Democracy is just an illusion
You hand over power to someone via ballot paper or whatever means, and you expect them to respect you, your feelings and your taxes after getting into office? No way

The earlier you accept that there is nothing like democratic politics, the better for your mental health. Things look good in theory, but when it comes to practice, humans become very predictable.
You just got my attention, and sincerely, your description is beautiful. Democracy is an illusion. Just talks, theories, but never playing out. If there was real democracy, and is playing out, millions of wrongs in government wouldn't be happening at all. But here we are, accepting everything even though we don't want it, and sometimes, we can't really do anything to change it, and what else, we moan and think and just live. Where am from, Democracy I believe is a story of the ancestors, just as they no longer exists and we only see them in old framed pictures is possible, so it is. Our democracy is dead and we only get to learn about it in books at college, while we live totally different from it. Our leaders, just like super dictators, leading in absolute tyranny and evil. If there was a bit of democracy left in the world, the world would be at peace right now