Gambling debt consumes life!

[Nahl]

The story have been proven that gambling addiction can have more dangerous effect to young people compared to the adult that because from the mentality they are not ready to faced up the risk and the most problem comes when the kids have decided to borrow money to gambling which mostly they cannot able to pay their debts and frustration because of jobless

I think this is the common problem from some countries when gambling especially online gambling is easy to access for all ages, from children to adults which the negative effect is the childrens know how to gambling early before they are grow up so, the government should be find the solution to prevent kids to have addiction gambling.

[Maslate]

Its not gambling debt that will consume your life, but its always the root why you are into uncontrollable debts, gambling addiction. And while some gambling addicts can still manage their finances, some who have severe gambling addiction are no longer in control of their life's decisions, that's why its easy for them to end their life because they are longer in proper mindset.

This is also the reason why gamblers who have no stable income should never enter gambling. Because instead of gambling to find entertainment, they will be more attracted to gamble to make a living, most especially if they have experienced already previous winnings from gambling.

[Somegory]

If you that someone is into gambling do not borrow them money, because the way we handle thinking is different from the way others handle thinking, there was a man who went after all those who borrowed him money and started to kill them.

He did all that to escape the debt on his neck, also it's bad of the family to return threat with threat, that is what killed this young man, they should have learnt their lessons and tell him to pay back when he has the money.

I don't joke with my money, it's a dangerous thing to play around with, stop lending out money to people, it's dangerous, some people have the plan to never pay back and if you ask them to pay by force they can get you killed.

[danherbias07]

Gamble carefully. Gamble responsibly. Gamble moderately.

All of it should be taken seriously because it is a fact. We may not want it, but without those, we will be out of control. It's not really gambling addiction that killed him. It's the root of it all. It's the stress of all the debts that he has to pay that made him take his own life.
I think this is enough reason for us to become aware of what we do next. We can gamble, that's not a problem. But let us be sure that we are always in control and not being controlled by gambling or our emotions.
It's a sad story, but it does happen to many people right now, especially those who are trying so hard to make money out of gambling, which is very wrong.

[Kelward]

Taking loam to gamble is the most irresponsible thing for any gambler to do simply because gambling is not a business or an investment that you are sure of making money to repay the loan, gambling wins are by luck and the chances of winning is lower compared to the chances of losing. If you take a loan to gamble you will be under pressure to win and if you lose everything you might consider taking another loan to start chasing loses which will keep compounding your dept. Gamblers should use their own money to gamble and the amounts should be something that they are comfortable to lose because you don't have a control over winnings and loses.

[stadus]

The example you give is an extreme one. It’s as if I were to give the example of an alcoholic whose life is in ruins, when the vast majority of people drink responsibly.

It’s clear that getting into debt to gamble is a sure-fire recipe for disaster, but for most of us, the idea of doing something like that wouldn’t even cross our minds.

Exactly. For most of us who are gambling responsibly, or some of us probably have slight gambling addiction, gambling with debts will never cross our mind because we know already what will be its future effect once left uncontrolled. There is no good using debts in gambling, it will only create pressures on us once the money ended up totally at loss.

There are levels of gambling addiction. But clearly the one in the story is facing the worst level of addiction, and to think he faces it all alone, that is the saddest part there, he died on thinking how to get rid of his debts. Debts are not bad, but it only turns out bad if you use it to generate more debts more than you can handle.

[Cointxz]

The family itself is partly at fault here for letting this guy keep asking for money while he doesn’t have work. I doubt they will not notice that the subject has an addiction problem for him to accumulate 18K in debt without any collateral or assurance from his job.

Being on this situation is truly a messy one but this will not happened if we are responsible to our life choices.

I mean if someone doesn’t have any job. Choosing gambling as source of entertainment or worst source of profit will surely end up like this one.

[cryptoaddictchie]

According to the locals, he lost his life because he could not bear the financial and emotional stress. This incident made me realize that gambling never harms just one person, it can ruin an entire family even end their life.

Someones that enjoyed gambling and the other ones suffered in depth sorrows. I dont like this kind of story, as that guy thinks that after borrowing some money and if ending up losing it all his way to end it is to commit suicide out of pressure and stress.

What worse is that what he left might pose some threats on his family. I know that debt cant be inherited but how his family will face angry people on their family member? Some might let it go but those who arent? They could be in danger out of anger from those money that has been borrowed.

[Derekfunds]

Taking loam to gamble is the most irresponsible thing for any gambler to do simply because gambling is not a business or an investment that you are sure of making money to repay the loan, gambling wins are by luck and the chances of winning is lower compared to the chances of losing. If you take a loan to gamble you will be under pressure to win and if you lose everything you might consider taking another loan to start chasing loses which will keep compounding your dept. Gamblers should use their own money to gamble and the amounts should be something that they are comfortable to lose because you don't have a control over winnings and loses.

