Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[yahoo62278]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

If you're in a relationship then why is the money separate? My wife and I share a bank account, if she were to win big money somewhere I'd be happy she won and share in the money. I see no reason to be jealous if a couple won money no matter who actually won it unless it's just some selfish prick or greedy girl who would take the money n leave.

[Julien_Olynpic]

Most likely, the relationship between these two people is in a deep crisis. Or perhaps they never had a trusting relationship to begin with. Violence is normal. And the military shouldn't have been part of the relationship. Furthermore, ideal relationships adhere to the principles of mutual presence and healthy diversity. People in a family shouldn't compete with each other or cling to victory like rivals. Husband and wife are not rivals, but friends and helpers to each other. Unfortunately, few people understand this. Risky games limit competition in the family.

[tread93]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Lol thats funny. Dude needs to take a chill pill. Realize that your wife is your good luck charm buddy. I went gambling for the first time ever with my spouse and she won more than I did too. I wanted her to play at the slots she was winning and I was losing lmao. It was such a fun time together. We ended up losing 40 bucks but we were entertained for 1.5 hours

[LUCKMCFLY]

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[Cityhunter34]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

It seems they are not truly in love with each other because they didn't show any sign of love. However, I think it's high time they realized what is good for them, because this is how it normally starts, and before you know it, they will no longer have control over it.

Honestly, this is the first of seeing partners with an evil mindset. Instead of gambling discreetly as a married couple, they decided to make gambling look irresponsible.

[bakasabo]

People who are jealous that their partners win more also are jealous if their partners earn more. That is not good for relationships. Relationships should not be build on money, nor money should be the reason to break them. Otherwise these are not relationship but people simply spend more money with other people. People instead should be happy if partner gets a bigger win, because these are joint money. This should mean that you have lost less or not lost at all, if your partner wins.

[Taskford]

People who are jealous that their partners win more also are jealous if their partners earn more. That is not good for relationships. Relationships should not be build on money, nor money should be the reason to break them. Otherwise these are not relationship but people simply spend more money with other people. People instead should be happy if partner gets a bigger win, because these are joint money. This should mean that you have lost less or not lost at all, if your partner wins.

Imagine how people reach unto that level right? Instead of clapping for the achievements gotten by their partner. Here they are having that feeling.

For me those people feels that is not a good partner, because they are the cancer in their circle which could possibly drag them down on the lowest point.

If that happen on me I will be happy and get inspired to thrive more then possibly try earn more bigger, since this give us good advantage and we will be the best duo together in gambling.

[bubilas]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I want to tell a story about a girl who was an excellent card player. And whenever we played any card game, including poker, she beat everyone. I don't know why she was so skilled—maybe because she was very smart or because her father played with her as a child—but the fact remains: she was practically impossible to beat. And no one who played with her ever felt the urge to beat her for her skill. Everyone loved her, and so I don't understand how anyone could raise a hand against a woman, even if she beats men.

[rachael9385]

Most likely, the relationship between these two people is in a deep crisis. Or perhaps they never had a trusting relationship to begin with. Violence is normal. And the military shouldn't have been part of the relationship. Furthermore, ideal relationships adhere to the principles of mutual presence and healthy diversity. People in a family shouldn't compete with each other or cling to victory like rivals. Husband and wife are not rivals, but friends and helpers to each other. Unfortunately, few people understand this. Risky games limit competition in the family.

What is happening between them isn't just about gambling winnings at this point, they are envious of one another and that's not a healthy relationship. Whichever of them achieves something means that they both achieved it because they are a couple but this is not their mentality, if they don't think that way I wonder they they are together.

[Gozie51]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Fighting in a relationship or marriage relationship is an evidence of toxic home. This is not about the gambling itself, if the woman can not share her winning story and success to the husband but to do it in a deriding manner then it shows the kind of cat and mouse living that they have going on. A home that is not at peace is going to lead to provocation at any slighest mistake so that is what is the problem there.

So if my partner wins more and comes to show it to me in love, I don't have any reason to be jealous of her rather I will ask for her strategy and how she manages to win. If she has websites that she consults, I will also ask her to share with me. However, if she is mocking me then I will walk away from the temptation because hitting a woman doesn't man a man a super man or powerful..

I dare say that even if they stopped gambling, the relationship would remain just as toxic.

This is exactly the situation of that spouse relationship. It is toxic and that is why the woman is mocking the man for winning more than him. If it is a friendly relationship, such winning ideas will be shared to the husband and they will join resources and effort to win more.

[Jasmyne]

This story sounds so funny if it’s true, but sure doesn’t require violence if one partner wins over the other, it can just be use to make joke.
Secondly it not even healthy for husband and wife to be gamblers, because they might likely invest so much of their time and money into gambling which isn’t encouraged and on the long run, gambling becomes an addiction.

