Your life partner is a financial decision too.

[Mr_Brilliant$]

This is very very true.. Choosing a life partner should not be just an emotional decision, it is a long term financial one too..  The person you build a life with will either support your financial growth or slowly drain your resources, sometimes without you even realizing it..

A good partner will add value,  through financial discipline and wise financial decisions..  They help you protect, grow, and multiply what you already have..  While a bad partner will always be about spending and immediate gratification, and can turn even abundance into struggle through poor choices and constant financial pressure.. That is why choosing wisely matters, because love alone will not cancel the daily decisions you make with you finance..

[Fredomago]

When choosing a life partner, they must be similar in mentality, and they must pay attention to the situation so that they can both manage themselves properly. That is, no one should ever ask for anything extra, they should learn to limit themselves according to the situation, both values, future plans and financial perspectives should be decided together by researching them properly, and for this, it is important that they have a deep similarity. Of course, I agree that emotions and goals should be at least similar, and not everyone has these things, but you have to see it and choose.

When you are going to love marriage, then maybe it could be possible that you can know your partner's mentality that does his/her mentality match yours. On that case, you can find the same mentality person but when you are going to arrange marriage, how you will know your partner's mentality?
However, I think that every person in the world has a different mentality. You should not always expect that someone else's mentality will be the same as yours. A marriage bond is basically maintained by sacrificing each other. It is normal for two people with different family and location to have different mentalities, but when they make concessions to each other in running a family, the family will be happy. Moreover, even if they have the same mentality, there is a possibility of problems. For example, if both people have a lot of anger and neither sacrifices for the other, then the chances of that family surviving are low.

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

[Alpen]

Amongst the list of good economic decisions to make personally, getting a good partner is one of them although it is often exempted from the list and not mentioned.

I came across something that should have been funny and a joke, but I could not ignore it. Something about a woman bragging about making her husband a millionaire, and anyone hearing it would have been impressed at how virtuous and smart she is, but when asked what the man was before she met him, she said a "multi millionaire". Apparently that is the joke, but a serious look at that will tell you that the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with as a man and a woman will affect your finances.

A good man/woman will increase and help you multiply the resources you have, a bad man/woman will diminish your resources. This is why choosing should be done carefully.

This sounds like the talk of an old man who’s just been unlucky with his partners. Why is OP so worried? Is he really that stressed about spending money on the woman he loves? What if she’s actually worth it?

So what if you went from billions to millions—you don't get a "New Game Plus" in real life. You only get one shot, and you ought to live it vividly and to the fullest.

[dunfida]

When choosing a life partner, they must be similar in mentality, and they must pay attention to the situation so that they can both manage themselves properly. That is, no one should ever ask for anything extra, they should learn to limit themselves according to the situation, both values, future plans and financial perspectives should be decided together by researching them properly, and for this, it is important that they have a deep similarity. Of course, I agree that emotions and goals should be at least similar, and not everyone has these things, but you have to see it and choose.

When you are going to love marriage, then maybe it could be possible that you can know your partner's mentality that does his/her mentality match yours. On that case, you can find the same mentality person but when you are going to arrange marriage, how you will know your partner's mentality?
However, I think that every person in the world has a different mentality. You should not always expect that someone else's mentality will be the same as yours. A marriage bond is basically maintained by sacrificing each other. It is normal for two people with different family and location to have different mentalities, but when they make concessions to each other in running a family, the family will be happy. Moreover, even if they have the same mentality, there is a possibility of problems. For example, if both people have a lot of anger and neither sacrifices for the other, then the chances of that family surviving are low.

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

There's no such thing about perfect marriage but somewhat spending your life together with your love ones. We are just that humans and we do know that once you do get married then expect those real behavior and values will definitely pop out at the time that you've been together. The key on here is to accept each others lapses and imperfections and this is the real secret for having a long lasting marriage. Although there are some limitations specially if t here are some issues that happend on huge scale like having some 3rd party affairs on which this is the most common one but if we do speak about those minors like some values or behavior imperfections then its something that could be fixed out or something that would be talked about. You wouldnt be needing to make up some conclusions about divorces or separation just because of that.

In marriage, it would be that testing out your patience of course. Financial decisions should be talked in between husband and wife on which we know that this is that crucial on day to day living and if there's something wrong then its needed up for you two to make up solutions and make up for that.

[bakasabo]

This is very very true.. Choosing a life partner should not be just an emotional decision, it is a long term financial one too..  The person you build a life with will either support your financial growth or slowly drain your resources, sometimes without you even realizing it..

