The economic dimension of marriage

[BitBakerr1]

That's why the wise saying goes, "Get married while you're young; the older you get, the wiser you'll be, and you'll have more reasons to postpone it." But, marriage is simply a life choice. Even in times of adversity, marriage isn't recommended.
In my opinion, the demand for marriage isn't wealth or financial stability, but commitment.

Love isn't enough quality to sustain a marriage, people now marry for benefits, the men do want children that will carry on his name or legacy, while majority of women see marriage as a means of survival, that is why some women don't leave even when they are abused in their marriage, without the man they can't do the basics of life.

Not all marriages are bound to have a happy ending, with or without good finance, a marriage can still break.

You are correct, love isn’t enough to keep and sustain a marriage, when you think love is enough you will be shocked what will happen when you people stay together for some years, there are more that should be considered before getting married to someone, as for someone like me I can’t marry someone who is going to be a liability to me, if you can’t help me financially I won’t think about getting married to you because I will be the one to suffer in that marriage.
Some women see marriage as a place for survival not all women, we still have hard working women that are doing very well for themselves.
Any marriage can end at any time and I know that already so if my marriage should end in the future I won’t feel bad that much because I have already accepted it for long.

[bitLeap]

One of my relatives was not in a good financial situation when they got married. It was a lot of trouble in the beginning, but both of them understood each other and gradually sorted everything out, and now they are living a pretty good life. I have also seen people who had no shortage of money, but still their relationship did not last. I think money is definitely important, but if money is made the mainstay of a relationship, that relationship will collapse first in any financial disaster. More than strength, honesty towards each other and the mentality of surviving together in any difficult situation are necessary for a healthy relationship.

Exactly, with or without money relationship that are not met to be for each other won’t last, money issues just there for maintenance the main thing is love and understanding each other and what I really like in your example is not the lack of money at the start, but the presence of understanding, patience, and love and thats is just the simple truth this is what keeps relationships through difficult times and helps them grow stronger over time. Tho money is very important even when you are single money is essential talk more of you being in a relationship when you now care for yourself, and the family you are about to bring up and thats why so many relationship fall, financial pressure is one of the biggest breakups or relationships so while there is love, honesty, and understanding money need to be added.

One thing we must remember is that no one in this world is an expert in marriage. Just try to find one, and it'll be difficult because marriage involves different dynamics, problems, trials, and challenges. Wealth also doesn't guarantee a lasting marriage. If wealth made marriages last, why do so many wealthy people cheat and even end their relationships? I haven't found a formula that can guarantee a relationship.

Interestingly, marriage isn't about economic status. It's about good communication, mutual understanding, mutual respect, honesty, and building a commitment to one another.
I admit that money can help alleviate some of the pressures of family life, but it can't buy loyalty, respect, or maturity in building a family relationship.

[BitDiscussion]

One of my relatives was not in a good financial situation when they got married. It was a lot of trouble in the beginning, but both of them understood each other and gradually sorted everything out, and now they are living a pretty good life. I have also seen people who had no shortage of money, but still their relationship did not last. I think money is definitely important, but if money is made the mainstay of a relationship, that relationship will collapse first in any financial disaster.

I'd say a balance of everything is important. Money alone cannot be enough for a marriage to sustain and be peaceful. If two people don't love each other, don't respect each other, don't have any feelings for each other, then it's a disaster in the making. These are the types of marriage that turn into those news headlines where one partner kills the other for money and runs away with his/her boyfriend.

More than strength, honesty towards each other and the mentality of surviving together in any difficult situation are necessary for a healthy relationship.

For me, it's the mutual respect that matters the most in any marriage or any relationship. Love is just another name for respect if you ask me, because when you love someone, you basically respect their feelings, their choices, and understand their struggles.

[Tipstar]

I hear stories of people marrying solely because of love. People get married without considering the financial strength or capability of their partners. But these days, people are beginning to consider the financial status of their partners before marrying them. The global financial crisis has caused inflation, and the price of goods and services is getting higher every day. People are seeking means to overcome financial hardship. Except for those who are very rich, but others are seeking support from partners.

Currently, people want to get spouses who can contribute to the family financially. I am not saying it is wrong to marry solely because of love, but people are also considering the financial capacity of a person before they fall in love. Truthfully, I don't know what I would have done without my wife. Her financial and moral support has been what has kept our family afloat. I loved her, but her financial discipline, handwork and creativity made me love her more.

