How did you react at people around you when you lose in gambling?

[Grace333]

Whenever I place a bet I try as much as possible to put in money I know that if I should lose it, it won’t really upset me, but then, anytime I felt I’m sure of my stakes, and bet beyond my caution rate and I lost a huge amount, to be honest, I’ll really be upset and my use of words as at that point in time might not be regulated, so what I do is that, I work a way from the casino to somewhere I can a take a drink to chill off and then head to my crib to rest. At least I can avoid any form of provocation.

[Ronsbit]

Basically, not everyone has the ability to control their anger, many people show anger towards other family members due to their own personal problems, which is very inappropriate. If I lose money in gambling or anywhere else, I see it as my own failure. My behavior with family members remains the same, so no one understands what I'm going through. It is not good to treat your family members and children badly out of frustration after losing at gambling. And in my opinion, gamblers should not gamble with such money that if they lose, they will go crazy with frustration.

There are some people who have anger issues, and these are the categories of people who easily get emotional whenever they have such an experience. They can not be able to control their temper whenever they are at home with their family, and in some cases, it is worse whenever they lose games they have played with a good amount of money. These sets of people find it very difficult to cope with their anger issues and should be advised to gamble with what they can afford to lose so that they do not transfer their aggression to their family and loved ones after losing heavily to gambling.

[fredericktaylor]

It is very wise to gamble with only the money that we can afford to lose, which will keep our mentality in order and will not create additional financial pressure on ourselves. If we gamble with the money we need, our mentality will not be in order, there will be additional mental pressure on ourselves, we will not be able to understand what is wrong and what is right, at some point the gambler will lose self-control and face loss of all the necessary money, as a result, his mentality will always be bad, there will be unrest in the family, as a result of which a gambler will not be able to lead a healthy and normal life.

[Pi-network314159]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Most of this question are not necessary if you ask me, but however I can only contribute to the best of my knowledge. I don't react rude to people when I lose. I only soliloquy in the absence of nobody, expecialy when I have lost huge sum of money. Although I am a careful Gambler who hardly over spend in betting, but the highest I have bet to my knowledge is the one thatade moody but I just keep calm and stay cletrrom people because a slight provocation can ignite problem.

[ScamViruS]

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There are some people who have anger issues, and these are the categories of people who easily get emotional whenever they have such an experience. They can not be able to control their temper whenever they are at home with their family, and in some cases, it is worse whenever they lose games they have played with a good amount of money. These sets of people find it very difficult to cope with their anger issues and should be advised to gamble with what they can afford to lose so that they do not transfer their aggression to their family and loved ones after losing heavily to gambling.

Those who have anger issues, and if they are gamblers, they become aggressive to a terrible level. They also blame their gambling losses on their family and the fights are always going on. I saw someone I knew who was addicted to gambling. One day, after losing a sports bet, he broke the TV in his room simply because he couldn't control his anger. He also lost in gambling and broke the TV, which doubled his losses.

So it is important to control your anger in any position, not just because of gambling losses, overly aggressive behavior never leads to anything good.

[Mehmet69]

I wish people just ignore me completely because when I get angry I may not use my words wisely that might hurt them a lot. And getting angry or just getting upset is enough to make someone rude towards others because loss is a loss it doesn't mean they can't take the loss, they lost it which is something a the animal inside the human will never like.

When someone keeps losing money, it is natural for him to be in a bad mood. In gambling, everyone plays to win. Those who play with a losing mentality are never gamblers. Gamblers always think that they will win this match. But when they lose, their mood gets bad.

A person can never speak intelligently when angry. Wise people say, "Learn to be silent when angry." Only because of anger, a small word can cause a big problem. So when we lose in gambling or get angry, we should keep quiet. Which is really a very difficult task.

[Ronsbit]

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There are some people who have anger issues, and these are the categories of people who easily get emotional whenever they have such an experience. They can not be able to control their temper whenever they are at home with their family, and in some cases, it is worse whenever they lose games they have played with a good amount of money. These sets of people find it very difficult to cope with their anger issues and should be advised to gamble with what they can afford to lose so that they do not transfer their aggression to their family and loved ones after losing heavily to gambling.

Those who have anger issues, and if they are gamblers, they become aggressive to a terrible level. They also blame their gambling losses on their family and the fights are always going on. I saw someone I knew who was addicted to gambling. One day, after losing a sports bet, he broke the TV in his room simply because he couldn't control his anger. He also lost in gambling and broke the TV, which doubled his losses.

So it is important to control your anger in any position, not just because of gambling losses, overly aggressive behavior never leads to anything good.

