The economy of having children

[rezakurnia66]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Bad mindset about many parent think their children at the future assets investment and not matter how difficult financial condition keep most productive having many children and most of them having one children around each two or three years.
Poor people mindset having many children and their hope in the future become the investment way but difficult to give their children with good education and good life. Just know about how to make and have many children but can't giving them with good life, good living place and most important difficult to give them with good education.

[Sulegzy39]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Bad mindset about many parent think their children at the future assets investment and not matter how difficult financial condition keep most productive having many children and most of them having one children around each two or three years.
Poor people mindset having many children and their hope in the future become the investment way but difficult to give their children with good education and good life. Just know about how to make and have many children but can't giving them with good life, good living place and most important difficult to give them with good education.

Having too many children in this economy will not favor poor men because your children will not have a good education and a good life. Because of their emotions, they take on the responsibility of multiple children without properly considering the issue of family maintenance. You cannot expect your children to take up your responsibility when they grow up if you failed to build a financial path for them when they were young.

[JoyMarsha]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Presently, do you know that people are refusing to get married or have a kid because of the economy hardship that they don't want to bring up a child(born a child) that wil pass through the hardship they passed through in life. It's better they remain single. If they should born a child, is the one that will take care of them at old age, and they will give him or her the best of education.

I don't see it as a bad idea for parents to long for financial upliftment from their children after catering for them from birth till the time they grow of age. The time I will condemn a parents act is when they know they are poor, hardly do they feed, they have given birth to more than Four children

[Sabih7]

As Muslims, our belief is that every child who is born can bring their own wealth and fortune in their destiny. However, I think we should also have a plan for them to ensure they have a brighter future and become successful individuals in society, rather than failures who are buried under responsibilities.

[Salahmu]

Having too many children in this economy will not favor poor men because your children will not have a good education and a good life. Because of their emotions, they take on the responsibility of multiple children without properly considering the issue of family maintenance. You cannot expect your children to take up your responsibility when they grow up if you failed to build a financial path for them when they were young.

Is your money that should answered whether you should have a lot of children or having few children or also if you ordinarily like to have more, if you have companies all over that you are not thinking about money is not wrong having more if your agreement with your wife is more kids because the man is not the one who would bear the children but the wife is the one who go through all the thick time in the labour but however if is the family that doesn't have money that might sponsor all the children in school is better having few so that your finance will take all there schooling.

[Jateng]

Are you saying that parents should not be training their children to any level of education,or parents should not be giving birth to children they can train because their children will not appreciate them? You don't have to let your children know that you are training them to build houses or buy cars, because it will make the child or children not to be focus on their future, because they know that there are plenty responsibility from their parents.

If you are not a lazy human being, this economic will not stop you to give birth to one or two children you cannot train to become a better person in the future, because no child that will grow up seems his parents helped him to achieved wealth and the child will not reward his parents to appreciate them for the good training.

If someone have no kids then for what he put struggle and why he find out new ways of earning. A person used to work hard and effort just to support his family. Without family or kids anyone can feel less burden or live on everage income. but having 5 to 8 kids with weak financial status is wrong approach. They have no awareness about the family planning. I have seen many families who are financially unstable but having more kids. That's why they face difficulties in their life or for their future Children are not burden for any economy or for any family

[Yeesha]

Are you saying that parents should not be training their children to any level of education,or parents should not be giving birth to children they can train because their children will not appreciate them? You don't have to let your children know that you are training them to build houses or buy cars, because it will make the child or children not to be focus on their future, because they know that there are plenty responsibility from their parents.

If you are not a lazy human being, this economic will not stop you to give birth to one or two children you cannot train to become a better person in the future, because no child that will grow up seems his parents helped him to achieved wealth and the child will not reward his parents to appreciate them for the good training.

If someone have no kids then for what he put struggle and why he find out new ways of earning. A person used to work hard and effort just to support his family. Without family or kids anyone can feel less burden or live on everage income. but having 5 to 8 kids with weak financial status is wrong approach. They have no awareness about the family planning. I have seen many families who are financially unstable but having more kids. That's why they face difficulties in their life or for their future Children are not burden for any economy or for any family

Some people work very hard and make many sacrifices just to ensure that their families live a good and comfortable life. They take their responsibilities seriously by providing food, education, shelter, emotional support, and proper guidance for their children. These individuals understand that parenting is not only about giving birth to as many children as they like, but is also about being present, responsible, and committed to the well-being of their family. But some people doesn't take responsibility seriously. They will only bring children into the world without proper planning or consideration for their future, and in some cases, they abandon them emotionally, financially or physically. Such actions place a heavy burden on the children, the extended family, and society as a whole. The children that grew up without care and guidance may struggle with lack of direction, emotional pain, and limited opportunities in life, and some of them ended up being a problem to the society. By involving themselves in some illegal act like kidnapping, theft and so on. These happen as a result of lack of basic home training.

