Your social life influences your future

[DiMarxist]

​Yes it's really good to be mindful with people you chill with most especially friends because I like to believe that when you have friends who are focused in making it and building their future you yourself would be more encouraged to do the same. That's why I myself I keep off from people who wouldn't impact me in anyway basically, I see no use of them.​What actually gets me going is when I see friends that I can challenge ,friends who will encourage me, friends who will help me when I am in need .those are the people who are worth my time....

 Moreover it's easy to say as an individual we should learn to make quick decisions in our life before it's too late. Why Because financial success and opportunities comes once in a lifetime, and if you feel friends are always cutting you away from what you are supposed to do, simple give them space. That's just it. It's all about future planning and a successful mindset...

The kind of friends we keep plays a huge role in shaping our mindset and our future. When you surround yourself with people who are focused, disciplined, and driven to succeed, it naturally pushes you to raise your own standards and stay committed to your goals. Friends should challenge you positively, motivate you, and be there when you truly need support and those are the relationships that add real value. You also made an important point taking about decision making. Life does not always give endless chances, and many opportunities most especially financial ones. If certain friendships are constantly distracting you or pulling you away from your purpose, creating distance is not being proud, it’s being wise.

[Accardo]

The kind of friends we keep plays a huge role in shaping our mindset and our future. When you surround yourself with people who are focused, disciplined, and driven to succeed,

Even the words we say or speak affects the way we think and behave, words like 'shit' can be interswitched with 'mehn' to help lessen the accumulation of more strong words in the brain. When the mind is confident with positivity - words, thoughts, and wishes - life would probably bring forth worthwhile rewards, for we are what we think.

[BITCOIN4X]

The kind of friends we keep plays a huge role in shaping our mindset and our future. When you surround yourself with people who are focused, disciplined, and driven to succeed,

Even the words we say or speak affects the way we think and behave, words like 'shit' can be interswitched with 'mehn' to help lessen the accumulation of more strong words in the brain. When the mind is confident with positivity - words, thoughts, and wishes - life would probably bring forth worthwhile rewards, for we are what we think.

That's true, and I see many people overlook the small things that are actually crucial in their journey to success. We're not talking about those from wealthy families, where everything is organized from an early age, including their living environment and circle of friends. But for those with many limitations, I think associating with people who are disciplined, consistent in their attitudes, and possess broad perspectives will influence the formation of our own character.

[armanda90]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

Its really good hang out meet special people talking about possibility potential business profitable, sharing good knowledge and talking about technology will improve our working. Nowadays not easy to get hang out with people talking about knowledge, business and any good thing because most of them interested to spent their time for business and keep working. Just need to make community with them and meet once a week for sharing about good ideas exactly for business.

[colinistheman]

I don't totally agree with you on this, because it depend on mindset, not basically the type of people you associate with, I know there's a saying that " show me your friend and I will tell you who you're, for me I don't agree with that saying, because I have friends that we ain't same personality and we do things differently, so even if you make friends with the rich doesn't mean you will end up been wealthy, for me I can make friends with anybody, but I won't allow anyone's behavior to influence mine, but through hard work, consistency, determination, I can be able to make a great future.

It must be acknowledged that society and the environment also have a certain influence on our lives and thoughts. But that's insignificant and not decisive, so I also somewhat disagree with the OP's point of blaming the environment for their failure.

Our lives are determined by our personal perceptions, choices, and how we react to our circumstances. And the future is determined and shaped by our mindset, efforts, and relentless striving in the present, not by our relationships with those around us.
That is why, in the same circumstances and environment, some people can rise and succeed while many others remain stagnant or fail. The difference lies in mindset and effort, not in friendship or personal relationships.

[bubilas]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

I knew a guy who had no self-respect, but he desperately wanted to succeed at any cost. It was pathetic. And I don't like people who don't care about morality and honor, only social connections and wealthy patrons. He took on the role of emcee at corporate events and weddings, and being a rather unintelligent guy, he was poorly suited to it. I was at such an event, and I thought I could have hosted the celebration myself. He later found rich friends with whom he always spent time, and forgot his old, loyal friends. This is a very unpleasant personality type, who, unfortunately, are often better suited to competition in life.