A person should felt in love not only lead by emotions, but also by looking other persons bank account? I think that it is not a true love then. A person should first create a list of financially attractive candidates and then try to build relationship with most deserving? I think we were always told that we should accept our partner with all his advantages and disadvantages. It a very delicate question. Finances are important, but they should not be on first place in relationship. We marry person, not money. If finances matter that much, then people should not marry at all, right? Because marriage and family are always expenses. Imo everything should be in balance. Not getting married because partner loves to spend a lot isnt right as well. Getting married only if person is wealthy also is wrong.

[Crypto Library]

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

As I said before, I will say the same here that when two people get married, one must learn to sacrifice for the other. In this case, I never think that two people with the same mentality can be found, yes, in some cases, similarities can be seen between the two, but the choices of the two will definitely be different because one is a woman by nature and the other is a man by nature.
So, I would say that we need to learn to sacrifice for each other; only then will the relationship be beautiful, otherwise if we think of ourselves as competitors to each other, we will never be happy in married life in all cases.

[BlackBaron]

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

As I said before, I will say the same here that when two people get married, one must learn to sacrifice for the other. In this case, I never think that two people with the same mentality can be found, yes, in some cases, similarities can be seen between the two, but the choices of the two will definitely be different because one is a woman by nature and the other is a man by nature.
So, I would say that we need to learn to sacrifice for each other; only then will the relationship be beautiful, otherwise if we think of ourselves as competitors to each other, we will never be happy in married life in all cases.

You're right, sacrifices must be made, and by sacrifice, we mean lowering our egos. It's not just us; our partners must do the same. When we get married, we have to accept everything about our partners, whether it's the good or the things we dislike.

We don't get this when we're dating, because most of us don't reveal our full personality. It's not that we don't want to, but there are things we still have to guard. When we're married, we're exposed in every way, simply because we're living in the same house.

It's also important to remember that economic factors are also a contributing factor to divorce, at least in my community. So, we need to discuss this from the start.

[ChocolateBitcoinK]

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

As I said before, I will say the same here that when two people get married, one must learn to sacrifice for the other. In this case, I never think that two people with the same mentality can be found, yes, in some cases, similarities can be seen between the two, but the choices of the two will definitely be different because one is a woman by nature and the other is a man by nature.
So, I would say that we need to learn to sacrifice for each other; only then will the relationship be beautiful, otherwise if we think of ourselves as competitors to each other, we will never be happy in married life in all cases.

It is natural that two people will have different personalities, but they have to maintain harmony between them by making sacrifices. There will be differences in thinking, there will be changes in their personalities, there will be differences in their habits. But if we manage those differences through understanding and sacrifice, not competition, then only the relationship will be beautiful. And for this, both of them will have to make some sacrifices. The main thing is never to be competitors, but rather the couple who see each other as partners, not competitors, they are the ones who find peace and happiness in the long run.

[Royal Cap]

A life partner is someone with whom you have to make small daily decisions, what to buy today, how much to save, whether to take risks or not, If the two people have completely different thoughts in these areas then even if there is love, pressure starts to come. However it is not possible to choose someone after calculating everything. Many times, people change within a relationship. In my opinion the most important thing is to talk and respect each other. If two people understand each other's limits and can come to a middle ground, then both the relationship and money can be managed.

[Y3shot]

This is very very true.. Choosing a life partner should not be just an emotional decision, it is a long term financial one too..  The person you build a life with will either support your financial growth or slowly drain your resources, sometimes without you even realizing it..

A good partner will add value,  through financial discipline and wise financial decisions..  They help you protect, grow, and multiply what you already have..  While a bad partner will always be about spending and immediate gratification, and can turn even abundance into struggle through poor choices and constant financial pressure.. That is why choosing wisely matters, because love alone will not cancel the daily decisions you make with you finance..

It is very unfortunate that most people don't even consider this, especially the male gender. They believe that since they have money, it is enough for them, and they think they can manage their money without involving their partner.

This is very sensitive and shouldn't be taken for granted because finance plays a crucial role when it comes to marriage, and if it is not being taken care of very well, it can end the marriage. Marriage does expand, and as it expands, the finances also need to grow. If they remain the same, it can lead to a terrible collapse of the marriage.

[DYOR+BTC]

Accepting a partner to spend the rest of our life with is a very important part of our life we don't deserve to make mistake on, especially when putting love in front of everything necessary in life. Not that love is bad but we should first access our partner if him or her truly fit into our life especially in building Our financial life because it takes someone that suits into our life to get to our desired level in life. A woman may be beautiful but do not have what it takes to propel once financial life to a point of stability, which is a challenge that may bring one back to zero if care is not taken.

