Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[Dreadboost]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

[Orpichukwu]

People who claim to be spouses should be able to study and understand their levels of tolerance; for the wife to provoke him to that level should have been avoided if her motive was that the husband doesn't like it and stops praising herself when she knows the husband just lost a bet.

I don't support violence, and this might not be a case of jealousy for the winning but the anger of always being reminded that she can do better than him when he's still in pain from his loss. The guy also lacks self-control here, which is why he hits the wife.

[mcdouglasx]

These two have a damaged relationship. It doesn't matter if they both gamble; what matters is what they do with it, and also their way of gambling. If it were healthy, they should have been able to separate gambling from their relationship, but from what you've mentioned, it isn't. So in this case, it's wrong, since they're mixing gambling, anger management issues, and a relationship where they have little respect for each other.

I dare say that even if they stopped gambling, the relationship would remain just as toxic.

[Odusko]

What may have happened is that the man is suffering from addiction not just n gambling but he may b addicted to other substance that have affected his tolerance tendency and capacity, so for that we shouldn't be surprised that he got agitated by his wife winning, he may be telling her to quit gambling but she ve confidence in her winnings that kept her gambling More and now she is putting everything to his face when he is already emotionally down this can result such cases more often.

[Sandra_hakeem]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

The damages, the unsorted misunderstandings, the pain of knowing he can't quit but can't win either, the bruises on his ego, the foundation of that relationship on gambling, the lavish spendings of the winning to his face --- the most unconventional way to live. How did these two become couples? Got it, birds of the same feathers they say, flock together.

I don't support marital abuse, but that serves them right. I want to add that this isn't going to end anytime soon-- infact, they're in for a long ride to so many fights, injuries and who knows? Possibly death threats/casualties. It'd be better if they can put their habits in control and turn away from it if they must stay together peacefully.

[Amphenomenon]

Sincerely speaking I don't know what she said to her husband but he should have the self control not to hit his wife and then it escalating to the point that the both were fighting and a neighbor or the entire neighborhood becoming aware is shameful and disappointing especially from the man.

I have heard about marriage couples gambling and one thing I must say that they should ensure and healthy habits and aside that the bragging should be treated with proper sportsmanship. I get there will be point of days where one will have to speak up to the other with a fault about a bad game but still this should be done with respect and build better bond rather than creating a rift.

[Rockstarguy]

The woman is just lucky and it is not as if she is a better gambler than the man. It is so unfortunate that the man do not understand gambling and at this point he is allowing is emotions to control him which is very dangerous. If one brags about their gambling i dont seebwhy anyone should take it serious because it is normal for humans to brag about their wins especially when it is consistent, it gives one joy and more energy which makes you feel as if it is by your power. The man needs to understand gambling better because the wife's win should not have been a problem to him. A time will also comes when he will be a lucky winner and this is just how gambling is.

[mirakal]

I can't relate to this since my partner partially hates gambling, she even advised me to slowly minimized gambling. However, with this kind of scenario, I understand where this coming from. A man will always be a man, and whether we deny or it, sometimes jealousy is inevitable especially if your partner is having more luck than you do.

But I guess the anger and jealousy were not triggered from gambling alone, it must be that the couple have already misunderstandings about other things, and its only that after losses in gambling, his emotions explode and end up hurting his partner. That is why I don't think both should enter gambling, especially the wife. We don't know what gambling problems will occur in the future, as that could ruin the relationship of the couple.

[rbynxx]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Don't poke the bear as they said. Well, whatever the reason the man was at fault here for hitting the woman because why would you hit a woman, that's the worst thing you could possibly do. Well, if she wins and it will be used for good especially to your home then be thankful because you don't have to do that. What I can see with this kind of relationship that both of them gambling, they need to stop this before something more serious happens.

[Sanitough]

Bragging is never applicable in gambling, most especially if you are doing it in front of a losing gambler. Its not all the time that emotions are in full control, so one should be more sensitive and cautious not to practice it, regardless if the two are couple or not.

However, in my honest opinion, the husband is more likely deeply rooted into gambling, and because of being addicted, he becomes more emotional to every details happening regarding gambling. To the fact that he forget already that he is interacting with his wife and when anger develops, he ends up easily hitting her and fight with her.

