Be A Gambler or Train a woman in Shool

[HelliumZ]

So does this mean that you will not send your daughter to school?
Or that you will leave your daughter uneducated and stay at home?
Or that you live together with your wife and provide for all her needs and daily necessities, medical care, clothes, etc., are they better or worse than gambling?
People may have different opinions, but you should definitely educate your daughter not by comparing it to gambling, but rather you should educate your daughter to know the whole world.

[lienfaye]

your taught on the above statements made?

I know someone who support her girlfriend financially to finish her studies but right after, the girl ended their relationship because she already achieve her goal, a user. There's no guarantee that you'll end up together just like gambling, you take risk but gaining is not certain.

If the woman is part of the family to train in school, I will support her. But if it's a girlfriend, and then I will end up being humiliated, i'd rather gamble than to be hurt emotionally for trusting someone. In gambling, you can lose, but it's easy to move on if you use a small amount and aware of the risk.

[rachael9385]

This is an interesting topic, I'll checking the replies to know what others think of this. Personally I can't train a woman in school not because I prefer to use my money to gamble but it's not my role to do that. This is an unwise thing to do as a man, it's totally unnecessary and you are just overplaying your part.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

I would rather be a gambler and also train a woman in school and stand in no position to end something from it at the end, if we want to help people succeed on life we should attach no benefits to it, instead it must cost us something, how come can we stand in the position of benefiting from the good we are doing by standing that we have to marry the same child with help through schooling, this seems not to be a genuine assistance but what we also benefit us at the end which does not make sense at all.

[Davidvictorson]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

This is out of topic.

And I do not support this type of discussions. There are a thousand and one unexplored top quality gambling discussion topics and we have this is not even worth three pages worth of discussion.

Please lock it.

[Youngrebel]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

I don't know, I can't judge someone case (especially a personal one), because we know what really happened to them. Their problem might not be financial, and maybe there is something unsolved about their issues. I believe any relationship between two people will survive or be long-lasting, especially when they support each other.

Regarding the comments of some people who tried to compare this case to gambling, I think it is very interesting to compare it like that, and of course we would think it is better to gamble in real, than gamble to finance a woman education and then marry her. However, I believe all endeavors in this world are similar to gambling, meaning we have a "chance of success or failure". Whether it is running a business, paying for expensive education in the hope of succeeding, by using the skills acquired, etc., I believe it is all the same, and all of these things have something at stake, but the difference lies in the method and the consequences.

By the way, I disagree with comparing this case to real gambling, because I believe we should focus on building serious relationships with everyone, including our future families. Meanwhile, gamble (the real one) shouldn't be taken seriously, and should be considered purely for entertainment.

How do you even know the serious ones you want to consider serious and indeed plan the future with them? This is probably someone that has shown good prospect and the man decided to empower her educationally maybe with the intentions of securing the future.

According another comment from the post on the blue app that says" slip wey go cut go still cut" because a man educated his own wife and after schooling she became educated and filed for a divorce because she has outgrown him.
Its just the good ones that decides to act responsibly and be.good once.

[AVE5]

1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.

Lmao. The beginning of the thread was some kind of off but here you land caught my interest. Lol
Of the truth, we gamble for the benefits of entertainment and profit making, that's right but it's a strict game or events that should players should not be taking too serious of investing your savings but spare funds.
Taking responsibility of a lady in this case is expected that you've an existing common relationship with her of which friendship comes with benefits and if you as the man have nothing profitable about her and no confidence in your trusts, you're therefore gambling not just with your emotions but also risking your funds because she might fail the promises and agreements in the future.

[Ziskinberg]

If you train a girl to school, make sure you are seeing your future with her, or she is seeing a future with you, otherwise everything will turn out as gambling. And its more painful because you have made a huge expectation and set your mind into it, only to be betrayed in the end.

This is probably the reason why some men marry their girl first before they train them to school. At least when the girl turns into a degree holder, both of them will benefit because for sure it will bring greener pasture on their table once the girl realizes his own dream and goal too.

[Wapfika]

Financially supporting a woman to finish her school is a personal decision which both party agree. Again, the marrying part should be clarified first since some woman misunderstood as just a simple kind act to support them which means marrying is not part of the deal.

Comparing gambling as way to lose money is a bit exaggerated to compared to using your money to finance someone education since you are helping others to become successful while gambling is for entertainment purposes. I think the problem here is the marrying part only which probably didn’t clarified or reach a mutual agreement.

[Shinpako09]

Just like in a casino, you never really know the outcome. I’m not saying gambling is better, but why would you spend so much on a girl when you’re not even married yet? I understand that spending while courting is normal, but don’t overspend. I’ve seen many real stories about men sending the girl they’re courting or in a relationship with to school, but once she graduates, she leaves. I would only spend that much on a woman if we were already married. In this case, I’d rather gamble.

[Africolo]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

In response to this question I will rather gamble with my money than training a girl in school with the intention of marrying her because women are not trustworthy and there's every possibility that she won't end up with you that have used your hard earned money to train her most especially when the person in question is not a graduate, she will tell you to your face that you are a stack illiterate and she won't get married to you or better still she will send her marriage invitation card to you and tell you thank you for helping her so I can't make sure mistake in my life.

