Are Responsible Gamblers Still Misunderstood?

[Finebone]

Going after gambling winnings don't guarantee you anything rather you become more exposed to greater risk and become subjected to lose more than what you have already lost.  And also, gamble shouldn't be seen as a possible way of escaping poverty or doing things we ordinaryly wouldn't have done because such mentality can keep you stocked for years. Let it be followed in line with what it's been meant for (for fun purpose), because doing otherwise or seeing it as an alternative means of getting rich can be very deadly unless you are already  prepared for the consequences that is attached to it.

I agree with everything you said here because this is the main problem of addictive gambler. They sees gambling as the best way of making money, and it's because of that, they goes all in while gambling, which in most cases leads to addiction or it puts them into a serious financial problem since they gamble with what they cannot afford to lose. So it's very important that gamblers should avoid chasing losses, and they should gamble only with what they can afford to lose, because by doing it that way, they will hardly get into trouble when gambling.

[WhoYouCantKill]

I could not agree more,,, consider it a pasttime, spend a few minutes a day or an hour a week or whatever, never see it as a way to make money and you are not just responsible you are happy.

OR stay in the pools on forum to enjoy sports and gambling, while keeping it responsible since you only pay 1 fee and play whole season

They are to play the game and enjoy every bit of it, but let it be done in a responsible way and not in a way that they will want to take it or treat it as a means of earning from it. Gambling in a responsible way keeps them game enjoyable without having to pass any stress of chasing after their losses and regrets or disappointment, as it also protects them from disasters that will have to destroy their lives and hurt them more.

[Powerjumboo]

Stop wasting your precious time in gambling if you want to live a peaceful life.......

How do you respond to people who say this or think this way about gambling?

I know most of us here are gamblers, but what if one day someone close to you says this, maybe your family or friends. And let’s say you are a gambler who has not faced any serious problem from gambling, and you believe you are a responsible gambler.

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

For me, I think it depends on the person. If they are just concerned about me, I would probably explain my side calmly. I would tell them that I understand why they think that way, because gambling has ruined many people’s lives. But at the same time, not everyone who gambles is destroying their life.

Some people gamble for fun, with limits, and without using money meant for important things. But if the person is already closed-minded and only wants to judge, then maybe there is no need to argue. Sometimes it is better to let your actions prove that you are still in control.

There is no need to explain gambling to everyone. Gambling in private is good, because most people do not like gambling and especially if you gamble, it is better not to gamble within the family and not to gamble in front of all family members, because when gambling is done within the family, our children and family members can develop an addiction to gambling. Gambling for entertainment is always good, because many people have no other way to spend their free time and get entertainment and that time can be suitable for gambling and gambling responsibly is always good for a gambler. Living a peaceful life requires many things, one of which is entertainment, because although it may feel very bad at times, you can enjoy pleasure through entertainment.

[Furious 7]

I agree with everything you said here because this is the main problem of addictive gambler. They sees gambling as the best way of making money, and it's because of that, they goes all in while gambling, which in most cases leads to addiction or it puts them into a serious financial problem since they gamble with what they cannot afford to lose. So it's very important that gamblers should avoid chasing losses, and they should gamble only with what they can afford to lose, because by doing it that way, they will hardly get into trouble when gambling.

The most common problem with addiction cases that continue to increase is none other than because many people think that gambling is one of the fast ways to make money, even though if you look at the reality in gambling the victory is uncertain even though it will say make money quickly because it can happen unexpectedly or happen suddenly but it depends on luck too so the amount is not certain.

The thing that must be understood in gambling is that we must experience defeat so it is impossible to avoid losses but by avoiding large losses it can be done as long as we do it wisely so the gambling that we do really has limits, especially from the budget used for gambling.  In general why many people are addicted is because they bet with unstable emotions that make them able to continue making deposits even though they have experienced successive defeats.

[Ever-young]

They are to play the game and enjoy every bit of it, but let it be done in a responsible way and not in a way that they will want to take it or treat it as a means of earning from it. Gambling in a responsible way keeps them game enjoyable without having to pass any stress of chasing after their losses and regrets or disappointment, as it also protects them from disasters that will have to destroy their lives and hurt them more.

The truth is that gambling has rules, and just like every other establishments, following those rules keeps you safe, while going against them has penalties. A lot of gamblers due to their greed often overlook these rules and play by their own rules and that’s why they mostly get into trouble, and I believe this is reason why so many people often generalize it to even gamblers who don’t play by their own rules but play responsibly. And for what it’s worth, this misconception and misunderstanding might likely continue, except of course somehow every gambler starts to play responsibly.

