Is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling.

[Zadicar]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Never ever comes into my mind that i would really be that telling nor introducing gambling into my wife. Even though i would tell her, she wont still be that interested because i know that she hates on losing money and would rather be spending into other things than on spending into gambling on which she knows that she would basically wasting up those funds instead. I would rather believe that she would be buying up things than on spending into leisure time. If ever she's interested or what, i wont still making up some introduction to her because i know that there is really that a possibility that it would be ending up on addiction and that would really be having that huge impact on finances specially if you do get hooked into it and thats something that you do need up to avoid. I do gambler but always having that moderation and control on which it is a must.

[Marvelockg]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .

If a full family goes all into gambling as a means of generating wealth for the home, the family is gone. it should even be a thing of concern for you as the head of the home that you are trying to grow the families income grow gambling knowing how risky gambling can be and t hat it is not a guaranteed means of earning.

Another angle to look at is the response of his spouse because typically, woman are not gambling oriented and will struggle to get started. most of them are not too good at taking risk  compared to us so typically, a woman going into gambling primarily to help generate finances for the home is not a good one for any family.

[TopTort777]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling...

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

As I see no evil in introducing gambling your partner, in this particular case it might be dangerous for family budget, because the teacher himself is still a newbie in gambling world. He has still sparkles in his eyes and trust that he will earn with gambling. I think that guy will introduce gambling to his wife in not the best way and example. This guy better gain some gambling life experience first, experience first losses and disappointments, and only then think about introduction.

But in general, if someone gamble for fun and it is entertaining, I see nothing bad in introducing another way to have fun to your partner.

[Kelward]

If you're a responsible gambler that gambles for fun with small amounts you can introduce your wife to it provided you know the risk involved that she might become addicted because gambling is addictive. Before you make such a move you should know whether she's the type that likes to thrill herself with taking small risks if she's not there's no need to introduce it to her because it'll be awkward and she won't flow.

Personally I wouldn't encourage my wife to gamble, she doesn't like gambling but she knows that I gamble responsibly so she doesn't complain so I wouldn't push it too far to ask her to join me, one gambler in the family is enough for us. But if she indicates interest which I very much doubt then I would guide her to avoid the mistakes that many gamblers make before becoming addicted.

[imthegreat]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

I think that a wife should never be involved in gambling, because I urge you to understand the feminine essence. Women are not reserved and have no self-control. They madly and blindly follow their whims and desires, and a woman practically does not know how to say the word "impossible" to herself. That is why female alcoholism is absolutely not curable, and the same will apply to gambling. If a woman becomes addicted to gambling, then most likely she will lose control and will not be stopped.

[bubilas]

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

If someone is lucky in gambling, this is usually a temporary phenomenon. And of course, such luck does not tend to extend to spouses, because there is no family luck. In gambling, you should always draw conclusions about your profile based only on a long distance, and if someone wins now, it doesn't mean that this person will win in the future. Therefore, it is always very important not to think that luck is instead, and even more so to advise your spouses to gamble. In a family, it is very important that everyone does their job - cooking, washing, cleaning, and parenting. It's like a well-functioning mezachrim, and it's very important that everyone is responsible.

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

Lol, before this, we have a thread wherein the husband and wife was somewhat arguing as the wife keeps rubbing her winnings to the husband.

Now, we have this? And this could be a classic example on what gambling can do in our lives. It can be part of a good relationship if both parties gamble for "fun". But then again, if they are competitive, then something might not end up good to the relationship just like what has been describe on that thread.

[davis196]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Dude, your friend seems kinda stupid.
One, asking someone for such advice proves that the guy, who asks is low IQ. I'm not married, but I would never ask my friends about my marriage and should I do this or that with my wife. This guy has a brain between his ears. He should use it, instead of asking people stupid questions.
Two, I have doubts that your friend would keep making profits out of sports betting forever. Is he some kind of sports betting genius? Did he discover some secret sports betting exploit?
Telling your spouse that you are actively gambling can backfire so bad. Some women can file for divorce, if they discover that their husbands are gambling.

[ZeroVinsonN]

For his own good he should probably take a step away from gambling himself, because if he's already looking at gambling as a source of income to the point of want to being his spouse into it then he has already lost himself to the addiction of it, personally it's never a smart move to be the one to introduce someone to gambling, if they start on their own then it's their choice, if you push them into it and they lose themselves to it then it's your fault.

[LastKiss]

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What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

A very risky move to introduce gambling to your spouse or anyone close to you. Just because you won money from gambling doesn't mean it's the right thing to do especially when you've only been gambling for three months. Don't be surprised if a year later, you're complaining about how much money you've wasted on gambling. Rather than introducing your spouse to gambling it's much better to ask her to help keep you accountable and remind you not to overspend your money, time or emotional energy on it. Also make sure he's not addicted to think something like that.

