Be A Gambler or Train a woman in Shool

[Alex077]

It seem to me that this comparison is completely emotional not even close to logic, because there is a huge difference between paying for someone education and putting money on gambling board. Keep in mind gambling is a financial risk here winning or losing depend entirely on chance and luck. On the other hand if you help someone with their education it is completely your personal decision it is a sign of kindness or good intention. Social work of this kind is never like marriage because there is no hope of getting any return here. Personally I think that someone who is good at education and financial accounting is less likely to take on risky activity like gambling because his judgments and ability to think about the future are much higher

[alani123]

Life isn't black or white
Seriously it's something that doesn't work in favour of anyone to consider it's either or.
Balance your spend and gamble small amount. Small enough to live your life as normal and even save a bit.

It didn't work with this girl? It'll might work with another. Honestly relationship can go bad for many reasons. It doesn't mean you should become a nihilist and gamble away everything you own
 

[Wakate]

Yes, the topic seems quite funny actually. But I must confess that OP made a good point here because I know plenty people that are still doing this with the intention of getting married after graduation, but it was other way around for them. However, I anybody that is training girl in school or planning to do so should be ready to accept any outcome without regretting because obviously you are doing something that you are not sure about the outcome.

I don't really know why he created this topic but I think maybe he had been in this type of condition before that is why he is trying to alert the public on the risk that is involved when you are trying to sponsor a woman in school without a guarantee or writen agreement that she's going to marry you. Before training a woman in school with the intensions of marrying her, at least their should be an official written agreement so that when one party failed, the law can hold her responsible.

[Crypto Library]

Even if the question is little bit weird for me but still I am giving my answer here that if I have money then I will make investment on bitcoin or I can also start a business or anywhere I can spend that is my need. I will never do like something that is spending money to teach a girl in school for the intention of marrying her later.

Rather, my answer here will be the same as others that I will initially offer my love to her and if she accepts then I will get into a relationship and then I will make the relationship a reality in a love affair meaning marriage and later if she wants to study then I will make her study on my own. Here I will not do anything in advance that I will pay for her education and then propose marriage.

[SatoPrincess]

Is this a real question? Like, I feel like this is a transactional type of thing that says

I paid your tuition, so you must marry me.

This is crazy. It feels like it is being implied and enforced in a type of way. Like a coercion that forces people into an exchange. It's quite weird. There are probably some ethical issues that should be discussed here.

That’s exactly what it is. Isn’t it interesting that the OP and others that have commented above are from the same demographic where women have limited rights. People fall in and out of love all the time, just because you bought a woman gifts or paid her tuition, that doesn’t mean you own her.

[Hispo]

Life isn't black or white
Seriously it's something that doesn't work in favour of anyone to consider it's either or.
Balance your spend and gamble small amount. Small enough to live your life as normal and even save a bit.

It didn't work with this girl? It'll might work with another. Honestly relationship can go bad for many reasons. It doesn't mean you should become a nihilist and gamble away everything you own
 

Though, you also need to consider there are many gamblers who see life within the binary of black and white. Because when comes to gambling you are a winner or a loser, there is no middle term when comes to money being out at stake for the sake of getting even more money.
If someone dares to pay for the education of a girl who is not even married to one, that is a level of commitment which is only supposed to be seen in married couples.

If it does not work with the first girl, I am pretty sure no guy would dare to try with a second one. As we are talking about thousands of dollars. And infinite money does not exist.

[rojan]

Is this a real question? Like, I feel like this is a transactional type of thing that says

I paid your tuition, so you must marry me.

This is crazy. It feels like it is being implied and enforced in a type of way. Like a coercion that forces people into an exchange. It's quite weird. There are probably some ethical issues that should be discussed here.

That’s exactly what it is. Isn’t it interesting that the OP and others that have commented above are from the same demographic where women have limited rights. People fall in and out of love all the time, just because you bought a woman gifts or paid her tuition, that doesn’t mean you own her.

I can concur with the issue of concern in this discussion. Assistance to a woman education should not be seen as a form of transaction through which one wants to marry him or have a relationship. The purpose of education is to empower an individual and enhance his or her future rather than develop a sense of ownership. Support provision under underhanded expectations may inflict pressure and undue burden. The emotions of people may vary with the course of time and the choice of partner is always to be made without force and coercion. When one wants to contribute towards the education of a woman, one must want to do it out of pure goodwill and not out of anticipating someone to pay him or her back.