[Abdulzuruku01]

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

For me i think explain is just wasting time and energy explaining or educating someone who has been in a gambling for a while they will never have believe on whatever you tell them, because they choose to works their mindset so explain to them they will think that your trying to convince them; so the best thing is to let them be

Some people gamble for fun, with limits, and without using money meant for important things. But if the person is already closed-minded and only wants to judge, then maybe there is no need to argue. Sometimes it is better to let your actions prove that you are still in control.

All the gambles are still misunderstood because they will never agree with what other people’s tell them about the gambling they prefer to works with their own decision, thinking that their in a right control. And those who always said that they only gamble just for fun, their only try to be mocking people because they really don’t gamble for fun all gamblers of nowadays they gamble all because of profits.

[Ashawowo(OS)]

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

For me, I think it depends on the person. If they are just concerned about me, I would probably explain my side calmly. I would tell them that I understand why they think that way, because gambling has ruined many people’s lives. But at the same time, not everyone who gambles is destroying their life.

No matter how much you try to explain, some people's mind are made up already about gambling and I don't blame them because all they see around their neighborhood are people who have been ruined by gambling and seeing them everyday reinstates that belief, so you explaining to them that gambling isn't as bad as they think it is as insignificant as trying to power a factory with a finger battery because they already have a heavy dark conviction about gambling.

Been convincing my mum for many years now that gambling is not a very bad thing, despite her seeing that I'm not addicted and I'm still very much productive, yet she worries for me anytime she sees me gambling or talking about my winning simply because gambling ruined a lot of young lads in my neighborhood.

[Cgrexp]

Going after gambling winnings don't guarantee you anything rather you become more exposed to greater risk and become subjected to lose more than what you have already lost.  And also, gamble shouldn't be seen as a possible way of escaping poverty or doing things we ordinaryly wouldn't have done because such mentality can keep you stocked for years. Let it be followed in line with what it's been meant for (for fun purpose), because doing otherwise or seeing it as an alternative means of getting rich can be very deadly unless you are already  prepared for the consequences that is attached to it.

I agree with everything you said here because this is the main problem of addictive gambler. They sees gambling as the best way of making money, and it's because of that, they goes all in while gambling, which in most cases leads to addiction or it puts them into a serious financial problem since they gamble with what they cannot afford to lose. So it's very important that gamblers should avoid chasing losses, and they should gamble only with what they can afford to lose, because by doing it that way, they will hardly get into trouble when gambling.

The most responsible for gambling addiction or loss is the attitude of trying to recover the lost money. When a person loses repeatedly and suffers financial losses, he cannot make rational decisions. As a result, he makes emotional decisions. Many people gamble with excess money at first . but later excitement and frustration can change their behavior. Therefore, being responsible in gambling means not only setting a budget .  also needed controlling your behavior. If expectations are greater than reality  it is difficult to accept losses .  which ultimately leads to frustration and financial problems.

[Dogedegen]

I know most of us here are gamblers, but what if one day someone close to you says this, maybe your family or friends. And let’s say you are a gambler who has not faced any serious problem from gambling, and you believe you are a responsible gambler.

The way that you wrote this mentioning serious problems is a bit suspicious if I read it with a conspiracy hat.  If you have never had any problem from gambling, small or serious then I expect that you write it differently stating that you have never had any issues at all. If you have had some issues but you do not consider them serious, that is already a big warning sign. If gambling has even caused small issues in your life, then something is wrong no matter what you believe about having it under control. If something is done for entertainment purposes only and in a normal way, then it causes no problems for the person whatever the thing is.

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

The majority are addicted or irresponsible, so they have a right to think this way. People usually have bad ideas about something because a majority of people who do those things regularly tend to be people with issues, that does not mean that everyone who does it has issues but it also means that their view is justified.

For me, I think it depends on the person. If they are just concerned about me, I would probably explain my side calmly. I would tell them that I understand why they think that way, because gambling has ruined many people’s lives. But at the same time, not everyone who gambles is destroying their life.

Some people gamble for fun, with limits, and without using money meant for important things. But if the person is already closed-minded and only wants to judge, then maybe there is no need to argue. Sometimes it is better to let your actions prove that you are still in control.

