Your social life influences your future

[Ziskinberg]

Of course, your environment and people you socialize with plays a major role in your future. I have seen it several time playing out. This is why you need to mingle with people of the same vision with you so that, you can learn more and assist each other to achieve your goals.

Chilling with people that has nothing to offer but gossip and irrelevant things is a set back for you to be on the right track towards success. Socialize with people that you can gain knowledge from

The people around you, will have a big impact on the future you are heading to. It could not be the sole basis, but a part of your future will be mold by what kind people you are socializing and interacting with. If they are good influence, then continue dealing with them as they can be part of your future success. However, if what you are being exposed to are those negative people, believe me, that will create a negative impact as well to how you mold your future.

The kind of friends you have is a reflection of who you are. If they're successful now, don't worry you're also heading there. The process may be late, but as long as you believe on yourself and on the people you deal with, you will eventually gain the success that you dream with your friends.

[minairia3]

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

The same can happen to you if you have that mindset. I mean, you think the reason you're stagnant and unemployed is that you hang out with weak, stupid, loser friends who only talk about worthless things. You are looking for wealthy friends with business mindset to play and learn together. But will those people be willing to play with you and share their secrets to help you make a lot of money?

Not to mention, they know that you have abandoned and despised your old friends, and come to them with purposes other than just friendship. Do you think they would be kind and accept someone like you as a friend?

Honestly, with a person who only knows how to badmouth friends and others, don't expect to have good friends who are willing to help and share with you. If you feel they are no longer suitable and don't want to be friends anymore, stop hanging out with them, no need to call them stupid, losers...

[Faisal2202]

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

From an economic point of view, I totally agree with you, because if we are spending most of our time in people people from the first paragraph, we are just wasting our time, and at some point we will be like them and we won't even notice but if we will balance our company we sit in then we won't be losing much.

We will be becoming a better version of ourselves if we would manage to differ things out, like if we can figure out what we are doing, we are making progress, as most of the time we don't even know what we are doing.

Now, from a moral point of view, I think sitting too much among motivational people can ruine your life, as a matter of fact doing too much anything can make things verse so balance is necassary.

[Bitcoin.com97]

I alway believe that the association you keep enhance your mentally, you can’t be around fools and expect to be wise , being in the means of corrupt mind will also corrupt yours , but if you surround yourself with people who are after growth , ambitious people and have intelligent conversations, that only will push you for more, I’m not talking about wealthy people here but all I’m trying to say is that keeping good companies enhance your life, I feel if you are around people or friends who only gossip, say negative things about others , I’m not taking about losers and poor friends but people who lack self discipline before you know it , you will be one of them.

I know a married man whose friends are cheaters , but his faithful to wife and dedicated in building a happy home , but his friends keep making jest of him , mocking him telling him his wife is controlling him , because his always in that company or association he began to join them and does things he couldn’t do on a norms , so this is why I said evil communication corrupt good manner , so imagine the future of his family because things can never be as it was before again.

[tbterryboy]

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

That is a fact, actually, because you will often see that when people get into environments or gatherings where they are usually motivated and encouraged to keep working on what they are working on or willing to do in life, they tend to have a higher possibility of succeeding in that thing because motivation can be a big boost to our mental health, and when you are mentally strong, you can do anything in the world, as long as you are physically fit as well.

On a contrary, when you are surrounded by people who keep discouraging you, or always talk about sad or discouraging things, none of them have achieved anything in life, and that's why they don't talk about success or discuss things that should motivate or encourage others, being around such people will keep making you depressed and demotivated, and then you will not always think of following your dreams or working hard on them, and that's not a good thing.

[Marykeller]

The circle of friends you have, the environment you live in, the choices and decisions you make, and the kind of habits you exhibit, are you consistent in things that can make one successful in the long run, or do you waste time in irrelevant things? Which one is it really, just know that the environment and social life you keep play a deep role to define your future

[BRINIRHA]

Clearly, social circles are one of the most influential factors in changing ourselves, which in turn affects our financial situation and future career. Social circles have a powerful impact without us even realizing it. If we hang out with people who are productive and like to use their time as effectively as possible, we will eventually adopt their habits. However, if we associate with lazy people who are ineffective at utilizing their time, we may also be influenced by their habits and become too relaxed, resulting in a lot of wasted time. What should have been utilized effectively instead becomes wasted.