I wonder what will make or warrant someone to take loan to gamble after knowing what is involved in gambling, I know that to make it in life one needs to take risk but this risk is not worth taking because the possibility of making profit or winning is not sure. The happening around us should teach us I mean we should learn from it how some people I mean healthy individuals has taken their own lives in cold blood because of the mistake of taking loan to gamble.

[TopTort777]

On one hand this story by OP is just 1 out of millions that happens with gamblers, so it more like an exception here. On the hand, there are numerous gambling debt stories that were never told and will never be told. What this story can teach us? Besides what was already told, I can add that people must learn how to read other people better. Because OP story is a great example how someone managed to lie and trick many people for a long period of time, as he was able to accumulate such a huge debt. This is so strange that nobody has spotter he has problem with gambling and did not take any action.

[BRINIRHA]

This is why most of us are always warned against borrowing if the purpose is to gamble because although we may be responsible it can make us feel that it is easier and thus normalize it.  Gamble as much as you can and when you don't have the money to gamble with it's better not to try to force yourself.

There are so many cases like this that even a few gamblers who are in debt have other domino effects when they commit criminal acts and even suicide so rather than the worst possibility of this happening to us, it is better to gamble reasonably and responsibly.  This case should be a reference as well as a slap for us not to treat gambling above all else because it can actually have a negative impact on ourselves in the long run.

[michellee]

Be careful with the debt and don't do that if you can't repay the debt. Many victims ends their life because they can't pay the debt and don't tells to their family so their family leaving with the debt. That is pity while they can use all he can to search for a work but end with debt and use the money for gambling.

If you want to playing gambling, you use your own money and allocating your income for small amount and don't add more if you lose. Gambling can tempting you easily and makes you deeper in gambling without wants to quit.

[Rubuchi]

Gamble carefully. Gamble responsibly. Gamble moderately.

All of it should be taken seriously because it is a fact. We may not want it, but without those, we will be out of control. It's not really gambling addiction that killed him. It's the root of it all. It's the stress of all the debts that he has to pay that made him take his own life.
I think this is enough reason for us to become aware of what we do next. We can gamble, that's not a problem. But let us be sure that we are always in control and not being controlled by gambling or our emotions.
It's a sad story, but it does happen to many people right now, especially those who are trying so hard to make money out of gambling, which is very wrong.

I like your heading because in it lies all the details required for a gambler who wants to gamble responsibly. Careful gambling is as good as gambling moderately and responsibly. When you are a gambler don't allow yourself to be consumed by the game and be careful of what you are doing because it will lead you to overspending and unnecessary gambling and that's what leads to gambling responsibly too. Any one who gambles responsibility also should be gambling in a moderate manner as it allows you to gauge your gamble.

[DrBeer]

Recently, I learned from some local people yesterday that a tragic incident had occurred in a village near our area and it is a very sad incident.
A young man had been involved in casinos for a long time and he didn't do any work. Instead, he borrowed money from his family, friends, and even borrowed money to play at casinos, but he kept this secret so that no one knew about it.
At one point, his debt reached around $17,000--$18,000. Since he had no permanent source of income, it became almost impossible for him to repay the loan. Later, even though he asked his family for money, their financial condition was not that good, which made it impossible for him to repay the loan. Instead, he constantly came to the homes of those who had given him loans and threatened them in various ways, putting a lot of pressure on the family for money. When the family came to know about the matter completely and started putting a lot of mental pressure on the young man, but the boy did not get any direction and at the last moment he died with the burden of debt on his head.
According to the locals, he lost his life because he could not bear the financial and emotional stress. This incident made me realize that gambling never harms just one person, it can ruin an entire family even end their life.

Basically, I think this boy may have become very addicted to gambling and he thought that once he gets a big win, he will pay off his entire debt but that is not the case anymore. Such greed is pushing many people to death. Nowadays, when people enter casinos, they do not have control over themselves, so they lose control. When gambling with debt, it is the most risky, which is for the family and the children of the family. Therefore, before gambling, one should not gamble with debt and should control oneself. Gambling with debt really takes a person to a deeper level and puts him under mental pressure, so at one point, without looking at any situation, he finally chooses the path of death. That is why everyone should gamble carefully and should gamble not for earning but for entertainment and fun.

The only problem is that some people have convinced themselves that gambling is a good way to get rich. No, that’s not true! Yes, gambling can,entirely by chance and with an extremely low probability, result in a win. But, the probability is very low. If a person can’t think and assess the situation rationally and honestly, they fall into the trap of their own foolishness and self-delusion, believing that they’re bound to win the jackpot, give away all their money, buy a villa, and enjoy it for the rest of their life. This is a MISTAKE. And you’ve described its result in this sad story.
It’s also important to understand that people tend to look for easy ways to make money, and gambling can SEEM like just such a way, but that’s a huge mistake... I feel sorry for the man, but he chose this path himself.
 
