Fembois here don't know anything about btc and KYC. The amount of simps defending the slut wife is mindblowing to me. She dosen't deserve a PENNY FROM YOU ! Get your money out, slowling moving all assets from cash to btc and monero on many wallets trough p2p or real life cash to crypto guys (there are many here all over the world) and then disappear and leave her broke with your broke ass '' friend '' crying for you. She will be miserable and lonely very soon with 3 cats. DON'T GIVE HER ANYTHING
It was a bit weird for me to see those posts even though I wouldn't write it as harshly as you did. Somehow the idea is that she deserves half your wealth by being married to you even after she betrayed you? What kind of logic is that? Is marriage a business now? Should I stick around with a successful or rich partner in the hopes for a payout one day? None of that makes sense. People who betray the other party should not get anything by default. This would remove the need for many prenups. Solve the root cause of the issue and stop patching it with band aids (prenups).
but if our partner ends up breaking that promise, we have to deal with it like a man. Just give her share.
Stop repeating this generic bullshit. No human deserves anything just for existing. You've been brainwashed by TV propaganda. To deserve something you have to earn it, and one of the ways you earn it is by not cheating.
$3,000,000 USD. Since I married my wife at 25 all this money has been accumulated AFTER I married my wife. Keep in mind I am a simple man and in order to live a good life I don't need anything fancy. I could divorce her the normal way, lose $1.5 million and still be in relatively good shape. But I refuse to give $1.5 million to somebody who betrayed me after 20 years of marriage with one of my closest friends. No way.
I'll first note that I am not sure even if giving advice on this is legal or whether it is protected by first speech. You're feelings are understandable and I would not leaving anything to a cheating spouse (but I am protected by contracts in any case). I would not even leave them a $1 even if it meant they would end up homeless.
That said, you must think about your situation before taking action. I know that you are fuming but the longer you can hold out and think about this in a deep way the likelihood of coming out of this situation in the best possible way increases significantly. Your primary problem is that your assets are already in your name, there is already a trace. This will nullify the chances for some ideas that bad posters here have had.
1. Any massive selling of assets before a divorce is suspicious and they can be still traced.
2. Any massive liquidation of assets into cash before a divorce can still be considered suspicious. Even if they don't know what you did with the cash (say you've put it into Monero anonymously), they can still make claims on it.
3. Any kind of transfers, gifting and other movements that happen shortly before divorce proceedings will be looked at.
Courts look at intent and timing. They must under no case be able to prove that your intent was to hide this money.
This is a general overview of pretty much all of your
legal options.
1.
Transfer of assets to a family member of your mother or father. Caveat: You will have to stay married to this cheating spouse and pretend to be happy for many more years (at least 2-3) years. States have limitations on voiding transfers, ask your local lawyer about this.
2.
Postnup agreement. Caveat: If this was never a discussion topic before your wife may see this as a sign of discovered infidelity and all your plans will be ruined.
3.
Irrevocable trusts. Caveat: You have to stay married for several years for any chance for this to work.
4.
Equitable Distribution. If you live in a state that has this then you could give up and hope that this ends up with a good deal. Caveat: long marriage leans towards more equal distribution plus adultery is not judged for this.
5.
Divorce settlement. There are still honorable and humble people in this day and age and they wouldn't even ask 10% of that money. However, since she cheated then I don't think it is likely that she won't demand a lot but you know her best. Caveat: If you start any talks in this direction all the legal (except equitable distribution) and illegal methods can not be used anymore.
Your chances are not good because the assets are already in your name. You can talk to local lawyers and they can advise you more specifically on this.
All other methods are illegal and will involve you committing a crime (fraud). You will have to hide it successfully for the rest of your life. If you ever somehow fail then you will pay even more than this 50% with a bonus of prison time.
They involve things such as fake stock market losses (there are companies that will gladly assist with this, even fully regulated ones, fraud is widespread in the regulated area despite what the government wants you to believe), massive crypto investments followed by fake losses, fake hacks, fake loss of private keys/access to funds, all kinds of things are possible. I can't give advice on any of them in particular, nobody should because they are crimes!
Be careful in any case, this is a no win situation
. People may also approach you because you publicly confirmed to be wealth. They may offer services for helping you with this and they are most likely going to be scammers.
Do not respond to private messages about this.