So therefore, giving birth should come with a strong sense of responsibility. Parenthood requires commitment, sacrifice, and accountability. It is not just about having children, but about raising them properly and ensuring they grow into responsible, healthy, and productive members of the society.

[Cgrexp]

Having too many children in this economy will not favor poor men because your children will not have a good education and a good life. Because of their emotions, they take on the responsibility of multiple children without properly considering the issue of family maintenance. You cannot expect your children to take up your responsibility when they grow up if you failed to build a financial path for them when they were young.

Is your money that should answered whether you should have a lot of children or having few children or also if you ordinarily like to have more, if you have companies all over that you are not thinking about money is not wrong having more if your agreement with your wife is more kids because the man is not the one who would bear the children but the wife is the one who go through all the thick time in the labour but however if is the family that doesn't have money that might sponsor all the children in school is better having few so that your finance will take all there schooling.

But I think the number of children should be taken from a sense of responsibility. A child means that a new member has all the basic needs that you have. And it is a responsibility to keep in mind that how many children he is able to take responsibility for according to his income. If someone has 5 to 6 children as an income and limited financial capacity, then he will surely struggle to fulfill his responsibility of supporting them, which is not realistic and at the same time the quality of life of those children may be affected. Yes, but if someone has sufficient income, stable future plans and there is mutual consent of the husband and wife, then they can have more children. But the limit should be set that are you fully capable of fulfilling that responsibility?

[Fivestar4everMVP]

As Muslims, our belief is that every child who is born can bring their own wealth and fortune in their destiny. However, I think we should also have a plan for them to ensure they have a brighter future and become successful individuals in society, rather than failures who are buried under responsibilities.

Yes of course, this is not about religious believe but naturally and realistically, every child born into this world comes with their own good fortune, there is always something they add to the parents and bring for themselves too. But the fact remains that without we the parents giving them the proper caring and education they need, that gift they brought into this world will hard come to fruition.

I will liken this to a gold that is just dugged up from inside the group, it's something of great value, but at that moment  it's freshly dugged up, it looks very rough, dirty and may not even smell nice too. The gold needs to be washed up, heated and refined for its true beauty to emerge and so also it's true value.

[WatChe]

If someone have no kids then for what he put struggle and why he find out new ways of earning. A person used to work hard and effort just to support his family. Without family or kids anyone can feel less burden or live on everage income. but having 5 to 8 kids with weak financial status is wrong approach. They have no awareness about the family planning. I have seen many families who are financially unstable but having more kids. That's why they face difficulties in their life or for their future Children are not burden for any economy or for any family

As a parent its our responsibility to look after our kids. The responsibility of parents not only include provision of food and shelter but it also include giving every kid proper time. If someone has 4 or more kids and he is doing 9 to 5 job or doing a business then how can he give adequate time to all his kids. A neglected kid, when grown up will face difficulty in his professional life and he will also find it hard to contribute positively towards the community. Everyone must have kids regardless of his financial status but kids must be 2 or 3 maximum, just me few Satoshis.  

[Sulegzy39]

As Muslims, our belief is that every child who is born can bring their own wealth and fortune in their destiny. However, I think we should also have a plan for them to ensure they have a brighter future and become successful individuals in society, rather than failures who are buried under responsibilities.

 In my opinion, every child is responsible for their own money and fortune in life.However, if you are not a lazy human being, economic constraints will not prevent you from giving birth; some individuals work quite hard simply to ensure that their family has a decent and comfortable life as usual.the parent will just try there best what a child will be in this world have been writer by god that created us to this simply world, however we should also have a good plan for then become a successful person in life

[Stormisover]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

This is the mindset of many poor ignorant people, they will keep giving birth and multiplying children with the hope that one or two of them will grow up and become rich to take them out of poverty. They don't reason that one or some of the kids can become criminals and give them heartbreak, in the end poverty will keep increasing and most of them will die miserably. Enlightened people plan how many kids that they can afford to take care of and when the kids starts to come they will give them the very best care and education that they can afford.

There is a part of a country that has a lot of terrorists, if you research you will find out that most of the parents and children born in that part of the country are destituts, very impoverished and that is why they can be easily recruited into terrorism. If the parents were enlightened and stop giving birth to uncountable children, poverty will decrease and they can resist crime.

The war now should against birth control just as we all know that overpopulation is one of the most leading causes of employment rate in various parts of the world today, a reasonable person will only have few children and give them the best that they can, parents shouldn't be leaving all their lives training and taken of care of children, most of the parents never had good time for themselves because all they do is to keep giving birth to children that they can not even take good care of, government should always organize rallies for sensitization.

