"No finance, no romance" What do you think about it?

[BitBakerr1]

Without money, your mothers or father’s love will still be strong, but when it comes to a man and a woman, let’s say a boyfriend and a girlfriend or a wife and a husband when there is no money the relationship or love cannot work.
And the reason for this is because your wife or your husband has a lot of options, your husband or your wife can choose to leave you and marry someone else.
But your parents cannot abandon you because you are there flesh and blood. I know that some parents usually abandon their children, but majority of parents love their children genuinely whether there is money or not.

As for me, I believe the only true love that exist is between a child and his or her parents.

But the world will be better if we stand by our partner when we have and don’t have.

[Decimetre]

Living without money is not a good life and even a man living without money doesn't love himself that way so why do you expect someone else who's not your mother to love you when you do not have money?

Money is very important even as a parent. The love that children have for their parents also depends on what their parents have done for them or what their parents can be able to do for them. A poor parent will hardly create bond with his children because to create bond with anyone, gifts are usually involved and if you don't have money, how will you gift.

I know that money can influenced love and respect but you are wrong to say that every children bonding with their parents depends on Money because there are love that doesn't require any material things and that's the love for parents and it doesn't change even if they could not afford the money to send us to school, although sometimes most children hates their parents because they're poor but that's not in general perspective. As for finding love is true that money has become the ultimate desire for a woman to consider before accepting but is not fair to require so much from someone when you do not have anything.

The only love that's totally unconditional is the love of a mother and nothing more. Parents may love their children always but as a father who do not have the money to cater for the family, the love and respect you receive from your children will to a large extent, depends on what you do financially. So many kids don't show any act of love to their fathers who did not give them basic life from childhood. Have you seen some families where the children are allowed from the early stage to survive on their own? Those children grow up with less love for their fathers but their love for their mothers may look unshaken because you already know that children tend to love their mothers more than their fathers and for a father to get more love from his children, he must have started from the early days of the child's life to attract the kids with kids.

Men are not always loved unconditionally because at all time, it goes down to what you can do: how to you respond to family responsibilities? How well do you answer to the society or engagement with people? It all goes down to money. So I still think that the level of love a father gets from his children strongly depends on his response to financial matters.

[POPOLUV]

Is gone on those days that woman  marry  man without minding if the man has money or not but this generation is becoming worst by the day, that ladies of generation doesn't want to mingle with any man that has known money and they believe that once there is know money there is no romance, i don't really know what the world is turning into because the love of money is really taking over the universe and so many men are really working very hard just to meet up the tag, in order to gain financial status and ascertain the romance that is expected from them.

[Odusko]

Is gone on those days that a woman marry man without minding if the man has money or not but this generation is becoming worst by the day, that ladies of generation doesn't want to mingle with any man that has known money and they believe that once there is know money there is no romance, i don't really know what the world is turning into because the love of money is really taking over the universe and so many men are really working very hard just to meet up the tag, to gain financial status and ascertain the romance that is expected from them.

Can I tell you this for free, one of the major reasons why there is high rate of poverty in some countries in Africa I because of the marriage pf incompatibility and lack of economic power to train the kids that come into the marriage, nowadays days women are beginning to be more future oriented and at that they will keep choosing partners with resources over those without resources, I don't see this as a bad idea for someone to want the best out of their own life by marrying someone that can give them the economics power their need to leave a good life, where is bad os when a woman don't do her own part, marriage os cooperation between both parties and not only a man can build financial success to support his woman even ladies this days have made it a point of deliberate chase to make their own money along side they husband own and even support the husband financially.

[DanWalker]

Is gone on those days that woman  marry  man without minding if the man has money or not but this generation is becoming worst by the day, that ladies of generation doesn't want to mingle with any man that has known money and they believe that once there is know money there is no romance, i don't really know what the world is turning into because the love of money is really taking over the universe and so many men are really working very hard just to meet up the tag, in order to gain financial status and ascertain the romance that is expected from them.

I just wanna know, if you were rich or came from a rich family, would you be willing to marry a poor girl or let your child marry someone poor?
Its not just about love. Pretty much everything in our lives revolves around money, from inside the family to the outside world. Without money, you dont get respect from family, you dont have friend, nobody care...So don't keep complaining about how girls nowadays are this or that.

We don't wanna marry someone poor either, and we don't want our kids to struggle with poverty. We're changing too. So instead of blaming each other, maybe we should just accept those changes and learn to adapt to them.

