Being nice always bring disrespect.

[Tmoonz]

Being nice for me brings disrespect in the society. Alot of people today sees your niceness as foolishness whereas you can be accessed each time they want you. Many people in the society has endangered their life because of always wanting to be called a nice guy. Being nice can always make people call you nothing and disrespect you even though you are helping them. Anytime they call and you wish to help them they will praise but that day you choose to stop helping them they see you as a bad guy not remembering what you have been doing for them. Alot of people today has lost their  will power all because of being nice always so for me being nice brings disrespect and can also make you lose your status in the society. It is okay to be nice but ensure you have your boundaries.

[DYOR+BTC]

Life is filled of ups and down, helping at times may look tormenting and dangerous but that should not be enough reasons we should not help. I still can't forget an incident posted on social media by a consign citizen if Nigeria when he narrated his encounter last year, on his sad story he said on a very good day while come home from where he went, he saw someone who was seriously sick and had to rush the man to the hospital so he could save his life unfortunately the man lost his life, he went straight to the police to report the incident but was determined by the police because of his good works. After all set and done the DPO in charge made him saw hell but after his post on Christmas the police command looked into the matter and the money taken from him was refunded. It shocking to see such but that doesn't mean we should not help because that which you want from others, do also to those in need

[Queen uloma]

You are very correct, being nice in this society doesn’t pay again, I have learnt alot from people, because of how nice I was to them, I could remember when I pack in to my correct house, I was too good and nice, I make free hair and even do more which I can’t say all, before I knew it insult started coming in, I had to just cut off with everybody in this my compound, I just greet and pass, at times our niceness doesn’t pay, we need to keep boundaries and move on, because self respect and your mental health is very important, what I have understand about life is that you can’t please everyone, just do your thing and leave the rest for God.

[tsaroz]

I'm going through a similar phase at my job. I was too nice to everyone and never said no. I covered up for most co-workers absence and now I'm the one always cornered and missed. Now they send the people that don't work to every meetings and business travel while I need to stay at the office with no additional benefits.
Like with every problems, I decided to run from it and transferred my job to a different city, it has been over a month of my transfer but the manager is yet to provide me a Handover Completion Letter. I'm ready to transfer my responsibilities but he claims I need 1 more month to stay as he needs to find my replacement.
Now I'm in dilemma whether I should quarrel with my boss and demand the letter which I legally could or still be nice and stay a month more feeling humiliated.