Be A Gambler or Train a woman in Shool

[fredericktaylor]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

I think it is even more risky than gambling because if you lose money in gambling, you will be able to recover that money in some way it will take some time, but by paying all the expenses of a girl's school with the intention of marriage, the chances of getting marriage in the future are very low. Because with time, the girl will grow older, along with all her thoughts and views will naturally change, due to which the chances of not getting marriage are high. Another thing is that since you will not be able to be by the girl's side all the time, this will create a distance between you and from that distance a rift can be created in the relationship, in that case the chances of marriage the girl will be very very low, as a result, it will be very difficult to recover the mental damage that you will face due to your hopes or dreams not being fulfilled. So I think gambling is much better than paying all the expenses for my girls school with the intention of getting marriage.

[mcdouglasx]

There are cases where a man builds a home, gives his wife everything to make her feel comfortable, everything seems fine, until one day she meets someone who leads her to leave everything for that person, leaving the man with nothing. So why would we have to "educate" someone to be the way we want, if in the end that's impossible to achieve? But I don't understand the comparison to gambling. If you do something for someone, it should be unintentional. You shouldn't give a girl money expecting something in return, unless her profession is "escort." So if I care about her, I would help her instead of gambling. If it doesn't work out, that's fine; at least I did something good.

[Strongkored]

Which is better?
What is your taught on the above statements made?

The chance of losing is the same as gambling because the man did not first tell the girl his feelings and future intentions, if it turns out he has and the girl denies it, it is the same as him gambling in a scam casino, playing but when he wins he cannot withdraw his money (joke a side).
This is not a common practice in my society, so I don't know what should be chosen, but it is better if you can support someone you like, do it sincerely not because you want them to become your partner, so you won't feel scammed if they don't return your feelings.
Gambling may be better because you already know that losing is very likely.

[Slimzeee]

Training a girl in school is not something I would advise someone to do. There have been many realistic cases about this, and you must not wait for things to happen to you before you learn; you can learn from other people’s mistakes. If you were a sharp guy in school, you would even observe how some ladies who had boyfriends training them were even more promiscuous. What is worse is when the person training the girl is not educated. This doesn’t outrightly say you shouldn’t help someone who is in need. But if you are training her with the sole purpose of getting married, then you shouldn’t be surprised when it doesn’t happen.

You can see cashout as an option in some gambling, but if a woman says she is no longer interested, then you have lost everything. Please gamble with your money only if you have the option

[Pi-network314159]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

I must confess this thread is really funny but at thesame time interesting. Well I have heard and seen many people spend money on women with the intention to marry them, but they later disappointed them at last. But this act is not applicable to all women. But yet training a woman with the intention to Mary them is gambling because it's under probability.

But for me I rather play bet and lose than train a woman and get disappointed or prefer training livestock like goat and pigs than train a woman in school and she Mary another person at last. Because livestock will reproduce and make me more richer.

[KiaKia]

Females deserves to be educated, but on one condition, make sure you guys are married first then let are further more, because the complains that I get from people the most their girl friends and fiancée going away with someone else.

Every females have the right to education but let them do it on their own, they have parents or father who I believe owe these female child the right to education, it's the duty of the father not a boyfriend.

Only do this if you are married.

[AmaGold70]

Training a girl whom you want to marry in school is not entirely bad,   because if you eventually succeed in marrying her, it will be to your own advantage. However, I will advice one thing, before you train a girl in school, make sure you are an educated person and if possible, you can even have your masters degree, so that even after gaining her first degree you are still higher than her academically, by so doing, she will find it difficult to go for another man. But if you are not educated, and you are training a girl in school , the chances of that girl coming back to you is very slim, unless you are very lucky to encounter a good girl, or you have enough money, maybe she can still come back and Marry you because of your money.
Using your money for gambling or training a girl in the school is totally individuals decision, but if you are the type who has already positioned yourself, maybe you are already an educated person and you are also doing good job or business, I think their is nothing to fear about, is better to train her  instead  of using that money for gambling, because she will definitely come back to you.