This type of reaction is most often displayed by gamblers who gambler excess than they can afford to lose. Overconfidence can not allow them to just gamble a little buck for a peace of mind, and when the reverse of their thought is the case, they go haywire and lose double, as most of them destroy property, just as you have said. It is no lie, I have witnessed it before, it happenede right in front of his family and his kids were just all mouth open looking at him, his wife could not say a word as she began to cry not just because he broke the television but the act he dispalyed in the presence of his children which is very bad and it is not a good thing to behold because some day those kids would definitely replicate what they saw their father doing while they were kids and it would be a normal for them.

[Akbarkoe]

Firstly, I very rarely talk about my gambling experience, secondly, talking about it now is not important, even though I once did that to a fellow gambler but he talked even more arrogantly with his story both from big wins and even losses that were so very large that he still bragged about it, maybe his intention was to make me feel inferior because I didn't bet big, unlike himself, therefore I was lazy to talk about the gambling I did again, because it made me even more annoyed, I don't know what a gambler like that has.

[eisen33]

I think showing your emotions to others after a loss isn’t a good idea because, first of all, they are not at fault, and secondly if you behave differently than usual, it will seem suspicious to those around you. Honestly, when I lose in gambling, I always try to hide it and not show it to the people around me. If I placed a bet and lost, that’s my business, and it shouldn’t concern anyone else or affect anyone in any way.

[GiftedMAN]

I think showing your emotions to others after a loss isn’t a good idea because, first of all, they are not at fault, and secondly if you behave differently than usual, it will seem suspicious to those around you. Honestly, when I lose in gambling, I always try to hide it and not show it to the people around me. If I placed a bet and lost, that’s my business, and it shouldn’t concern anyone else or affect anyone in any way.

What’s the point of hiding your losses when you don’t have any problems broadcasting your wins? Every gambler should come to the realization that losses are part of the game, in fact gamblers are meant to lose more often than they win and so losses shouldn’t be a big deal or something one should try to conceal or hide from others. Personally, I’ll feel skeptical about anyone who only shows his wins and never his losses because I know it’s never possible for people to always win without losing.

[sompitonov]

Firstly, I very rarely talk about my gambling experience, secondly, talking about it now is not important, even though I once did that to a fellow gambler but he talked even more arrogantly with his story both from big wins and even losses that were so very large that he still bragged about it, maybe his intention was to make me feel inferior because I didn't bet big, unlike himself, therefore I was lazy to talk about the gambling I did again, because it made me even more annoyed, I don't know what a gambler like that has.

I think I was so upset that I wanted to yell at everyone, saying everyone around me was stupid and that no one would understand me. Of course, now I realize it was simply a reaction to the loss and, of course, the depression I was in, which manifested itself in this way. In any case, every player reacts differently in such a situation, but you need to watch how other players experience it to project it onto yourself and understand and prevent such situations. Self-improvement is truly important; being able to simply stop the game in time is a crucial skill for a modern player.

[Findingnemo]

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When someone keeps losing money, it is natural for him to be in a bad mood. In gambling, everyone plays to win. Those who play with a losing mentality are never gamblers. Gamblers always think that they will win this match. But when they lose, their mood gets bad.

A person can never speak intelligently when angry. Wise people say, "Learn to be silent when angry." Only because of anger, a small word can cause a big problem. So when we lose in gambling or get angry, we should keep quiet. Which is really a very difficult task.

Most of us know there are two possibilities, whether it will be a win or going to be a lose but as I said we always wants to win. So if that didn't happen we will be just upset for a while that is the critical point that we should avoid interaction with anyone. We all have different ways of venting out when it gets extreme so make sure no one is affected is a smart move though.

[icebar]

Whenever I place a bet I try as much as possible to put in money I know that if I should lose it, it won’t really upset me, but then, anytime I felt I’m sure of my stakes, and bet beyond my caution rate and I lost a huge amount, to be honest, I’ll really be upset and my use of words as at that point in time might not be regulated, so what I do is that, I work a way from the casino to somewhere I can a take a drink to chill off and then head to my crib to rest. At least I can avoid any form of provocation.

When there is high provability in a bet, most gamblers try to bet with emotion. That is why they bet much more than in other bets where it is believed that they will definitely win. When such a bet is lost again, naturally some resentment may arise among the gamblers. And at that time, some plan to give up betting, while others have drinks. In my case, when I face such a situation, I take a break from gambling for a few days. The more you bet during this time, the more your losses will increase. It seems to me that it is wise to restrain yourself.

[bhadz]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

That is what gambling do to our moods, it changes us and so if we win, we're in good mood and you won't be surprised how he'll react if his kid comes to him after going home. We shouldn't let our emotions change us the way we treat the people we love the most. We're vulnerable and so they are but let's treat them always with care and the best that we can. Separate that feeling from gambling and we should blame ourselves for losing. Because if we don't gamble, we'll never have that bad mood. And so, don't make it as a reason for not treating them right.

Still, blaming your own self does not help so just accept the reality that losing is always possible with gambling.

