Being nice always bring disrespect.

[Zanab247]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

[Fiatless]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being nice is not the root cause of disrespect. It is the result of a bad character. People might want to take advantage of your good nature but it doesn't mean that everyone will take advantage of your meekness or uprightness.

I have assisted people who didn't appreciate my help and even started accusing me of wrongdoing. You don't expect everyone to behave the same way, so I overlooked them, and it will not stop me from being nice. Deciding to treat people badly because of how you were repaid for your good deeds will make the world a terrible place to live in.

[coolcoinz]

You could also say that being mean attracts other mean people and may get you into fights.

Someone once said that you shouldn't mistake kindness for weakness. I try to be kind but I have a one mistake rule. If I know you and you borrow something from me, a tool, money, whatever, I will give it to you, but if you fuck me over by not giving it back, or take your time, making me come asking for it, you're not going to get anything next time you come asking.

Be kind guys because that helps you find real friends. I've met a couple fine men over the years, people I'd trust with keys to my house if needed, people with whom I'd leave a kid. If I were mean and disrespectful all the time I'd be alone for sure.

[passwordnow]

It's in the soul of those disrespectful people. The nice people won't mind if they are being respected because they're nice. But they won't allow that to be tolerated and when they are being abused and disrespected. And this shouldn't be a reason for these respectful people to stop being nice to others just because they've seen others take advantage of them. There is nothing these bad people can do for them to be stopped being so nice to the other people. As I've said, it's within the soul of these people, if they don't want to change, they won't be.

[YADAYADA]

It depends on the type of person you are being nice to. For example being nice to an Islamic jihadi terrorist will not stop them shouting allah snackbar before removing your head from your shoulders which is very disrespectful while being nice to a righteous decent human being will always bring you respectfrom that person.

[uneng]

I agree being nice brings disrespect as consequence on most situations in this modern world. The dark side inside human beings is flourishing and becoming dominant these days, while the bright side is being suppressed.

But if you stop being a nice person, you are going to do exactly what the dark side wants you to do, so you will become one of those fools: just another asshole in this modern wicked world to cause pain to your fellow human beings.

People misunderstand politeness with weakness, and that is why they try abusing a polite individual. Just be proud of being a nice individual. Give others the benefit of the doubt. But as soon as you identify they are taking advantage of your politeness, impose limits, get away and maintain only essential necessary contact.

Relationships must be reciprocal, healthy and uplifting. If you see they are being abusive, toxic and harmful, stand for yourself and don't go further. Respect yourself in first place.

[Victorybit1]

Be kind but always be ruthless when necessary, it's human nature to always take advantage of whoever they feel that they can. Always being a yes man would certainly bring disrespect to you. There's a difference between being kind and being too nice, most people can try to make funny advances towards someone that's nice. Build the quality of your character, saying no to people doesn't make you wicked it just States what you want and makes it clear that you have boundaries and if you treat people like this they would respect you. Even if your lifestyle would attract some hate that should be of no concern to you.

[Reatim]

being too nice will invite and allow disrespect from other people yes but this doesn’t mean we also have to be disrespectful completely you can be nice while also maintaining some boundaries and self respect

you just have to be able to judge someone properly and deem if they are worthy of your kindness and respect or not and if not then you don’t have to show kindness to someone who isn’t willing to show you the same thing

[Cryptohygenic]

Being nice to people is a healthy relationship in the society and it should be respected of anyone being nice but at sometimes,  some people don't deserve to be nice with them because they will not appreciate it. At times they takes advantage of the people being nice to them and the society sometimes too don't deserve to be nice with because you will be used as a tool just to scale through and when they have achieved their selfish interests, they would trash you and even criticize you after your helpful delegation of them.

[Solosanz]

Imagine like this.

You have a small business, you recruit two people, they have the same job desk, responsibility, salary etc etc.

On the next month, turns out the one employee is very bad and not doing what you ask, while another employee is very good and he cover all the jobs abandoned by the bad employee.

Will you give the same treatment and salary to both of them? if you think it should be yes for the sake of "being nice", you're the problem and it's not surprising people disrespect you.

You must know how to reward and punish people.

[Salahmu]

It depends on the extent of your being nice, you can actually be very nice and everybody respect you based on how you presented yourself to others, actually a lot of people whom are being taking advantage of are mostly individuals who are looking for a favour from someone, so they have to bring themselves extremely low for those people to use them anyhow they want before showing them favour, if you are very nice but doesn't like so associate with people or you are a very private someone in the person of introverts I don't think somebody will use the opportunity of taking advantage of the person kindness.

[Hewlet]

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

the notion has always been that being nice will lead you to being used and abused and that has led allot of people into believing that everyone should be mean and build a tough skin that makes them unapproachable and difficult to penetrate but that for me isn't helping the society in any positive way. it is not every time that being nice gets you disrespected. you can just show your little act of kindness while setting a limit you cant go above which protect you from being used or people actually abusing your kindness.

what i will never do is give anyone an impression to feel entitled to receiving certain help from me, once i notice that you are becoming more entitled, i will certainly cut you off from me.