[Ishicryptic]

Is gone on those days that a woman marry man without minding if the man has money or not but this generation is becoming worst by the day, that ladies of generation doesn't want to mingle with any man that has known money and they believe that once there is know money there is no romance, i don't really know what the world is turning into because the love of money is really taking over the universe and so many men are really working very hard just to meet up the tag, to gain financial status and ascertain the romance that is expected from them.

Can I tell you this for free, one of the major reasons why there is high rate of poverty in some countries in Africa I because of the marriage pf incompatibility and lack of economic power to train the kids that come into the marriage, nowadays days women are beginning to be more future oriented and at that they will keep choosing partners with resources over those without resources, I don't see this as a bad idea for someone to want the best out of their own life by marrying someone that can give them the economics power their need to leave a good life, where is bad os when a woman don't do her own part, marriage os cooperation between both parties and not only a man can build financial success to support his woman even ladies this days have made it a point of deliberate chase to make their own money along side they husband own and even support the husband financially.

This same mindset of many women who come from poor families and want to marry rich men who will deliver them and their families from poverty is one of the major reasons why some of them never got married in their prime, in the process of waiting for a rich man to marry them they will become advanced in age that is when they will prepare to settle for less. Problem now is that rich men are not ready to marry women who are poor because in the case of divorce she wouldn't have anything to bring to the table, they might start to misbehave knowing that if the the marriage dissolves they will get half of the man's property. People now look beyond love before getting married, they now consider the financial capabilities of their spouse to be, I think that it is better to consider these things before going into marriage instead of entering and complaining if the man cannot adequately provide.

[noorman0]

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Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

I partly agree; after all, discussions about household finances are endless. It is not just about how you earn money, but also how you grow and manage it. Sometimes a partner can be a weak link; instead of merely spending, they squander money. There are people who are fundamentally never satisfied with the amount they have. Yet, it is foolish to rely solely on finances to spark romance.

[KingsDen]

To much money does prove love, so I can say, money doesn't prove love but lack of money doesn't also prove love, unless one partner has and the other doesn't. If one partner has money, it will now be a test to see how they used their money to improve the status and living situation of their partner.

But if neither of the partners has money, this will be the real problem. The love will not work unless both are primitive and have not tested good life before. By this, they will be living below average and think they are living a good life. The relationship may last because they willhbe comfortable with their below average life, not knowing that there's more to life.

[Rockstarguy]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

Love is not enough in a relationship like marriage. In a serious relationship, marriage is all about sacrifice, bills, and when there is no money to handle this, it can affect the relationship badly. Just imagine a relationship that has produced children and there is a health challenge that needs immediate attention; at this point, love can't solve the problem. Every relationship needs some financial stability. This is why it is important for one to have a stable source of income before thinking of getting married or being in any serious relationship.

[Rebirth01]

Money is very important in every relationships, if you have it you can afford to take care of your expenses without stress and you can afford to surprise your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend with gifts which would delight them. When money is available in a relationship there is less quarrels about the basic things of life because there are adequate provisions for them, couples would wake up happy every morning knowing that they can afford the material things that they need and want.

Love is a verb which means that it is an action word and when it is expressed in physical terms it helps to strengthen the bonds between couples, in this generation love is mostly expressed in physical things which money can buy. Imagine surprising your partner with a brand new car for their birthday, it would surely help to express your feelings of love or taking the person on a vacation that is fully funded by you, the romance would be massive.

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

Before now,our forefathers married more than one wife without been rich and they leaved peacefully with each other. They were in love natural and not because of money. The husband provides just the basic needs, provide farm for the wives to farm and they leave happily. Today, you can not have a peaceful marriage without money because the world has evolved from true love to money love. Today, luxury has taken the place of respect, money has taken the place of love and it has broken so many homes in this modern world. Any relationship surviving now without luxury,and is surviving just with the basic needs need to be studied. That relationship will not last six months in my country.

[Tmoonz]

Although expensive gifts can keep a relationship going, but problems arise when they become the main way of expressing love. Today you can afford a car or an expensive tour but tomorrow, if business is in trouble, you may not be able to give those things, If the warmth of the relationship also decreases then you will understand that the foundation was not very strong. Financial pressure can indeed create problems in a relationship, but money itself is not a substitute for love.

