What's the reason to be ashamed of living in an unfinished house when I can't afford a home? It is either I work to get a home for myself and my family or drag them to the dungeons where we will open to the wild. The cost of living is increasing every day, mostly in food and rent. Rent is a major problem in modern-day living, and that is the main reason I work my ass off to be able to afford a home. No one will come to your aid if you dont solve the problem yourself, not a family, not the government.
Yes, you are right. If we do not work hard ourselves and wait for others, then we will have to wait our whole life. If we do not have any skills, then none of us will come forward to help. Currently, government assistance reaches only known people. The real victims are still in need.
Our ancestors lived a very good life. Because they had their own houses and their own resources. Which we have lost while modernizing. Over time, building a house for ourselves has become a much more difficult task. So, accepting the situation and renting a house to earn a living is not a shame. But our goal should be to build a house of our own, even if it is by saving small amounts.