[Yeesha]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

It is not advisable to introduce your spouse (your wife into gambling), if gambling is not safe for men then women's situation will be worse than that of men. What even motivate your friend to introduce his wife into gambling or does he make so much profits in gambling? Because he does he is about to fall into the trap of addiction and he might lose everything including the fund and his profits especially if care is not taken. Advise him not to do so, because it's very risky and some women are very weak in terms of emotions and they easily get scared and this only is enough to trigger loss, because will lack focus or concentration and can make decisions out of fear or emotion.

[Olatundespo]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .

If a full family goes all into gambling as a means of generating wealth for the home, the family is gone. it should even be a thing of concern for you as the head of the home that you are trying to grow the families income grow gambling knowing how risky gambling can be and t hat it is not a guaranteed means of earning.

Another angle to look at is the response of his spouse because typically, woman are not gambling oriented and will struggle to get started. most of them are not too good at taking risk  compared to us so typically, a woman going into gambling primarily to help generate finances for the home is not a good one for any family.

Gambling is already risky if it is for earning money, and if more than one family member is involved in this endeavor, the risk increases even more. In most families, women are conservative and may not be interested in gambling. In some families, women are the earners so some of them bet on sports. But I have seen that they do not get too addicted because if they lose several bets they do not get greedy again and stop betting. Those who understand that gambling is not a means of increasing the family income do not want anyone in their family to be involved in gambling.

[Peanutswar]

Let's say its just a simple entertainment to both of you but of course this requires enjoying if you have a capital to spend with and of you are both does not have a problem in money and seeking for fun only, I guess there is no problem with it but again.. sooner or later possible one of you or even both of you lose control in playing gambling now becomes addicted. So how you will help each other if someone wanted to stop already if both of you are now right there both playing. For me let your wife find something more valuable hobby. You are already expensive in this hobby so dont let your wife do the same thing.

[maydna]

You do the right thing as he can't guarantee his wife becoming addicted to gambling or not. Better he guide his wife to search other online opportunities to make money than gambling as the risks will be bigger than he can imagine.

Besides that, it will not be a problem if only him that playing gambling. That will not disrupting his family finances if he can allocates the money only for gambling and not add more money.

But you should tell him that he can't always win in gambling, the situation can change and there will be time for him to feels the losses. If he can't manages his emotion, that will only attracts him deeper and becoming addicted to gambling.

[BluebloodCXVI]

Bro is 3months into gambling and is already proclaiming himself as a gamble recruiter lol…….tell him to enjoy his little wins in peace and not start what he cannot finish. There are other productive things he can introduce her to rather than gambling. Perhaps he seems to be underestimating how addictive gambling can be especially for someone who has no prior exposure to it. And the truth is that not everyone has a strong enough threshold to resist getting addicted to gambling;she might not do well with it and the blame is gonna be on him if shit goes side ways because he was the one that introduced her to it.

[DPHOR]

There is nothing wrong teaching spouse how to gamble but to me I don't found it ideally putting a woman through gambling instead, there are other things he can introduce his wife to do, such as smaller business, renting a shop for the wife to start up business can be the Best way to go about it than introducing her to gambling which I found it not that important because if addiction gets involved he could likely found it too difficulties to get her out of gambling addiction where it would entirely affects their home and children, and guess what? Children are mostly being attached to their mother and whatever their mother is doing they could think is the right thing for them to do as well where they would start putting interest to gamble.

[bakasabo]

I look on this situation with such idea: if spouse gets familiar with gambling, then spouses can look after each other and stop if one of them get to deep into gaming and spending. Other spouse suppose to be a person who will tell (I would better say demand) to stop because situation is slowly going into addiction side. I dont think there is or must be a place for team play, but spouse is definitely a person who other spouse listen to if things go bad.

[The Founding Titan]

You just said he started gambling just 3 months ago so if you are intending on giving him an advice then advise him against introducing his spouse to gambling, if he continues on this path then it's very likely that gambling might ruin his life and his marriage, he might be winning now but that's not a reason to want to get his spouse in on it, if he's actually going to listen to you then advise him against it before he makes a mistake his going to regret and he will blame you for it.

[Sticky Bomb]

Personally, if your wife isn't a gambler, please don't introduce her to it. It's better if she's just peeping and asking questions and all that, but bringing her in is a no for me because I'm not sure she can handle the emotional aspect of it. Ladies naturally have lots of mood swings and gambling losses can even make her unnecessarily sad and I'm not ready to deal with that. I don't really know if she'll be able to control herself and gamble responsibly and I wouldn't want to be the architect of her addiction which may lead to neglecting her duties to our children as a mother. I prefer she doesn't gamble at all.

[m2017]

A friend of mine

All the most interesting stories begin like this. Well, of course, this story is about your friend.

I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.

Why did you tell him that? They could have enjoyed their marriage together, earning money together, and besides, nothing brings couples closer together than sharing a common activity.

He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

What if he wins forever? Are you just jealous (like a real friend or neighbor) of him?

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

His wife is his rules (he can do whatever he wants). And it's up to him to decide what's "right". Even if you're against his wife's involvement in gambling, what will you do (and what moral right do you have to interfere in their family life)?