As I said before, I am not saying loving unconditionally is wrong or no longer exists. But I am saying the people are also considering the economic dimension of marriage before commitment.

Should the economic dimension be considered before choosing a partner?

I was one who considered economic dimension while choosing a partner. I started dating in mid 20s which was already time to think about marriage. I chose a person who would be in same career as myself and who has more potential than myself.
She was unemployed at that time and I was already in a good job but I knew her potential and invested on her. Dated for 5 years, married for 5 years now and now she earns more than I do.

[Fredomago]

We are not in the era where a man of a woman have to carry all responsibility alone. Recent statistics have shown that men die early due to hard work, thinking and responsibilities. We now have sensitization programs and mens awareness day to help man child. The pressure is too much and that is why modern marriage is built on partnership.

Indeed, modern marriage is now tied with responsibilities between two individuals, they are not just in-love but also they both need to work with their upcoming responsibilities especially if they are also planning to build a home for their possible upcoming children, their financial capabilities needs to be work with good mutual understanding they can work it together as long as they build it from loving each other and trusting each other's hands.

[Obulis]

The economic dimension of marriage has been a serious matter even before now but so far world economy has heightened the consideration of this serious matter. Economic dimension of marriage is usually locational although the hand of clock has changed so much, in some places even right now the man is usually the one looked upon to have what it takes economically and ladies want that well to do man for marriage according to their level of conception. Lady A well to man can be $2000 earner while lady B wants that millionaire but right now men are also looking out for that well to do lady for marriage.

In as much as it is important to have an idea of what even friend do for a living for several reasons not solely on what to get from them it's very much important to know the economic dimension of a partner even before marriage but over dependence on this without having a clear mindset on this matter is selfishness and has caused many shambles in marriages.

[Swordsoffreedom]

We are not in the era where a man of a woman have to carry all responsibility alone. Recent statistics have shown that men die early due to hard work, thinking and responsibilities. We now have sensitization programs and mens awareness day to help man child. The pressure is too much and that is why modern marriage is built on partnership.

There has never been an era where either men or women had to carry all the responsibility in a family by themselves. Each person has their own role and responsibilities. Traditionally, men were responsible for providing financially, while women primarily took care of the household

What statistics show that men die prematurely due to overwork, mental stress, and the burden of responsibility? According to my research, men do have an average life expectancy that is about 5 years shorter than women. However, studies indicate that there are many causes, and a large proportion are due to smoking, drinking alcohol, and drug use, not just high pressure jobs.

[EarnOnVictor]

Should the economic dimension be considered before choosing a partner?

It depends on the angle you are looking at it from. Most marriages today are based on selfishness, so what do you expect?

Regardless, after carefully weighing every factor, including love, religion, dedication/sacrifice, tradition and many people's past experiences, I would say, yes, financial standing should be considered, but it shouldn't be in the selfish way. As a woman, ensure that your man is financially okay and also responsible, unless you are doing well financially yourself, as the family needs it. This shouldn't/mustn't be a luxurious kind of wealth, but a sustainable kind of financial freedom and readiness. You guys can later work hard and pray to make it better.

What's wrong is for the woman wanting everything 100% ready financially; they can't marry a man that is not wealthy. What if the wealth vanishes???

[bubilas]

The question of whether all economic aspects need to be considered before marriage is complex, but only for women. As is marriage in general. Any man is happy with living with a woman and sleeping with her. He's even ready to have children. And why should they go to the registry office? Because only women need marriage. Firstly, they want to avoid being pressured by society to consider them the ones who sleep with men but aren't married. Secondly, they won't give up their shared property, which will become apparent in their family status. And who will be the main earner? That's right, the man.

[Agbamoni]

We are not in the era where a man of a woman have to carry all responsibility alone. Recent statistics have shown that men die early due to hard work, thinking and responsibilities. We now have sensitization programs and mens awareness day to help man child. The pressure is too much, and that is why modern marriage is built on partnership.

There has never been an era where either men or women had to carry all the responsibility in a family by themselves. Each person has their own role and responsibilities. Traditionally, men were responsible for providing financially, while women primarily took care of the household

Welcome to my country, where the main responsibility, which is the financial responsibility, is bestowed on the man alone. Women see a man who is incapable of taking care of the home alone as a weak man. I think this is not only happening in my country. Travel around and see things. The era has changed, but over here, it has not changed yet. Although most men are very selective when choosing a wife, that has caused a lot of women ripe for marriage to be avoided by most men. Some women have decided to change to find a husband.

