Sex before marriage or after marriage, which one do you prefer?

[Frankolala]

Sex is a very important thing in marriages, Do you know that many partners today only decided to get married to each other because of sex. Yes, sex is one among many reasons why some persons get married today because they both compliment each other sexually. Most women now can’t stay faithful to their husbands simply because of sex in the sense that their husbands can’t satisfy them in bed as many people will refers to them as one minute man. There are also some men who have a very high sexual desire than their partner can handle and it’s just a problem. In order to avoid all these issues occurring in the future, hence the need for sex before marriage.

If you are not used to sex, I wonder how you will have a high appetite for sex. Sex shouldn't be the only reason why we get married. We get married to have a life partner to assist each other and make a good family. Anyone marrying for the sole purpose of sex wouldn't be faithful to their spouse.

[Bigjoe33]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Morally, it's marriage before sex, and that's the best to follow. Involving im sex before marriage isn't just too good because so many things get exposed and the marriage may lose some source and fragrance before the wedding night.

Allowing Sex after marriage is best and it keeps the relationship going and salted.

[uneng]

Sex is a very important thing in marriages, Do you know that many partners today only decided to get married to each other because of sex. Yes, sex is one among many reasons why some persons get married today because they both compliment each other sexually. Most women now can’t stay faithful to their husbands simply because of sex in the sense that their husbands can’t satisfy them in bed as many people will refers to them as one minute man. There are also some men who have a very high sexual desire than their partner can handle and it’s just a problem. In order to avoid all these issues occurring in the future, hence the need for sex before marriage.

If you are not used to sex, I wonder how you will have a high appetite for sex. Sex shouldn't be the only reason why we get married. We get married to have a life partner to assist each other and make a good family. Anyone marrying for the sole purpose of sex wouldn't be faithful to their spouse.

Well, if it's not the only reason why people get married, it must correspond to 50%, at least... There are so many people living unhappy marriages, because they don't have a satisfactory sexual life. Men who don't have more desire for their wives and wives who don't have desire for their husbands.

I guess one of the reasons why it happens is because people are just executing the formal role society expects from them. For society, people have to get married, so they do this, without caring if they have a real connection with the another person. Sex before or after marriage shouldn't be the concern here. If there is real love, passion and commitment involved is what truly matters.

[Queen uloma]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Morally, it's marriage before sex, and that's the best to follow. Involving im sex before marriage isn't just too good because so many things get exposed and the marriage may lose some source and fragrance before the wedding night.

Allowing Sex after marriage is best and it keeps the relationship going and salted.

I highly respect people who choose to wait till marriage before sex because it may align with their religious beliefs, moral standards or personal values. If both partners agree to it, it is their choice and it can also help to build trust, deeper emotional connection and patience. But  everyone doesn’t have that same beliefs. Couples who choose to have sex before marriage may be based on their personal values.

The most essential thing is that both adults agrees and they make responsible decisions.  So whether a person decides to wait or not, marriage doesn’t last because of sex alone. Trust, communication, honesty, commitment and respect is the only thing that can keep marriage. Sex can’t replace good character and understanding between husband and wife, what it does is only to strengthen marriage.

[Judith87403]

I highly respect people who choose to wait till marriage before sex because it may align with their religious beliefs, moral standards or personal values. If both partners agree to it, it is their choice and it can also help to build trust, deeper emotional connection and patience. But  everyone doesn’t have that same beliefs. Couples who choose to have sex before marriage may be based on their personal values.

The most essential thing is that both adults agrees and they make responsible decisions.  So whether a person decides to wait or not, marriage doesn’t last because of sex alone. Trust, communication, honesty, commitment and respect is the only thing that can keep marriage. Sex can’t replace good character and understanding between husband and wife, what it does is only to strengthen marriage.

Well said, its just by choice and one should not be judged by what they think its suitable and best for them, as they are adults which know good and bad, as people needs to respect people decision for its better you encourage them and give them your own opinions and not to force them to act or make it look like they are too young to decide for themselves, yes things might go bad in the future as one can't tell what will happen in the future but that are some people who understand other parts of lives and get to learn a lesson from it as they can use it to as a guide path in their future.