[Lembo69]

I agree with OP's comment. We gradually become like the people we hang out with in society. And in the future, it will affect our lives. Especially in adolescence, we become like the people we hang out with. Habits start forming in adolescence. Nowadays, most teenagers are drug addicts. Because they think drugs are fashionable. And to get rid of drugs, they have to travel their whole lives. Boys learn less good deeds and more bad deeds from their friends during their adolescence.

If someone hangs out with a good person from childhood, then he will want to be good all his life because he has never done anything bad and will not want to do it. Those who have teenage children in their families should pay attention to whom their children mix with. And I think parents should take their children's likes and dislikes seriously from an early age. And we should also keep those people who always want to do good to people. And want to live well all their lives

[Zanab247]

The kind of friends we keep plays a huge role in shaping our mindset and our future. When you surround yourself with people who are focused, disciplined, and driven to succeed,

Even the words we say or speak affects the way we think and behave, words like 'shit' can be interswitched with 'mehn' to help lessen the accumulation of more strong words in the brain. When the mind is confident with positivity - words, thoughts, and wishes - life would probably bring forth worthwhile rewards, for we are what we think.

There is a proverb that say a bad company corrupt another because what you speak will determine whether the person is a good person that will lead you to achieve your goals or not because good things will never come out from bad people. But good people always speak positive words that will encourage their followers to ensure they succeed in the future, because they don't have time to things that will not add value to their investment or personal life.

There are some people that is using social media wrongly to do bad thing but they don't care what will happen to their future, but those that is using social media correctly in the society they will surely get a good social media influencers that will link them up to Bitcointalk or other digital investment that will benefit them financially and materially.

[junder]

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

It's okay to hang out with friends just to gossip, but don't do it too often, because I think doing it too often feels like we're just wasting time. I've been in that situation myself, gathering every day without any clear purpose other than just hanging out. But I eventually realized it and broke out of that habit to find a new, more useful and productive environment. If we continue like this, no progress will be made.

[mvdheuvel1983]

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

It's okay to hang out with friends just to gossip, but don't do it too often, because I think doing it too often feels like we're just wasting time. I've been in that situation myself, gathering every day without any clear purpose other than just hanging out. But I eventually realized it and broke out of that habit to find a new, more useful and productive environment. If we continue like this, no progress will be made.

Instead of gossiping with friends when you hang out there should be more educative things you talk about or better still you guys should talk more about politics and football if you are a man cause that's what men do but women have the association of gossips they can argue and gossip every day because they don't have much responsibility in the house when they are just house wives. It is better to be alone then to be around people who don't have good discussions with I it's good you realized yourself and left that gathering because if you had continued one day they will end up gossiping about you when you are not available that's what gang of gossips do.

[rangga28]

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

It's okay to hang out with friends just to gossip, but don't do it too often, because I think doing it too often feels like we're just wasting time. I've been in that situation myself, gathering every day without any clear purpose other than just hanging out. But I eventually realized it and broke out of that habit to find a new, more useful and productive environment. If we continue like this, no progress will be made.

I think hanging out for long periods of time, especially when accompanied by gossip, is a huge waste of time and energy. Indeed, sometimes in each region, such a relaxed culture erodes work ethic, so it's no wonder unemployment is on the rise. I really enjoy seeing people busy with their work but not talking much, focusing solely on their actions. Especially for young people, don't waste time unnecessarily, even though jobs are sometimes difficult to find. Never dwell on your fate; instead, persevere in seeking out even the smallest opportunities.

[Pearl_20]

The best part of ones life is made up of the people you surround yourself with, friend's, activities you engage yourself with, and the environment you find yourself helps to shape your future. Being around people who motivates you, inspires you, helps you to think towards the right direction in life.

The people or friends you spend most of your quality time with have great influence which can be either Negative or positive, a good friend or being in the right circle can encourage growth, development, learning, helping in each to find their parts in life.

Your cycle has a very great influence in shaping your future, one good friend can make your whole life better with just the right information, the right idea, team work to make things easier, I believe now that most of the jobs people are looking for comes with connection and not qualifications because my cousin who came out with first class got a good job through a friend of his while he job hunted for years with his certificate and nothing came out.

