The economy of having children

[rachael9385]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Dont bring in kids into existence if you can't take of them, that's a simple fact. Most people say it's not a big deal when a child is born but that's not the problem, remember that you have the responsibly of training that child till he or she grows up and this is expensive. If you are not financially capable then wait till you are instead of making yourself depressed. There's no need to rush anything in life

[Marykeller]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Mainly, I see having children as those who would help us out in old age when we can't work and do other things with our hands, and above all carry on with our family lineage. For taking us out of financial crisis, I see that as not the main reason most people have children. Although it can be said to be one of the reason why people give birth. But the most concerning issue for everyone is old age. Who will take care of them when their hands and legs are not strong enough to cater for themselves.

[coupable]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Of course it is not fair to build a whole future plan based on the fate of another person who has no abilities to chose. We are in a modern society in which the family (mainly the parents) has specific roles than reach an end over time. However this wasn't the case few decades ago when sociaties were formed by big families working mainly in agricultures. Parents in those societies gave birth to a lot of children so they can help with the land work and other missions like security and protection.

In my country, there is still a region where men prefer not to work. Instead they marry a woman who can work in agriculture activities (workers for not more than 6-7 dollars per day) and give birth to girls. Once those girls reach the age of 12-14 years old, the father send them working as home maids for rich people or work as beggars in big cities. Unfortunetly, the government couldn't fight this phenomena.

[DeathAngel]

It’s a really sensitive question to answer because how can you tell people who are in love & wanting to start a family to not have children. Obviously there is a certain level of responsibility needed but who are we to question the decision of others. As long as the kids are loved, fed, clothed & looked after by two loving parents that’s fine by me. Better to struggle a little bit for money but be in a loving home than be rich with parents who don’t care.

[Fiatless]

It’s a really sensitive question to answer because how can you tell people who are in love & wanting to start a family to not have children. Obviously there is a certain level of responsibility needed but who are we to question the decision of others. As long as the kids are loved, fed, clothed & looked after by two loving parents that’s fine by me. Better to struggle a little bit for money but be in a loving home than be rich with parents who don’t care.

You remind me of a popular saying "love is a force strong enough to triumph over any challenge, difficulty, or adversary". A couple can raise children if there is love and cooperation in the family. Regardless of adversaries couples can work hard to raise children. Most people are focusing on luxury, while what children really need are basic needs, quality education, and health care.

[Davidvictorson]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Parents should stop having the mindset of  their children will acquire the wealth they couldn't acquire and take care of them when they are advance when they didn't even give them a good education or skill or was not even able to raise responsible kids. Even  though nothing comes easily. This action can break them down and cause them frustration before acquiring the wealth because you didn't give them the opportunity they needed. I said this because having a quality education is an opportunity in the future, and having responsible kids is a good opportunity for the kids to achieve whatever they want in the future. The best thing parents can do for themselves and for their children is to birth the number of kids they will be able to train so that they can also have many opportunities in their lifetime.

[Yaunfitda]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

For me, it's not a burden but a blessing but you don't know what the future holds for your kids. But it doesn't matter, as long as you did your best as parents to have them a good future then you have fulfilled everything. If you have grown them to be good kids then they can reciprocate it, but you don't have to think and over complicate like they are going to be the live saver of the family. That is a wrong mindset to me. Just like them grow up normally with love and understand then maybe in the end, what you wanted to happen for them and for you will eventually be given to you by your kids. Don't force everything, let it come to you.

[Ndabagi01]

Dont bring in kids into existence if you can't take of them, that's a simple fact. Most people say it's not a big deal when a child is born but that's not the problem, remember that you have the responsibly of training that child till he or she grows up and this is expensive. If you are not financially capable then wait till you are instead of making yourself depressed. There's no need to rush anything in life

In this same world, some people believe that having kids early is the best because you will grow up with them and will be able to cater for them when they’re still in their prime and needs that parental care and financial support at that time. Having kids when one has reached a certain age that may make it difficult for them to cater for them throughout their school years is termed not appropriate. This may make some sense but if you don’t have the financial means of catering for them when you bring them early it also becomes a problem. As both points are valid, you just have to think about it and balance yourself up for what you intend to do with your life in that regards.