However, its a good point to separate your emotions your gambling. You also don't know what others are going through, so better show them with love and respect, and good things will follow.

Gambling is just a game, it will never define your character towards on how you treat others.

But that's the way to realize that it's always been us and not from the people that surrounds us why we've lost and why we're having a bad day. They shouldn't have that effect that we do in gambling like having a bad mood and then we'll also act badly to them. We have to separate the emotions we have as we gamble and while we're dealing our responsibilities with our family. Because they're still our family and they're the ones to be there if ever we've lost everything in gambling.

[Fredomago]

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When someone keeps losing money, it is natural for him to be in a bad mood. In gambling, everyone plays to win. Those who play with a losing mentality are never gamblers. Gamblers always think that they will win this match. But when they lose, their mood gets bad.

A person can never speak intelligently when angry. Wise people say, "Learn to be silent when angry." Only because of anger, a small word can cause a big problem. So when we lose in gambling or get angry, we should keep quiet. Which is really a very difficult task.

Most of us know there are two possibilities, whether it will be a win or going to be a lose but as I said we always wants to win. So if that didn't happen we will be just upset for a while that is the critical point that we should avoid interaction with anyone. We all have different ways of venting out when it gets extreme so make sure no one is affected is a smart move though.

Such upset changes our mood and similar to what you said it's critical when you are in the losing side and you can't accept, most likely your behavior change, it's tough to control and minimize that kind of emotion so if in case better to move yourself away from other peple for the meantime to avoid any collusion, though it's a decision depend on how a person react since different people have different approach to their emotions.

[Africolo]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

People react differently when they loose huge amount of money to gambling but we should understand that gambling is just a game of luck and shouldn't allow emotions from the lost control us and we started reacting rudely to people around us, most persons can even go as far as beating their partners and pouring the frustration of not winning on their children which is very bad and uncalled for, that doesn't speak good of the person.

Gamblers should try to control their emotions when they loose and never allow it take a better part of themselves, if I bet and loose I usually don't talk to people around me I will just go dead silent all through the night or day depending on when l lost the game, but I will advise us to gamble lightly and see it as fun so when we loose it doesn't affect us much. No one will be happy loosing such amount but let the aggression not be transfer to  family members, we should be able to control our emotions always.

[MRY]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

People react differently when they loose huge amount of money to gambling but we should understand that gambling is just a game of luck and shouldn't allow emotions from the lost control us and we started reacting rudely to people around us, most persons can even go as far as beating their partners and pouring the frustration of not winning on their children which is very bad and uncalled for, that doesn't speak good of the person.

Gamblers should try to control their emotions when they loose and never allow it take a better part of themselves, if I bet and loose I usually don't talk to people around me I will just go dead silent all through the night or day depending on when l lost the game, but I will advise us to gamble lightly and see it as fun so when we loose it doesn't affect us much. No one will be happy loosing such amount but let the aggression not be transfer to  family members, we should be able to control our emotions always.

When you are emotionally charged, you need to separate yourself with the group so that there will be no physical casualties. We should understand that the family is our greatest treasure and you can not lose money because of it. Silence is an aspect I have noticed that salvages our relations. Minimal consciousness of risk management will save us in terms of mental stability and everyday actions.

[ejikeme24]

My reaction towards people when I loss in gamble?

i just react the same way I do earlier, I'm still trying to figure out the meaning of this question. Oh, now I get. you're asking to know know our feelings when we loss in gamble? If that's the case then I think it is worth asking but the problem is even though we are rude when we loss in gamble yet most people won't admit that they usually feel bad or being rude to people when they Loss, but I feel that there will be no need for that because losing is inevitable in gamble so we should be used to it by now and stop making it look as if we are the first to experience Lossing in gamble.

[nelson4lov]

It depends really. The thing with losses is that if its a big enough loss, it stays in your mind and if not careful, it could lead to a transfer of aggression. People deal with losses differently. What I've done for my most recent losses in the last month is that, I just went to watch movies to take my mind of the losses as they're still fresh. The pain of loss usually get better as time goes. Eventually, you won't feel too much pain.

[Mehmet69]

It depends really. The thing with losses is that if its a big enough loss, it stays in your mind and if not careful, it could lead to a transfer of aggression. People deal with losses differently. What I've done for my most recent losses in the last month is that, I just went to watch movies to take my mind of the losses as they're still fresh. The pain of loss usually get better as time goes. Eventually, you won't feel too much pain.

Yes, you are right. Not everyone will always be angry at others because of losing in gambling. There are some who realize their mistakes after losing and spend some private time with themselves. If they do, they can come out of their pain. How someone behaves after losing is completely their personal matter.

There are some who express a lot of sadness even after losing a very small amount. On the other hand, there are many who are able to convince themselves that this is nothing more than a game even after losing a large amount. It is wise to give yourself some time after losing without getting angry at others. I will also try to apply your advice from today.