It's better to gamble and there's every tendency that you might win somehow but you see women just be sure that you have loose her once she acquires that knowledge. I'm not concluding that every woman is bad but the chances of seeing someone stick with who trained them in school is rare, so for me instead of ending up regretting and training a girl for another man I better gamble and loose, it won't affect my mental health.

[vanesha]

It is better to spend money on gambling, than to give money to other people who have no family ties at all, women are natural destroyers of men, and sometimes women are more dangerous than gambling, not only about money but women can also destroy a man's life with just one word.

[Slow death]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

Gambling is not a safe way to invest money; gambling has always been entertainment. I advise people to put their money into some long-term business or investment and avoid getting involved with women when they are not legally married. A girlfriend is not a wife; unfortunately, people have serious problems understanding this. If he were officially married, then it would make perfect sense to pay for her college education, because all her assets would also be his.

[Wakate]

I reread it several times before I understood what the author meant. I also wouldn't spend my money with a dubious prospect without guarantees. If other options were available, I would use them the same way and, for example, invest in something other than someone's education. If it's my relative, then even then, only if I could afford it. The original post is quite interesting and funny.

There are better things we can use money to do and not to use it to invest in a woman that may not really appreciate the sacrifices and efforts you have taken to make sure that you help her become the kind of woman she wants to be.
Many men are making mistakes and it will be unwise if they continue to waste their money on women instead of using the money to invest in real estate or cryptocurrency.

[passwordnow]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

My first thought on this, why would you send a girl to school if you've got plans on marrying her? Why not marry her first and then send her to school. I've seen a lot of relationships like this that have collapsed. When the girl reaches their goal of finishing studies, they meet new people and new relationships can be created through that. And that's why it is the first glance thought that I have got in my mind after seeing the situation. I don't care if you'll gamble your money or spend it to her but why do that when you have no strong attachment to her and just being bf/gf.

[JoyMarsha]

The heartbreak of both would cause in someone's(the guy's) life to be different. One is more severe than the other. It is full of pain, agony, and disappointment

You know, some people can forget or deal with the huge amount they lose while gambling but the situation of training a girl in school with the intention of marrying her, and it didn't work out as planned, is worse than gambling. Not everyone gets to survive that, to continue with their life after investing heavily in someone else's daughter,  you were left with nothing to console yourself

[Onyeeze]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?

I'm a victim of woman disappointment, so i would prefer gambling with the money instead of training woman in the school with my money, training woman in school with your money, is another opportunity you create for the woman to leave you, because by the time you're done training her, she will meet opportunity with someone that is better than yours, I will gamble with my money, if i lose i know that it's a risk i took by myself, if i win, I will give all thanks to God almighty, woman is that is not my wife is the last thing i can invest on, i don't in another country but I'm using what I have pass true in my country to explain the behaviours of women

[Localhostspeed]

Training a girl to school and she ends up disappointing you and didn't marry you as promised is more than gambling but a dishonest act which I will classify to be a scam because there was an initial agreement in the beginning. It will affect you emotional more than what gambling will do to you because it's like calling you a fool.

I will prefer to gamble with the money than to end up in frustration. At least, I have the chance of doubling my money if I gamble with it.

I don't know why anyone will train a girl with the intention of getting married. I ga e seen this stories multiple times and the end always cry. If you must support a woman financially, let it be the woman you have married. At least if you are not doing it for no reason you should be doing it because you guys are couples, do it because you have childrens together even though they don't do well in the future, you have a reason to have support her.

As gambling, to me it's high risk gambling which I will not advise any young person to evet try in their life. If you must support a woman, it must be your wife. If the parents can't finance her school, go and get another woman and build life. Sometimes I think we men take serious risk, like if the roles were reverse for girl to sponsor a guy to school, they will gladly say no but men will do anything to support women and still later disappoint. I will not try it.

[Hispo]

Honestly, this is one of the weirdest things I have seen in this section of the forum in a long time.

First off, if you are spending such huge amount of money in someone you are not even married to and fully committed to one another, then you are not a gambler, you are a fool and white a transactional kind of person.

If you are dating someone, you are supposed to be in a stage in which you are knowing one another and getting to understand whether you are compatible for a long term relationship or not. Paying for higher education without being fully committed is just insane.

[Orpichukwu]

How do you train a woman in school and for what reason? The only person you should train in school is your daughter or your wife, unless you are doing it as charity work without expecting any reward. Gambling is like a side hustle, there is no bases for comparing gambling to training a woman in school because both does not connect unless you want to tell us that you consider gambling as a waste of money which I will never agree with you.

If someone is opportune enough to have all it takes to be able to train a few people in school irrespective of the gender, it should be done without you expecting anything from the person in return. I don't know why this mentality of 'she must marry the person who trains her in school' is coming from, and if you don't want to help a lady, you better not help instead of training the person and expecting her to pay you back with marrying you. Such a type of contract is equal to another form of slavery.