whole amount needed. And luckily shasan is giving loan and others. So he would have asked them and if they didn't respond within 48hours before contacting close friends foe assistant.

[Zwei]

looks like he just went on a spam spree asking for a few $, as i also got a message from him in pm and telegram asking for to borrow $10.

i wonder why he even thought that was a good idea.
i'm not his friend, i don't know him, i have never interacted with him, and we are not even from the same local board.

[dkbit98]

To be clear i dont want that kind of PMs from Users that i dont know or even have got a write in the past.

I received the same begging message from him and I decided to ignore it, but I was very close to report it to moderators.
He probably mass sent the same message to many members and this is considered as spam, but than he sent me second message with text CANCEL 
I don't know if account changed owner or maybe it was hacked, but he is now added to my ignore list.

[albon]

Can any of you count how many messages these are?  I think I'm the person who has received the most messages from this member asking for a loan. 

Although I don't give loans and don't like dealing with them due to their high risk,, I did it because he needed to buy medicine. He has already returned the amount I lent him, and I did not take any interest from him.

Honestly, his messages after that were annoying to me as he wanted to take more loans but I was busy because I was traveling, and I'm surprised now that he was asking for money from so many members here!! In any case, we don't know what he's going through and why he needs this money. Those who want to help him can do so and whoever doesn't can simply ignore him. I advise him if he's reading my message to respect people's privacy and only ask for loans from loan providers and not from members randomly.

[arabspaceship123]

He isn't my friend or client. He didn't contact me before so I don't know nakamura12. Yesterday he's sent messages asking for $15 loan. He's sent btc eth & trc-20 addresses to receive. I said I wouldn't. He tried to convince me but I didn't agree. It's suspicious so I asked him to make a loan topic it's how shasan gave the loan. How many ppl did he ask ?

The User nakamura12 sended me a PM and asked about 5$ if i have them spare.
My my concern about that is that if he is doing that with a lot of other Users it smells phishy at some way.

I dont know if other Users also received that PM , just wanted to be aware it.
@nakamura12 please dont do that again , for now i havnt reported your PM.
If you struggle with loans or money then write to the people that it belongs for.

 

[nakamura12]

I advise him if he's reading my message to respect people's privacy and only ask for loans from loan providers and not from members randomly.

I did read your message. I am sorry about that. I have already posted in this thread that I learned my lesson the hard way.