gambling and divorce

[uneng]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

After all, it becomes too challenging to live with an addicted individual. It has a direct impact over the general health of the family and the relationship, so it's really not possible to blame someone for wishing to not continue married with an addicted. It's too stressing and frustrating. And when there are children involved, they suffer even more, because they are in a development stage of life, where every experiences will impact over their personality and behavior during adulthood.

[passwordnow]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

If they cannot fix that problem and don't talk about it. The relationship is at risk and likely to get separated. But even if the other one is a gambler, they can have a setup wherein the gambler can continue to do it but with limit. Everything can be done in talks if they have to do it. For as long as they understand each other and there's a limit to how much one can gamble to, it should work fine.

[Y3shot]

i think the moment we hide our gambling habits from our partners that is the moment we will get in trouble because that is when trust crumbles and when you get in trouble in gambling and have to tell your partner you will be surprising them

The main problem is not hiding gambling from your partner, but because the money that should be used for primary needs is spent on gambling. The increasing number of divorce cases is due to the inability of gamblers to control their emotions, ultimately they lose control and become irresponsible gamblers.
As long as you are able to provide for your wife and children in all aspects, your relationship will remain safe, here it is clear that the main factor is the lack of money in the family.

Divorce in gambling is not just caused by addiction because if an addicted gambler were just addicted to gambling but it didn't affect them financially, it wouldn't be a problem for their spouse. However, the divorce happens because the addiction is affecting the marriage financially. Divorce doesn't just happen; it is due to certain lifestyles that may be affecting the other partner.

One thing about addiction is that when one is addicted, it will always affect the people around them, especially in marriage when two people have become one. In marriage, when one is going contrary to or living a certain lifestyle, it makes the marriage unbearable.

[Fredomago]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

If they cannot fix that problem and don't talk about it. The relationship is at risk and likely to get separated. But even if the other one is a gambler, they can have a setup wherein the gambler can continue to do it but with limit. Everything can be done in talks if they have to do it. For as long as they understand each other and there's a limit to how much one can gamble to, it should work fine.

Yeah I agree, proper communication might prevent them to seperate as long as there's mutual understanding between them, gambling may treat as part of social activities or something that can be enjoyed if treated correctly, though similar to what the post above mentioned it can be a reason of divorced if there's no open communication and both financial and mental aspects are already been compromised.

[I_Anime]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

If they cannot fix that problem and don't talk about it. The relationship is at risk and likely to get separated. But even if the other one is a gambler, they can have a setup wherein the gambler can continue to do it but with limit. Everything can be done in talks if they have to do it. For as long as they understand each other and there's a limit to how much one can gamble to, it should work fine.

Most time gambling can affect one relationship, but it depends on how the gambler approach gambling and the impact of gambling in such folk lives . Gambling can lead to slot of things especially when one is not responsible, like short temperament due to losses , reckless spending , and some other negative stuff . But if one can actually keep to his budget and gambling only when necessary not frequently then be able to secure a healthy relationship while being into gambling

[skarais]

There are dozens, if not hundreds of divorce cases in my area stemming from gambling addiction. It's ironic, but that's the reality when gamblers lose control of their emotions due to severe addiction and loss of emotional control. I don't know the exact number of divorces due to gambling this year in my area, but the last time I read the media, the number reached over 300 cases throughout 2025.

Gambling is strictly prohibited in my country, but millions of people gamble every day making it a potential business opportunity for some. Gamblers gamble in secret, some in public as if it were legal, but I can clearly see that regulations prohibit it. The addiction exacerbated by economic hardship further exacerbates family problems, especially as wives demand various things. This is the result of a loss of control and excessive emotions that can ruin everything.

[junder]

But here we are talking about gambling, so we can only assume that it's one factor that lead to the dissolution of marriage. Perhaps that old and traditional way that you will tell everything to your wife prior to marriage. Or even when your time that both of you are sharing the same home and you are the provider, you should at least be honest that you are gambling and maybe she will understand and you can sit down together to discussed.

It might be interesting if we really have this kind of situation here? Maybe a member has went to this experience? Nevertheless, it's none of our business, but but for me personally, I don't have that issue as he and my wife are both recreational gamblers.

As I've said before, it's best to tell them about our gambling habits and find a solution, or perhaps a better solution. The key is to ensure that gambling doesn't lead to serious problems that could lead to divorce. There have been many cases of this happening, and it's a good lesson to learn from them. Even if we're good at controlling ourselves, honesty with our partners is essential.

[Zanab247]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

If they cannot fix that problem and don't talk about it. The relationship is at risk and likely to get separated. But even if the other one is a gambler, they can have a setup wherein the gambler can continue to do it but with limit. Everything can be done in talks if they have to do it. For as long as they understand each other and there's a limit to how much one can gamble to, it should work fine.

