What causes rape

[Tyatya]

Well in this society of ours this days the cases of rapes are not longer News it's now an anthem in the faces of everyone now, there are a lot of debates on what actually can be the major causes of rape in our society today and looking at it we could say a lot of things are the causes, for the adults that are rape we have things like.
1. Indecent dressing
2. Too much mingling with the boys
3. Pressure
This few can be listed for the adults and as for the little ones Minor's. We could say that the pedophiles may either be.
1. Psychopath
2. Taking revenge
3. Destroying a future yet to come
This one is the worst of all in the rape section.
And all this happens because most of the people cought up in the act are still free out there living among us like someone who is clean of everything not knowing if given the opportunity will cause more harm than good.

[OgNasty]

Rapists.

[Gozie51]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

[Alpha Marine]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

You and the OP are fucking unbelievable.
So if a person (woman and or man) was tempting you with murder, would you murder the person? I mean, if a person was taking a knife and cutting part of his body and acting in ways that suggest they want you to kill them, you will kill them? Miss me with that bullshit

You, as a man, should have self-control and principles. You cant just leave life by doing whatever you're tempted to do. OP is talking about indecent dressing. Tf does that even mean? You mean you, when you see a woman dress half-naked, all your brain can do is tell you to force yourself on her?
When a person has said NO, forcing yourself on them shouldn't even come to your head.
The only thing normal is to feel aroused, but what differentiates you from an animal is self-control. You have a brain to know that this person doesn't want this, and you have to respect it, no matter what.

There is no excuse for rape. How the person dresses, how the person behaves, talks or seduces you all don't matter, as long as the person doesn't give you consent. It doesn't matter if she is a known prostitute who has slept with a thousand other people; if she doesn't want it with you, it's her right, and you MUST respect it.

[Dunamisx]

Am surprised at the question asked from OP title about what causes rape, but let me try to see if I can give out something more defining to this question.

Rape occurs when a man forcefully have an intercourse with a woman, the causes varies, some may be as a result of taking advantage over the other, some for abuse purpose, some are done with the high libido expression of the man and his inability to manage or curb it under his control, some are sex addicts as well, so expect that anything could be a cause as long as a man allows his erection control his direction.

[memehunter]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

lol, Unbelievable.

Rapists.

Exactly and this should be the full stop to OP's question.

[BADecker]

Sex in general is probably caused by a parasite. The more it is done, the more the parasite is stimulated and increased. Some people simply haven't learned to control their parasite.

[Agbamoni]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

You have to change this reasoning, my dear. Even if someone seduces and refuses to let you have sex with them, don't force yourself on them because it is also considered to be rape. The moment you have sex forcefully without their consent, it is rape, my dear, and that is what you come out here to justify. Hope you have not done something as such to anyone?

[9ja Amaka]

To me rape isn’t caused by dressing and nonsense excuses people give . It’s caused by lack of empathy. They do it because they believe they can get away with it.
And when it comes to the pedophiles , it’s a whole level of sickness and abuse. Those ones knows exactly what they’re doing and it’s not any mistake or temptation, I lose a childhood as a result of this. Imagine how the parents of that child felt .
What makes it even worse is that some walk freely like nothing happened. Living their lives normally while the victims are left with the trauma.
And I feel their(rapist) punishment should be more severe and a very long sentence as well , so that others can learn from it and it will be minimized..

[Fiatless]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

Seductive dressing is not permission to force someone into sex. There should be a willful agreement between both parties before sexual intercourse. If a girl said she is not interested in any intimacy, you don't have the right to force her because she seduced you. Even if you think she wants you, when she says no, stop your actions immediately. 

The cause of rape is a lack of control and some mental problems. Anyone who rapes someone would have to go for a mental evaluation. 

[Pauldesaints]

What is rape itself,can one comfortable rape a woman if not a group of boys. think what we call rape today is somehow willingness on the part of the woman  in Other to cover up there ill- activities they call it rape because if they refused to give there willingness one cannot possibly rape a woman unless a minor which you can easily subdued.fear women

[Findingnemo]

Not having the accessibility to satisfy their sexual desire, drug abuse, and anti-social elements and much more can be the reason for why rape happens. And blaming the victim (Women) is not going to solve anything.

I feel that in countries where the legal and laws are weak, this is most common and where the laws and punishment are strict and instant these are almost rare and exceptional. So make the laws stricter, make the punishment instant, then this will eliminate most of the predators from the face of the earth for good.

[uneng]

Rapists are people who don't control their own impulses and don't have any consideration neither respect for others. They want to satisfact themselves at all costs, doesn't matter how. They live on primitive mode, like beasts. Some even manage to develop charisma as a tool to manipulate the victims and the people around, in order to make them see the predators in a positive way, and these are the most dangerous ones, as they have superior cognitive capacities to dissemble and to fake situations.

I would also get suspicious on people who talk too much about sex, especially in promiscuous ways.

