Do you ever gamble with your spouse on a cruise?

[Yablee0]

A lot of gamblers that I know always keep their gambling habits secret, so it’s actually shocking to find a partner who actually shares the same interest in gambling.

I think that's because the both of them has grown to understand each other very well, and this will automatically strengthen the bound of love between them. However, situations like this are not that common especially now that many women always see gamble as a way of wasting money not to talk of joining their spouse in it, anyway it is just obvious that the both of them were actually ment for each other.

[Ishicryptic]

I look forward to such an experience to go on a cruise with my wife and if it happens I wouldn't mind to talk her into gambling because she has never gambled before and I'm sure that it would be fun. If we both gamble for entertainment I'm sure that it would be a very momerable trip as long as we're using amount that we are comfortable to lose, if we're gambling to make money on a cruise that won't be fun because we'd be desperate to win. I wonder why gamblers talk against gambling for entertainment, whether you're gambling alone or with your wife in a casino you should gamble for fun, it reduces a lot of pressure to win.

[ImGenius]

I recently gambled with my spouse for the very first time. It was a fun and exciting experience for both of us. We were celebrating our anniversary on a cruise ship and I talked her into gambling a little bit on some slot machines and roulette. She was my good luck charm on the slot machine I was losing up until I tagged her in (early before I lose it all lmao) good thing too because she came back and doubled the money we put into the slot machine. Then we kept going and lost it all 😂 but that was after we went to the roulette table and got some numbers in and broke even there, at one point we were going to bet like 60 on 25 red and it hit but i was too hesitant and missed what would have been the absolutebanger win and make it so much more memorable oooooff SHH lmao. It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

That sounds like a good anniversary memory. if both of you treat gambling as entertainment not as serious as making money then it become more enjoyable. After playing slots and roulette for about 1.5 hours spending only $25 is not too bad especially since you both enjoy it so much. It is very rare to find such a partner because girl gamblers are very few. If I have to say, you are a lucky person. If all gamblers like us had partners like this life would be much easier. There would be less noise and chaos in the family.

[bakasabo]

A reminder to those who have never been on a cruise and want to gamble. When you go to casino there, you can either deposit own money to play, or use your cruise card (which is key to your cabin, your identity card, your wallet) to play. You spend money during cruise (buy drinks, souvenirs, excursions) or gamble, but pay for everything what you have spent when you leave cruise. This gives opportunity to gamble now (you dont physically spend money) but pay later. For someone it might be a trap.

[AmaGold70]

I have not gambled with my spouse before, and my spouse is the type that doesn't encourage gambling, so doing that with her is not possible. But I think to those gamblers who gamble with their spouse, they could find some sort of comfort, and enthusiasm gambling with their spouse. However, while gambling with your wife, you have to be very careful to avoid her being imbibed or addicted to gambling because if that happens, your spouse might be distracted attending to more important matters concerning you, and the family, more also, if you and your spouse are loosing money to gambling at the same time, it might affect the family financially especially when you are not buoyant enough to withstand the losses in incured by both of you.

[Outhue]

Understating matters alot before marriage, as a married person it would have hurt so much if my partner figured out later that I am into gambling, it won't be nice of me at all, don't start doing something that will turn out to be a surprise after marriage, if your partner knows that you are into gambling and still choose to settle down with you it's because you have their support, I've seen married couples who got divorced because the husband gambles alot, the one word that came out of the woman's mouth was that he wasn't like that before they get married, I am the one doing the guessing that the husband must have kept it as a secret from her. It's better you let your partner know everything about you, no one is really perfect.

[eisen33]

If it's for fun, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If you know how much you can afford to lose without it affecting your finances, then it can be an adventure in your life. I think a one time adventure with your spouse can even be fun, but if it turns into a regular habit, meaning you're playing together every week, it could turn out to be something bad. If you want to gamble and know how to control it, then do it on your own, without involving your spouse.

[Orpichukwu]

Personally I think that it is disrespectful to gamble when you are with your spouse especially when they don't really like gambling. Privacy is key when it come to Gambling and it's keep you in your lane so you don't end up getting disrespected by others because whether we like it or not not everyone likes to gamble or even the idea of it alone offends them, it is about studying your partner.