[LDL]

It’s a really sensitive question to answer because how can you tell people who are in love & wanting to start a family to not have children. Obviously there is a certain level of responsibility needed but who are we to question the decision of others. As long as the kids are loved, fed, clothed & looked after by two loving parents that’s fine by me. Better to struggle a little bit for money but be in a loving home than be rich with parents who don’t care.

You are right, we are not the ones to decide whether a parent should adopt a child or not. When a parent adopts a child, their responsibilities automatically increase and they are always busy thinking about how to best care for their children. There are many parents who are not responsible before marriage and after marriage when their sense of responsibility increases a little and after having children their sense of responsibility increases a lot and it has even been seen that they automatically become so responsible that they do not have to be suggested about their source of income and how to improve. Time and circumstances teach a parent how to survive.

[Adiljutt156]

Parenting is not an easy role, and you can't do without the financial aspect of it. The most important thing about parenting is to at least have something at hand that generates income. You don't need a lot of money to raise a child, but it is good to have a little income to provide for them. Another aspect of parenting is that parents need to be good spenders of money, managing it very well. If you lack the discipline to manage money, it will certainly affect the child, as they won't be able to get the basic things from their parents.

You said many things that got my attention, being parents has a lot things involved, I agree with you that having a source of income makes parenting a bit easy but such income must be sustainable, I know that parents must have to start from somewhere but you know once you start having children your expenses grows, your responsibility becomes enormous, I think it will be better people prepare for all this before going into parenthood, actually it is not easy just as you said, there are many things parents to needs to minimize although you've mentioned many, the financial aspect is very important and both parents should have something doing, it will.help too, we all know that it is the responsibility of the man to take care of his family, it is also good for the wife to have something doing because sometimes a man may not have, the woman helps although not all the time.

Kids play important role in life because within kids life is nothing because we want money in life and kids always help to the father to grow more in life and time could be tough for a short period but when these children will grow up and earn money then father have to do no effort for the money and he will enjoy richest life. Rich people always try to keep less children and they have 2 to 4 children and they are less happy in life in  comparison with people who have more children in life. I think children should be more than 6 in life because mother and father need more children to divert their focus and they could be tension free with this  . If people has less children then they will spend money with no tension then they will poor in the young age.

[laijsica]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Currently in some poor countries the government is campaigning to prevent the increase in the number of children. There is a tendency among poor parents that they may be unable to maintain a large number of children and meet their basic needs. A family should consider the financial situation and decide on having more children.

I think that having more children will not have any negative impact on the financial situation. It may cause some temporary problems, but in the long run it can make you more financially successful. Children can grow up and be involved in various activities and help you financially.

[Leahized]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Yes, it is true that it is a matter of their pride. But no one else does what parents do for their kids. You notice that the things that children do at the present time and the clever things are frozen to Control. But this is not one for all children. Because everyone is different, some are very good and many are a little wicked. However, no parents want their child to grow up to live with hardship. They always do all the work to keep the kids well and achieve well. It is a very normal kids to get a job in a good place after gaining education and a career. And I will never consider it expensive. Because if you are in the life of the world, you still have a lot of money.

[liasbaa]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Dont bring in kids into existence if you can't take of them, that's a simple fact. Most people say it's not a big deal when a child is born but that's not the problem, remember that you have the responsibly of training that child till he or she grows up and this is expensive. If you are not financially capable then wait till you are instead of making yourself depressed. There's no need to rush anything in life

There are some elderly people in our society who say that "You cannot be responsible unless you take responsibility for your work." The implicit meaning of their words is that with increasing age, the responsibility will gradually come upon you to maintain the responsible behavior that will come in you. After completing your education, your career begins, after entering the career, family responsibilities fall on your shoulders and then you need to give birth to children to protect the lineage. Each of these things comes into your life step by step.

As your responsibilities in your job life increase, your income will increase and with more attention, your salary can increase and the possibility of increasing the sources of income for raising children increases. Therefore, according to the laws of creation, you should just keep trying yourself and live a responsible life through coordination.

[wiss19]

In our country where everything seems to be going downhill the birth rate of kids is showing a significant increase which is a matter of concern sadly no one seems to care about it because there are many arguments surrounding this issue that revolve around religious factors which seem to be in favor of having more children.
On the other hand in many countries where things are much better and have better conditions people are complaining about the increasing number of kids but they're not getting a positive response because they don't have any religious issues at stake those who can afford to have kids do so while those who cannot feel uncomfortable and never think about having more children.
Ultimately countries that want to achieve good development need to strike a balance in their resources and population demographics as this is crucial for bringing about positive changes and achieving a higher standard of living.