[Swordsoffreedom]

We are not in the era where a man of a woman have to carry all responsibility alone. Recent statistics have shown that men die early due to hard work, thinking and responsibilities. We now have sensitization programs and mens awareness day to help man child. The pressure is too much, and that is why modern marriage is built on partnership.

There has never been an era where either men or women had to carry all the responsibility in a family by themselves. Each person has their own role and responsibilities. Traditionally, men were responsible for providing financially, while women primarily took care of the household

Welcome to my country, where the main responsibility, which is the financial responsibility, is bestowed on the man alone. Women see a man who is incapable of taking care of the home alone as a weak man. I think this is not only happening in my country. Travel around and see things. The era has changed, but over here, it has not changed yet. Although most men are very selective when choosing a wife, that has caused a lot of women ripe for marriage to be avoided by most men. Some women have decided to change to find a husband.

As I mentioned, under traditional customs in some countries, men are expected to provide for the family financially and serve as the head of the household. In return, men usually have more say and are the ones who make the final decisions in the family. Meanwhile, women typically take on household chores such as childcare and cooking.

I have never seen a country where men bear the entire financial burden and handle all household chores themselves, while women do nothing else.

What country are you from? In your country, are men expected to handle both the financial responsibilities and all the household duties, including cooking, laundry, and childcare?

[Unknown Op]

Welcome to my country, where the main responsibility, which is the financial responsibility, is bestowed on the man alone. Women see a man who is incapable of taking care of the home alone as a weak man. I think this is not only happening in my country. Travel around and see things. The era has changed, but over here, it has not changed yet. Although most men are very selective when choosing a wife, that has caused a lot of women ripe for marriage to be avoided by most men. Some women have decided to change to find a husband.

In that era, women want a person who is capable to take actions and who has money in the Bank and She will enjoy all facilities of life. That is desire of all women because they don't want to work for money and they want to show their beauty to the young people to capture them then eat their all resources. Women always love to the successful person whose pocket is filled with money not that person who has no identification and no facilities of life. You should choose your life partner according to the requirement of you because if you are capable then you need capable lady. And your wife income should be matter because you will make an agreement with her and you will spend time with her to give space and all facilities of life.

[Chilwell]

I was one who considered economic dimension while choosing a partner. I started dating in mid 20s which was already time to think about marriage. I chose a person who would be in same career as myself and who has more potential than myself.
She was unemployed at that time and I was already in a good job but I knew her potential and invested on her. Dated for 5 years, married for 5 years now and now she earns more than I do.

I am highly impressed with this decision you took, because that was also my aim when I took my own decision and honestly things are moving fine. Having the right partner in the marriage is actually the best because it is not something that will expire except death separate us, so someone have to be careful when making a decision in terms of future partner because having the right partner simply means big enjoyment, almost half of your struggle as cleared.

I will disagree here with you in terms of giving my wife opportunity to the extent that they will be earning more than me, honestly woman are very dangerous and to me they should not be given too much opportunity, because they are easily fool with the money they are getting if it happens that they earn more than the husband. I want my wife should be earning but they should always be behind me in terms of wealth.

[Unknown Op]

I am highly impressed with this decision you took, because that was also my aim when I took my own decision and honestly things are moving fine. Having the right partner in the marriage is actually the best because it is not something that will expire except death separate us, so someone have to be careful when making a decision in terms of future partner because having the right partner simply means big enjoyment, almost half of your struggle as cleared.

I will disagree here with you in terms of giving my wife opportunity to the extent that they will be earning more than me, honestly woman are very dangerous and to me they should not be given too much opportunity, because they are easily fool with the money they are getting if it happens that they earn more than the husband. I want my wife should be earning but they should always be behind me in terms of wealth.

Every woman has a different mindset, and if any woman has a business mindset and she want more money then you can lose her, as she will try to date person who is more valuable than her and women always like a person who has more money and more potential. The people who want more love in life will try to find wife who will be beautiful but the people who think about money and business will see all aspects. They will try to find a partner who is financially strong because finance can destroy your life as bad time could come. The people who have partner who is earning are comfortable because income is coming from two sources and both are responsible and both know the responsibilities of life. The people who have house wife they are struggling in their life.