What is better is to focus on ourselves and build ourselves up to become better individuals, always feeling that we must be better than yesterday. Being competitive can sometimes also lead us to rapid progress.

[Solosanz]

People who talk about ambitions, business, better future, investment etc wouldn't want to hang out with a lot of people including yourself.

They know what they need to do in order to keep them productive and they don't want to wasting their time just for hanging out, they can use that time to improve themselves. I mean, there are many people who talk about knowledge, idea etc, but how many of them make their idea realize? that's the difference.

Talking too much is pointless, however when you take an action, you no longer have time.

[WatChe]

That is a fact, actually, because you will often see that when people get into environments or gatherings where they are usually motivated and encouraged to keep working on what they are working on or willing to do in life, they tend to have a higher possibility of succeeding in that thing because motivation can be a big boost to our mental health, and when you are mentally strong, you can do anything in the world, as long as you are physically fit as well.

On a contrary, when you are surrounded by people who keep discouraging you, or always talk about sad or discouraging things, none of them have achieved anything in life, and that's why they don't talk about success or discuss things that should motivate or encourage others, being around such people will keep making you depressed and demotivated, and then you will not always think of following your dreams or working hard on them, and that's not a good thing.

There is a powerful motivational quote that, "If you hang out with four millionaires, you will be the fifth one. If you hang out with four broke people, you will be the fifth one". I think this makes sense because if we have people around who talk about new business ideas and how to move ahead in life then surly that have impact on our lives too. But if we sit with people who constantly talk about negativity, then it won't be possible for us to excel in life because our mind and thoughts are also filled with negativity. So for best of our interest, we must choose our social circle wisely.

[Fortify]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

It's true, most people who are driven and work hard simply don't have time for gossip in any shape - but if they hear you spreading it they might not think very highly of you. It's the same with having a positive and negative mentality, if you go into every discussion with a depressing frame of mind, then people might not want to have future conversations with you due to a lack of energy or a happy spin that is possible on most topics.

[MFahad]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

desire to achieve something in life grows when you are surrounded by such people Those who want to do something in life and be successful. This will expand your thinking and you will agree too should do something in life. Companionship brings about a great revolution in human lives. If our life revolves around people who only care about what other people are doing or their complaints, such people will keep us from achieving success. When person sitting next to you explains to you the benefits of investing or self-improvement in future your ambitions will be awakened. The reason for your failure is also those who say things which have nothing to do with progress.. A positive decision is always key to improving your life so focus on yourself and work hard.

[justdimin]

People who talk about ambitions, business, better future, investment etc wouldn't want to hang out with a lot of people including yourself.

They know what they need to do in order to keep them productive and they don't want to wasting their time just for hanging out, they can use that time to improve themselves. I mean, there are many people who talk about knowledge, idea etc, but how many of them make their idea realize? that's the difference.

Talking too much is pointless, however when you take an action, you no longer have time.

I disagree, even the richest people have friends they talk to, I doubt they would have something that would be keeping them only working, they just hang out less. There are no wealthy businessman out there who hangs out at the bar every single night, that makes no sense and they would not work.

Moreover, to get rich, you can't just work 8 hours a day like some normal worker, you work 16 hours a day 20 hours a day to make that work. For that reason I think it's clear that we are going to see this being a little different. If you want to be rich, you work a lot that is true, but for example you can stop working for one night a week on Saturday nights, even if not for every weekend, you can do that for one or two weekends a month.

[tabas]

That is the reason why there is a quote about "tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell who you are". Whoever is with you at most times will also influence you to be like them. So, if you're with those people who like to do vices and nonsense stuff, you're likely the other one who's also doing it. But if you're with goal-oriented people and trying to achieve the dreams, you're also the next one that shall reach those goals that you're planning to achieve. It's okay to hang out with those friends of yours for sometime but, don't let them influence you with the bad habits.

[Accardo]

Humans are not just what they eat, we are what we think. Thoughts somehow comes out into words and distribute to life as what we want around us. A certain music by Damian Marley would say speak life, if people normalize saying things that won't be useful to them in the nearest future that means they wasted their past.