[Felicity_Tide]

for the adults that are rape we have things like.
1. Indecent dressing
2. Too much mingling with the boys
3. Pressure

I don't think the laws of any country will agree with this. Just because someone is indecently dressed?, no, that's not enough reason. In as much as I don't support indecent dressing, I still don't see it as enough reason for someone to be a victim of getting raped. That's certainly how the law is going to look at it. Those who rape others are those who lacks self control. Their major problems are lust and greediness, because it's only a greedy person that would choose short term pleasure for a long term prison sentence.

This few can be listed for the adults and as for the little ones Minor's. We could say that the pedophiles may either be.
1. Psychopath
2. Taking revenge
3. Destroying a future yet to come

Whether it be a minor or an adult, a rape is a rape, and those who do probably have nothing to lose, because I see no reason why anyone would want to trade a few minutes disgusting pleasure for a long term prison sentence.

[Gozie51]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

You and the OP are fucking unbelievable.
So if a person (woman and or man) was tempting you with murder, would you murder the person? I mean, if a person was taking a knife and cutting part of his body and acting in ways that suggest they want you to kill them, you will kill them? Miss me with that bullshit

Obviously you probably picking my content out of context. An adult woman is hardly raped when it is a single man and a single woman in a room without duress, drugged or evidence of lethal or any other kind of instrument that can cause fright or fear. Ask yourself if you have been able to force a woman's leg open by yourself when she is not willing to let the legs go apart? It is a simple analysis and survey you can do. I'm referring to an adult not a teenager. Rape isn't easy to prove when it comes to an adult. You have to include and prove inducement for a lawyer to succeed in doing that. For an adult female, adult is the point in the analysis.

You have to change this reasoning, my dear. Even if someone seduces and refuses to let you have sex with them, don't force yourself on them because it is also considered to be rape. The moment you have sex forcefully without their consent, it is rape, my dear, and that is what you come out here to justify. Hope you have not done something as such to anyone?

I'm believing you are a Nigerian like me because it is not just to follow others with only emotion and not looking into empirical analysis. Rape cases are difficult to prove successfully in Nigeria system when it comes to two adults without inducement or object that will likely cause fear of harm or death.

A simple test to carry out on this, try and see if you will successfully force the leg of your girlfriend or woman open and see if you can have your way without weapon or inducement.

[0x000369]

Man this thread is wild some of you are still out here blaming victims like indecent dressing or mingling with guys causes rape nah thats not it at all rape is caused by rapists plain and simple people who ignore consent and think they have the right to take what they want its about power control and a total lack of respect for others not some outfit or joke gone wrong

Like think about it if a woman says no or a kid cant even consent how is that on them self control is what separates us from animals and anyone who cant handle that needs help or jail not excuses

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGoWLWS4-kU


Seriously watch that video or think about it next time you offer someone a drink if they change their mind or say no you stop forcing it is assault end of story

For the pedo stuff thats straight up evil no revenge or whatever bs justifies destroying a kids life those monsters should face life in prison or worse society lets too many walk free and thats why it keeps happening we need real consequences and education starting young to teach boundaries

Props to those calling out the victim blaming earlier like Alpha Marine and others youre spot on no means no always no excuses

[Kelward]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

You have a valid observation, some rape cases that we hear about ara caused by the victim, I'm not supporting rape of any kind but when a lady intentionally seduces a man in a private place and the man had his way with her it shouldn't be seen as only the fault of the man. I hear a lot of rape cases against athletes and celebrities, some of these women that acuse these very rich people of rape are because they want to get money off the rich guys. They will seduce the celebrities and in the influence of alcohol the celebrities will succumb by having their way with them. There is need for self control so that even when somebody tries to seduce you you can resist to avoid claims and court cases. People that rape innocent victims are pure evil and should be punished.

[memehunter]

It is ripe if it can be proven. You can't go to a man's house and you dress seductively yet you can't stay to yourself and leave within a short time. But instead, you walk around showing yourself with seductive moves and joke around or play with the man physically and yet claim he forced himself on you. A man is a man and you don't expect a young man to react in such way when all he sees is the temptation you have brought to his face. He would probably think it is your style to invite him over for the dinner and you may not have the time to verbally withdraw the consent. The withdrawal may just be in your lips and you won't remember to voice it out.

You have a valid observation, some rape cases that we hear about ara caused by the victim, I'm not supporting rape of any kind but when a lady intentionally seduces a man in a private place and the man had his way with her it shouldn't be seen as only the fault of the man. I hear a lot of rape cases against athletes and celebrities, some of these women that acuse these very rich people of rape are because they want to get money off the rich guys. They will seduce the celebrities and in the influence of alcohol the celebrities will succumb by having their way with them. There is need for self control so that even when somebody tries to seduce you you can resist to avoid claims and court cases. People that rape innocent victims are pure evil and should be punished.

Bullshit.
Even if a girl is completely nude in front of you in a closed room, you have no right to do anything without consent.
 