[CageMabok]

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This sounds like the talk of an old man who’s just been unlucky with his partners. Why is OP so worried? Is he really that stressed about spending money on the woman he loves? What if she’s actually worth it?

So what if you went from billions to millions—you don't get a "New Game Plus" in real life. You only get one shot, and you ought to live it vividly and to the fullest.

However, OP shouldn't be worrying about such things if he still has a job that can provide for him. Because one way to make his partner happy is to have an income and also have a well-thought-out plan for the future together without feeling burdened by it. Currently, there are so many people who are happy with their partners that this should be a pretty absolute example for OP so he can let go of his worries about everything, including supporting his partner. Because making our partner happy is also a joy for ourselves in leading a family.

[Fredomago]

When they start living together that's the time where connections will solidify, as most of you mentioned marriage is something that you need to choose carefully, having a partner with that same goals will help you a lot to be content with what you deal with, even how hard life will be as long as you have that solid bind together there's always a good solutions to whatever problem or struggles that you will encounter along the way.

As I said before, I will say the same here that when two people get married, one must learn to sacrifice for the other. In this case, I never think that two people with the same mentality can be found, yes, in some cases, similarities can be seen between the two, but the choices of the two will definitely be different because one is a woman by nature and the other is a man by nature.
So, I would say that we need to learn to sacrifice for each other; only then will the relationship be beautiful, otherwise if we think of ourselves as competitors to each other, we will never be happy in married life in all cases.

Great point, that adjustments and sacrifice gives the matrimonial being conduct rightfully, there are many divorce due to this problem both sides are unwilling to adjust and they both protect their own take and not willing to submit from one another, the best thing in a married life is you are both willing to listen and willing to understand, from that point both can adjust for the betterment of living together and hoping together that life will be easy or they can survive everything together.

[abhiseshakana]

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This sounds like the talk of an old man who’s just been unlucky with his partners. Why is OP so worried? Is he really that stressed about spending money on the woman he loves? What if she’s actually worth it?

So what if you went from billions to millions—you don't get a "New Game Plus" in real life. You only get one shot, and you ought to live it vividly and to the fullest.

However, OP shouldn't be worrying about such things if he still has a job that can provide for him. Because one way to make his partner happy is to have an income and also have a well-thought-out plan for the future together without feeling burdened by it. Currently, there are so many people who are happy with their partners that this should be a pretty absolute example for OP so he can let go of his worries about everything, including supporting his partner. Because making our partner happy is also a joy for ourselves in leading a family.

Then i think before find wife as financial partner, man as future husband must clearly choose his role in the family as sole provider or  applying dual income, it will avoid choose wrong couple. Compromise before married is important to avoid high tension and repeatly fight during marriage, both can prepare an approved simple system of family budgedting, each role on cashflow management and also obligation to family. It is easy to find realistic financial partner, as long as she is not overconsumtive, can delay gratification / pleasure, has logic and has responsibility to family and have willingness to discuss money without drama. We can also easily recognize poor financial partner if she doesn't have financial literation, always comparing life with other, high social prestige hunter, hide debt and wastefulness but always deny.
Because i'm moslem and fullfill all family needs and happiness is man duty, so i am sole provider in family. Anytime my wife needs money for family needs or for her pleasure she will asked me, even she has her own income.

[Somto9Light]

Accepting a partner to spend the rest of our life with is a very important part of our life we don't deserve to make mistake on, especially when putting love in front of everything necessary in life. Not that love is bad but we should first access our partner if him or her truly fit into our life especially in building Our financial life because it takes someone that suits into our life to get to our desired level in life. A woman may be beautiful but do not have what it takes to propel once financial life to a point of stability, which is a challenge that may bring one back to zero if care is not taken.

You're right and that is why we don't need to be in a hurry while looking for a life partner so that we don't end up chosing the wrong one because I feel that everyone have their life partner but how to locate them is  where the problem is, for this reason we have to make a proper investigation we shouldn't judge from their appearance but the character because most people can be naturally beautiful while they are devil in disguise.

So what you said is true we need to access our partner very well before choosing them because marriage is a long term commitment it's going to be a bad thing if we start facing challenges in our marriage from this early stage till when we get old.

[Mame89]

Accepting a partner to spend the rest of our life with is a very important part of our life we don't deserve to make mistake on, especially when putting love in front of everything necessary in life. Not that love is bad but we should first access our partner if him or her truly fit into our life especially in building Our financial life because it takes someone that suits into our life to get to our desired level in life. A woman may be beautiful but do not have what it takes to propel once financial life to a point of stability, which is a challenge that may bring one back to zero if care is not taken.