Having a good social life can also help you in life especially in hard time's and a healthy social life creates room for learning because you'll find yourself with people who have gone through life in different angles.

A healthy social life, or a healthy friendship inspires, and there's always room for growth even if they fail most times they don't talk down on each other instead there's room for encouragement. I do gossip with my friend's we can talk about a whole lot of things, laugh and play around stuff's most times, What's bad is being in a cycle that influences you Negatively where all you guys do is just talk and no room for growth or learning.

[CryptoBuds]

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

It's okay to hang out with friends just to gossip, but don't do it too often, because I think doing it too often feels like we're just wasting time. I've been in that situation myself, gathering every day without any clear purpose other than just hanging out. But I eventually realized it and broke out of that habit to find a new, more useful and productive environment. If we continue like this, no progress will be made.

Honestly, I don't see any problem with getting together and chatting with friends, as it's a way to relieve stress or strengthen relationships. In my opinion, as long as we don't do it so often that it takes up too much time and affects our work and life, it's fine.

I don't know about other people, but I still do it with my friends once or twice a week. In this way, I can both reduce stress and maintain my relationships.

Furthermore, I also agree that we should stay away from people who like to speak ill of others and should not befriend such people. But I don't care about being rich or poor, and I believe that our lives are determined by ourselves, not by relationships.

[Solodoski]

Social life is very important to everyone. The kind of social circle you keep mainly defined your kind of person and also determine how far you will go in life. If are around less ambitious people you will definitely not be ambitious either, but if you in the circle of ambitious people,  you will definitely be ambitious too, it's just happens without you knowing,  because you are what you always talk about. So it's very important to choose your circle wisely, because it will definitely influence your future.

[BRINIRHA]

Its no way for me keep stay with the people talking about gossip, talk about nothing until talking bad to the other so my decision leave them and never hang out any more later with that kinds of people. I won't waste my time hang out for any people without have good viewed, mindset and their topic discussion only talking bad about the other person, its really bad circle if keep stay with them and make us has bad mindset for the future.

It's okay to hang out with friends just to gossip, but don't do it too often, because I think doing it too often feels like we're just wasting time. I've been in that situation myself, gathering every day without any clear purpose other than just hanging out. But I eventually realized it and broke out of that habit to find a new, more useful and productive environment. If we continue like this, no progress will be made.

Usually, the habit of gathering with friends or the like will begin to be impossible for us to do when we start to get busy with our respective families, especially if we already have several children.
However, it is true that we do not need to socialize too much in circles that have no positive impact on our lives. Unless we meet with friends and talk about opportunities and business or similar topics. Personally, I no longer socialize much with my friends. Besides being busy taking care of my household, I am also busier with improving my business and sources of income for myself and my family. And my friends are in the same position. However, for those who are still young and not yet married, it is indeed better to maintain social interactions within certain limits and only socialize with people who can bring positive things to our lives.

[Mate2237]

Social life is very important to everyone. The kind of social circle you keep mainly defined your kind of person and also determine how far you will go in life. If are around less ambitious people you will definitely not be ambitious either, but if you in the circle of ambitious people,  you will definitely be ambitious too, it's just happens without you knowing,  because you are what you always talk about. So it's very important to choose your circle wisely, because it will definitely influence your future.

This is largely true because the circle you hang around has a very big influence on you as an individual this is why you as an individual should be intentional about the kind of people that, you hand around you and even the people you go around with because it matters a lot. The people that, you allow to be around you has the ability to make you leave your present state both economically, and other wise.


Always be around people who are goal oriented people who can challenge you to take decisions that is not comfortable to you. You should not be around people who you are better than in any way either academically or financially and even mentally because don't be in a situation were you will be giving out always, such relationships are costly.

[beerlover]

If you spend a lot, then you are going to be poor, it's as simple as that. And if your social life is one where you have to end up spending a lot then the result will not be easy and you are going to end up with results that would not be ok at all. I know that it's going to cause a lot of people to lose friends if they invite you somewhere and you do not got at all, because after sometime they will stop inviting you since you always say no and that will cause you to lose friendships.

But in today's age, you can meet with people just once a day, but have a group chat and just keep track of each other and talk every single day if you want without seeing each other more than once a month. That way you will save some money.