[Samlucky O]

A man who see a girl through the University with the intension of marrying her, proposes to her and at the end the lady turns the proposal down. This just happened recently again and the lady even went as far as slapping him. People commented some below comments;
1; it is better to gamble with my money than see a woman through school.
2. Do not insult a gambler if you are Training a girl in school because you are both  thesame. It is a 50, 50 chance of winning for each case.
3. It is better for Man-U to cut your ticket than for you to loose your 50k  on women.
ETC.
What is your taught on the above statements made?

What I can never do is to train a woman I am dating in school with my money. I can only train her if we are already married and probably had kids, atleast this means a lot to me than doing it with a lady who can easily move on with her life to another man. This kind of case has been happening lately and everyone of us knows how risky it is. Let's now come to the question at op, well it is better to gamble with my money on other things that will give me money in return than to train a lady am not married to in school.. like I said, I can only try that if we are already married and had kids.

[imthegreat]

Spending money on a girl before marriage is almost a waste of time, because women love men not because they spend a lot of money on them, but for the very personal qualities of these men, but if someone supports a relationship only by giving the girl money, then this is not an attitude, but some kind of escort.
And of course, I want to say that when you are lucky enough to find a beautiful girl in your life, then make her your wife, and then you can easily spend money on her, because it will already be a common cause, and you will never regret it. Of course, only if the relationship is maintained properly, but I think gambling is not appropriate in this topic of relationships at all.

[Bitcoin.com97]

What is your taught on the above statements made?

Firstly, I would not train a girl in school with the intention of marrying her. We would get married first (if she is mature enough for marriage) before I would consider spending money on your education.

Back to your question, I would not choose any option. I would rather save the money and invest it in something else than to waste it on gambling or a girl that might end up rejecting my marriage proposal.

This doesn't mean that there are no good women who would always love no matter what happens. If I find such a committed girl, it would be better to spend money on them than to spend it on gambling.

You are absolutely right , I feel there is no difference between training a woman in university and a gambler, the both is risky and has 50/50 chances , if your girlfriend want to go to university and her parents has no money to train her , first of all , I think you should marry her first, in-fact in pregnant before enrolling her , at least achieve something first in case she decides to quit, you too has achieve something, most woman are very heartless ,  they actually knows they can’t marry you, but they sit down and a write a scripts , from the beginning to the end , plan themselves and execute it rightly , no matter how long it may takes , a woman can entirely  live another life just to get what they want ,

So if men hasn’t learnt their lesson till now and become wise, them I would gladly say there is know different between a gambler and the one training his girlfriend in the university, because it better you use the money to play bet and when it lost you try again, than the feeling of being scammed, dupe and abandon without feeling remorse.

[Frankolala]

That’s exactly what it is. Isn’t it interesting that the OP and others that have commented above are from the same demographic where women have limited rights. People fall in and out of love all the time, just because you bought a woman gifts or paid her tuition, that doesn’t mean you own her.

I think you got the wrong understanding of the OP, if not you wouldn't say that. You should understand that it's not just a tuition fee but from the beginning of her school till she graduated and there must have been an agreement that they will get married after she graduates. I call that scam but what will you do to the girl kill her or what. There's nothing anyone can do because the person did it out of love or through manipulation. So, I don't see what equal rights have to do with this.

[retreat]

I still can't believe that there are people who are willing to spend so much money on a woman who doesn't guarantee that she will marry them in the future. It's like gambling with a much higher chance of losing. Even though you've paid for her education, her living expenses, and sacrificed your entire life in the hope that you can marry her in the future, it doesn't guarantee that she will be yours completely. And that's why I myself have never thought that way. If you go to school, you should focus on your studies, not on making sacrifices for others. Just focus on how to make more money, and when you are successful, then you can think about it.

[Queen uloma]

I can't advise anyone to train any girl in school all in the name that she's my girlfriend, the only thing A boyfriend owe his girlfriend is support, you can buy her textbooks, feed her (which is optional) but paying her school fees I'm not in support of that, although not all girls are like that, we still have the good ones that can stand on their words, but before training A girl make much she's your wife already to avoid frustration or depression in the future, training A girl in school and gambling is almost the same thing, you have the chance of losing everything. What most ladies are doing now are so disheartening.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Spending money on a girl before marriage is almost a waste of time, because women love men not because they spend a lot of money on them, but for the very personal qualities of these men, but if someone supports a relationship only by giving the girl money, then this is not an attitude, but some kind of escort.
And of course, I want to say that when you are lucky enough to find a beautiful girl in your life, then make her your wife, and then you can easily spend money on her, because it will already be a common cause, and you will never regret it. Of course, only if the relationship is maintained properly, but I think gambling is not appropriate in this topic of relationships at all.