Most time gambling can affect one relationship, but it depends on how the gambler approach gambling and the impact of gambling in such folk lives . Gambling can lead to slot of things especially when one is not responsible, like short temperament due to losses , reckless spending , and some other negative stuff . But if one can actually keep to his budget and gambling only when necessary not frequently then be able to secure a healthy relationship while being into gambling

When you apply common sense to your gambling without listening to other gamblers that loss their marriage toward gambling issues, you will not lose your relationship or marriage because of gambling, because the common sense will not make you to do what will make your wife misbehave. Make sure there are enough food items and money in the house, because those are some of the things that will not make woman to get angry with her husband even though she knew her husband is a gambler because he is providing for the family to play his responsibility as the man of the house. Once you can hodl up to your budget in gambling without change you change your mind, you will not do what will make you to have issue or crisis in your marriage.

[bubilas]

When I was a child, I didn’t know that in fact, many loving women are ready to follow their man almost to the end and the only thing that can stop them is when he stops providing for the family, having a small child.

I think this is the reason why many women start to worry about addicted gamblers, and also money for them, even from their friends. But if there is a baby in the family, then the woman switches priorities to him.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

As I've said before, it's best to tell them about our gambling habits and find a solution, or perhaps a better solution. The key is to ensure that gambling doesn't lead to serious problems that could lead to divorce. There have been many cases of this happening, and it's a good lesson to learn from them. Even if we're good at controlling ourselves, honesty with our partners is essential.

That's true, when a partner is even aware of it in the early time, they could be there to help the person when the situation of addiction occurs, but the partner is not even aware that their man is a gambling and then it gets to a point of addiction, it is going to make some women want to leave at that point because they can't bear it, only some that will agree to stay and fight for the problem to be solved.

[KeenanEl19]

Most time gambling can affect one relationship, but it depends on how the gambler approach gambling and the impact of gambling in such folk lives . Gambling can lead to slot of things especially when one is not responsible, like short temperament due to losses , reckless spending , and some other negative stuff . But if one can actually keep to his budget and gambling only when necessary not frequently then be able to secure a healthy relationship while being into gambling

Gambling that can affect a relationship is gambling that is done excessively, for example, a head of a family has the responsibility to provide for his family, but when the head of the family earns income, he prioritizes gambling. Although the goal is to gain more profit to be able to meet needs more freely, the determination in gambling, this profit is not guaranteed to be obtained, losing could make the head of the family lose all his income. On the other hand, as you said, if you can control everything well, being responsible for the family and prioritizing it is good, by trying to do things that are enjoyed without causing problems that can impact family relationships.

[LDL]

When I was a child, I didn’t know that in fact, many loving women are ready to follow their man almost to the end and the only thing that can stop them is when he stops providing for the family, having a small child.

I think this is the reason why many women start to worry about addicted gamblers, and also money for them, even from their friends. But if there is a baby in the family, then the woman switches priorities to him.

Loving women do not want to leave their husbands easily and even stay with their husbands until death if their husband values them enough. Many times, women stay with their husbands despite having a gambling husband because if they have small children in their family, women stay with them for the sake of those children. In that case, women give more importance to their husband's family and children. I have seen many abused women who do not divorce their husbands, but instead live a very difficult life with their gambling husbands and raise their children.

[mak013]

When I was a child, I didn’t know that in fact, many loving women are ready to follow their man almost to the end and the only thing that can stop them is when he stops providing for the family, having a small child.

I think this is the reason why many women start to worry about addicted gamblers, and also money for them, even from their friends. But if there is a baby in the family, then the woman switches priorities to him.

I think that the same situation would be if the man would be a fisherman, with big expenses. But if he need just one fishing rod and goes fishing few times early morning - no one woman would worry about it.
The first problem is a lie, the second problem is money which man spend as he want.
I told before - i got "permission" for gambling when i said my wife that i would spent only my own money, that i planned to spend for my hobbies. I don`t know what was more important for her, but the result - i hadn`t problems in the family.

[gunhell16]

As I've said before, it's best to tell them about our gambling habits and find a solution, or perhaps a better solution. The key is to ensure that gambling doesn't lead to serious problems that could lead to divorce. There have been many cases of this happening, and it's a good lesson to learn from them. Even if we're good at controlling ourselves, honesty with our partners is essential.

That's true, when a partner is even aware of it in the early time, they could be there to help the person when the situation of addiction occurs, but the partner is not even aware that their man is a gambling and then it gets to a point of addiction, it is going to make some women want to leave at that point because they can't bear it, only some that will agree to stay and fight for the problem to be solved.

Some husbands are honest and transparent with their wives, while others aren't because they're afraid of what their spouses might find out. But it's always better to be open
with your partner; they will surely understand you if you're open about everything.

I agree with something I once read: if your partner knows about your gambling habit, they can be a guide to help you avoid a full-blown addiction in the end.