You're right and that is why we don't need to be in a hurry while looking for a life partner so that we don't end up chosing the wrong one because I feel that everyone have their life partner but how to locate them is  where the problem is, for this reason we have to make a proper investigation we shouldn't judge from their appearance but the character because most people can be naturally beautiful while they are devil in disguise.

So what you said is true we need to access our partner very well before choosing them because marriage is a long term commitment it's going to be a bad thing if we start facing challenges in our marriage from this early stage till when we get old.

Yes, in essence marriage is like choosing an asset to invest in. You need to do thorough research, find a common vision and have aligned ambitions for your future household goals especially when it comes to finances as many divorces occur due to financial issues.

When getting married you need to consider many things. Marriage shouldn't be rushed as it's a lifelong journey, so choose a partner whose ambitions align with yours. One thing you need to discuss with your future husband/wife is where your life's ambitions are headed. For example, a prospective wife wants to go back to college but her prospective husband wants her to help with the family business. Clear plans are needed.

Is it okay for the wife to go to college first and then immediately manage her husband's business after graduation, or should the wife continue her studies while running a business. Don't let each other's dreams be stifled after marriage. This often happens in every marriage where people never check their life direction. As a result there are many arguments and compromises over principles along the way.

[Crypto Library]

Great point, that adjustments and sacrifice gives the matrimonial being conduct rightfully, there are many divorce due to this problem both sides are unwilling to adjust and they both protect their own take and not willing to submit from one another, the best thing in a married life is you are both willing to listen and willing to understand, from that point both can adjust for the betterment of living together and hoping together that life will be easy or they can survive everything together.

Actually, this is the main fact if we do want to bring happiness to our family. In the general point of view every person in this world do want the perfection for them in every sector in case of the life partner also but if in this case before looking at the perfection we good be use to with adjustment and sacrifice like if your life partner income or the status is below from your expectation on that case you have to adjust with that amount and as well also the life partner should be careful about his life partners needs and feelings.

[bhadz]

So what you said is true we need to access our partner very well before choosing them because marriage is a long term commitment it's going to be a bad thing if we start facing challenges in our marriage from this early stage till when we get old.

Every marriage has a challenge and no one can skip that part. There will be trials, troubles and problems to deal with even of how prepared you are. But we can always choose to win over those challenges together with our partners because it's the important thing that you need to be. To deal with it together and overcome that. The best thing about marriage is that you're not alone in dealing those problems and you'll have a life support altogether and you become a team. Because when you do, you know that even some trials are coming to both of you, you know that you have each others back.

[Ever-young]

Every marriage has a challenge and no one can skip that part. There will be trials, troubles and problems to deal with even of how prepared you are. But we can always choose to win over those challenges together with our partners because it's the important thing that you need to be. To deal with it together and overcome that. The best thing about marriage is that you're not alone in dealing those problems and you'll have a life support altogether and you become a team. Because when you do, you know that even some trials are coming to both of you, you know that you have each others back.

That’s the best part about marriage, not just having a partner, but having a good partner, one that understands you and is willing to support you through every step of the way. There’s a saying that two heads are better than one, but not when it’s just one head that’s good, having one good head and a bad one is worse than having one because the bad one would definitely wanna corrupt the good one. So yeah, choosing a partner is just about one of the most important aspects of everyone’s life because that single decision would affect every aspect of your life either positively or negatively.

[Yorubek]

Amongst the list of good economic decisions to make personally, getting a good partner is one of them although it is often exempted from the list and not mentioned.

I came across something that should have been funny and a joke, but I could not ignore it. Something about a woman bragging about making her husband a millionaire, and anyone hearing it would have been impressed at how virtuous and smart she is, but when asked what the man was before she met him, she said a "multi millionaire". Apparently that is the joke, but a serious look at that will tell you that the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with as a man and a woman will affect your finances.

A good man/woman will increase and help you multiply the resources you have, a bad man/woman will diminish your resources. This is why choosing should be done carefully.

Of course, in choosing a wife, it is very important to choose a good person, if the life partner is not good, there is no peace from any side. Men face losses in various ways but they can gradually compensate for the losses, but if a good-minded wife is not found in married life, then a man's life can lead to destruction from which it can be very difficult to get out. Greed can always lead people to nothing more than destruction, so choosing a life partner with a good mindset makes life better in all aspects.