In terms of privacy and how to gamble if it's right or not in front of your spouse, it should be based on the type of person you get married to. There is a difference between gambling at home and when you are on a fun date, cruise, etc., because it's all about fun, and if gambling is also part of the planned fun, then she can be part of it unless she doesn't like it, and then we can choose a different thing to do, not like you are forcing her to it.

[Tungbulu]

I think that's because the both of them has grown to understand each other very well, and this will automatically strengthen the bound of love between them. However, situations like this are not that common especially now that many women always see gamble as a way of wasting money not to talk of joining their spouse in it, anyway it is just obvious that the both of them were actually ment for each other.

Lol I don’t know how two couples having gambling as a common interest mean they’re truly meant for each other, (except of course that’s not what you mean) because they could still have gambling as a common interest and still have variety of other activities which they disagree about. But yeah having gambling as a common interest can be a real advantage to both of them in several ways, especially when there’s transparency among the both of them.

[purple_sparkles]

 I think that a resort is exactly the kind of place where we should relax and enjoy ourselves to the fullest, so that when we return to work, we have great memories to look back on and extra motivation to earn money for an even better vacation in the future. Shared gambling activities can create very vivid memories as well. If they are viewed as a form of entertainment and recreation rather than a way to make money, they can add excitement and leave a lasting impression on the vacation for both spouses.

[iv4n]

It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

And it should be fun! You could choose to watch a movie and go to the restaurant, but gambling is something else with the right approach. It's interactive, you play different games, ups & downs are inevitable, but all in all, there's an excitement, and you two had a great experience.

It's all gambling, and we are paying for entertainment. We can also win some money, but don't rely on that too much... every loss will hurt you more. So have fun & enjoy the process... maybe you will win or not, all that depends on some higher forces.

[Sammye3]

I recently gambled with my spouse for the very first time. It was a fun and exciting experience for both of us. We were celebrating our anniversary on a cruise ship and I talked her into gambling a little bit on some slot machines and roulette. She was my good luck charm on the slot machine I was losing up until I tagged her in (early before I lose it all lmao) good thing too because she came back and doubled the money we put into the slot machine. Then we kept going and lost it all 😂 but that was after we went to the roulette table and got some numbers in and broke even there, at one point we were going to bet like 60 on 25 red and it hit but i was too hesitant and missed what would have been the absolutebanger win and make it so much more memorable oooooff SHH lmao. It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

This is a complete situation of focusing on the fun rather than the winnings and that is the mindset that cures depression rather than worsening it. Both couples went with the mindset of having fun and they sure did despite the lose and it was totally worth it. It was also commendable that they kept the losses to the barest minimum and realised when it was time to stop gambling.

Personally, there are other entertaining and exciting stuffs I would do with my spouse aside slot games and I dont think it would happen anytime in the future. It is a case of certain preferences and no doubt the feeling would be amazing, but I would not want to introduce my spouse to such lifestyle.

[rachael9385]

If it's for fun, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If you know how much you can afford to lose without it affecting your finances, then it can be an adventure in your life. I think a one time adventure with your spouse can even be fun, but if it turns into a regular habit, meaning you're playing together every week, it could turn out to be something bad. If you want to gamble and know how to control it, then do it on your own, without involving your spouse.

In as much as that's true some people still won't gamble in front of their spouse because to them it feels like a let down and it is something that every man doesn't want. Every adult has a choice, they can choose to do as they please but for the sake of their partner there are certain things they don't do to avoid conflict.

[lovesmayfamilis]

My husband and I work for the same company, and we always spend our free time together. I've told more than once that we get together with friends and gamble, and if someone wins, we continue to relax and have fun in a bar or other places with the winning money. Our tradition of relaxing together has been going on for quite a long time, but we started spending time gambling about a year ago.

[Dunamisx]

If this will be for unity and lots of fun, then I see it a good idea for people to have fun with their spouse and Gamble together at the same time, everything is about understanding and this is not because they just have to do it to earn from gambling, but because gambling is seeing as being an entertainment and this can also be introduced to couples when they are sharing pleasurable moment together.