Depends on who the person is to you and how your relationship is. If it is people from your wider circle, don't bother yourself you would just waste time. Most people are stuck in their opinions, wrong or right, like stone so you would only waste your time. With most people who are like that it does not matter what is the truth, their opinion is the truth and arguing is just a foolish waste of time. If it is someone close and dear to you, then you should try to deal with it because it will be worth it if you succeed. Still remember that even if they are close and dear that this does not mean that you will be able to change your mind, even if you prove that you are a responsible gambler they may not want to accept that.

[henmark]

As far as you are gambling in a healthy way and it’s not affecting your work, relationships or finances, I’d say ignore them and keep your activities as private as possible because you can’t convince someone whose mind is already made up. In my country, gamblers suffer from a negative stereotype and I doubt that is ever going to change, the best you can do to avoid public judgment to is to use online casinos.  

To be honest, not affecting those 3 items above was so hard but even if what is accused on us were true, the more we don't hate it and just be proud in fact. That gives us a better feeling, also knowing that we annoyed those who hate us when they think we are not affected with what they said to us. In this world we are living, I'm sure almost everyone is dazzled by money.

So we can also use this as a prop in order to convince those people that gambling is so good because not only that it entertains us, it allows us to earn quick and big money too. Online casino no doubt gives one more privacy but if we aren't careful, or we are now addicted on it, then we can still be exposed from the people around us.

[ejikeme24]

This isn't new. People who don't gamble often assume gamblers are just losing money all the time. There's no point worrying too much about those people, because no amount of explanation will convince them. As long as you are doing what's right for yourself, you don't need to justify it to anyone. Gambling is a personal decision so nobody has any right to decide for someone else whether they're doing it right or wrong. It doesn't concern anyone else.

Sure, I could imagine the feeling when you're not into gambling and considering how alot of people have been complaining about how gambling has made most people to become poor some sold all their belongs just to gamble. Having know this you would advice anyone who is about going into gambling to stay very clear from it because they are on this view that gambling is a bad thing to do but they seem to be getting the whole thing wrongly, if you know the core concept of gambling you would never get yourself into gambling trouble.

[l99l]

He's right in a way, but not for everyone, of course.
Gambling develops into an addiction very quickly for many people, but many others gamble just to have some fun and for a bit there's nothing to say to those people, they're just enjoying it and don't really lose much, in my opinion. But people who get completely hooked can lose everything.

[Stable090]

The most responsible for gambling addiction or loss is the attitude of trying to recover the lost money.

Some of them are trying to recover their losses, and some of them are just desperate to make money from gambling, some people believe if they don’t stop gambling they going to hit a jackpot at some point, so they always have to confidence that their lucky day is going to come, and even when they are suppose to stop gambling, they not going to stop.

If you are a gambler, and you are losing frequently, instead of trying to recover your loss, just stop gambling at that moment, because if you don’t stop their is high chances that you going to end up losing more money. You might be trying to recover your loss, and you still going to be losing more.

[Charcol]

Nowadays, most people have a deep-rooted belief that gambling destroys people's lives. Although this is partly true. Because we have seen many times that people who have become so addicted to gambling that they have finally sold their wealth to gamble. They have even forgotten their family responsibilities and become addicted to gambling. But it is almost impossible to convince them that when gambling is played for entertainment purposes only, under their own control, within a specific budget, a specific time, and clear limits, then there will be no problem with the effects of gambling. And when someone can play under their own control, it may be an exaggeration to say that they are directly "ruining their lives".

[I_Anime]

Stop wasting your precious time in gambling if you want to live a peaceful life.......

How do you respond to people who say this or think this way about gambling?

I know most of us here are gamblers, but what if one day someone close to you says this, maybe your family or friends. And let’s say you are a gambler who has not faced any serious problem from gambling, and you believe you are a responsible gambler.

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

For me, I think it depends on the person. If they are just concerned about me, I would probably explain my side calmly. I would tell them that I understand why they think that way, because gambling has ruined many people’s lives. But at the same time, not everyone who gambles is destroying their life.

Some people gamble for fun, with limits, and without using money meant for important things. But if the person is already closed-minded and only wants to judge, then maybe there is no need to argue. Sometimes it is better to let your actions prove that you are still in control.

Firstly it depends on the situation, if you are someone that literally gamble responsibily . Like you don't over gamble like going beyond budget  or gambling too frequency without knowing when to stop and stuff . So for instance your love ones observe this habit there won't be any need for them to tell you to stop , but as a gambler you possess such habits then there's issues, that's when one will be advised to stop for while to avoid further damage, or going deep into gambling to the point of been addicted to gambling , then you won't have to feel bad because all they care about is your well being .