Some people's love is based on money. Although you are right that money should not define love, love should be genuine and real. This helps their relationship to be intact, even when there is no money or when their business goes down, because nothing lasts forever in this world. Material possessions will eventually fade away and the earlier people understand this, the better it will be for them.

Enjoy life and do whatever makes you happy as much as you can, I don't agree to such philosophy of no money no romance because money shouldn't define love and romance though it can maximize the fun that comes with this while it doesn't have to be completely dependent on the availability of money, I agree that it can work for some people in that they only have the urge for romance only when their is availability of money and it also work with other people and that doesn't make them less reasonable, you can do whatever works for you, no one naturally want to be without money at any point but when you find yourself in this kind of situation, it is still not enough reason not to be excited when it comes to love and romance.

[MashaUA]

Love without money has a lot to prove, when there is money in a relationship it's very much sweeter. When there is money the fights and arguments won't be about provision but attention. Money makes a relationship easier to enjoy because love can't take you on vacations, love can't even buy you breakfast so it's an essential for a healthy relationship. Doesn't mean a relationship can't survive without it but it's presence means a lot and goes a long way to strengthen a relationship. Don't get me wrong, nobody likes to suffer.

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[Shineup]

Isn't it obvious it's the real truth that it's now no money no romance/ love, it's hard nowadays to find a genuine relationship that is not based on material things, even if you manage to find one it won't take too long for the lady to deviate, either being influenced with pair pressure or so definitely it's no money no love, before I use to think maybe it's because of the high cost of living in this part of the world, but I have just come to realize it's now all over the world, and I don't really think there's a remedy for that, because the situation is getting more worst by the day. However, romance and love can still be meaningful if the both parties agreed.

[Smack That Ace]

Isn't it obvious it's the real truth that it's now no money no romance/ love, it's hard nowadays to find a genuine relationship that is not based on material things, even if you manage to find one it won't take too long for the lady to deviate, either being influenced with pair pressure or so definitely it's no money no love, before I use to think maybe it's because of the high cost of living in this part of the world, but I have just come to realize it's now all over the world, and I don't really think there's a remedy for that, because the situation is getting more worst by the day. However, romance and love can still be meaningful if the both parties agreed.

Even the relationship that's considered one of the most sacred, like the bond between mother and her child need money to some extent these day. We should not be too surprised that money is having a increasing influence on romantic relationship.

Instead of simply saying that it is difficult to find genuine love that is not based on material things, perhaps we should also ask ourselves whether we are truly ready for such a relationship.

A long term relationship needs more than just love to keep it going, and that's been true for previous generations too, not just us.

[Somto9Light]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

Two partners who do no have money can come together and plan on how to better their lives and live happily later. People focus too much on the result and not the process which is what is killing a lot of relationships. Everyone wants a bed of roses but they forgot that those roses were actually planted. What is wrong in building with a partner? we should understand that there is more love and trust in two people who built their lives together than couples who met when one of them is already doing well. If one of the couples was doing well before they met, it will give an idea that the other person choose for them to be together just because of what is there to benefit them. But two people who built their lives together understands the sacrifices they made for their growth which will always bring happiness and peace to them knowing that no one is exploiting the other or that none of them accepted the other based on what they stand to benefit. Money is important and working together to make that money comes with so much respect and value for each other.

[Berry2d]

Isn't it obvious it's the real truth that it's now no money no romance/ love, it's hard nowadays to find a genuine relationship that is not based on material things, even if you manage to find one it won't take too long for the lady to deviate, either being influenced with pair pressure or so definitely it's no money no love, before I use to think maybe it's because of the high cost of living in this part of the world, but I have just come to realize it's now all over the world, and I don't really think there's a remedy for that, because the situation is getting more worst by the day. However, romance and love can still be meaningful if the both parties agreed.

Finding such marriage built on the basis of love and not finance is one of the must difficult task to embark on in this generation we find ourselves in today, women of this generation believes marriage is built with money and love can come in later which we all know is very wrong that is why when that money that stands as the reason goes, marriage itself follows and nothing can be done about it.
Over 95 percent of women today believes its better getting married to an already made man while the not yet established once suffer in Finding women with genuine intentions and if they do they always love them with all in them but may not love those that came because of what they stand to gain with same feelings.

[Soulistic]

I would rather spend more time with the person I love than receive luxury gifts. Yes, money is needed to live, but not for love.

I don't understand people who stay with someone just because of their money. The thought of spending your entire life with someone you don't love is unbearable.