[justinlamode]

Gambling does have a connection with divorce.Oftentimes, many gamblers hide their gambling activities from their spouse.Meanwhile,studies show that couples where one partner has a gambling problem, they're more likely to separate or divorce.In essence,gambling,especially compulsive often damages finances and trust in a marriage.

Although not exactly the same story with what is being discussed here but gambling have a lot to do with divorce and have lead to divorce that I know of. Remember that gambling involves money which is vital to running a family, if the man is gambling and it is affecting him in delivering on his duties as the man of the house, it will lead to problems which can eventually lead to divorce. There are instances in which a man concealing his gambling activities can even lead to divorce when the wife, who vowed never to marry a gambler, finds out. This is what I have experienced and till date the marriage ended.

[passwordnow]

If they cannot fix that problem and don't talk about it. The relationship is at risk and likely to get separated. But even if the other one is a gambler, they can have a setup wherein the gambler can continue to do it but with limit. Everything can be done in talks if they have to do it. For as long as they understand each other and there's a limit to how much one can gamble to, it should work fine.

Yeah I agree, proper communication might prevent them to seperate as long as there's mutual understanding between them, gambling may treat as part of social activities or something that can be enjoyed if treated correctly, though similar to what the post above mentioned it can be a reason of divorced if there's no open communication and both financial and mental aspects are already been compromised.

That is why it is important to have a consistent communication with the partners. They will understand why people gamble and they will see that you as a gambler has been consistent and responsible. You know your limitations and you're not the others that are irresponsible. That's the reason why it's best to talk with it as usual and if there is some misunderstanding that keeps on happening, always start from the beginning and have it on the seat and talk about it. There is always a solution when the partners are consistent with each other and keeps on communicating, not that they're going sulk just because they are not given the favor. Not a single good thing will happen if that's how both reacts.

[Powerjumboo]

is there a connection between gambling and divorce rate?

Research from the National Gambling Impact Study Commission and the Gambling Impact and Behavior Study indicates that divorce rates for those dealing with gambling issues are estimated to be around 40% for problem gamblers and approximately 54% for pathological gamblers.

i think the moment we hide our gambling habits from our partners that is the moment we will get in trouble because that is when trust crumbles and when you get in trouble in gambling and have to tell your partner you will be surprising them

not to mention some people also spend money from money that both the partners contributed in

so aside from gambling responsibly, will you agree that we should disclose our gambling habits or is it not the business of our spouses? does gambling really have the capacity to break up a marriage or a family?

Of course gambling has the power to break up a marriage or family. However, with some good advice and intelligence, everything can be saved. For example, if we share our gambling habits with our family and husband and wife, then it is certainly possible to gamble while maintaining a good relationship. For example, I have shared my gambling with my family and my wife. My family knows about my gambling and everyone knows that I am only participating in sports betting for entertainment. In this case, I am 100% sure that there will never be any trouble with my wife. Moreover, there will be no talk about it in my family because everyone knows that I am using gambling for entertainment and participating with a very small amount of money.

[mirakal]

If you know the essence of marriage, you will never have the idea of hiding your gambling activities and addiction. That’s an insult to your partner, while she made it all transparent for you, but you chose to be secretive on her because you know gambling addiction will never do good for your marriage.

Know your place as a husband/spouse, you’re supposed to be building the foundation of your family to make it strong, but what you did is the opposite, and that would lead into a divorce that any couple or family does not wish to experience. Get rid of secrets, but chose transparency and family over the greed for money.

[tread93]

is there a connection between gambling and divorce rate?

Research from the National Gambling Impact Study Commission and the Gambling Impact and Behavior Study indicates that divorce rates for those dealing with gambling issues are estimated to be around 40% for problem gamblers and approximately 54% for pathological gamblers.

i think the moment we hide our gambling habits from our partners that is the moment we will get in trouble because that is when trust crumbles and when you get in trouble in gambling and have to tell your partner you will be surprising them

not to mention some people also spend money from money that both the partners contributed in

so aside from gambling responsibly, will you agree that we should disclose our gambling habits or is it not the business of our spouses? does gambling really have the capacity to break up a marriage or a family?

Marriages fall apart due to finances or lack there of. Now dont quote me but I want to say that somewhere I read that 50% marriages fail on the first 7 years due to financial stress. Now im sure a good portion of that are people with gambling problems. It 100% has the capacity to break up a marriage or family if its a big enough issue.

[TheUltraElite]

Gambling and other addictive process can lead to marital disharmony. If the one who is gambling does not control their habits to minimal limits the partner will feel left out and not given attention or find money being spent on gambling rather than needs or even being asked for money.

Indeed from the side of the partner this is a bad thing and hence these problems.

Some spouses will just accept it and adjust with their spouses habits. But money problems cant be solved. Hence I dont blame anybody for such divorces, rather the burden is on the gambler to adjust.