[Rubuchi]

Everyone's view on gambling certainly differs. Some are more tolerant, as long as we don't involve them. There are also those who are already against gambling and don't want to be associated with gamblers. 
For me, I don't need to bother explaining anything to them. I will do what I want to do. Although it is very possible that we as gamblers will lose control in the future, we know our limits and the people around us, and those we trust the most may serve as an alarm for us to stop everything.

I believe there are responsible gamblers in the industry but how I wish the irresponsible ones can listen to the advices provided or offered by these respected gamblers. It is not an easy task for you to hold your responsibleness when you are gambling because it is a game that strongly worked with your emotions and would like to lead your thoughts to something negative especially when it happens to be something you think is profitable to you. That’s the moment when greed sets in until you gradually becomes addicted. Once you are addicted to gambling, the rest assured that you will forever lose more than you gain because you will end up putting all the money you made from the gain inside the gamble again.

[HONDACD125]

The truth is that gambling has rules, and just like every other establishments, following those rules keeps you safe, while going against them has penalties. A lot of gamblers due to their greed often overlook these rules and play by their own rules and that’s why they mostly get into trouble, and I believe this is reason why so many people often generalize it to even gamblers who don’t play by their own rules but play responsibly. And for what it’s worth, this misconception and misunderstanding might likely continue, except of course somehow every gambler starts to play responsibly.

It's literally impossible for every gambler to gamble responsibly because it's a nature-based thing. Someone who isn't disciplined or responsible by nature cannot gamble responsibly or do anything responsibly. It's true that time and bad experiences teach you a lot, but it doesn't always make an irresponsible person responsible magically, it just doesn't happen with all. This is why no matter what, there will always be irresponsible gamblers in the gambling space, and this is the reason why casinos make so much money because if all gamblers were to become responsible, gambling businesses wouldn't be as profitable as they generally are.

So you are totally right for saying that there will always be people who will go against the rules of gambling and then be punished for it. Some people just can't do it, their greed clouds their minds and then they start thinking that they are now going to conquer gambling and ride it like a horse they have raised themselves, but it is not possible, and they fall on their face every single time they try to achieve the unachievable.

[GeorgeJohn]

He's right in a way, but not for everyone, of course.
Gambling develops into an addiction very quickly for many people, but many others gamble just to have some fun and for a bit there's nothing to say to those people, they're just enjoying it and don't really lose much, in my opinion. But people who get completely hooked can lose everything.

Do you know why gambling develops into addiction quickly....It's because of lack of budgets and strategies, people who have budgets for gambling doesn't develops quickly to be addicted in gambling...but someone who doesn't have a gambling budget will easily be addicted because it will have much interest recovering he or her losses....

Someone who has money doesn't go into gambling to become addicted, but someone that doesn't have money can become addicted in gambling quickly...

[alegotardo]

How do you respond to people who say this or think this way about gambling?

I know most of us here are gamblers, but what if one day someone close to you says this, maybe your family or friends. And let’s say you are a gambler who has not faced any serious problem from gambling, and you believe you are a responsible gambler.

Would you try to educate them and explain that not all gamblers are addicted or irresponsible? Or would you just ignore it because they already have a fixed mindset about gambling?

Two pieces of advice so you do not have to worry about what others say about it:

First: Do not tell to others that you gamble. Do you tell your friends and family that you have gambling habits? Why!? Does it help you in any way? Does it make you win more or lose less money?
I know that sometimes it's nice to share big wins or even losses with some friends, but if you really need to do that, choose carefully some of your friends who also gamble or who would not judge you... you do not need to tell everyone.

Second: Never give people reasons to speak badly of your gambling habit if they find out. Do not let gambling take up your time with family and friends, do not let gambling put you in a bad financial situation. If you have control over gambling, it is harder for others to find out you gamble.

[Vaskiy]

Majority of the people have common opinion on gambling. They believe it is something odd out and ruins the lives of people. This is true, because majority of the people who claim their interest in gambling as a form of entertainment end up addicted or go depressed losing big money. This is happening around and more people have realised in their experience. At some point they self realise the reality, but they weren't able to get out of the addiction immediately. In my understanding responsible gamblers are there and they're very minimal in number that's the reason why gamblers are taken into common opinion.