[jaberwock]

Are you kidding me? A real married man would know that if your wife makes a killing out of gambling, you are going to be the happiest person in the world! Hell, I only wish she would earn enough to pay for herself and I would be able to buy 10 houses in 10 years lol. The fact that she is not, and she is losing, is much worse, so believe me, if you are gambling together as a couple, and she earns a lot, and like gets super lucky and wins jackpot etc, that would mean your life is saved, I would be literally not able to sleep from how much happy I am .

[lombok]

What is happening between them isn't just about gambling winnings at this point, they are envious of one another and that's not a healthy relationship. Whichever of them achieves something means that they both achieved it because they are a couple but this is not their mentality, if they don't think that way I wonder they they are together.

The unending jealousy of the lovers means that there is an underlying failure in communication and emotional attachment. To attain long term mutually gratifying relationship, personal egos are to be neglected to allow the relationship to thrive in harmony. When material gain comes before sincerity, it becomes a tiresome and tormenting competition on the part of the two partners.

[suzanne5223]

First, there's nothing bad if both partners are into the same thing, but what's important is the understanding and togetherness of the 2 parties, which is the area I believe your neighbour in the subject is his wife failed because when a wife wins, her husband also wins, and so does the husband when he wins.
Second, I don't know what's going on with the woman because no person on this earth will just lose in gambling, and someone who just won from the same game will be bragging in the present, and there won't be a form of misconception between the individuals.

[Versatile_choice]

People who are jealous that their partners win more also are jealous if their partners earn more. That is not good for relationships. Relationships should not be build on money, nor money should be the reason to break them. Otherwise these are not relationship but people simply spend more money with other people. People instead should be happy if partner gets a bigger win, because these are joint money. This should mean that you have lost less or not lost at all, if your partner wins.

If we are ask to list the things that break relationship, I think money should be the first thing. if money doesn't come first then it's likely to come second, This money we are talking about here is the reason why some family is falling apart, if money can separate two brothers how much more someone you're not related with just an ordinary friend?

But I think too much love of money is the reason why some people can't control themselves, some people value money over thier fellow human that is why they are envious of thier partner.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

It is obvious these two couples both met themselves in a gambling environment like a casino or a gambling event. Because to me, it is a complete red flag for my wife and I to be actively engaged in gambling to the point that we keep bragging about it. But though that doesn't mean she can't gamble, but it must not be always. So that at least if one person seems to be going astray while gambling, there should be someone to approach me to correct me.

[OgNasty]

If you get jealous of people in your life instead of feeling proud of and happy for them then you really need to take a long look at your own life and figure out how it is that you are disappointing yourself. Life isn’t a zero sum game. There is plenty of happiness to go around for us all. There is no need to try and take it from others.

[DrBeer]

To be honest, I don’t think the main problem here  is when the woman is winning more than her husband. The problem here is jealousy, pride and lack of self control. When your partner wins in anything, whether in business, gambling, or work, as a wife, the normal thing is for you to celebrate it, and not to see it as competition. But at same time. Once a person keeps bragging, it can provoke the next person, especially if the Person has been frustrated about losses. But no matter how a person brags it does not justify violence. Hitting your partner because of gambling result is totally wrong.
For me, if my partner win more than me, I see know reason to be jealous, because I know that he’s win is still a win for the family. Instead of me being angry, I will rather ask him to teach me what he does differently and also pray that I experience that kind of luck.

Judging by the description, things in this "family" aren't exactly right or well-organized. Any family income is, in theory, the family’s income. But  even here we can see that’s not the case-it’s her winnings, and he’s jealous of her... It feels like two completely different, unrelated people are just living in the same space. In short -for a "family" like this, the situation is normal and something tells me this isn’t their only oddity or problem 

[Furious 7]

I don't want to make myself a judge but when we are jealous of what other people get including our own partners I think it shows that we are not ready for gambling because if we are ready for gambling then we will never feel anything including jealousy of what other people get because all have different levels of luck.

Gamblers who are jealous of what other gamblers get is just like us who are obsessed with people's property and as much as possible we will try to get at all costs what others have even if it is our own partner and that is not a healthy way but ambition which if not controlled will create more complex problems not only about gambling but about relationships and trust.
So as much as possible we should stay focused on the initial goal in gambling.  If we only focus on the achievements of other gamblers then we must feel there is something problematic in us and this is a start to make yourself look bad.

[Dave1]

Most likely, the relationship between these two people is in a deep crisis. Or perhaps they never had a trusting relationship to begin with. Violence is normal. And the military shouldn't have been part of the relationship. Furthermore, ideal relationships adhere to the principles of mutual presence and healthy diversity. People in a family shouldn't compete with each other or cling to victory like rivals. Husband and wife are not rivals, but friends and helpers to each other. Unfortunately, few people understand this. Risky games limit competition in the family.

It's already is, as that attitude is not the norm for those of us here who have healthy relationship with someone. Trust is very important in a relationship, if you are questioning your partner and arguing specially about money then that is no longer a sign that the relationship is still there.

Looks like they are already in their separate ways and either is finding ways and reason to validated it like this kind of arguing about the money and the supposedly competitiveness like they are rivals.