[Frankolala]

A lot of gamblers that I know always keep their gambling habits secret, so it’s actually shocking to find a partner who actually shares the same interest in gambling.

I think that's because the both of them has grown to understand each other very well, and this will automatically strengthen the bound of love between them. However, situations like this are not that common especially now that many women always see gamble as a way of wasting money not to talk of joining their spouse in it, anyway it is just obvious that the both of them were actually ment for each other.

Exactly, some women or the society at large believes that gamblers are wasting money and because of the high level of addiction, the frown at gambling. Some of them don't like to associate with a gambler because they think that he's irresponsible. This guy is really lucky to have a spouse that concurred to him when he brainwashed her to join him in his gambling activities and everything was fun. Make sense.

[Promocodeudo]

In as much as that's true some people still won't gamble in front of their spouse because to them it feels like a let down and it is something that every man doesn't want. Every adult has a choice, they can choose to do as they please but for the sake of their partner there are certain things they don't do to avoid conflict.

Apart from avoiding issues or feeling that it is a let down as you said, there are things I personally wouldn't want to do in front of May woman not that I'm afraid of her or something but I just don't want to do them or do it with her in form of having fun, some will say is that gambling is bad my answer will be not at all but I have my decisions, may be such decision will help me, we should understand that no matter what we do even though our spouse is aware that we gamble, we shouldn't play with such with them for some reasons.

[xenomorfo]

I think that a resort is exactly the kind of place where we should relax and enjoy ourselves to the fullest, so that when we return to work, we have great memories to look back on and extra motivation to earn money for an even better vacation in the future. Shared gambling activities can create very vivid memories as well. If they are viewed as a form of entertainment and recreation rather than a way to make money, they can add excitement and leave a lasting impression on the vacation for both spouses.

there are times when the game has to be put aside, of course
you can't always think about playing, whatever the game
just as you can't always think about watching the games, it doesn't matter what you think, it's a game not a job
in some moments you need to dedicate yourself only to the other person, who perhaps doesn't like what you do.

[Odusko]

I look forward to such an experience to go on a cruise with my wife and if it happens I wouldn't mind to talk her into gambling because she has never gambled before and I'm sure that it would be fun. If we both gamble for entertainment I'm sure that it would be a very momerable trip as long as we're using amount that we are comfortable to lose, if we're gambling to make money on a cruise that won't be fun because we'd be desperate to win. I wonder why gamblers talk against gambling for entertainment, whether you're gambling alone or with your wife in a casino you should gamble for fun, it reduces a lot of pressure to win.

Life is good and gambling is fun when you are able to spend alot of time and also cash the fun you wanted to, most spouses are likely not going to enjoy the same games but if you are lucky to get your spouse to love your type of games you definitely will be having a filed time outing with your wife as you said, most times when you see people speaking against gambling is likely that only one of the spouse actually is gambling and the other person is just novice and dislikes gambling.

[o48o]

I recently gambled with my spouse for the very first time. It was a fun and exciting experience for both of us. We were celebrating our anniversary on a cruise ship and I talked her into gambling a little bit on some slot machines and roulette. She was my good luck charm on the slot machine I was losing up until I tagged her in (early before I lose it all lmao) good thing too because she came back and doubled the money we put into the slot machine. Then we kept going and lost it all 😂 but that was after we went to the roulette table and got some numbers in and broke even there, at one point we were going to bet like 60 on 25 red and it hit but i was too hesitant and missed what would have been the absolutebanger win and make it so much more memorable oooooff SHH lmao. It was fun though! We spend 1.5 hours and at the end of the day we lost 25 but it was worth it.

I haven't gone in a cruise for a long time but sure, i have gambled in them and not only with my spouse. Reason is that in my country the volatility of those machines has been pretty low, and that means more frequent wins with significantly lower jackpots. So seeing 10x jackpots compared to my home country, my greed took a wheel and i gambled some. The fact that we often drank heavily in a cruise didn't help my greed or with making good decisions with money.

I didn't obviously win a jackpot, and end up losing more then in my country, because of the volatility of the machine. These days i would think what kind of taxation applies to wins in cruises, and if i didn't get them tax free like in my own county. I need to check that if i plan go on to some cruise.