And yes, I don't support couples both into gambling as well. Its not healthy for me, especially seeing my wife winning more than me, lol.

[bhadz]

I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Nope, I won't do that but it's bothering when she's going to raise that voice in my very ear just to boast that she's won. It's not necessary to tell that directly to my ears, I don't like that either but I am happy that she's won. I guess with simple gestures of how we're happy to brag our victories can get be wronged by the people we tell them about. Going with a loud voice directly to that drum ear is annoying to be honest. While I am not blaming the woman here, we as men have to put that self control. On how we apply that in our bets, we should apply it to our partners as well.

[Finestream]

I think this jealousy not just happened once, but its likely that this wife loves to brag and chase his husband, and because men are egoistic in nature, his wife must have hurt his ego and beat her after. Although I don't support beating your spouse, but this is common to those who are both involved in gambling, particularly if both are addicts in gambling.

[JiiBs]

Don't poke the bear as they said. Well, whatever the reason the man was at fault here for hitting the woman because why would you hit a woman, that's the worst thing you could possibly do. Well, if she wins and it will be used for good especially to your home then be thankful because you don't have to do that. What I can see with this kind of relationship that both of them gambling, they need to stop this before something more serious happens.

I find it rather admirable to find others, especially when they are friends of mine, winning when I lose. I don’t usually have any hard feelings about it and at the very least, I often tell them that, the bookies have accumulated my money and handed it over to them. At least, it doesn’t turn out to be a one way traffic for both of us and it’s often being a way to have peace of mind and be more relaxed to make better predictions and in turn, get lucky with some wins of my own too.

[BitMaxz]

It is supposed to be about love, not hatred. If you are jealous because she won big, you have a serious gambling mindset rather than loving her.
I believe the guy or both of them need to go to rehab because they appear to be addicted.

Why not love each other? Your money is her money, and I will never be jealous simply because she won. Unless she flirts with some guys, which she is not..

[AVE5]

I'll say the husband isn't man enough because I don't see how someone will brag about his or her wins in gambling and then it'll lead to a fight. For goodness sake it's even about his wife that's involved in this circumstance which the law of hitting a woman or his life even have to justify his action unlawful.
It's a shame of him showing his nonchalant kind of person with such an enemy of progress portray. I even doubt how such a man can gamble for fun as we always think gambling should be.

[seoincorporation]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

When i gamble with my girlfriend, we used to share the bankroll that way or both win or both lose, and when i'm out of chips/balance, she shares the stack with me. We had some nice runs with this methos on live roulette and it's fun, the last time we hit x3 on the starting balances and we walked away with some nice profit.

Feeling jealous about someone winning is totally wrong, i would say we should get happy for them even if we are in a bad streak.

[maydna]

We don't have to jealous with our partner wins because she/he could be lucky and wins more money than us. That is normal if our partner wins or us so we don't have to feels anything. They just need to accept it and let it like that because who knows tomorrow they could wins and if our partner win from gambling, we should be happy because that money if for us.

[Nrcewker]

Interesting incidents have been taking place lately, I see. But practically speaking, if she is my partner, then the money we are gambling with should be our money. We are a couple, so everything we earn is for the betterment of both of us and our family. Therefore, there is no reason to be jealous in the first place.

As for hitting one's wife, that is morally wrong. They definitely seem to have differences between them. Perhaps it is related to gambling or some other issue, but domestic violence is not something I support.

[Pi-network314159]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

this is a funny story though, but i dont think its necessary for a man to get upset because his wife makes mockery of him after she win more than him. if i and my wife gamble and she win more than me i cant pick a fight with her or get upset with her because it was meant to be fun. this can only happen to a childish couple and not matured couple who understood each other.

[goldkingcoiner]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

What kind of a man hits a woman? That is pathetic. He is no real man.

So what if your partner wins more? If you are truly partners then that should not matter as the money is for both of you. And even if the relationship is not so serious (yet) then it still should not anger the partner, unless the partner knowingly irritates the other one for their own sadistic pleasure. But even then there should be no violence, neither physical or psychological.