[len01]

Which is better?
Training a girl through school with the intension of marrying her or gambling with the money?
Recently there's something that has become a bit common to have been happening in our society though it doesn't happen all of the time. 
A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

Is this just a story from someone else’s experience, or are you speaking from personal experience?  Just kidding, no need to answer that.

Honestly, both look bad. Paying for a woman’s education when there’s no guarantee she’ll marry us is basically like gambling, it can lead to heartbreak and frustration. But if I had to choose between those options, I’d be more realistic and choose to gamble with $1000 rather than spend money supporting a woman through school and wait for years, only to end up failing. If we lose $1000 ^{which I assume is an amount we can afford to lose}, it wouldn’t take long to move on from that loss. 

[Byebyebtc]

Lol, In a situation like this you are a gambler either way not gonna lie

The probabilities of you getting married to a girl you trained through school is 50/50 that is a 50% win and a 50% loose
And it's the same for gambling as well still 50/50

So I will definitely go for the one that is more easier and less costly which is gambling 

[DYOR+BTC]

Training a girl whom you want to marry in school is not entirely bad,   because if you eventually succeed in marrying her, it will be to your own advantage. However, I will advice one thing, before you train a girl in school, make sure you are an educated person and if possible, you can even have your masters degree, so that even after gaining her first degree you are still higher than her academically, by so doing, she will find it difficult to go for another man. But if you are not educated, and you are training a girl in school , the chances of that girl coming back to you is very slim, unless you are very lucky to encounter a good girl, or you have enough money, maybe she can still come back and Marry you because of your money.
Using your money for gambling or training a girl in the school is totally individuals decision, but if you are the type who has already positioned yourself, maybe you are already an educated person and you are also doing good job or business, I think their is nothing to fear about, is better to train her  instead  of using that money for gambling, because she will definitely come back to you.

You are saying so because you have not been visited by the wickedness of women, that gender called women is the worst set of people to ever deal with as they can only be by you when you have something to offer but turns your enemy when things turns against you. Let me tell you something, instead of training a woman that is not yet your wife is better to spend it to the less privileges as you will receive blessings from there as spending on women is like introducing water in a basket because it can never be useful to you. Most failed men today became poor because of women as they are only interested in what they stand to gain in any thing they are doing.
As for you that thinks is good training a girl in school, go ahead as the will be the beginning of your failure because they most definitely show you what they are made off.

[AmoreJaz]

Lol, In a situation like this you are a gambler either way not gonna lie

The probabilities of you getting married to a girl you trained through school is 50/50 that is a 50% win and a 50% loose
And it's the same for gambling as well still 50/50

So I will definitely go for the one that is more easier and less costly which is gambling  

Let us put it this way, you will have no assurance if that girl will be your wife in the future. Thus, you are also gambling on this option. So why not just help her go thru school without thinking that she will be your wife? In this age, this kind of mindset is not entertained anymore unless, in your culture, it is still being practiced. But mostly, we are living in the modern age, and grooming a woman to become your wife is not very common at this age.

[boyptc]

Lol, In a situation like this you are a gambler either way not gonna lie

The probabilities of you getting married to a girl you trained through school is 50/50 that is a 50% win and a 50% loose
And it's the same for gambling as well still 50/50

So I will definitely go for the one that is more easier and less costly which is gambling 

And that choice is gambling because you don't have to please the casino when you gamble.

As for training a girl, you'll have to please her, take her on a date, gift her, buy her flowers, etc.

I would also choose that route so there won't be stress for me, that's an honest answer and we can find that girl somewhere else that are not high maintenance and less expectation.

[Orpichukwu]

Let us put it this way, you will have no assurance if that girl will be your wife in the future. Thus, you are also gambling on this option. So why not just help her go thru school without thinking that she will be your wife?