Life can be unpredictable, the future outcome of certain things can not be already known when it has not played out yet, I have seen sweet couples who divorced, some have even had kids together but due to some little issues, they just separated. So, it doesn't matter whether you spend on your wife or your girlfriend, what's meant to happen will definitely happen without doing too much. That's why I was saying in my previous comment that if you have the money to sponsor your girlfriend in school, you can do it without expecting that she must marry you but if you want to do it with the condition that this girl must marry you after she is done with her school, then you failed.

[SatoPrincess]

That’s exactly what it is. Isn’t it interesting that the OP and others that have commented above are from the same demographic where women have limited rights. People fall in and out of love all the time, just because you bought a woman gifts or paid her tuition, that doesn’t mean you own her.

I think you got the wrong understanding of the OP, if not you wouldn't say that. You should understand that it's not just a tuition fee but from the beginning of her school till she graduated and there must have been an agreement that they will get married after she graduates. I call that scam but what will you do to the girl kill her or what. There's nothing anyone can do because the person did it out of love or through manipulation. So, I don't see what equal rights have to do with this.

I understand the OP very well, and I also understand the comments that have been made here. This discussion is a third world problem, at this point I don’t even think it’s fit for the gambling board. You do not own a person because you are their benefactor. What kind of love is it if it is contractional? In my experience with cases like this, the men aren’t always the victims they make themselves out to be. There  are usually twice or three times the age of the young girl, and they pick a poor family to be their “saviour” in return for daughter. That in my opinion is a premeditated act of manipulation.

[TopTort777]

Omg! What a topic. I dont even know what to start with.

When I first read topic name, I though that OP has two choices, either to spend money on gambling, or he has a daughter and wants to spend money on her education. They I got confused by "woman". Woman? School? Something does not make sense here.

Then I have opened first post and things got even more complicated Either spend money on gambling, or spend money on chick that you want to marry. But who trains woman? Lol, first of all that is impossible. Secondly, are you relationship coach who train woman?

Dude, if you want to have more money and parallel you want a wife (happy wife) and marriage, then nobody here would give you a proper answer. There are 4+ billions of men in the world and they cant solve that mystery situation, but you want us to help you with correct answer

[Odusko]

That’s exactly what it is. Isn’t it interesting that the OP and others that have commented above are from the same demographic where women have limited rights. People fall in and out of love all the time, just because you bought a woman gifts or paid her tuition, that doesn’t mean you own her.

I think you got the wrong understanding of the OP, if not you wouldn't say that. You should understand that it's not just a tuition fee but from the beginning of her school till she graduated and there must have been an agreement that they will get married after she graduates. I call that scam but what will you do to the girl kill her or what. There's nothing anyone can do because the person did it out of love or through manipulation. So, I don't see what equal rights have to do with this.

Women that goes into relationships with entitlement mentality and not find themselves are the reason for this kind of incident in society, and for me, I see this kind of thing as scam since the ladies who goes into such arrangements already have a contract with the man so if they want to go out of the contract they need to pay the man off, because is based on the Marriage arrangements that make the man spend such money to build that educational foundation for the lady before their Marriage.

[maydna]

I don't want training a girl with the intention of marrying her, money can change someone and anything can happens.

I prefer to marry her and teach her anything she needs so that we will have specific bond which is marriage and we will have one purpose to live together.

But I wonder what @OP choice if he is in that position.

[Pikiboy]

I found this post every interesting, now humans are classified based on each other's need and desire,
Some group of people or person will comment with their different opinions,
In my own Way,I will say gambling is a game of winning or losing, and when someone loses the money is forever gone and you cannot have it back either see what you have used your money for
Secondly gambling has an addict which is difficult to stay without or control,
,but if you used your money to trained a woman throughout higher institutions and even if the lady later turn you down, you can still be seeing as a seed to that particular lady,
To me is better I lost my hard earning money in training a woman in higher institutions, which some days she can be of help to my unborn children and the society although it's sad for a woman to turn a man down after all the man has spent in that particular woman.

[Royal Cap]

I would like to say here that liking a girl and training her is not like gambling. Marriage is an agreement between both parties, If someone makes a proposition, a girl can say no, it is normal. Many times people say such things when they are angry, and cannot accept rejection. So the main thing here is that respect and reality understanding is important in relationships, nothing can be achieved by force. And it's wrong to compare a girl with gambling. Both are different things, gambling is temporary and marriage is permanent.