But at the end, having kids is like having a future. Imagine if the number of kids is really low so how will the country progress in the coming years? Kids are the future not only for the family but also for the country. Having excessive kids is not really good but I really think that each family should have just one kid who will carry forward the family name. Having no kid is not an option because that is actually designed by nature to keep the population in place.

I do see that a lot of countries have no restrictions on having multiple kids and their, families end up having maybe 4 or 5 kids. This is overpopulating the globe and this is what can be considered harmful. This might need to be stopped for for regular ones, having one kid will be healthy. It should not affect their personal economy not their country's.

[Onyeeze]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

the only reason that I see to having kids is because there are your representative of tomorrow without your kids not being your Ambassadors of tomorrow I don't think that there's anything good of having kids, but in another way of understanding life investment and the normal investment that give you return I think we investing in our kid is very important and it is something that we yield positive in life of us, so that is why we have to consider children investment more than any other kind of investment in life knowing that whatever thing you have today will be on their name if you are normal and do you have to put them in position part we will protect their image after your own generation

[Josefjix]

Having kids shouldn't be something that attract pressure from peers, it should be when someone is ready to do so, even though it's a one child. The whole of essence of having children is being able to train to the best standard of your expectations.

I personally wish to have my children when I am stabilize in my income and have met the stage of readiness to have it then, if not, I can't get it because my friends are getting, we aren't the same.

[Akbarkoe]

Having kids shouldn't be something that attract pressure from peers, it should be when someone is ready to do so, even though it's a one child. The whole of essence of having children is being able to train to the best standard of your expectations.

I personally wish to have my children when I am stabilize in my income and have met the stage of readiness to have it then, if not, I can't get it because my friends are getting, we aren't the same.

Pressure like this often arises especially with the nature of parents who continue to press want to carry the grandchildren of our descendants, this often happens to new families.

Readiness is not only about financial, but what is very important is how to educate him, you and your wife must have the ability to educate your child to be very good, some people are also too focused on financial but forget how to be very wise parents in educating their children, this is also as important in having children.

[Antotena]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

This is a general problem everywhere, each country has their own hood where these things happen. I don't mind if two adult are ready to get married as long as their institution allows, it's better than see them doing fornication and all sort of immorality but it doesn't mean they should litre everywhere with kids they can't give a basic life. One child is enough, at most 2 a poor home should have, I don't mind if the government can make this mandatory for poor homes.

The reason we are having a bad people and dealing with a lot of criminality are as a result of this bad parenting, they are not doing their job, they don't take care of their kids, they don't provide proper food and shelter. Check any street hood today, you will never see a well to do family kids goes around there, it's always people that never have hope, people that have dreams but their parents don't have the means to push them and these are the problems we have to deal collectively.

[Out of mind]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Basically, I think it is very bad that a child's birthday requires the parents' financial resources. When a child is born, of course, every parent has many responsibilities where he needs money in every field, starting from his movement, accommodation and medical care. But due to the financial crisis of parents who give birth to children without money, their children are deprived of good medical care, and their education is also very weak. If any such parent thinks that after giving birth to their child, that child will create everything for them, then it is wrong because first the parents have to be financially stable and later for the evening. I will never do such a thing because I will be financially stable and later it will be very important for my future husband because having money is an advantage in every field.

[GiftedMAN]

Having kids shouldn't be something that attract pressure from peers, it should be when someone is ready to do so, even though it's a one child. The whole of essence of having children is being able to train to the best standard of your expectations.

I personally wish to have my children when I am stabilize in my income and have met the stage of readiness to have it then, if not, I can't get it because my friends are getting, we aren't the same.

It's unfortunate that the society we find ourselves doesn't see it hr way you said it they think you should become a father because your mates are becoming fathers yet they don't care if you are able to take care of the kids when they finally arrive, it is important to be ready but don't get up to 60 years before making the money you think you can use to take care of the kids.

No time is too late but if you want to wait until you have it all and be very comfortable you may not be ready soon, I wish I got married when I was in my 20's the hardship we see now wasn't like that during that time.