[Alpha Marine]

Obviously you probably picking my content out of context. An adult woman is hardly raped when it is a single man and a single woman in a room without duress, drugged or evidence of lethal or any other kind of instrument that can cause fright or fear. Ask yourself if you have been able to force a woman's leg open by yourself when she is not willing to let the legs go apart? It is a simple analysis and survey you can do. I'm referring to an adult not a teenager.

While trying to double down on what you said previously, you went ahead and made it worse. Are you indirectly saying all or most of the rape cases where it was just one man and one woman in a room without any drugs or other stuff like that are not true?
I think you underestimate how physically stronger men are when compared to women. Rape is not a soft affair; it's forceful and violent. What you should do is talk to women about it and get an understanding of how it is.
I have not been able to force a woman's leg open before, because I haven't tried to. People who have tried to have done it. In some cases, the woman was able to fight them off; in some cases, the man was not strong enough, but a lot of the time, the rapist is successful.

So many rape cases are underreported because of things like this. People will ask, "What did you go into a room with him to do?' or, "Why did you go on a date with him?" "Why did you dress like that?" and all those silly questions they use to blame the victim. Then there is the shame of letting someone else know that you have been raped and violated. Or the fact that the person who raped you is a popular and influential person that can easily crush you, your career and the case. There are a lot of reasons why the cases are not reported.

You have to change this reasoning, my dear. Even if someone seduces and refuses to let you have sex with them, don't force yourself on them because it is also considered to be rape. The moment you have sex forcefully without their consent, it is rape, my dear, and that is what you come out here to justify. Hope you have not done something as such to anyone?

I'm believing you are a Nigerian like me because it is not just to follow others with only emotion and not looking into empirical analysis. Rape cases are difficult to prove successfully in Nigeria system when it comes to two adults without inducement or object that will likely cause fear of harm or death.

A simple test to carry out on this, try and see if you will successfully force the leg of your girlfriend or woman open and see if you can have your way without weapon or inducement.

This is unbelievable. Your'e not going to be able to do that to your girlfriend because you will have restraint. You won't be violent with her. That experiment won't be real, because it will be lika a joke or playfight between you. I think you don't fully understand how it happens. The fear of what the man might do to the girl if she doesn't comply alone might even weaken her and the man might just have his way. It's not just as simple as you think it will be.
A man can beat a woman to unconsciousness or even death with his bare hands, if you believe that, how do you think he would not be able to subdue her and rape her with his bare hands.

And we are not talking about what you can prove and what you cannot prove here, were talking about the actual event. This is not a law court where there is even an unfair disadvantage to the victim if they want to prove it. After being raped, if you don't go to the hospital to get tested and examined within 72 hours, at most 7 days (It takes 7 days for the traces of the sperm to still be detected), then it's just your word against the rapist.
And how much water does your word hold if you and this man have exchanged numbers? You've gone on dates, you visited him in his house? The doctors or medical report of an actual struggle and force penetration after the incident is the only proof the woman has in most cases, so if you don't have it, you can't prove anything and the case get's thrown out of court.

But that is not what we're talking about here. OP talked about the causes or rape and went ahead to blame the victim and you also did the same when talking about seduction and all whatnot. And I'm still going to point it to you that even if the person is naked or a prostitute, if she doesn't consent, you have no right.

[franky1]

trying to blame the womans clothes or how she approaches a guy is shameless excuse a rapist would say

the incel, desperate, virgin guys in this topic with this mindset of blaming the women are the type that would be rapists if they ever left their basements

going to a beach and seeing a women in a bikini is not a scenario to think you are at a brothel/prostitution den. they are not there for your sexual gratification, they are there to relax by themselves and get a suntan. they are not wearing a bikini for male rape scenarios, they just want a suntan and its a beach, so wear beachwear

a women in a revealing dress at a nightclub is not your next sexual exploit, she is just there to dance and drink and have fun.

dont ever think just because she is at a beach/nightclub you have rights to her body.

all the guys in this topic that thinks because someone is flirty, that it must mean the guy has all rights to have sex with her and the woman has no rights to refuse, just because she is flirty and wearing a dress.. you guys need some serious re-education, therapy, and need to sort your lives out

even if a woman is sexually interested in a guy, and things get intimate and sex does initiate, if the guy gets too rough or does something mid session that the woman does not like she still has the right to say no and stop. yep even if it got as far as initiating sex she can still say no (learn it)

so get it through your incel psychopath minds.. even if a woman is flirty, even if a woman is wearing revealing clothes, even if a woman agree's to come back to your home, even if a women agree's to get into bed with you, if she does not enjoy the experience mid-session, or any time before, she can still say no at any point and make it stop.. if you continue and ignore her request, you are a RAPIST

so dont think any of your excuses of her flirting, dressing, or agreeing to get into bed absolves you of rape. a women has full rights to her body and mind and can say no/stop at any point. and you need to stop


(p.s im a male but i have common sense, unlike some incel's in this topic that have no experience with women but think of strange psycho reasons to think they have certain rights to abuse women for stupid excuses/reasons)