[Stive009]

In my view those who believe in religion and adhere to family discipline and social values ​​will always choose to engage in sexual relations only after marriage. The key to starting physical relationship after marriage is to take a step in a relationship where there's a safe responsible and lasting commitment. This practice honors religious beliefs and moral values removes social or undesired uncertainties and builds emotional security and great trust amongst partners. So it enables a strong base to be created on common values character and mental knowledge before physical contact is made.

[Oluwa-btc]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Sex before marriage is important so you both can know what works best for the both of you, his or her body  language and also what turns the both of you.

Sex is also important when you both are already married to keep the both of you going. I highly recommend the both of them because it is mandatory. It will be boring if you experience it much later and to find out that, the both of you cn not correspond. I believe from a female and male perspective, it should be done this way not all that way the religious people talk about.

[gracreavix]

What a question. Let me answer based on me alone and what I see all the time. I would be intimate with my partner before marriage if she is not a virgin. It's only a virgin that I would wait for till I am married.  You might ask how will one know a virgin. It's simple, except you don't know game. Women always reveal themselves to you, just pay attention to details and little things she does. Remember women are manipulative so you have to be smart as well.

[Franctoshi]

What a question. Let me answer based on me alone and what I see all the time. I would be intimate with my partner before marriage if she is not a virgin. It's only a virgin that I would wait for till I am married.  You might ask how will one know a virgin. It's simple, except you don't know game. Women always reveal themselves to you, just pay attention to details and little things she does. Remember women are manipulative so you have to be smart as well.

How would you know that your woman is a virgin? because most of these ladies nowadays use this to run their men, claiming to be a virgin while they are not and in the end they their partners would find out all are lies after they must have gotten married.

Normally, it's not proper to have sex before marriage, but based on the society we're living in today, it's now important to know your partner because of some issues partners get to discover later that result in both parties exploding after the discovery. Some women discover their men are impotent as a result of them not knowing each other before marriage. Some get to discover hidden diseases.

For me, going with what we see today in the society, especially with Ladies, sex before marriage is encouraged.

[Berry2d]

What a question. Let me answer based on me alone and what I see all the time. I would be intimate with my partner before marriage if she is not a virgin. It's only a virgin that I would wait for till I am married.  You might ask how will one know a virgin. It's simple, except you don't know game. Women always reveal themselves to you, just pay attention to details and little things she does. Remember women are manipulative so you have to be smart as well.

Where do you think you can find the virgin you are talking about because the last time I checked i don't think we still have virgins that are ripe for marriage in this world . But incase you find one, its fine keeping her till marriage  but I think that will be the most difficult task to embark on in this present world.
Keeping a virgin till marriage is what all including me will cherish so much but the only problem we have now is where and how to see a her ripe for marriage still untouched by any man.
I will never support any union between two mature partners waiting till marriage before sex because sexual compatibility is a very important factor to consider especially now women have made themselves sex machines.

[Dicee]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

its all about decision and communication between the lady and the guy, but for me i think  getting to know her intimately may possibly save me from future regrets,  in as much as marriage is concerned,  its a lifetime journey that requires proper and sincere decisions not just relying on mare talks.
I have heard situations were a lady who's probably a virgin before she got married that fail to give birth to children due to some certain issues, which might have or may have been corrected if the man had intimacy with before the marriage.

[9ja Amaka]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Morally, it's marriage before sex, and that's the best to follow. Involving im sex before marriage isn't just too good because so many things get exposed and the marriage may lose some source and fragrance before the wedding night.

Allowing Sex after marriage is best and it keeps the relationship going and salted.

It first started as a cultural practice in most traditions, where marriage before sex places a high value on the person—giving honor to the family. What started as a traditional practice then became a norm in Christian and Islamic morals.

In today's reality, there are many things that can keep a home, and marriage is one of them. Eventually, I won't believe a partner who says she is still a virgin because 90% of people out there have lost their virginity but will rather lie about it.