[zony676]

I think the bigger issue is whether parents can afford to raise the children they have, rather than expecting those children to somehow improve the family’s finances later. With three kids, we definitely noticed how quickly the costs could add up, and childcare was probably the biggest thing we had to figure out.

[Solodoski]

Having kids definitely brings extra expenses, but that does not change the fact thar children are still blessing from God. I think that everyone has to plan and prepare themselves before having kidd, because it's unfair to your kids, if you can't take care of them by at least provide their basic needs. Every parent definitely wants their kids to do better than them, but you don't bring them to this world without taking proper care of them and hoping they will being you wealth in the future. In my opinion I think  before anyone decides to have a child,  they should laid down plans on how to provide for the child.

[danherbias07]

If one is creating a life just to be their hope for wealth in the future, then they should not even try to have babies.

Having kids is a big responsibility, and that means daily routine changes, emergencies, and many things that will change one's life. I have two kids, and I gave up a lot of my hobbies and bad habits for them. Quit smoking, drinking became occasional, and I try to be there for them.
When it comes to money, well, you will also give up a lot of things. You budget everything so that you can pay all the bills and somehow provide food on the table. Then diapers, milk, and more. Add the savings for their future. School and other things.

[Crypto_Timothy]

Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

Children are blessing but then parents try to mold them in their own exact image. Like more than 3 times just this week ending, I have hold somebody's child in a public vehicle so the mother and the other children can sit well and they are all small with same age range, like my thoughts is, do you go out hoping strangers will just assist you with children? If you know moving is around is something you do, why give birth to 3 children with just 1 or 2 years difference and using public transport.

All these thinking and let's not even talk about the housing situation, yet people are just giving birth and I know alot of them intend to just survive off the children as they grow older. Other than pressure, I don't see the reason why you will get married to someone when you on your own cannot sustain yourself then let alone, you then decide to bring a child into this world. I don't think that's fair at all

[Nwadiche]

Having too many children in this economy will not favor poor men because your children will not have a good education and a good life. Because of their emotions, they take on the responsibility of multiple children without properly considering the issue of family maintenance. You cannot expect your children to take up your responsibility when they grow up if you failed to build a financial path for them when they were young.

I agree with you, the situations of this country right now isn't good to be having much children when you knew you can't afford all their needs, even the rich people are feeling the hardship talk more of poor people. This mindset is very common in my country mostly found in a poor home. Some times i wonder how a will give birth to many children without planning well for his children, with his hope that when the children grow up they'll be the one take care of them. That's the reason why so many youths out doing all kinds of hustling just to survive, because their parents didn't plan their future well for them.

[LuckyCrypto777]

In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?

In the country where I live, fathers are finally allowed to take paternity leave, and thanks to this, the state will provide more money for paternity leave. Women, however, always earn less. Some friends of mine are now having a second child, and their husbands still go to work and receive paternity benefits at the same time.
This is great.
Because women are not provided with the most economical maternity benefits by their employers, even for difficult jobs.

[Iranus]

If one is creating a life just to be their hope for wealth in the future, then they should not even try to have babies.

Having kids is a big responsibility, and that means daily routine changes, emergencies, and many things that will change one's life. I have two kids, and I gave up a lot of my hobbies and bad habits for them. Quit smoking, drinking became occasional, and I try to be there for them.
When it comes to money, well, you will also give up a lot of things. You budget everything so that you can pay all the bills and somehow provide food on the table. Then diapers, milk, and more. Add the savings for their future. School and other things.

Having kid and raising them is a huge responsibility, and you'll have to give up a lot of thing.

But  sometimes, that very responsibility can push us to work harder. When you have people depending on you. You have more reason to keep pushing and get through tough time, and achieve thing you never thought you were capable of...

I respect your point.  But I do not think having kid necessarily has to hold you back from building career or getting rich. It can make road tougher ,  but it can also  motivate you to work harder and do better.

[Pearl_20]

Children are blessings from God and there's nothing wrong if couples who are married have the thought that one day when the children grew up that they will take care of them, or even get them some material resources especially for those educated parents who are wealthy and are ready to give their kids the best of life, most of them hardly expects anything from their children instead they're the ones that's always on the giving end.

The problem is that we have some parents who just have kids without any financial plans and that's very bad, bringing children to the world only for them to suffer, those are the set of people who gives birth frequently and be expecting them to grow up and build them mantions and some will even go as far as telling the girl child that she will marry a wealthy man so he can be taking care of them and you see those set of children looks so unfed, with stunted growth because they lack so many things that is supposed to aid their growth. Its very wrong to bring children without having any financial plans for them, and the worst is that too many at the same time is too expensive, raising a child is a big responsibility and every parent needs to prepare themselves for it.