 

[Fortify]

Recently, I learned from some local people yesterday that a tragic incident had occurred in a village near our area and it is a very sad incident.
A young man had been involved in casinos for a long time and he didn't do any work. Instead, he borrowed money from his family, friends, and even borrowed money to play at casinos, but he kept this secret so that no one knew about it.
At one point, his debt reached around $17,000--$18,000. Since he had no permanent source of income, it became almost impossible for him to repay the loan. Later, even though he asked his family for money, their financial condition was not that good, which made it impossible for him to repay the loan. Instead, he constantly came to the homes of those who had given him loans and threatened them in various ways, putting a lot of pressure on the family for money. When the family came to know about the matter completely and started putting a lot of mental pressure on the young man, but the boy did not get any direction and at the last moment he died with the burden of debt on his head.
According to the locals, he lost his life because he could not bear the financial and emotional stress. This incident made me realize that gambling never harms just one person, it can ruin an entire family even end their life.

Basically, I think this boy may have become very addicted to gambling and he thought that once he gets a big win, he will pay off his entire debt but that is not the case anymore. Such greed is pushing many people to death. Nowadays, when people enter casinos, they do not have control over themselves, so they lose control. When gambling with debt, it is the most risky, which is for the family and the children of the family. Therefore, before gambling, one should not gamble with debt and should control oneself. Gambling with debt really takes a person to a deeper level and puts him under mental pressure, so at one point, without looking at any situation, he finally chooses the path of death. That is why everyone should gamble carefully and should gamble not for earning but for entertainment and fun.

There were many steps that lead to this final outcome and he had the ability to stop or reverse course before it reached that point. I'm confused by your story about whether people he borrowed from were threatening him (aka loan sharks) or he was threatening people so they would stop asking for money back/to get more money out of them. Either way, most people struggle with getting decent jobs but some people just decide to bury their heads instead of hunting relentlessly. I have a feeling that if he put as much energy into job hunting as he did to borrowing money and playing with gambling, he would have gotten one. Some people just lie to themselves so much thinking that gambling is a shortcut to wealth and they'll eventually strike it rich - it never works.

[HelliumZ]

Nowadays, there are many such incidents among gamblers where they are unable to repay the money by getting money from different sources and are choosing the path of suicide. This is not a solution, rather the solution is to control yourself and participate in gambling according to your ability. One should never participate in gambling by borrowing money or by bringing money at high interest rates because in this case, when the amount of debt becomes too much, many people choose suicide after not being able to bear the mental stress. However, currently there is a trend among the educated class where they fall into depression due to the pressure of excessive debt and, unable to bear the mental stress after depression, commit suicide. And all these are possible only because of gambling addiction and drug addiction.

[Charles-Tim]

Yes, the problem the guy had is the thinking of gambling a means of making money, which made him become addicted to gambling. He started to borrow money, thinking he will recover the lost money and win more money. But the usual thing happened which is more losses of money and the gambling site will only make more money.

According to the locals, he lost his life because he could not bear the financial and emotional stress. This incident made me realize that gambling never harms just one person, it can ruin an entire family even end their life.

What is the actual cause of his death?

[EarnOnVictor]

According to the locals, he lost his life because he could not bear the financial and emotional stress. This incident made me realize that gambling never harms just one person, it can ruin an entire family even end their life.

I ofen tell people, what you do doesn't affect you alone at times, but all the people linked with you, especially your family and loved ones. It's selfish the way some people live their lives; they don't just care, which is unfair. If you don't care about yourself, many people could still care about you. I wonder why some family men and women would do some terrible things at times that could hurt their family, especially the dependents. Well, that's another lesson in both ways, and it's good you do not blame gambling here; it's our choice to gamble and it's our choice to be responsible about it.

[Cityhunter34]

It's unfortunate that most gamblers are still looking to get rich overnight from gambling. It has been said several times that gambling involves more losses than wins, yet some gamblers don't want to follow the right path. Talking loans to gamble is not a smart move at all, because gambling is entirely unpredictable, and anything is possible at any time. Gamblers shouldn't be carried by anything else, because it's a game were luck has the final say.

Sometimes when people said that we should gamble for fun and entertainment, many gamblers will always say they are here for the money. I hope they are seeing the disadvantages now.

[Junii]

Basically, I think this boy may have become very addicted to gambling and he thought that once he gets a big win, he will pay off his entire debt but that is not the case anymore.

Another victim of gambling. What the op said is just one case he shared here. God knows how many different victims are still not yet reported. Actually peoples start gambling for quick money or some saying like they gamble for fun but the result of both is similar in the long run. Majority of peoples start chasing losses and telling themselves lies like i have figured out the market now the next bit will hit even some of them i met praying to god for win. So when gambling reached to that level it becomes addiction and what i believe is addiction is injurious for the mental health. If someone does not have a proper source of income he or she will definitely go for debt or any other different  illegal way and then that type of incidents happens in the society even the whole family of a person affected by this.