Smoking in front of your children, right or wrong?

[WhoYouCantKill]

Parents are the first role model to their children, most of the things children do they learnt it from their parents, so smoking in front of your kids  is a bad habit because they will grow up with the belief that is a normal thing, and I know some kids will even start practicing from small like buying those stuff , hide in their bathroom and start smoking to see how it work and before you know it they become professional in it, and they start blaming society and think the system failed the children not knowing parents are big contributing factors to all this misconduct.

It’s crazy to admit that I had to quite a lot of habits and even cursing because of my growing child. My son will be 2 in a couple of days and he’s learning almost everything he comes across with, so I choose to be very careful with the things I expose him to, especially from us at home, I know there’ll come a time when he may go out and maybe learn a few things, but as long as I’ve not introduced that to him, I have every right to make him let go of such things and he’ll most likely listen to me, but if I’m actively involved in that thing and asking him not to do it would only make it even more difficult or impossible to let go of that thing.

[passwordnow]

It’s crazy to admit that I had to quite a lot of habits and even cursing because of my growing child. My son will be 2 in a couple of days and he’s learning almost everything he comes across with, so I choose to be very careful with the things I expose him to, especially from us at home, I know there’ll come a time when he may go out and maybe learn a few things, but as long as I’ve not introduced that to him, I have every right to make him let go of such things and he’ll most likely listen to me, but if I’m actively involved in that thing and asking him not to do it would only make it even more difficult or impossible to let go of that thing.

Values really starts at home and what the kids see from their parents. We notice how their reactions are and that's based on how we've taken care of them. That's why if parents smoke and the kids see it, the chances of them to do it when they grow older is very high. But I know kids that have grown with those kind of parents but they have never adopted the vices that they've seen from them. I guess it's two way around, depending on the family and as well as to the kids if they behave when they grow up. Still, there's an affection of how they're taught by their parents.

[BADecker]

Smoking in front of your children, right or wrong?


Easier and more honest than smoking behind their backs.

[WhoYouCantKill]

Smoking in front of your children, right or wrong?
Easier and more honest than smoking behind their backs.

Almost like saying it’s easier and more honest to have sex with your wife in their presence than behind them. Maybe it may not actually be wrong, but they’re just kids and can easily get the wrong idea about certain things you (their parent) expose them to, so hiding certain stuffs from them or not having to do it in front of the kids isn’t dishonesty but rather protecting their young naive minds from getting the wrong idea those stuffs, except of course you’re the kinda father that doesn’t care whether or not your kids get the wrong idea or perception about certain things and you’re okay with them having to figure shit out on their one.

[Berry2d]

Smoking in front of your children, right or wrong?
Easier and more honest than smoking behind their backs.

Almost like saying it’s easier and more honest to have sex with your wife in their presence than behind them. Maybe it may not actually be wrong, but they’re just kids and can easily get the wrong idea about certain things you (their parent) expose them to, so hiding certain stuffs from them or not having to do it in front of the kids isn’t dishonesty but rather protecting their young naive minds from getting the wrong idea those stuffs, except of course you’re the kinda father that doesn’t care whether or not your kids get the wrong idea or perception about certain things and you’re okay with them having to figure shit out on their one.

Let us call a spade a spade and not bend it to look good, it is wrong doing such nonsense in front of our children when we know they learn by what the see and even hear. Don't you know if you have sex with your wife in front of them, they can easily start practicing it while playing with opposite sex as they believe everything there parents does is 100 percent okey to practice outside. So that which you know its not good for them to do outside let us avoid doing it in there presents

[GiftedMAN]

Let us call a spade a spade and not bend it to look good, it is wrong doing such nonsense in front of our children when we know they learn by what the see and even hear. Don't you know if you have sex with your wife in front of them, they can easily start practicing it while playing with opposite sex as they believe everything there parents does is 100 percent okey to practice outside. So that which you know its not good for them to do outside let us avoid doing it in there presents

If you want to avoid doing things you don't want your kids to emulate is not better you don't do it at all instead of trying to hide for them not to see you, if you really want to stop a bad habit kindly stop it not because of anyone but because it's not good for your health. Smoking is not good for your health if you can avoid it then do it but if you can't avoid smoking then be proud to smoke in front of your kids so that they will be happy to start smoking before 18 years  don't you want to share your smoke with them ?  Sex is what you should nut do in front of them but hey will grow to understand everything even when you don't explain to them.

[Berry2d]

Let us call a spade a spade and not bend it to look good, it is wrong doing such nonsense in front of our children when we know they learn by what the see and even hear. Don't you know if you have sex with your wife in front of them, they can easily start practicing it while playing with opposite sex as they believe everything there parents does is 100 percent okey to practice outside. So that which you know its not good for them to do outside let us avoid doing it in there presents

If you want to avoid doing things you don't want your kids to emulate is not better you don't do it at all instead of trying to hide for them not to see you, if you really want to stop a bad habit kindly stop it not because of anyone but because it's not good for your health. Smoking is not good for your health if you can avoid it then do it but if you can't avoid smoking then be proud to smoke in front of your kids so that they will be happy to start smoking before 18 years  don't you want to share your smoke with them ?  Sex is what you should nut do in front of them but hey will grow to understand everything even when you don't explain to them.

Don't be too fast in judging as there is know one that can boost of hundred percent accurateness when it has to do with good behavior, for the fact that you don't smoke is never a good reason to judge smokers and even criticize them for smoking when there are other things you do that is even worst than smoking. Since you have quickly concluded that smoking is bad because I said it should not be done in front our children, will you also say having sexual relationship with your wife is bad that we are saying its not good to do it in front of our children.

[GiftedMAN]

Don't be too fast in judging as there is know one that can boost of hundred percent accurateness when it has to do with good behavior, for the fact that you don't smoke is never a good reason to judge smokers and even criticize them for smoking when there are other things you do that is even worst than smoking. Since you have quickly concluded that smoking is bad because I said it should not be done in front our children, will you also say having sexual relationship with your wife is bad that we are saying its not good to do it in front of our children.

I am not judging no one because I am not perfect but as you know anything that is worth doing is worth doing well let's stop pretending and tell ourselves the truth. Yes I do not smoke and I do not hate smokers but if you smoke then be proud to smoke in front of your kids so they can also learn to do whet you enjoy is that a bad idea?  Because I am married to my wife I can make out with her in our living room my kids won't be watching us because they will be in your rooms, but that doesn't stop me from giving them the education they need because if they learn about it outside them it's a problem for me.