[Dunamisx]

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Don't take being nice on this, maybe you could be talking about being familiar or segregated, but the word being nice cannot be corrupted from its original meaning of doing good to the people, though it is clear that we can't be nice to everyone and at every situation, we must be able to do justice as it's expected of us, while also, we are not to take others being nice on us for granted and abuse the whole condition involved.

[Fiatless]

Being nice to people is a healthy relationship in the society and it should be respected of anyone being nice but at sometimes,  some people don't deserve to be nice with them because they will not appreciate it. At times they takes advantage of the people being nice to them and the society sometimes too don't deserve to be nice with because you will be used as a tool just to scale through and when they have achieved their selfish interests, they would trash you and even criticize you after your helpful delegation of them.

I have a niece who usually asks for financial assistance periodically. Since she is a student, I sometimes give her financial assistance. However, I observed recently that she has increased the rate at which she asked for financial aid. I suspect that because I am nice to her, she has decided to take advantage of my generosity. Just yesterday she came up with another stractegy to get money from me. I refused to give her anymore, I guess she would begin to think that I am not nice anymore.

Be good to people, but observe when they want to misuse the opportunity or take advantage of you. You don't need to be nice to people who want to abuse your selflessness.

[Gozie51]

I think it is inconsiderate people that would be callous and take advantage of nice people and not treating them well. Nice people should be encouraged to be nice in their capacity to do so without endangering their own self. It is not the fault of nice people that people who are of bad behaviour that they have cared for and nice to them decide to treat them bad.

We need to understand that some people are naturally unrewarding no matter how you are good to them. Such people see it as either right that they have over you or that you have not done enough.

Badly behaved people don't appreciate little favour but do same little favour to people who are of good behaviour and you will know you have actually touched a life.

[Zanab247]

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Don't take being nice on this, maybe you could be talking about being familiar or segregated, but the word being nice cannot be corrupted from its original meaning of doing good to the people, though it is clear that we can't be nice to everyone and at every situation, we must be able to do justice as it's expected of us, while also, we are not to take others being nice on us for granted and abuse the whole condition involved.

Being nice not to allow law to take it place to give the nice person justice, it has caused so many people to lose their lifes in some society. I guess you understand the point I was trying to make from that angle,  there are some good you will do this days that will make you to spend the rest of your life in prison.

Let me share this story with you, a little girl was forming missing and she met a nice guy to help her locat her parents, and the young guy asked her if she can direct he to her parents and she said yes. But the nice guy never knew, that is the new strategy kidnappers are using to kidnap people from the society and that is how the young guy find himself into the hands of kidnappers that made the nice guy parent sold everything to pay the ransom. Do you think he will continue to be nice to people again.

[Justbillywitt]

Generally speaking from my experience, being a nice person is not bad thing or being good and showing some level of kindness to people around you is never a bad thing to do but while being nice or good, you should have boundaries. Because as you rightly said, many people always want to abuse opportunities given to them by stretching their the lines given to them. You must have the the ability to detect when people are trying to take advantage of your kindness and you must also speak up for yourself and let those abusers of good wills know that you ain't being stupid simply because you chose to be nice and good to people. Do things willingly for people, never be compelled to do things as many people will try to manipulate your emotions because they knew you have a good heart. Learn to say no when and where necessary.

[AmaGold70]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Disrespectful people will always be who they are no matter how you relate to them, nice or not, I have had my kindness thrown back at my face but it didn't stop me from being nice. Now right I relate to people the same way they relate to me, energy for energy and Aura for Aura. If you give me bad energy I will give you bad energy too and if you are nice to me I will be nice to you too in return, I am a nice person but I'm not stupid not to notice when my kindness is being taken for granted.

[Tipstar]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

It is to some extent true when you are dealing with immoral people. Like my father who after the death of his father took responsibility of all his siblings, worked so that they could study, get a job and yet they still take him for granted and still expects from him, cheats and frauds him even when they are as richer. We do insult our dad for being naive, doing so he gets emotional and claims he trusted them but they always took advantage of him.
That specific encounter has made me realize I don't need to be nice, specially when money is involved. Recently one of my unemployed cousin phoned me and asked for some money as he was traveling to this tourist spot and overspent on the hotel and the hotel is not letting him go unless he pays like $100. That money was not a big deal for me, I could have even donated it to a suffering person. But this good for nothing son of a good for nothing uncle overspent traveling while I work my ass off without a leave, no way I'm going to pay for him and even though he promised he'd return it, he surely wouldn't have. I don't want such toxic people around me, I don't expect help from them and they should not expect from me either.

[jvanname]

I know how to prevent human extinction. I will do nothing because fuck you and because everything people do convinces me over and over again that humans deserve extinction and suffering. Most animals will go extinct too, but fuck them too. They have not done shit for me. If people can't act decently, then enjoy extinction. NONE OF YOU MOTHERFUCKERS ARE DOING ANYTHING TO PREVENT HUMAN EXTINCTION EITHER, SO FUCK YOU!

Regards,

-Joseph Van Name Ph.D.