[Inior]

Thinking about the economic dimension if marriage doesn't make you materialistic it only makes you responsible, marriage isn't just about emotional connection, there's more to it than that and a lot of people fail to recognize that. It is important for you to think about the future and what you are going to set up as parents. If you want to get married to someone that isn't goal driven or doesn't have plans to set up something that builds a strong financial foundation then there is no point in getting married to such person, marriage is all about partnership and building wealth should not be one sided.

[MorganaX]

I don't even think someone with the mindset and the knowledge of financial stability will allow themselves to fall in love with someone that is deficit, liking someone Is different but falling in love with them entails alot of boxes that has to be ticked. Atleast if someone wants to marry someone with less financial freedom, it has to be someone they has the zeal and means to earn better in the nearest future.

[Crakryptvest]

I don't even think someone with the mindset and the knowledge of financial stability will allow themselves to fall in love with someone that is deficit, liking someone Is different but falling in love with them entails alot of boxes that has to be ticked. Atleast if someone wants to marry someone with less financial freedom, it has to be someone they has the zeal and means to earn better in the nearest future.

Realistically, we have seen these things happen over again, those are financially stable on often love people that are burden to them, when one is financially stable, people claim to love them, this is not only for men, both gender suffer the same thing, infact some women suffer more, there are lazy and stupid men out there, whose work is to look for single women that are financially stable to hook up to, you should also know that love is an unexplainable feelings, that is capable of making an individual to ack as if they were charmed, ordinarily like minds are supposed to be partners or lovers, but most times you see a person loving someone that has know potentials or future plans for him or herself.

[abhiseshakana]

I am highly impressed with this decision you took, because that was also my aim when I took my own decision and honestly things are moving fine. Having the right partner in the marriage is actually the best because it is not something that will expire except death separate us, so someone have to be careful when making a decision in terms of future partner because having the right partner simply means big enjoyment, almost half of your struggle as cleared.

I will disagree here with you in terms of giving my wife opportunity to the extent that they will be earning more than me, honestly woman are very dangerous and to me they should not be given too much opportunity, because they are easily fool with the money they are getting if it happens that they earn more than the husband. I want my wife should be earning but they should always be behind me in terms of wealth.

Every woman has a different mindset, and if any woman has a business mindset and she want more money then you can lose her, as she will try to date person who is more valuable than her and women always like a person who has more money and more potential. The people who want more love in life will try to find wife who will be beautiful but the people who think about money and business will see all aspects. They will try to find a partner who is financially strong because finance can destroy your life as bad time could come. The people who have partner who is earning are comfortable because income is coming from two sources and both are responsible and both know the responsibilities of life. The people who have house wife they are struggling in their life.

What i remembered about my parent advise before me and my brother married are find partner in life who has integration of values ​​and parity of position with purpose to minimalized emotional and cultural friction or tension and not tired making extreme adjustments (compromises) in daily life.

So my wife and I. even out value not identical but we share financially and lifestyle compatible, we have almost same lebvel of comfort standarization and how we see money. We are also intelectually has same mindset, so we can connect when do conversation has at least same way in our way soving problem. and many more.

Wich such relationship, my house become more energy efficient because less need for compromizing,

[DanWalker]

I don't even think someone with the mindset and the knowledge of financial stability will allow themselves to fall in love with someone that is deficit, liking someone Is different but falling in love with them entails alot of boxes that has to be ticked. Atleast if someone wants to marry someone with less financial freedom, it has to be someone they has the zeal and means to earn better in the nearest future.

That's just your opinion. In reality, life is much more diverse than you think.

Crakryptvest is right, love is a feeling that is hard to explain.
Plenty of financially stable or wealthy people dont necessarily want to be with someone from the same level. Sometimes all they want is someone who genuinely loves them, and that's enough. They believe that with their financial strength, they can take care of the person they love and still give both of them a comfortable life.

I'd do the same if I were rich. I have never wanted my partner to struggle or worry about money. Its just that sometimes life doesnt allow me to do that yet.

[Pearl_20]

Yes absolutely, love is never enough to keep a home running for a long period of time as bill's has to be paid, rent, school fees, health bill's, feeding and so on, and all these will be so tiring just for one person to shoulder all that responsibility loving your partner isn't bad but then having or discussing about money shouldn't be looked away as the price of commodities keep increasing on daily basis.

Without economic considerations at the long run in any Union love can be exhausting, hence the reason why both partners should engage in something and most importantly life happens so if one falls, the other can support till his/her partner pick up again. Marriage is partnership both parties are to support each other and see how they can share responsibilities together.