How did you react at people around you when you lose in gambling?

[Yamifoud]

When I lose, I still managed to show them my own good personality as I don't let my gambling outcome compromised my relationship with them.

Gambling outcomes has no connection with your relationship to the people, so I don't think you have to blame them for your loss or get irritated by them just because you are losing from gambling.

[MainIbem]

When I lose, I still managed to show them my own good personality as I don't let my gambling outcome compromised my relationship with them.

Gambling outcomes has no connection with your relationship to the people, so I don't think you have to blame them for your loss or get irritated by them just because you are losing from gambling.

That's because you gamble with what you can afford to lose and you don't let the reward you lose control your emotions, that dude definitely gambled outside his spare cash hence his reaction, that's why people are advised to what they can afford to lose so they don't get emotional and start to react badly when they lose, remember that not everyone are able to control their emotions especially when thdy lose money thdy didn't bargain for, but some gamblers don't learn, I hope the OP's friend learnt his lesson though.

[Hispo]

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I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Inevitably when someone losses money, specially when it is a significant amount like 800 dollars, they are going to get their behavior changed negatively. But ultimately the way it affects each one of us would depend on our own psyche and our personality.

In my personal case, losing a significant amount of money usually makes me feel depressed and I do not feel like being social with neither my family or friends. So I would not shout at people around me or anything like that, I would just stay locked in my room listening to sad music or watching youtube videos until I feel a little bit better so I can face others without thinking about all the money I have lost to my bad luck.

That is pretty much it.

[Jody.Drummer]

Basically, when we gamble, we must be prepared to lose the money we bet, because this can prevent us from becoming emotionally unstable. Sometimes people gamble without being prepared to lose, and when they lose, their reaction is frustration, which can lead to uncontrolled emotions and possibly venting on others, whether consciously or unconsciously. But the right thing to do is to accept defeat, so we don't get upset and react badly to others who don't know anything about it, because if that happens, it is irresponsible gambling behavior.

[YOSHIE]

what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

That's where our patience and emotions are tested, whether we can overcome all this when there are problems, such as losing gambling, office problems and other problems.
If I certainly have a different view of this action, where I prioritize my family rather than the money lost in the gambling arena, I have the principle that money can be found again tomorrow, but treating our family outside of the narrative of common sense will make them remember forever and will have bad consequences in the future.

For this reason, don't bring problems outside to the house, until you get to the front of the house, the problem can't enter the house, it looks professional.

[Yablee0]

Sometimes people gamble without being prepared to lose, and when they lose, their reaction is frustration, which can lead to uncontrolled emotions and possibly venting on others, whether consciously or unconsciously. But the right thing to do is to accept defeat, so we don't get upset and react badly to others who don't know anything about it, because if that happens, it is irresponsible gambling behavior.

You are right, it's makes more sense preparing your mind towards anything that might happen in the cause of your gambling, it's important we know this fact that gambling is never ensure and one we can  lose money at any given time and their nothing we can do about it. Getting mad at people around us just because we have lost money make no sense to me after all they didn't send us to go gambling at the first place so why transferring aggression on them instead of staying calm and accept our Lost, however gambling isn't a must that you must play perhaps if you aren't finding it fun or interesting anymore it's better you walk away and have your peace than attacking everyone that crossed your way at that point in time.

[LastKiss]

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I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Just act normal and give him advice to take a break, because he's already lost $800 in gambling. What he did to his son tell us that he's under mental stress, which is causing him to make bad thing. If I try to tell him that he's wrong and meanwhile I'm sounds like I'm the one who always right, it might just make him more angry and he won't listen to anyone. So, I will telling him to take a break and try doing something fun, like fishing, singing or something that can help him cool off.

[Outhue]

I don't ever keep people close to me when I am gambling, or am I supposed to keep people close? Reaction only shows among gamblers in a physical casino but for someone who gambles online you aren't going to gamble when someone is there next to you. I won't even be able to concentrate if there is some close beside me.

I like online gambling because it's private, no one will know that I gamble unless I tell them myself, and I don't go out in the public and pull out my phone to start gambling, I always gamble when I am inside my room with no one in sight.

[michellee]

Losing money makes you lose controls in reacting at people around you. That is normal things that may happens so what your friends did to his son is something that can also happens. If he can controls himself, he will not show his emotion to his son but keep it for himself.

His son don't know nothing what happen to him so he can't shouted at him like that. It's another lesson to us how we react at people around you so we don't breaks their heart or makes them sad.

We have to keep our sad emotion and not show to others especially if we losing money in gambling. They don't know what we get from gambling so we can't let them feels what we want. After all, that is our decision to gambling and not because they ask us.

[FirmWars]

He should not have reacted like that to his son because the boy is not the reason for his lose and even if he knew he can not control his emotions towards his family, he should have stayed out until his mind is cleared. In the first place, the money he used in gambling was out of his own decision and not someone else decision, if he lost the amount he was not supposed to gamble with, he should take the blame and not unleash his emotions on his kid. I don't react like this around people after concealing losses in gambling, the best thing to do to avoid this is don't risk what you can afford to deal with emotionally.