[maknyos]

There is a powerful motivational quote that, "If you hang out with four millionaires, you will be the fifth one. If you hang out with four broke people, you will be the fifth one". I think this makes sense because if we have people around who talk about new business ideas and how to move ahead in life then surly that have impact on our lives too. But if we sit with people who constantly talk about negativity, then it won't be possible for us to excel in life because our mind and thoughts are also filled with negativity. So for best of our interest, we must choose our social circle wisely.

I'd like to add, "If we hang out with perfume sellers, we'll smell good, and if we hang out with alcohol sellers, we'll smell like alcohol." That's probably what I'm trying to convey. So, it's true that our environment greatly influences a person.
But I want to be neutral here. I mean, there are days when I need to talk nonsense, to chat aimlessly. There needs to be a balance to avoid stress. Furthermore, it also helps us become more open, because sometimes, from idle chatter, an idea emerges. However, we must maintain our intensity so we don't get carried away and become comfortable in that zone.

[FirmWars]

True, the people we associate ourselves with can completely or partially influence our future if only we don't have decisions of our own. Having self decisions can make you do best in life if you ignore what your negative friends saying and then focus on improving yourself. You can be with negative friends, chat with them but still not allow them to influence you, meanwhile if you are with friends that are very enthusiastic towards improving themselves, they will influence you positively and your life could get better just as theirs also get better.

[khiholangkang]

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

The same can happen to you if you have that mindset. I mean, you think the reason you're stagnant and unemployed is that you hang out with weak, stupid, loser friends who only talk about worthless things. You are looking for wealthy friends with business mindset to play and learn together. But will those people be willing to play with you and share their secrets to help you make a lot of money?

Not to mention, they know that you have abandoned and despised your old friends, and come to them with purposes other than just friendship. Do you think they would be kind and accept someone like you as a friend?

Honestly, with a person who only knows how to badmouth friends and others, don't expect to have good friends who are willing to help and share with you. If you feel they are no longer suitable and don't want to be friends anymore, stop hanging out with them, no need to call them stupid, losers...

There's no need to get into the rich people's neighborhood, that's not the most advisable thing here, your view is too extreme, I just think that hanging out with people who have the desire to live better than many things like the point I made, there's no need to get into the rich people's neighborhood, but they have the desire and do it gradually, then every time you meet them, they will ask you about your progress and tell you about their progress, it's impossible for those who want to get ahead to meet every day and say those stupid unimportant things.

If they know you came out of that bad environment then they will also understand why you hang out with them and start learning, because those who have the desire to live a better life or who already have a better life most of them are doing the same thing, avoiding the bad friends before, that's why they are here.

I understand where you're coming from, but what you need to know is that a fool is someone who has been told many times what to do correctly but refuses to do it. All the definitions are useful in arguing why they are said that way. If you are generous enough to tolerate your friends who are like that, then do it by slowly teaching them.

I don't hate the person anyway, I just hate the behavior, it's just a phrase to make things clear, and you shouldn't be afraid that the new environment will not accept you, as long as you can live better, others will follow you.

[I_Anime]

That’s why you have to move with the right group , many are okay with their recent position/ condition, even when they are not moving forward because of the group people they surround themselves with . Folk who are not self development minded, are not business minded, who are not ambitious and not ready to move forward . Move with those who are ready to grow no matter , people that will push you to be your best not People that don’t care about your growth and stuff .

[Miles2006]

Staying close to a person can influence greatly on oneself negative or positive, understanding op is advising everyone to stay with smart friends that can help in terms of the bad state of the society presently. Also the power of networking shows why smart friends are good to keep as friendship, after reading I remembered how group work is far better than one, a group of college friends mingling to solve maths problems and in relate with the aspect of business, anyone can actually help reason why a good circle of important people are taken seriously as mentioned by op, friendship influence can go a long way so it’s left for anyone to choose.

[DYING_S0UL]

We have a saying in our place that, "সঙ্গ দোষে লোহা ভাসে", in English it means "a man is known by the company he keeps", and you probably heard if this phase before, right? In short this is what your post really meant. We should choose our company carefully, if we wanna do something great with our life! A bad company always brings misfortune. I have seen it so many times, with the people around me. If you hang out with people with knowledge, you might pick up one or two useful things along the way. But if you company is full of stupid foolish, unproductive people, well then you eventually become just like them.