A very good way to look at it without having any regrets about it in the future, because without even training a girl in school, you can be dating her for years, and when it's time for marriage, you both might still come to terms that you are not compatible and go separate ways. The best is to offer whatever help you can to a lady without expecting marriage as a reward.

[Cantsay]

Not every woman is only looking for someone ahead of her and not every educated woman will abandon someone who supported her through her educational career. Character , respect and loyalty emotional connection still matters a lot I have seen a couples where the woman is more educated and yet they still build a strong healthy marriages at the end of the whole day the success of a relationship depends more on mutual respect and understanding than on who has more certificate or social status.

Social media is now teaching them other things. You see women who wait for their man or take care of their homes being called names by other women. So in a society like that it’s extremely difficult for you to trust a woman not to betray a man who trained her through school for another person.

If you’re able to see someone you can trust enough that won’t leave you for someone else, then you can go ahead but then if you’re doing it for the sake of “hope” then it’s best not to go for it.

[uneng]

To sponsor the education of a girl expecting a marriage in counterpart sounds like an attempt of purchasing her love, which is just not possible for real. I wouldn't put myself in a ridiculous situation like that, because I don't feel comfortable knowing a someone is by my side just because I'm giving them financial benefits. I would prefer to simply gamble my money away, instead of creating illusions about someone who doesn't care about me, rather cares about what my money can proportionate her.

[Kelvinid]

The fact that you want to marry that person, spend a lifetime with her, then you have to make some risk and efforts by now, even if it means gambling your own funds for her. After all, money is jus material things, you can earn it again if ever the idea does not work.

However, this kind of decision should not be made just because of love alone, but also you have to secure your feelings and emotions as well, that is why you have to be wise in choosing the right person. Do not be blinded by temporary love, but seek first His guidance, and you know it will be yours if that decision of yours works.

[Cantsay]

To sponsor the education of a girl expecting a marriage in counterpart sounds like an attempt of purchasing her love, which is just not possible for real. I wouldn't put myself in a ridiculous situation like that, because I don't feel comfortable knowing a someone is by my side just because I'm giving them financial benefits. I would prefer to simply gamble my money away, instead of creating illusions about someone who doesn't care about me, rather cares about what my money can proportionate her.

It might not necessarily be because of the money. They are people who might be in love but and because of that the man might decide (willingly) to support the girl through education and we all know that in school people are going to see different people and interact with them so unless that person is genuinely faithful they will most likely  switch their interest to another person. So all of these contribute to the whole situation.

[batang_bitcoin]

Let us put it this way, you will have no assurance if that girl will be your wife in the future. Thus, you are also gambling on this option. So why not just help her go thru school without thinking that she will be your wife? In this age, this kind of mindset is not entertained anymore unless, in your culture, it is still being practiced. But mostly, we are living in the modern age, and grooming a woman to become your wife is not very common at this age.

There is this style called grooming. Despite that they truly like a person, they'd do everything for them to be liked even if they deny it and reasons out that they only want to help out of their kind hearts. That's why people help some other people for their own personal benefits as well. You'd rarely see people nowadays that they only want to help and yet they won't expect something in return. Sadly, this mindset about taking that person you helped as your wife is still being thought by those who's able to do it.

[coin-investor]

3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.

I prefer to lose in gambling than to lose it on a woman because of betrayal. You support the woman in her schooling, but in the end, she will just reject you.

In gambling, you don't expect to always win; you can only hope to win, but spending money on a woman's schooling, you expect to be rewarded and end up betrayed. That's more depressing than any gambling loss.

[coin-investor]

With that kind of situation its better to be a gambler, because you have a chance to win and you will not feel sorry if you gamble with money that it's ok for you to lose, but spending money on a woman in school, then getting rejected, is like you have been shamed and betrayed.
It's worse to be betrayed by your feelings; it's like you lose millions of dollars in gambling.