[Wapfika]

He should not have reacted like that to his son because the boy is not the reason for his lose and even if he knew he can not control his emotions towards his family, he should have stayed out until his mind is cleared. In the first place, the money he used in gambling was out of his own decision and not someone else decision, if he lost the amount he was not supposed to gamble with, he should take the blame and not unleash his emotions on his kid. I don't react like this around people after concealing losses in gambling, the best thing to do to avoid this is don't risk what you can afford to deal with emotionally.

Some people can’t handle their anger and can’t think straight when they lose. It shouldn’t the right behavior but it’s something that many people mistakenly do due to rhetoric influenced of gambling.

I don’t experienced playing around with kids but I don’t want them to copy me but I will totally avoid playing around with kids since I don’t know what will be my mood when I lose while kids around doing some annoying stuff.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I don't ever keep people close to me when I am gambling, or am I supposed to keep people close? Reaction only shows among gamblers in a physical casino but for someone who gambles online you aren't going to gamble when someone is there next to you. I won't even be able to concentrate if there is some close beside me.

So, peradventure you lost a huge amount when gambling online, how do you react to the losses? Because you said that reactions only shows among gamblers in physical casino, that's true but I also believe that reaction can come from someone that also gambles in an online casino and they can become too emotional and then start venting on someone that didn't even contribute to their problems. Some people are like that, they just react bad towards losses.

[MisFoxie]

When we gamble we have to always mentally prepared for loss. Gamble is full of risk it's normal to make losesif but you're not mentally prepared for the loses and when you made a loss you could become angry, frustrated and emotionally unstable. As a result they may lose control of their emotion and take out the frustration on other. Accepting loss doesn't mean weakness it proves self control and maturity.

[bakasabo]

When I gamble online, family members dont see any change in my behavior when I lose, nor I show any different from usual emotions. I dont get angry, I dont shout, I dont become aggressive. When I gamble offline, There is only me and the game. I rarely pay attention to people around, dont look how they play. I can only congratulate them with big win if I manage to stop it, or they will give reaction. I a way, I can say that I am a silent gambler. I prefer not to bother others, because I dont like to be bothered myself.

[Showlove01]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Honestly, sometimes I do react somehow whenever I lost a bet that I was supposed to win a huge amount of money but not that bad because I try to make sure no one knows about my loss and the reason I don't react off is because I gamble with what I can afford to lose all the time and yet sometimes losing them can get me pissed. One of the thing that will make your friend react so off may be that is what he cannot afford to lose and his source of income is or are not steady and stable and this can really hurt so bad though sometimes it is hard to control.

[Findingnemo]

I wish people just ignore me completely because when I get angry I may not use my words wisely that might hurt them a lot. And getting angry or just getting upset is enough to make someone rude towards others because loss is a loss it doesn't mean they can't take the loss, they lost it which is something a the animal inside the human will never like.

[Ronsbit]

Basically, when we gamble, we must be prepared to lose the money we bet, because this can prevent us from becoming emotionally unstable. Sometimes people gamble without being prepared to lose, and when they lose, their reaction is frustration, which can lead to uncontrolled emotions and possibly venting on others, whether consciously or unconsciously. But the right thing to do is to accept defeat, so we don't get upset and react badly to others who don't know anything about it, because if that happens, it is irresponsible gambling behavior.

Obviously, their reaction shows how frustrated they are because they had gambled with an amount they could not afford to lose. This becames their annoyance because they already have the mindset of winning and in most cases, they were assured of winning the bet without them doing their own research and also some of them are novice who have no broad knowledge about the casino world and they just make terrible mistakes just because of their profit making mindset they already have for gambling and that makes them record losses they can do bargain for.

[Patikno]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Well, it seems your friend is still struggling to get over his loss, and the amount he mentioned as "much" is an indication that he was gambling beyond his means. From your friend words, we can tell he was over-gambling. There are two possible reasons why he lost so much: either trying to chase losses, or going all-in. I suspect these two factors led to his significant losses. You have been a good friend and offered good advice. So, try advising him to gamble responsibly in his next gambling session. Reminding friends of good deeds is essential, and it is a sign of a healthy friendship. Personally, I would do the same thing. I will try to comfort a friend who had just lost money gambling, especially if it was a large amount. Since they can't get a lecture in person right away, we would need to provide further advice the next day (when their minds are clearer).

[ScamViruS]

Basically, not everyone has the ability to control their anger, many people show anger towards other family members due to their own personal problems, which is very inappropriate. If I lose money in gambling or anywhere else, I see it as my own failure. My behavior with family members remains the same, so no one understands what I'm going through. It is not good to treat your family members and children badly out of frustration after losing at gambling. And in my opinion, gamblers should not gamble with such money that if they lose, they will go crazy with frustration.

[Accardo]

So, try advising him to gamble responsibly in his next gambling session. Reminding friends of good deeds is essential, and it is a sign of a healthy friendship. Personally, I would do the same thing. I will try to comfort a friend who had just lost money gambling, especially if it was a large amount. Since they can't get a lecture in person right away, we would need to provide further advice the next day (when their minds are clearer).

Gamblers who have a good friend would probably stay in check of their behavioral changes, friends play the role of a therapist when they're none at sight. However, the advise should go sparingly, whenever the gamer signals or indirectly ask for some talks on responsible gaming. Also, close friends who figure out that a gamer they know isn't doing emotionally fine should endeavor to lay in reasonable controllable actions in words and moves to deduce the tough challenge on the affected player.